I really hope you want to learn how to give a woman a sensual massage…
Why do I hope that?
Because I believe that every Global Seducer should have this skill. I am convinced that a man, who knows how to massage a woman in a sensual way, has it way easier to get women into bed and to keep them in his life, than a man who risks a borken neck whenever he touches a woman.
As a Global Seducer, you have to be an expert in every area of seduction. Knowing how and when to kiss a girl and how to satisfy her in the bedroom is definitely important, but sometimes the small things distinguish the great seducers from the good ones. One of those small things is the ability to give women a sensual massage.
Even though I am a pretty good masseur, I am by far not an expert. I have never visited a course or a workshop and I have never studied this topic on a theoretical level, despite the one tantra book that I have read.
Nevertheless, I am able to massage a girl to fun.
If you want to learn how to become a professional masseur who is able to release girls from an acute back pain, you should close this article now. If you, however, want to learn how to give a woman a sensual massage in order to spice up your relationship or to seduce a woman you haven’t even kissed yet, you are absolutely right here.
What is a Sensual Massage?
Why do I think that you won’t be able to release a woman from a chronic back pain after you have read this article?
Because giving a regular massage and giving a sensual massage are two entirely different things. A normal massage has a healing purpose, whereas a sensual one has the purpose to make her juices flow.
Massaging a girl’s neck can be a part of the erotic massage, especially when you are using this seduction technique to get a girl into bed. However, a sensual massage consists of a lot more than that. As the word sensual already reveals, this form of massage stimulates the senses.
“What other senses than the touch sense can be stimulated during such a massage?”
In order to provide her with the most erotic and sensual experience she ever had, you should do more than touching her. Give her something to look at, by showing her your naked body and your little friend while you are massaging her. Let her smell the massage oil and fulfill the room with the smell of aromatic candles. Spoil her ear with relaxing sounds and let her taste a piece of chocolate, your lips and at the end your dick.
Learning how to give a woman a sensual massage is like learning to please a woman in a holistic way that naturally leads to sex…without exception.
How to Give Your Girlfriend a Sensual Massage
There are basically two situations in which it is extremely helpful to know how to spoil and arouse a woman with your hands. You can either use this seduction technique to seduce your girlfriend and to make your relationship more exciting, or you can use it to have sex with women who you have never seen naked before.
Before I am going to show you all the dirty secrets that will transform a girl who just wanted to go back to your apartment to have a drink, into a girl who can’t wait until you finally take your hands off her neck, I want to show you how you can spice up your relationship.
In case you are not in a relationship you can of course jump straight to the next section. But don’t forget to read this section once you have seduced a girl with your hands, who then became your girlfriend.
Take a Bath Together
I assume that you don’t have to use your seduction skills to get your girlfriend over to your place. Good, so she is in your apartment. What do you do first? You could push her on the bed, rip her clothes off and rub her whole body with massage oil, but this would somehow kill the mood.
Remember, you want to give her an unforgettable night of relaxation, sensuality and sexuality.
Start slowly. In my experience the best way to introduce a sensual massage is to take a bath together. Lead her to the bathroom, undress each other and take a relaxing foam bath that you should have prepared before she arrives at your place.
Cuddle in the tub, kiss her and if you are an experienced diver you can go down on her.
Once you are finished with your bath, you lead her straight to the bedroom, without giving her the chance to get dressed again.
Candles and Dimmed Light
What does she find in your bedroom?
Due to the fact that you have read a very interesting article about how to give a woman a sensual massage, you have transformed your bedroom into a massage parlor.
You have dimmed the light and you have put at least one candle in every corner of the room. I recommend that you use aromatic candles. Vanilla or chocolate are the best.
When she sees the candles and the romantic atmosphere that you have created she loves you even more than before. She is excited and delighted when you lead her towards your bed. The bed is full of comfortable towels.
Tell her to lie on her belly, to close her eyes and to relax. In the meanwhile you are walking to your laptop or your hi-fi system.
What music should you choose if you want to make the atmosphere even more romantic?
You might listen to Heavy Metal or to Hip Hop when you are alone but Metallica’s St. Anger and Lil Wayne’s Lollipop shouldn’t be on the playlist for this event.
You can decide whether you want to play some romantic love ballads or meditation music.
I personally prefer meditation music and yoga music. It is more relaxing and it allows her to concentrate on the experience, instead of the lyrics of some overly romantic songs.
Kiss Her from Head to Toe
She lies naked on your bed, her eyes are closed and she breathes in a very calm rhythm.
What do you do next?
What she expects you to do now is to get the massage oil and to start kneading her neck.
But it would be boring to do exactly what she expects.
I have a better idea.
Why don’t you take off your clothes and slide your whole body over her back?
Make sure that she feels every inch of your body on her skin. Once you have done this two or three times, you can kiss her body from head to toe.
Start with her feet, continue with her legs, kiss her (take your time here) and move your lips all the way up to her head. Smell her hair and let her feel your warm breath on her neck. If you put your fingers between her legs, you’ll find out how surprised and excited she is about your kisses.
Get the Massage Oil
Now it is finally time for the massage oil. But don’t just get the next best massage lotion for $2 from the local convenience store. Invest a couple of dollars into good massage oil with a nice smell. You just have to type in “massage oil” in amazon and you will find a wide range of oils that will help you to transform your relationship into an erotic adventure.
Now rub her whole body with the massage oil.
Don’t just put one or two drops on her neck, because you don’t want to waste too much of your precious oil.
She is your girlfriend and she should be worth more than $2 of massage oil. Make sure that you can slide your hands over her body and that you can slide right into her, which is pretty useful for later.
Start to Massage Her Neck
Now it is time to start with the massage.
If you want to learn how to give a woman a sensual massage, you should also learn how to touch a woman without breaking her neck. Be gentle. Remember, your main goal is not to release any tensions in her back.
You goal is to make her comfortable, to help her to relax AND to make her ready.
Be very soft and not too rough. Knead her neck slowly and alternate between massaging and caressing. The good news is that the two liters of massage oil that you have spread all over her body will make it impossible to massage her too rough.
Whisper Naughty Things in Her Ear
While you are massaging her neck you can use the time to whisper some naughty things in her ear. Tell her how sexy she is, how incredible her skin feels and how the smell of her hair drives you crazy.
At this point she is already so ready that she doesn’t want to control herself anymore.
In case she turns her head to kiss you, you can kiss her and if she wants to feel your dick inside her, you can decide whether you want to end the massage at this point, or whether you want to increase her pleasant anticipation a little bit more…
…so you decided to increase her pleasant anticipation even more by continuing your massage. Good choice.
Do you remember how I told you at the beginning that giving a woman a sensual massage involves all senses?
Good, because now it is time to give her something to taste. She already tasted your lips and you can be pretty sure that she fantasizes about tasting your dick, but why don’t you give her an entrée?
How about one or two strawberries? How about a chocolate praline? How about a chocolate fondue with delicious fruits?
Provide her with an experience that she has never had before and make sure that not only her neck and her body, but also her mouth and her stomach feel good.
Massage Her Butt Cheeks
You have massaged her neck long enough. Now it is time to go down one floor. Go all the way down her back, massage her shoulders, caress her arms and stop right after you reached her delicious cheeks.
It’s time for more oil.
Release one drop of oil after another and let them fall on her ass. Let her feel every single drop. Now lay your hand on her body and start to massage it. Start with the cheeks and softly caress her .
Enjoy her moaning while you slide your hands over her body.
This will drive her wild.
Massage her Holes
Now that you have already caressed her and touched her body, you can slowly but steadily test how comfortable she is with having your fingers inside her holes. In case you have done everything the way I described, she will not only be wet like a lake, but she will also fantasize about having your fingers, your tongue and your dick inside every single one of her three holes.
Continue to massage her with your right hand, while you slowly put one finger inside her body.
She will moan. Enjoy the sound she makes and take things a bit further. Put two of your fingers inside her body and one inside her . She will moan even louder.
Slide Right Into Her
The only thing she wants now is to feel your dick inside her. Do her this favor and slide right into her.
In case you want to have some visual instruction, the following video is quite useful. I have watched a few videos on YouTube, but I think this is the best for learning how to give a woman a sensual massage.
I don’t get any money for recommending it and I know that the advertising throughout the video can be a bit annoying, but you can learn a lot from watching it. Enjoy!
How to Give a Woman a Sensual Massage When You Haven’t Seen Her Naked Before
The next time you invite your girlfriend over to your place you know exactly what you have to do to make her addicted to you and to your touch, by providing her with the most erotic experience she ever had.
What if you don’t have a girlfriend?
Then it is time to get one, or at least to seduce a girl who you want to have sex with once or twice.
Learning how to give a woman a sensual massage is not only helpful when you want to spice up your relationship. It is also a great way to get women naked who didn’t even plan to end up in bed with you.
However, the procedure is a little bit different if you have a girl in your apartment, who promised herself to not have sex with you on the first date. Instead of massage oil you need the right timing and a smooth transition. Then her resolution to not sleep with you will automatically change into the desire to be with you the whole night.
Tell Her That You are a Good Masseur
Okay, so she came back to your place. Even though the date was quite good, you didn’t go for the kiss. Of course it is always better to go for the kiss during or after the date, but now that she is at your place you can prove that your massage skills are way more powerful than your lips.
Make her a drink and invite her to sit on your bed or on your coach. Start a conversation while you are looking deep into her eyes.
How do you transition from a conversation to a sensual massage?
You could just start to touch her, but the risk to weird her out would be too high.
Instead of touching her without any prior warning, you can simply tell her that she looks as if she could need a massage and that today is her lucky day, because you are a really good masseur. She might not have planned to sleep with you, but she probably won’t refuse this offer.
Women are complicit in their own seduction and deep down she knows that a massage that leads to sex allows her to say “it just happened” and “it wasn’t planned” when she leaves your apartment the next morning.
Massage Her Neck
Pretend as if she would already be your girlfriend and start to massage her neck. Once you have the feeling that she gets more and more relaxed, you can start to smell her hair and to give her compliments.
Tell her that she smells really good and that her skin feels very soft.
Your words in combination with your massage skills will make her heart thump. In this moment she already knows that this massage won’t end in a Scrabble contest.
Kiss Her Neck, Her Cheek and…
Continue to massage her neck. In case she wears a strappy top, you can pull the straps down. I mean, you have to pull them down in order to reach her shoulders.
Did you already smell her hair and did she feel your warm breath on your neck?
Good, because now it is time for the next step. When she is really relaxed and when she doesn’t show any resistance when you pull the straps down, she is ready to get kissed.
Don’t forget to be slow and sensual.
Start to kiss her neck while you are still massaging her. Kiss her very softly and wait how she reacts. In case she pulls her body away from you, you can simply say:
“I couldn’t resist it. You smell so good.”
Wait a couple of minutes and try it again.
In case she lets you kiss her neck, which she will most likely do, you can turn her head a little bit towards you and kiss her check. If she is okay with that, you can go all in and kiss her like she really wants to be kissed.
Save the Oil for the Next Time
Does she reciprocate the kiss?
Then she will be very thankful if you help her out of her clothes and she would also appreciate if you would give her one fun after another. She doesn’t need any oil. All she needs is your dick.
She knows that she can be as naughty as she wants to be, because she can’t be judge for the things that happen between you and her.
The only reason why she wants to be with you is because your massage was so sensual.
The next day she can say that “it just happened”. All she really wanted to do was to have a nice conversation with you, but when you showed her your massage skills she was helpless.
Here you’ll learn how to make it “just happen” from the first “hi” to the first sex.
Summed Up Wisdom
You can either learn how to give a woman a sensual massage, in order to spice up your relationship, or to get a woman naked, even though you haven’t even kissed her before. If you want to give your girlfriend the time of your life, you can take a bath with her, before you lead her to your bedroom, which is prepared with candles, dimmed light and relaxing music. Kiss her whole body, before you massage her with the best massage oil you could find.
While you are massaging her, you can whisper dirty things in her ear. Make it even more exciting by feeding her some delicious fruits or chocolate pralines. After her stomach is satisfied, it is time to caress her beautiful ass. In case she is comfortable with that, you can first put your fingers inside her and then slide right into her.
What if you want to learn how to give a woman a sensual massage, because you want to use this skill to motivate girls to take their clothes off? Then you should simply suggest a massage. While you are massaging her, you can first kiss her neck, then her cheek and eventually you can kiss her the way she wants to get kissed by you. If she likes that she would also like to take off her clothes.
Sebastian Harris says
That’s true, Chloe
Great read and some great tips on how to actually go through the stages of giving an erotic massage! It’s so easy to go for a back rub then straight down to action without exciting all the senses!