How to Have Sex With a Female Friend

Let me tell you something:

I’ve tried to sleep with 50% of my female friends (the hot ones) and I NEVER destroyed a friendship. That’s nothing but a lie spread by mainstream magazines. What if she doesn’t want to sleep with you? No big deal! Continue to be friends.

Women can deal with the fact that you’re attracted to them.

In fact, most girls know it. Yep, your desire to play hide in seek under the sheets is not be as top secret as you think. Women can sense when a guy is into them. It’s not a coincidence that I have a very open relationship with most of my female friends…if you know what I mean.

You just need the right strategy:

Let me show you how you can sleep with your female friends without risking your friendship…

How to Have Sex with a Female Friend 

What exactly do you want from her?

Okay, you want to have sex with her. You want to explore every inch of her body and you want her to invite you in her pink and hopefully wet cave. That’s great. But be honest. Maybe you want more than just a one-night stand with her.

All these things are possible.

But I have to warn you. My approach is controversial. Some of the steps I’m about to share with you sound ridiculous, risky, and weird. But believe me. I’ve tried many different approaches and this one works best.

Here’s what you need to do…

1. Stop Being So Damn Nice  

Here’s how to NOT have sex with a female friend:

Sorry, but obedient puppies don’t get laid. If you want to sleep with a woman you’re friends with, you have to climb out of the friend zone. And if you’re buried really deep, you have to crawl out of the hole you dug for yourself.

Here’s the painful truth:

You’ve been way too nice for way too long.

Stop running whenever she wants you to run. Oh, and stop fixing shit for her. You’re not her electrician. You should still treat her with respect. Be a friendly guy with an edge and an opinion. This will help her to see you in a different light.

2. Tell her About Your Other Friend with Benefits  

This is where it gets controversial.

It sounds completely ridiculous but I swear to God that it works. As soon as you mention another girl you’re seeing and sleeping with, her alarm goes off. And her freaking alarm bell rings louder than thunder.

Women are attracted to men who are desired by other women. That’s how Mother Nature has designed them. As soon as you tell her that there’s this girl you’re seeing. Her perception about you changes. She’ll see you as a man…for the very first time.

Now it’s your job to take it to the next level.

Don’t just tell her that there’s this girl you’re seeing. Let her know that she’s been your friend for a while and you ended up in bed. Give her the feeling that this chick gets the candy bar while she’s missing out on the candy bar.

Here’s what she’ll say:

“Oh…that’s interesting…do I know her?”

Here’s what she’ll think:

“She’s sleeping with him…he must be good in bed…shit, I want that too.”

3.  Ask Her for Advice on This Girl

Now it’s time to ask the right question.

She knows that you’re seeing another girl. And she knows that this girl is your friend. She can already imagine how it would feel to be her. It’s your job to put even more images in her head…and to allow you to seduce her.

“Women are complicit in their own seduction” – Zan Perrion

These are the words of one of the greatest seducers of all time. And these words are true. Women will tell you how they want you to seduce them. You just have to ask the right questions.

Here are some questions you can ask her:

Ask her as if you were looking for advice on how to please the other girl. Listen carefully. The answers of your female friend reveal what she wants. She will tell you how you can seduce her.

You’ll need this information later.

4. Compare Her to The Other Girl

This is extremely effective.

She’s at least a little bit horny. I mean, you’ve talked about kissing, massaging, and fucking for over twenty minutes. She gave you solid advice. Little does she know that you plan to use the advice she gave you to seducer her.

Heck, she probably already knows.

Women are very good at pretending to be innocent. Sometimes it’s just a game. She knows what you want and she wants it too. But she’s too afraid to make the first move. She has the same fears as you in this situation.

These are the question she asks herself. It’s your job to boost her self-esteem. Give her the feeling that you’re more interested in her than in the other girl and wait for her reaction. A few simple compliments are enough.

Tell her she’s beautiful. Now wait.

Does she smile and giggle?

Awesome!

Now you can increase the tension by telling her that she’s more beautiful than the other girl. Try to say it in a way that makes her believe that the way you look at her changes. Be surprised by your own statement. This creates the magic that helps her to see you as your friend with benefits. 

Everything is about to change.

5. Ask Her if She Ever Had Sex with a Friend

This is the most important question of all:

“By the way, have you ever had sex with a friend?”

Ask her this question and wait for her response. But be warned. She’ll probably not respond the way you want her to respond. It’s rare that a girl answers this question with “yeah, I bang the shit out of Jerry whenever I see him”.

Sorry, but you have to dig deeper.

Most of the time, she’ll respond in one of three ways:

She denies it. Of course she does. She’s a woman and as a woman she’s afraid of judgment…especially when a friend might judge her. Remember that you’re still her friend. She doesn’t want you to think badly of her. That’s why her anti-slut shield goes up.

Here’s how to destroy this weak and formable shield:

Don’t stop digging until she tells you what really happened last summer.

There might have been this one time…

6. Observe Her Reaction When You Touch Her 

Let’s take it to the next level.

You want to have sex with a female friend and now she knows it. There’s no doubt about it. She can no longer deny that you’re not just talking about the girl you’re seeing. Things have gone from innocent to sexual. That’s exactly what you wanted.  

Here’s what you need to know:

If she tells you about a sexual experience with a friend, she’ll sleep with you.

Yes, it’s that simple. If she’s not interested in you sexually, she’ll continue to deny it because she knows where this is going. Women are not stupid. She knows why you ask this question and what you want to hear from her.

That’s why the question “have you ever slept with a friend?” is so powerful.

Now she has the opportunity to…

Read the last point again. She wants to be innocent and naughty at the same time. By opening up about a sexual adventure with one of her friends, she gives you the chance to escalate. It’s like a code word, a signal to make a move.

But she does it in an innocent way.

She doesn’t want to be the one who pulls the trigger. All she does is to unlock the gun for you. It’s your job to pull the trigger and to shoot.

7. Escalate with a Kiss and a Pull 

Speaking of pulling the trigger…

Why don’t you pull her closer?

She’ll be naked in a heartbeat because you know how to seducer her like she’s never been seducer before.

Summed Up Wisdom 

Do you want to know how to have sex with a female friend? Then stop being so nice! Sorry, but fixing her car and doing her homework won’t get you laid. Thousands of guys have tried this before and it never works. You have to climb out of the friend zone.

I have tried all kinds of different strategies to sleep with my female friends, but there’s one strategy that works better than all the others. Enjoy an innocent conversation with her before you tell her about this one girl you’re seeing. Mention her as if it’s no big deal. And let her know that she’s a friend of yours.

Now you put naughty images in her head. Ask her for advice on this girl. Ask questions about kissing, touching, massaging and sex. Let your friend imagine that she’s the one you’re kissing and touching. Now ask her if she has ever slept with a friend. Then touch her and observe her reaction. She might be ready for the first kiss and we both know what an innocent kiss can lead to.