You stand in front of a big door with a golden door handle. You look to the left, nothing. You look to the right, also nothing. The only thing you see is this big door. Curious as you are, you slowly open the door.
Once the door is open, you see a big bed in the middle of the room. You enter the room, look around and walk straight to the bed. Now you are standing right in front of the bed. Suddenly, your heart starts to beat. It smells like sex.
In the next moment, two incredibly beautiful girls appear out of nowhere; one of them on the right, the other one on the left. They are both completely naked. Their breasts look perfect, their asses look perfect and their smiles look inviting.
What they do next blows your mind.
One takes your left hand, the other one your right hand. They lead you to the bed, lay down with you and start to kiss you. They kiss each other, they undress you, they start to suck your dick and they beg you to fuck them. You have sex with them in every imaginable position. Once you came all over their beautiful bodies, your alarm clock goes off…
You wake up. You look around. None of the two girls is lying next to you. You are alone, as always.
The Incredible Power of Sexual Dreams
What if you really wake up alone every night?
What if you could never image to have sex with one, let alone two incredibly beautiful women?
Well, if this is true, changing the way you dream might be the solution to your problem.
I know what you are thinking right now. You think that I am gaga, insane or that I must have smoked a bit too much weed last night. I am pretty sure that there is only one thing you want to say to me right now:
“Are you out of your freaking mind?”
Nope, I am still sane, at least if you can describe my normal way of being as sane. I haven’t taken any drugs and I also haven’t been in psychotherapy. However, I have had a sex dream last night, which motivated me more than ever to seduce beautiful women all around the world.
Believe it or not, but my naughty dreams were a huge motivating power when I began my journey.
They helped me to find out what I want, why I want it and they gave me the willpower to go after what I want. They motivated me to do everything that is in my power to make my sexual dreams come true.
I hope you are ready to learn how to have sex dreams that can motivate you, change your life and lead you on a path of seduction success.
How to Have Sex Dreams With Lucid Dreaming
When I did the research for this article to find out what other people are saying about this topic, I stumbled upon one buzzword over and over again:
Whenever someone wrote about sexual dreams and how to have them, they always claimed that lucid dreaming is the ONLY way and that you absolutely HAVE to learn it if you want to fill your sleep with passion and female body fluids.
Sorry to all the lucid dreaming fanatics out there, but that’s nonsense. Everyone who says that lucid dreaming is the ONLY way to have those dreams is lying. It is simply not true.
I’ve never had a lucid dream, but I had plenty of sexual dreams that were more graphic than a porn movie in HD quality. Learning the art of sexual dreaming is definitely possible, even though you have absolutely no clue how to lucid dream.
However, just because I have never had a lucid dream (at least I think so) doesn’t mean that lucid dreaming is a scam and that it doesn’t work. I heard from a few guys who achieved great results with this sleeping technique.
In case you are curious about lucid dreaming, I can recommend the following two resources:
World of Lucid Dreaming
and maybe even this weird but interesting video:
Now let’s have a look at how to have sex dreams without practicing lucid dreaming for over a decade…
How to Dream About Sex WITHOUT Lucid Dreaming
Dreaming about orgies, threesomes and a night full of passion and romance with the woman of your dreams is not as difficult as you might think. You don’t need any special pillows, tools and sleeping pills.
You also don’t need any fancy techniques, such as lucid dreaming. I had every single one of my sexual dreams before I even heard about this technique and before I have seen this totally overhyped movie Inception.
All you need is a minimum of creativity, the willingness to give it a shot and the open-mindedness to not label the following tips as voodoo and new age hippie bullshit.
While I can’t promise you that the following step-by-step guide will automatically transform every single one of your dreams into an unforgettable orgy, I can promise you that my advice can significantly improve the quality of your dreams and of your dating life.
As I already said, the motivation and the awareness that sexual dreams can lead to are absolutely priceless. The best thing about this way of self-improvement is that it costs nothing and that you risk absolutely nothing, unless you have the terrific idea to fall asleep on railways.
Don’t Masturbate for At Least 24 Hours
Before I am sharing the exact steps you have to follow to transform your dreams into a fuckfest with three submissive bombshells, I have one important message to all you chronic masturbators:
Don’t touch your dick for at least 24 hours! I am serious. If you want to make this work, you have to be in a state in which you actually want sex. Like you really, really, want to have sex. If that means getting a cock cage to stop you from touching yourself, then so be it haha.
I am serious. If you want to make this work, you have to be in a state in which you actually want sex.
It doesn’t make any sense to meticulously prepare for your sensual dream experience, when you rather think about a T-bone steak than about the naked body of a woman.
The longer you can abstain from masturbation, the more likely it is that you will dream about the things that have the power to change your life in the real world. Due to my high sex drive I also love to masturbate. I know how hard it is to not touch your dick for a day, not to mention for two or three days.
But if you really want this, you have to leave your sperm in the house for at least one day. If you ignore this advice, you will dream about the T-bone steak and NOT about naked girls. This will only help you to get fatter, but it won’t help you to get laid.
Make Sure that You are Tired and Horny
The best way to experience wild things while you are asleep is to not masturbate for at least one day, because your level of horniness has a direct influence on the level of naughtiness in your dreams.
Am I really the only one who sees the obvious problem?
While not masturbating makes you horny, masturbation tends to make you tired. We are faced with a serious dilemma. You can either jerk off until you lie in a sea of your own semen and fall asleep within seconds, or you can abstain from masturbation and lie awake all night with the feeling that your balls could explode every second.
The only way to avoid this dilemma is by being horny enough to dream about sex and tired enough to actually fall asleep.
In case you follow my previous advice you shouldn’t have any problem with the horny part. The only thing you now have to make sure is that you are tired. I mean, really tired.
No matter if you need to go to the fresh air, run a marathon or hit the gym until you can’t feel your muscles anymore. Do it. Do everything you can to get tired. When you have done everything you can to get tired, you should be in a relaxed state in which your body craves for a snatch of sleep.
Finding the right balance between horniness and tiredness is absolutely crucial.
Prepare a Sensual Sleeping Environment
What’s the best environment for a kinky dream?
A moldy bridge, a cardboard and a rotten dog (you need a blanket) are absolutely perfect.
Okay, sorry for my exaggeration, but when you think about the bedroom of the average single dude, a bridge might even be the better option.
In case your bedroom consists of bed sheets that you haven’t washed since Barack Obama’s election, you have a problem. In case your bedroom smells worse than a water ox after he took a shit, you have an even bigger problem.
No matter how tired and horny you are, unless you have a weird fetish for homeless crack whores you won’t be able to have naughty dreams in a room that looks and smells like a graveyard.
Seriously, I tried it and it doesn’t work.
Due to the fact that I considered sexual dreams as a great way to learn about myself and my preferences, I was quite motivated to change my cleaning and washing habits. Once my bedroom was clean and once my sheets smelled like a deliciously smelling woman after a shower, my ability to have sex dreams increased by at least 300%.
Sleep on Your Belly
A couple of years ago I read an article in a well-known health magazine in which an author with more doctoral degrees than pubic hair stated that sleeping on the belly is unhealthy and very bad for your back.
From this moment on I tried to fix my “disability”. I tried to sleep on the back, which ended in terrible nightmares (don’t ask me why) and whenever I tried to sleep on the side I woke up after a couple of minutes.
No matter what I tried, I couldn’t change my sleeping position. Today I am quite happy with it. I stopped reading mainstream magazines and I found out that a recent scientific study found out that people who sleep on the belly are more likely to have erotic dreams.
I am not a scientist, nor am I an expert when it comes to sleeping behavior, but I sleep on the belly and I have a lot of dirty dreams.
I don’t say that you should force yourself to sleep on the belly if you usually sleep on the back or on the side. Maybe you are like me and it is impossible for you to change your sleeping position. Nevertheless, I suggest that you give it a shot. You might like lying on your penis and your penis might like it too, which can eventually lead to amazing dreams.
Create Erotic Images in Your Mind Before You Fall Asleep
You are in your deliciously smelling bedroom and you are already lying on a medium-hard erection. Due to the fact that you spent about three hours in the gym working out and staring at hot girls in tight yoga pants, you are completely exhausted. All you can think of is to fall asleep.
But wait. I know that it is cozy in your warm bed, but if you fall asleep without having the right images in your mind, you might dream about your intense workout and not about all the girls you saw. I doubt that a bench press and a hairy dude on the treadmill are the perfect images to experience unforgettable orgies in your dreams.
Think about all the sporty girls in tight yoga pants. Think about the hot secretary of your boss. Think about your sister’s best friend. No matter who you think about, make sure that they are female and naked.
Sexual Mantras Guide You the Way to Nirvana
When I tested different approaches to increase the likelihood of having sexually explicit dreams, I found out that having naughty images in my mind works really well. However, while experimenting with different ways of falling asleep, I found one technique that works even better.
If you really want to learn how to have sex dreams, you should use sexual mantras to fall asleep.
What are sexual mantras?
Basically, a mantra is an utterance of words that are believed to have spiritual power. These words are often repeated over and over again.
Even though I am not really into all this esoteric stuff, I found out that telling myself “I am tried” over and over again help me to fall asleep faster. In the same way I use sexual mantras to increase the likelihood of having some action while I sleep.
Here are some examples:
“She is naked”
“She takes off her clothes”
“She goes down on me”
You don’t have to say those things out loud. Say it in your mind and allow your unconsciousness to guide you in the right direction.
How to Make Your Sex Dreams Come True
Now you know how to have sexual dreams without being an expert in lucid dreaming. However, what’s even more important than the ability to experience your fantasies while you are asleep is your answer to the following question:
What do you do when you wake up?
It’s all well and good to have the time of your life while you are asleep, but if you always wake up in the same empty bed you run the risk of escaping in a dream world in order to avoid reality. That’s one way of living life, but for sure not the best way.
The last thing I want is that you wake up from an incredible dream, just to find yourself in the nightmare that you call your life.
What I want for you is that you wake up and say:
“That dream was awesome. I can’t wait until I experience this stuff in real life.”
In order to get to a point where you can decide whether or not you want to live your dreams, you have to make use of the things you experience on the other side.
Write Down Every One of Your Sex Dreams
How do you make use of all the exciting and arousing things you saw on the other side while you were flying above cloud seven?
The first step is to write down what you saw.
Don’t wait too long to do this. Write it down immediately after you wake up. If you don’t do that, you will forget it. The tricky thing about dreams is that they can be like drug trips. The experience is thrilling and exciting, but a few minutes later you can’t remember anything.
A little notepad or your smartphone is all you need to document your dreams. I actually like to record them right after I woke up.
Now that you have written down or recorded your dreams it is time for the next step.
Analyze and Interpret Your Dreams
Imagine that you are a scientist with the mission to improve your life. It is your mission to find out what you have experienced during sleep, why you have experienced it and what it says about your desires.
As a good scientist you take your notes or your recording and analyze your data:
What did the environment look like?
What did the girls look like?
What did you do with them?
How did the dream end?
Once you have found out everything about the environment, the smell, the taste, the story and the visual aspects of your dream, you are ready to interpret the data. Find out why you saw the things you saw.
In my experience dream interpretation is a better way of recognizing your deepest desires than any expensive psychotherapy. All you need in order to find out what your dreams really mean is self-awareness and the willingness to be relentlessly honest to yourself.
During the time in which I learned how to have sex dreams and how to interpret them, I had the same dream over and over again:
I imagined myself lying in a big and comfortable bed in a small apartment. I get out of bed, open the window and when I look out of the window I see that I am close to the beach in some tropical country. Then, a beautiful exotic woman comes out of the bathroom. She just hopped out of the shower, is completely naked, smiles at me, kisses me and then we have sex the whole night.
Today I have an amazingly beautiful Asian girlfriend who makes me smile whenever I see her stepping out of the shower. I think that says it all.
Think about What it Takes to Live Your Dreams
Let’s say that you also have the same dream over and over again. In your dream you have a pleasurable anal sex experience with a blond girl with a petite body.
Thanks to your analytical skills and your honest interpretation you come to the conclusion that you would love to have anal sex with a petite blond bombshell. Duh!
Now you can do one of two things. You can either continue to dream about the same experience over and over again, without doing anything about it, or, you can make a decision. You can make the decision to do whatever it takes to make your dreams come true.
Therefore, you need a plan. You need to know what it takes to make this happen. Think about the beliefs you need, the skills you need, the knowledge you need and the specific action steps you need to take.
In case you are really interested in the anal sex experience, the following example is for you:
“I need to have the belief that I am not a pervert for having the desire to have anal sex and that there are a lot of women who enjoy it.”
“I need the skills to approach women; otherwise I won’t allow myself to talk to my potential sex partners.”
“I need some basic knowledge about what to do and what not to do when you have anal sex for the first time.”
Specific action step:
“I need the determination to approach at least five girls a day, so that I can achieve this goal within the next two months.”
Stop Dreaming and Start Living
Now that you know what it takes to live your (sexual) dreams, there is only one thing left for me to say:
Stop dreaming and start doing!
Summed Up Wisdom
Learning how to have sex dreams can teach you a lot about yourself and about your preferences. You can either learn it by becoming an expert in lucid dreaming, or you can follow the simple step-by-step plan that I use in order to experience some crazy things while I am asleep.
Make sure that you don’t masturbate for at least 24 hours and that you are tired enough to fall asleep. Before you go to bed you should prepare a sensual sleeping environment. If you don’t feel comfortable in your bedroom, it will be very hard for you to create erotic images in your mind. In case images are not enough, you can use sexual mantras that guide you to nirvana.
When you wake up you can of course do nothing and continue to ONLY experience sexual adventures in your dreams. However, you can also learn how to make your sex dreams come true. Write them down, analyze them and interpret them. Think about what it takes to live your dreams and start living them.
Sebastian Harris says
Let me know the results.
sex dreams are awesome! i wish i had more! i’m going to try this.
i can’t remember who it was, but a long time ago i heard from someone that they experienced more sexual dreams when they abstained from masturbation. I definitely agree with that point and it just makes sense when you think about it.
the other suggestions you gave to increase your chances of having sexual dreams are the ones i wasn’t aware of: such as sleeping on your stomach, making sure you’re very tried/horny, and creating erotic images in your head/mind.
i’m gonna try this and report back. thanks for the article!
Sebastian Harris says
have good dreams!
Charles Sledge says
Interesting article. Will have to try this. Read a couple articles on lucid dreaming. Seems like sex is a topic most lucid dream “teachers” or whatever stay away from though its probably why most people get into lucid dreaming in the first place lol. Will have to try this tonight.