Are you ready to learn how to make a girl feel good in bed?
I really hope you are, because if you are one of those guys who just don’t give a fuck about how a girl thinks about you after she had sex with you, I don’t think you are on the right path.
There are already enough guys in the pick-up community who don’t care about the feelings of the girls they sleep with and who also don’t care about giving a woman an amazing time in the bedroom. Because you landed on my site I know that you are different. You are not one of those ignorant pricks who only want to bang as many girls as possible, without caring about whether or not they regret jumping in bed with you.
You are a Global Seducer and as the great man you are you see it as your responsibility to give the girls who you end up sleeping with a good time.
That’s great and I really respect that. Seduction isn’t about fucking some random girl, shooting your load and throwing her away afterwards like a used tissue.
Seduction is (or at least should be) a playful interaction between a man and a woman that is based on the synergy of his dominant masculine energy and her submissive female energy. Sex is nothing that you just have on top of a woman. It is an experience that you share with another person. It is an experience that is supposed to be fun, invigorating, exciting and satisfying.
It is your responsibility to give her such positive feelings that she falls for you within one night. It is your responsibility to make her remember the night with you as one of the best experiences she ever had. It is your responsibility as a seducer to learn how to make a girl feel good in bed.
How to Make a Girl Feel Good in Bed: The Prelude
Did you know that you can make a woman feel good in bed before you even take her to your bedroom?
Without putting the necessary work in during the dating process, she won’t jump in bed with you. If you mess up the dating process you don’t even have to worry about whether or not she will feel good with you, because you won’t ever have the chance to see her naked.
However, listing every individual step of the dating process would exceed the scope of this article. If you want to know how you can make her feel amazing during the first interaction, you should learn to attract women and you should have a look at what you have to do to get them naked on the first date. Those two articles will help you to provide her with good feelings up to the point where you take her clothes off and lead her in your bedroom.
What I want to do now is to start in the bedroom.
I mean, that’s the place where you will most likely have sex with her, so it would be quite helpful to learn how to make a girl feel good while you are in your bedroom. But just because giving a girl amazing sexual feelings starts in the bedroom, or at least on the way to it, doesn’t mean that it starts in the bed.
There are actually a few things that you should do from the moment you enter your apartment to the moment she takes her clothes off and jumps on you. Of course I assume that you already kissed her and that you grab her ass like a hungry wolf as soon as you enter your apartment. If you do all that, the following things will help her to release plenty of endorphins before she even touches your dick.
Show Your Sexual Confidence
Did you already make out with her?
Awesome, but why don’t you continue with petting, fumbling, grabbing and undressing her?
When I think back to some train wreck experiences that I had where I managed to fuck everything up, even though I was already making out with the girl, it always had to do with my insecurity and my inability to be sexually confident.
On the one hand, I was too afraid to jump from making out with her towards undressing her and on the other hand, I thought that making out will provide her with enough positive feelings to take her clothes off.
I was wrong.
Kissing and making out with her provides her with good feelings, but only to a certain extent.
After a while it gets boring. That’s when she starts to wonder when you finally lead her to the next stage.
In case you are not sexually confident enough to do that, her excitement and anticipation will change into disappointment and frustration.
Be sexually confident and show her that you want to have her in your bed.
Whenever you are scared that you are too wild or too rough, she probably thinks that you are not wild enough. Women want to be taken by sexually confident men.
Reward Her for Being Sexual
I hope you are confident enough to look her in the eyes like a lion who wants to slay a zebra.
Touch her, kiss her and bite her. Do everything you can to prepare her for the pleasurable experience that she will soon experience. When you are confident and know how to arouse a woman, the girls drag you into the bedroom.
Some girls do that but not all of them. Some of the women you want to give an amazing time between the sheets are scared that you label them as a slut and that you lose your respect when they follow their deepest desires. It is important that you are able to counteract this fear.
Show her that you respect her for releasing her sexual side and for doing what she wants to do. Show her that you don’t judge her for releasing her inner slut. Whereas it can easily kill the mood when you would say “I really respect you for what you do right now”, there is another way to communicate the same thing without decreasing her horniness level.
Reward her for being sexual.
The best way to do that is by whispering short sentences in her ear that show her that you like what she does and that you love where things are going.
“You are amazing”
“I like that”
“Your lips taste so good”
If you say things like that with a smile before you start to kiss her again, she will know that you appreciate her wild side and that sleeping with you is the right decision.
How to Make a Woman Feel Good During Foreplay
Now that she knows that you respect her for what she does, she will be ready to take things further. You led her to your bedroom, you unzipped her bra and she dropped her panties without hesitating for a second.
By now you are both completely naked. Her pussy gets wetter and wetter and your dick gets harder and harder. Right before you are about to put a condom on you remember that you once read an article about how to make a girl feel good in bed, in which you read that simply putting your dick inside her and thrusting like a jackhammer is not necessarily the best idea.
Yes, there are moments where a girl doesn’t want anything else than your dick inside her. If she wants to have a quickie this is actually the best thing to do.
If you, however, want to make a girl feel comfortable in bed, you shouldn’t skip the foreplay.
The last thing that a woman wants is a man who nervously puts his dick in her, thrusts a few times and ejaculates after less than a minute. Of course I want you to last as long as possible in bed (I plan to write some articles about that), but when you are in bed with a woman you never had sex with before, it is normal to come faster than if you sleep with a girl with whom you are in a relationship for two years.
It is an uncomfortable fact that women get disappointed when all their anticipation was for nothing, because the imagined passionate sex turned out to be a sixty-second shootout.
What’s the solution?
Once you made a woman come without the help of your penis, she won’t have any reason to be disappointed.
Caress Her Pussy
Be good to her and be good to her pussy. That’s the golden rule of the foreplay.
Continue to kiss her and to touch her wherever you can and once she is moaning like a wildcat you can softly place your fingers on her vagina. Don’t just stick them in and start to fist her like a maniac. Remember, you are here to learn how to make a girl feel good in bed and not how to smash a pornstar.
Show her that you are a man who knows what he does. This alone will make her feel comfortable in your presence.
Massage her pussy, softly caress her clitoris and put one and then two fingers inside her wet hole to see if she is already leaking.
If she is really wet and you have the feeling that she enjoys what you do, you can start to finger her. Increase the intensity. Continue to kiss her while you are moving your fingers in and out. I promise that this will make her feel good.
Go Down On Her
Now she experienced it firsthand how pleasurable it is to have your fingers inside her. All she can think of right now is how it would feel to have your tongue down there. One of the fastest ways to make a woman feel good in bed is by showing her that you are not one of those guys who expect her to suck your dick, without returning the favor.
Girls absolutely love to get licked and even if you are not as talented as Lassy, you still make her feel special by doing it. There are not many guys who are confident enough to go down on a woman.
This not only shows that you are an experienced lover, which is already very attractive, but it also shows that you really care about her and about her pleasure.
Going down on her has also another benefit.
The fact that you are ready to lick her and that you enjoy it increases her confidence in her own body.
She will feel more beautiful and more comfortable in your bed than in any other bed she has ever been.
How to Make a Girl Feel Good in Bed During Sex
Now it is time to get down and dirty. At some point you will get a cramp in your fingers and your tongue will be played out. It is time to put on a condom and to finally put your beloved dick inside her pleasurable pink hole.
Remember that you are not in a porn movie. I know that you have been conditioned by those naughty movies that all you have to do in order to satisfy a woman in bed is to fuck her like a jackhammer. In case she never had sex with you this is the worst thing you can possibly do.
She will feel intimidated, overwhelmed and all the sensual and passionate energy that you’ve created will be gone within seconds.
That’s not the perfect condition to make her feel great underneath you. If you want to learn how to make a girl feel good in bed, you have to learn to adapt to the style and the speed that she wants to have.
From Gentle to Rough
Start in a gentle way and thrust deep and slow.
The more comfortable she gets with you the more you can increase the speed. Women love rough sex but they love it at the right time and under certain circumstances.
The same woman who wants you to fuck really hard on Monday dreams about a romantic night on Tuesday. Not every woman is the same and not every woman wants the same every day. I know it is complicated but that’s the way it is.
Your job is to find out if she feels better when you make sweet love to her or when you smash her like a maniac.
How do you find that out?
By carefully observing her movements and her moaning.
The Aware and Passionate Seducer
As a Global Seducer and as a guy who wants to know how to make a girl feel good in bed it is your responsibility to develop awareness for what women want and to act upon this awareness by giving her the right dose of passion.
If she screams like hell when you fuck her as hard as you can, you should continue. As long as she doesn’t scream because she has a cramp you are good to go.
What if the moaning gets less and you have the feeling that her body gets stiff?
Shift one gear back and slow down the engine.
A slow and steady marathon is sometimes more enjoyable than a sprint. Of course your awareness becomes better and better, the more women you sleep with.
Once you know what she wants you can give her the amount of passion that she needs. She might feel good when you bite her neck like a vampire on blood withdrawal, but sometimes a soft bite is already too much. Find it out and do what she needs to feel good with you.
How to Make Her Feel Good With The Right Words While You Are Inside Her
Besides fingering, licking and fucking her the way she wants, you can do a lot on the verbal level to arouse her in a way that makes her feel better in your bed than in any other place of the world.
Saying the right thing to the girl you are having sex with can have a major impact on how comfortable she feels with you.
If you really want to learn how to make a girl feel good in bed there is no way around learning the art of communicating like a real seducer.
The Right Compliments
Giving women compliments can work in every situation. One of the best and easiest ways to get a girl’s phone number is to tell her how beautiful she is. Compliments are an essential part of the approaching phase, but they are also quite useful once you are inside the girl you approached a few days prior.
You can in fact tell her that she is beautiful while you are on top of her, but in order to make her feel really specialyou should use compliments that are more powerful than the generic “you are so beautiful”.
Tell her that she looks fucking sexy. Let her know that her tits are amazing and that you can’t get enough of her ass. Tell her how perfect she looks while you are fucking her from behind. A simple “you are incredible” while she rides you will give her the rest. She will feel like the most beautiful woman in the world and like the main character in her own naughty sex fantasy.
The Feel-Good Dirty Talk
A man who mastered the art of dirty talk knows that you are not good at it, just because you are able to use the words bitch and pussy. Those words can be highly effective in the right context, but not when you have sex with a woman for the first time and not when you want to make her feel safe and comfortable in your bed.
Dirty talk is good, but be careful that you don’t make her uncomfortable with it.
You can call her a bitch once you know that she likes it. For now it is enough to whisper naughty things in her ear that have a huge impact on how she feels with you.
Telling a woman that she drives you crazy, that she feels so good, that her pussy tastes like heaven and that her smell makes you want to kiss her all night is way more effective than using the word pussy three times in one sentence.
With those words you clearly communicate that you are not only attracted to the shape of her body, but also to her smell, her taste and the way she makes you feel. In case she was a little bit worried about the smell and taste of her pussy, those worries are gone now and they left room for some good feelings.
Her Desired Commands
You should be gentle and you should be aware of what she wants and what she doesn’t want, but the last thing you should be is weak.
What is the number one characteristic of a weak man?
He is afraid to lead.
I really hope you remember when I said at the beginning that the synergy of dominant masculine energy and submissive female energy is so important.
All you have to do to make a woman feel really uncomfortable when she is in bed with you is to do nothing and to hope that she will fuck you. Her mood will go down and she will start to doubt that you are a real man.
Women can only feel comfortable during sex when they are in bed with a guy who knows what he does and who lets her know what she has to do.
Women want to be led and you can either fulfill this need by leading her physically or verbally.
Leading her physically is easy. Grab her, put her in the right position and show her what it means to have a good time.
How do you lead her verbally?
Give her short commands that show her what you want from her. This is not rude. It is exactly what she wants. Tell her to turn around when you want to take her from behind. Tell her to spread her legs when you want to thrust deeper. Command her to her own pleasure.
How to Make a Girl Feel Good in Bed After You Had Sex
After sex is before sex…
How to make a girl feel good in bed after you gave her at least one orgasm?
Well, it is one thing to make her feel good while you are inside her, but it is another thing to make her feel special, respected and appreciated after you have pulled your dick out of her.
In case you don’t know how to make her feel amazing while you are inside her you should close your ten tabs of hardcore porn and read this article a second time.
You can make a woman feel completely comfortable while you are going down on her and you can give her as many orgasms as you want, but if you throw her out five minutes after you wiped away your sperm from her breasts, she won’t think back to this event as the best experience of her life.
As a real seducer who wants to stay in her mind as the best memory she ever had, you should do and say the right things after she came twice and you came once.
Cuddling and Kissing
I know that it was a mean thing from Mother Nature to program us men in a way that we want to have some room to breathe after we had sex, while girls want to kiss and cuddle us to death. If you want to make her feel really comfortable and if you want to show her that you love her for swallowing your load, you should do her a favor and let her cuddle and kiss you.
A man who puts his arm around a woman after he had sex with her communicates that he respects and appreciates her in the same way as he did before she did all that naughty stuff with him. This gives her the safe and secure feeling that she craves for in this vulnerable situation.
If you combine this with a kiss on her head and deep eye contact, she will feel better in your bed than she has ever felt before.
Show Your Appreciation
Kissing and hugging her is great, but if you want to know how to make a girl feel comfortable in your bed after you had sex, you shouldn’t forget that you have a mouth. Besides starting to lick her again you can also verbalize your appreciation.
Saying that you enjoyed it to come all over her face is probably not the best choice of words, but there is nothing wrong in telling her that you really enjoyed the time with her. In case you did everything you could do to make her feel good in bed, she will definitely want to relive this experience with you.
Summed Up Wisdom
How to make a girl feel good in bed? Start while you are on the way to the bedroom by being sexually confident and by rewarding her for the fact that she is about to release her inner slut for you. Once you are in bed it is time for the foreplay. Be gentle to her pussy and show her that your tongue is stronger than you biceps.
Besides making her feel amazing through your body you can also use your words. The right compliments and the right dirty talk have the power to melt her heart. Now it is time to lead her to her first orgasms by giving her the commands she wants to hear.
Learning how to make a girl feel good in bed doesn’t end after you pulled your dick out of her. Cuddle and kiss her afterwards and show your appreciation with the right words. If you do that, she will definitely want to repeat this experience.