You want to know how to go for a kiss with a girl, right?
Let me guess:
I’m sure you’ve tried it…or at least wanted to try it. I know how that feels. You’re in a club, at a party, or it’s the end of your first date. The mood is right. She’s into you. But you don’t know what to do. You want to go all in, but you’re stuck.
I know this feeling too well.
It’s so exhausting to leave without touching her sweet lips. It’s so frustrating to know that you could have done it and that she actually wanted it. I know how terrible this feeling is and that’s why I decided to share a few secrets with you.
In this article, I will show you:
Are you ready for it?
Then continue reading and open your eyes to a new world, a world where you have the ability to go in for the kiss with any girl in any situation…
How to Go in for a Kiss with a Girl without Being Awkward
One of my professors at college used to say:
“Get the basics right!”
He was a smart man…and an alcoholic. But let’s not talk about my professor’s love for liquor. There are way more important things to discuss. What could this be? Well, how about the fact that you need to follow certain rules to make a girl want to kiss you.
Rules are boring. I know.
But if you follow the following rules, you’re chances to taste her lips increase exponentially…
1. Prepare Yourself for the Kiss
Yes, you can also mentally prepare yourself.
Meditate and visualize your tongue in her mouth.
But that’s not what I’m talking about. It’s much simpler than that. Believe it or not, but it’s important to prepare your mouth and everything around it.
I don’t care if you go to a party, in the club, or on a first date. The same rules apply. And no, the classic shit, shower, shave is not enough. I want you to brush your teeth, take a shower, and don’t forget the Fisherman’s Friend.
The early bird catches the worm and the prepared seducer gets the kiss.
2. Start Slow and Saliva-Free
Most guys make the same stupid mistake.
They want to know how to go in for a kiss with a girl and they confuse “go in” for “go all in”. That’s a common issue and it usually ends like this.
Jesus, you don’t want to win a saliva exchange battle. That’s not the point. No, no and hell no. Don’t let your excitement take the upper hand and don’t strangle her with your tongue. You want to start nice and slow. There’s no need to rush things. Take your time.
Seriously, start slow. Drowning her in your saliva is not a good idea. Oh, in fact. There’s one thing you need to do before you place your lips on hers.
Check this out…
3. Use Your Hands Before You Use Your Mouth
Kissing without touching is weird.
You have to turn it into an experience for her. You might not care about this, but she does. I know. As a guy you want her lips as a trophy…and because you hope that tasting the lips in her face eventually lead to tasting the lips in her pants.
I know what you want you dirty bastard.
And I can’t blame you. All men want it. But you have to understand that women are different. They want the feelings, the romance, and the tingle. Give them the freaking tingle. Be their Ryan Gosling.
Here’s what you need to do:
That’s the stuff women love. Don’t let your arms hang like wet branches. Use them, for God’s sake. Now you can use your mouth and your tongue.
How to Go For the First Kiss with a Girl In Different Situations
I don’t know when you want to kiss her.
All I know is that you want to do it. And because I don’t know the venue you have in mind, I decided to provide you with a step-by-step guide for every possible environment. Yep, that’s how nice I am. I mean, I don’t want to give you some standard guide that you can’t use in 90% of the situations.
You deserve a guide for every situation.
Let’s start with a situation that’s too painful to talk about…at least if you don’t know how to go in for the kiss.
How to Go For a Kiss after a Hug
The famous hug…
You’re on a date. She has fun. You get nervous. No, it’s not because of your diarrhea. You get nervous because you know how things could end. And you don’t want it to end like that. You experienced it too many times.
“Please not again this scenario” you’re thinking to yourself.
Not getting the kiss after a hug is one of the most painful experiences you can have. I know this because I experienced it so many times until I made one simple realization. I realized that it’s so easy to go for a kiss after a hug...if you don’t do it AFTER the hug.
That’s too late.
Instead, kiss her while you are hugging her. Use the beginning of the hug to position yourself and the middle of the hug to go for the kiss. That’s when she’s the closest. This is your chance. You just have to turn your head to the side.
Here are the step-by-step instructions WHILE hugging her:
That’s how you do it DURING the hug and not AFTER the hug.
How to Go for a Kiss after a Party
Change of scenery.
You are at a party. The music is pumping and the alcohol is flowing. But you’re a smart guy. You stopped yourself from getting drunk because you know that too much liquor in the system leads to sloppy kisses.
What do you do?
You use what I call the “party kiss approach”. The idea is simple. You use the fun and carefree energy of the party to kiss her. Nobody cares that the party is already over. She might be standing there but her brain cells are still dancing Samba.
Here’s what you need to do:
You don’t have to beat around the bush because you’re both in a relaxed mood. Party mode is the perfect mode for a perfect kiss.
How to Go in for a Kiss in a Club
It’s time to leave the party and to head to the club.
The scenery is similar, but the technique is not the same. Parties are good for having conversations. Clubs are terrible for that. Getting a kiss in a club is all about being physical and about aggressive sexual escalation.
That sounds brutal but it’s the truth.
You can’t beat around the bush and you can’t take it slow. Yep, that’s the only environment where taking it slow can backfire. You go in and win or you hesitate and masturbate. That’s the rule for clubs and here’s how it works once you stop a girl you like…
That’s how you do it in the club.
How to Go in For a Kiss on the First Date
It’s your first date.
You want to make everything right…and you want to get that kiss. Of course, you do. I mean, that’s the main goal for every date. It doesn’t matter where you are, the tactic for going in for the kiss remains the same.
There’s not need to start sweating.
All you have to do is to look out for signs she wants to kiss you and to make a move. But be careful. Don’t try to kiss her with too many witnesses. She doesn’t want to be the “date slut”. Make sure that nobody sees what you’re doing.
The less people see what you’re doing, the more comfortable she feels with you and with your kissing attempt.
How to Go in For a Kiss after a Date
What if you have the patience to wait until the date is over?
Patience is a virtue.
The fact that you’re willing to wait until the date is over can be your biggest advantage. It’s so much easier to go in for a kiss with a girl after the date than during the date.
Come on. You’ve seen these Hollywood romance movies. She stands at the bus stop. They are both smiling. He goes for the kiss right before the bus arrives. How fucking romantic.
Embrace this magic moment. Wait until she’s about to leave. It doesn’t matter if you’re in front of her car, her house, or the bus stop. The only thing that matters is that you don’t miss the chance to do what you want to do.
That’s how you turn a first date into a second date.
How to Go in For a Kiss During a Movie
Imagine you’re at the cinema.
You were smart enough to take two seats in the last row. That’s where nobody can see you. It’s the perfect place for a passionate kiss. But you don’t want to make the typical cinema move. No, you don’t want to be the guy who pretends to yawn.
Instead, you do what this guy does:
Alternatively, you can do this:
That’s how to turn a boring movie into a fun and exciting adventure.
How to Go in For a Kiss with Your Girlfriend
Don’t tell me you can’t get a kiss from your girlfriend!
What did you say? She won’t kiss you?
If that’s the case, you have to check out my book Rise of the Phoenix. In this book I share countless tips and techniques that turn you into a man who attracts girls, gets girls, and gets a kiss from his girlfriend.
And yes, you’ll get a girlfriend after you’ve read my book.
Enjoy the sweet lips of all the beautiful girls you’re going to kiss!
Summed Up Wisdom
If you want to know how to go in for a kiss with a girl, you have to understand three key principles. You have to prepare yourself (and your mouth) for the battlefield and you can’t drown a girl in saliva. Okay, technically, you can. But you shouldn’t.
Instead, take it slow, no matter if you want to kiss her at a party or at the cinema. But of course, rules are there to be broken. And you should break the “take it slow rule”, but only when you kiss girls in clubs.
I want you to understand that you can go in for a kiss at any place you want. Nevertheless, it can be better to have patience. It’s easier to kiss a girl after a date than during a date. But hey, this rule can be broken too. During the hug is better than after the hug. Have fun.
Sebastian Harris says
great to hear that. I wish you luck 😉
I hope you’ll buy my book today 😉
Sebastian, i’m meeting this girl from tinder for the first time on friday night and we’re going bowling. i don’t get dates (if you even wanna call it a date) too often, so i’m super excited about this.
i always thought going for a kiss on the first date was too soon, but i guess not. i suppose it depends on how the date is going.
these tips you provided are awesome. i’ll keep them in mind and review them before friday gets here.
by the way, i’m getting close to buying your book 🙂