Why do you want to know how to kiss a girl at the movies?
Let me guess:
Come on. You know that it’s possible. You’ve seen it in so many movies. The charming main actor asks a girl out. She says “yeah sure” and they end up going to the movie theater. While they are watching, he smoothly puts his arm around her and then it happens.
First softly…then they make out.
That’s what you want and I want to show you how to get it:
Are you ready to have your first kiss at the movies?
Then continue reading and don’t stop until you know how to make out with her while all the other men in the cinema wish they knew your secret…
How to Kiss a Girl at the Movies (And Make Out with Her)
I would have given everything. I don’t know about you, but I was the undefeated master in messing up cinema dates. Nobody was better at this than me. I remember this one time with this amazing girl. She was beautiful and all I wanted was to feel her soft lips.
It’s so embarrassing. I shouldn’t even tell you.
You’ve heard about that, right?
I mean this famous move where you put your hand around a girl while you pretend to yawn. It works in Hollywood, but guess what? It doesn’t work in real life. I had to learn this the hard way. Her response to my move made me feel sick to my stomach.
She took my arm and pushed it away.
I will never forget this day. This rejection hurt more than a thousand “sorry, but I have a boyfriend” from strangers. I was so close and the way she rejected me was so brutal. Today I know that she had to do it because I did everything wrong.
Here’s what I should have done instead…
1. Choose the Right Movie
Do you want to know which movie I watched with her?
Jeez, I don’t even remember the name. It was some action movie with Bruce Willis. Boom, explosions, dead people. That’s the perfect setting for a romantic kiss. I mean, she enjoyed the movie. Her mood was good, but not right.
She was in the mood for a fight, not in the mood for a kiss.
Here’s what I should have done:
I should have chosen a movie that actually makes a kiss possible.
Here’s the golden rule:
Do NOT choose an action movie. Instead, choose a horror movie or a romantic movie. Romantic comedies are also okay…basically every movie Owen Wilson ever made. You want to set the mood right. That’s how you make her want to kiss you.
2. Meet at Least One Hour Before the Movie Starts
Most guys don’t do this.
They tell her to meet at the cinema at 8 pm when the movie starts at 8.15 pm. That’s a terrible idea. You have no time to talk to her and you have no time to connect with her. You watch the movie and hope it will end in a wild make out session.
Sorry, but that’s not how it works.
It’s the reason why most dating coaches advise against cinema dates. I’m one of them…but only if you don’t meet her before. A date at a movie theater can be a full success. But you have to meet her at least one hour earlier.
Take this time to…
Now she trusts you. And she needs to trust a man before she opens her mouth and later her legs for you. No trust, no kiss. You can make the perfect move. It doesn’t matter.
She needs this time to find out if you are kiss-worthy.
3. Take Her Hand and Lead Her to Her Seat
Touching comes before kissing.
I know. You don’t want to hear that. You want to go all in and you want it right now. I get it. I wish you could just lean in, get the kiss, and celebrate. But I’m sorry. You have to touch her first. So many guys make this mistake.
She won’t kiss you before you touch her.
The kiss is the pinnacle you want to reach.
You can’t jump in a helicopter, fly to the mountain top, and scream “I made it.” You have to climb the mountain. Take one step at the time. She has to get used to physical contact with you. Every touch makes the kiss more possible.
Start to climb the mountain:
She already feels comfortable with your touch. She’ll feel even more comfortable when you touch her with your lips.
4. Sit in the Last Row
Sit in the back. The farther you sit, the better the kiss. In fact, the last row is the perfect place to enjoy a date in the movie theater. Nobody is behind you. In other words, nobody in the cinema can look over your shoulder.
“Who cares?” you might be asking.
Well, she does. Remember the biggest fear of women. She’s afraid to be the easy woman. She doesn’t want anyone to know about your little adventure. She wants the others to watch the movie, not your make out session.
Heck, I once got a handjob in a cinema.
This girl would have never played rub the palm tree with me if I hadn’t chosen the last row.
5. Look at Her While She Watches the Movie
Shut up! The movie has already started…
Yep, you want to know how to kiss a girl at the movie theater. We’ll get to that in a second. But first, you need to check her out. Let her watch the movie. You watch something else.
Play hide and seek until she does one of two things.
1. She asks you why you look at her.
2. She makes this funny shy face.
You tell her the truth…
6. Whisper the Truth in Her Ear
Movies are fake but you should be real.
Tell her what’s on your mind. The worst thing you can do is to beat around the bush. She already knows why you’re doing what you’re doing. Now she wants to know if you have the balls to admit it. She wants to kiss a man, you know.
Here’s the worst thing you could possibly say:
Don’t even think about it. Instead, say…
By now she’s smiling like a 5-year-old girl in a doll factory. That’s a very good sign.
7. Tease Her for Her Cute Smile or Shocked Face
It’s teasing time.
If you want to know how to kiss a girl at the cinema, you shouldn’t be afraid to tease her. Teasing increases the sexual tension and it shows confidence. Depending on the movie you watch, you can do it in many different ways.
Here are some examples:
Whenever I do this with a woman, she reacts exactly like I want her to react. She touches me and complains that I’m so mean. I know that it means something else.
“You’re making me so horny…”
That’s what she really wants to say. You don’t believe me? Then find out…
8. Hold Her Hand When She Wants it
How do you know if she’s ready to kiss you?
Make this simple test:
Look at the cup holder between you and her.
A woman, who wants to touch you, wants to kiss you. That’s a universal rule. And if she wants it, she’ll give you the opportunity to do so. She’ll either place her hand on the cup holder or she’ll move her hand towards you (or both).
Is her hand on the cup holder?
She wants you to hold her hand because it feels good. And it allows you to increase the sexual tension. Come on. Don’t be shy. Hold her hand and play with her fingers. Caress her hand. She wouldn’t give you her hand, if she didn’t want it.
Now it’s finally time for the Yawning Cinema Move…
9. Make the Alternative Yawning Cinema Move
I told you how I miserably failed with this move.
Now I want you to do it. And yes, that sounds completely retarded. Bear with me on this. It’ll all make sense because I don’t want you to do the Classic Yawning Cinema Move.
You already know how that works:
That doesn’t work…unless you change one tiny thing. I call it the Alternative Yawning Cinema Move. It’s so stupid but it works surprisingly well. Instead of sneakily putting your arm around her, you tell her exactly what you’re about to do.
You make fun of this move and reveal your evil plan.
Do it in an exaggerated way:
“Do you know what I’ll do next? You’ll be surprised because it’s something you don’t expect. I’ll yawn like a seagull and then I stretch like a runner after a marathon. I do all these things to finally put my arm around you. I know it works. It has to work.”
She’ll laugh while you are successfully putting your arm around her.
10. Invite Her to Rest Her Head on Your Chest
Now you’ve put your arm around her.
Awesome, it’s time for the next step. You are in control and she’s okay with it. In fact, she loves it. You can already smell her cherry lipstick. You want to kiss her but you can’t, at least not without breaking your neck and dislocating her shoulder.
You are so close, yet so far.
You have two options:
Option #1: Get closer.
Option #2: Get her closer.
I prefer option number #2 because it increases the sexual tension…and it’s way more comfortable. All you have to do is to invite her to rest her head on your chest. You don’t need any fancy tricks to convince her. I mean, by now she wants it to happen.
Look at her and say:
“You can rest your head here.”
9 out of 10 times she’ll do it. If not, you can try again in ten minutes. This time, she’ll do it.
11. Stroke and Kiss Her Head
Now her head rests on your chest.
Here’s how to know if a girl wants to kiss you at the movies once her head is in your territory:
How does she react?
Most of the time, nothing happens. And that’s a very good sign. Don’t expect more than nothing. I mean, she won’t look up and say “I really like that.” That’s not going to happen. Remember: She’s the good girl and not the easy woman.
Do your thing and don’t expect any reaction.
Unless she pulls away, she likes what you’re doing. Continue with the next step…
12. Kiss Her Cheek and Move Her Chin
Slow down cowboy.
I know you want to kiss her lips. And you will…in just a second. But first, you have to make sure that she wants it to happen. Your chances are pretty good. Her head is still on your chest and her hair is wet from all your kisses.
What’s the next logical step?
Here’s what I want you to do:
You should be able to pull the cheek kiss off without moving…unless she’s so tiny that her head rests right above your belly button. But yeah, you should be fine. However, you have to move her head to reach her lips.
Move her chin with your fingers. Do it softly. She will follow.
Now you go in for the kiss. This time you kiss her soft and tasty lips.
13. Watch the Movie to Increase the Tension
Here’s how to kiss a girl at the movies:
Watch the goddamn movie!
Yep, that sounds weird. But it’s true. You kissed her once and I know you want to do it twice. And you can. But remember what I told you about increasing the sexual tension. It’s important to make her want it again and again.
Here’s what you do:
Here’s why it works:
Every time you pull back and make her wait, you increase the sexual tension. When you kiss her, you release this tension. Don’t underestimate the power of building up and releasing tension.
That’s how you make her hooked.
All you have to do now is to continue the watching and kissing game.
And don’t forget to check out my book for more sneaky seduction techniques.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to kiss a girl at the movies? Then choose the right movie. Don’t waste your time with action movies when you can choose a romantic comedy instead. And meet her before it starts. She has to trust you before she kisses you.
Don’t just walk next to her. Take her hand and lead her to her seat. Then touch her back. Touching is the journey that leads to a heavy make out session in the back row. I hope you have a seat in the back row. She doesn’t want anyone to know what you’re doing.
And you will be doing it because you make the Alternative Yawning Cinema Move. Then you invite her to rest her head on your shoulder. She will follow your lead, even when you move her chin with your fingers. That means she's ready for the kiss.