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How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams

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You want to know how to get the girl of your dreams and I’m pretty sure she looks like her…

blonde dream girl

Or maybe like her….

beautiful African woman

Hell, I might be wrong and she looks like her…

smiling chinese girl

Really? Yes, really!

I don’t know what type of woman you prefer. I mean, it would be nice if you shared your thoughts in the comments below. Then I know. For now, I have to guess. But it doesn’t really matter because it’s not important that I know how she looks like.

All that matters is that I show you how to get her.

“Yeah Sebastian, the other guys said the same and I still don’t have her.” I hear you saying.

Well, what can I say? I’m not like the other guys. I’m the German (and white) version of Hitch and I know how to pull it off. I know it because I’ve done it. In fact, my dream girl is lying next to me right now…and rolling her eyes because of my stupid Hitch comment.

Here’s how my history looks like:

  • I attracted all the wrong girls.
  • I failed with the right ones.
  • I finally got lucky.

Okay, I have to admit something. It wasn’t luck. Eventually, I figured out how to use the right mindset, the right techniques, and the right thought process to pull the girl of my dreams. The journey was worth it.

You can do the same because…

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    I’ll show you how to use your mind to get her.
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    I’ll give you step-by-step instructions.
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    I’ll share the attitude you need.

Are you ready to attract the woman of your dreams?

Let’s dive right in…

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How to Find the Woman of Your Dreams by Seeing Her in Your Mind
How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams by Taking Action
1. Refuse to Settle for Less than Your Dream Girl 
2. Find Your Dream Girl at Your Favorite Places  
3. Impress the Girl of Your Dreams with Honesty 
4. Talk to the Girl of Your Dreams with Big Words 
5. Meet the Girl of Your Dreams at Your Favorite Date Venue 
6. Pursue the Girl of Your Dreams with the Right Techniques
7. Attract the Woman of Your Dreams with the Dream Guy Formula 
8. Use the Power of Mind Control to Get with the Girl of Your Dreams 
9. Win Over the Girl of Your Dreams with Emotional Warfare 
10. Pull the Girl of Your Dreams with Untamed Masculinity  
11. Date the Girl of Your Dreams by Staying on Course 
12. Get the Woman of Your Dreams with THIS Attitude  
Summed Up Wisdom 


How to Find the Woman of Your Dreams by Seeing Her in Your Mind

You need to have a clear picture in your mind.

Wanting to know how to get the girl of your dreams without knowing your target is like starting a business without knowing your target audience. It will fail. And you don’t want to fail. You want to make her yours.

Remember the pictures I shared with you at the beginning?

Look at them again and ask yourself:

  • Is she Caucasian, Asian, or black?
  • Is she slim, curvy, or chubby?
  • Is she short, tall, or average?

And no, that’s not racist. This is what you need to do in order to find out who you are looking for. Of course, her looks are only the beginning. Think about her personality. Think about the way she interacts with other people.

  • Is she introverted or extroverted?
  • Is she submissive or dominant?
  • Is she playful or serious?
playful woman

Write down the answers on a piece of paper until you know exactly how your dream girl looks, feels and thinks. You can do it in 20 minutes or less. Try to ignore other people’s opinion and write down what YOU want.

Do you have a clear picture in mind?  

Awesome! Now it’s time to find, pursue and get this girl…


How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams by Taking Action

I’m not the biggest fan of Tony Robbins, but this is true:  

The path to success is to take massive, determined actions. – Tony Robbins

Or to say it in a more old-fashioned way:

God provides the wind, but man must raise the sails. – St. Augustine

Okay, okay. I stop throwing around smart-ass quotes. I promise. But I won’t stop telling you what you don’t want to hear but need to hear. I won’t say that learning how to get the girl of your dreams is easy. All I say is that it’s worth it.

  • You can’t just sit at home and wish.
  • You need to have the perfect plan.  
  • You have to take the necessary steps to get her.

Thank God I’m German. Structure is pumping through my veins. And thanks to years of failure with women, I learned to apply this structured thinking as a dating coach.

Here’s your step-by-step plan to get the girl of your dreams…


1. Refuse to Settle for Less than Your Dream Girl 

I know. You’ve heard it before.

The advice “don’t settle” has become such a buzz phrase. The only problem: Nobody knows what it actually means. In fact, a lot of people get it all wrong. They think that it’s about NEVER settling down. Uhhh…settling is bad!

That’s not true at all.

  • You’ve found the girl of your dreams? Settle!
  • You’ve found the perfect career? Settle!
  • You are perfectly happy? God, settle!
happy man wants to get his dream girl

There’s nothing wrong with that. The danger, however, is to settle down before you find what you are looking for. You don’t want to end up singing U2’s “I still haven’t found what I’m looking for” for the rest of your life.

Here’s the mindset you need to have:

“I don’t settle until I have found the woman of my dreams.”

It’s that simple. You already know how she looks, feels and thinks. Now you just have to keep your goal in mind and resist the temptation to settle for less. And I know how tempting this can be. Heck, that’s why so many guys get married to the wrong woman.

  • They meet a girl who actually likes them.
  • She’s not perfect but hey, regular sex.
  • They marry her and mess up their life.

Don’t do that!

Don’t settle until you’ve found what you were looking for.


2. Find Your Dream Girl at Your Favorite Places  

Where do you find your dream girl?

It depends.

I know. That’s not the answer you want to hear. But it’s true. If you are an extroverted party animal you might meet her at a house party. What if you’re an introverted bookworm like me? Forget about the party and approach girls in bookstores.

Here’s the golden rule:

Look for your dream girl where you want to find her.

Let’s be honest. You don’t want to find her on Tinder (you’d be guy number 189) and you also don’t want to find her at the club (she has an obvious alcohol problem). Go to places YOU are interested in.

Why? Because we like people who are like us!

It’s very simple:

  • You stay away from places you don’t like.
  • You look for her at places you like.
  • You eventually find her.

I love books and that’s why I met the most amazing girls in bookstores. That’s how it works.  


3. Impress the Girl of Your Dreams with Honesty 

You don’t just want to find her. You also want to impress her.

How do you do it?

You play the “let’s do the opposite” game. You do the opposite of what other guys do. I mean, she’s beautiful. She has to be because she’s your dream girl. Unfortunately, beautiful women are used to dishonest men.

  • These men hide their feelings.
  • They hide their attraction.
  • They hide their intention.

At the end of a conversation with such a phony, she believes that she met the nicest best friend on earth…while he thinks about the best way to sneak into her panties.

evil man wants to get the woman of his dreams

mwahahahaha

Don’t do this, my friend.

You’re a Global Seducer, a real man, a warrior. You fight with honesty.

  • Let her know that you are interested in her.
  • Let her know that you’re not an emotionless machine.
  • And let her know that you want to make sweet love to her.

Okay, don’t say “I want to make sweet love to her”. Instead, use one of these compliments. But let her know. She deserves honesty.


4. Talk to the Girl of Your Dreams with Big Words 

Please choose one of the following two lifestyles:

  1. You watch TV and eat chips until you are too fat to get up.
  2. You sleep with beautiful women until your balls are empty.

These two sentences have the same structure and almost the same length. The only difference is the usage of words. Words have power. Use them and they can have the power to make the girl of your dreams fall for you.

Forget about small words. Use big words.

big words to get your dream girl
  • You are not a guy. You are a confident man.
  • You are not average. You are adventurous.
  • You don’t have a job. You have a calling.

Use words that excite her and inspire her. Delight her with your words and she will delight you with her affection, kisses, and with her body.  


5. Meet the Girl of Your Dreams at Your Favorite Date Venue 

You want to meet her again, right?

Now that you found her, talked to her, and impressed her with your stories, adventures, and anecdotes. You want to turn your first official meeting (man, that sounds serious) into the perfect first date.

The core principle doesn’t change.

She is YOUR dream girl. Therefore, she should like the things you like. I know, we’ve all heard that opposites attract. And that might be true. But I’m sure you’re not looking for your dream girl because you want a one-night stand. A hot chick would be good enough for that.

You want a relationship with this woman and that’s why you should…

  • Choose a first date venue that surprises her.
  • Choose a place YOU like.
  • See how she reacts.

Let’s say you are totally into basketball. You have posters on your wall and you’d marry Kobe Bryant if he proposed to you. You start the date at the café and after that you take her to a basketball court. You just want to walk around and see how she reacts.

What if she loves it?

You can take her to the game next weekend. Things are looking good


6. Pursue the Girl of Your Dreams with the Right Techniques

Pickup lines are totally overrated.

Seduction techniques, however, are underrated. I guess it’s because the expression “seduction technique” sounds a bit like a scam. I don’t know. All I know is that some techniques work hundred times better than any pickup line you could think of.

Here are some examples:

  • You use eye contact to spark arousal.
  • You whisper a compliment in her ear while you hug her.
  • You sit next to her and touch her hands during the conversation.
how to get the girl of your dreams

...and then her neck.

That’s just the tip of the iceberg.

Don’t be afraid to use seduction techniques. The right technique can lead to the desired result. 


7. Attract the Woman of Your Dreams with the Dream Guy Formula 

Imagine you’re a casting agent and you represent an actor.

You want to get him the leading part in a romantic comedy movie. Unfortunately, he’s less popular and less crazy than Tom Cruise. That’s why you need to sell him. You need to talk about his positive qualities.

This is the mindset you need to have.

You want to get your dream girl and you want her for more than one night. Yep, you want that boyfriend title. And you can get that title. But only if she can tick the boyfriend boxes in her mind. Come on. Let her tick the boxes.

  • He’s confident and funny.
  • He has goals and a vision for his life.
  • He’s a gentleman and treats me with respect.

Keep in mind that attracting the woman of your dreams with the boyfriend formula is different than getting a one-night stand with a drunk party girl on a Saturday night. Imagine her ideal boyfriend. Then be this guy.


8. Use the Power of Mind Control to Get with the Girl of Your Dreams 

“Sebastian, are you out of your mind?” I hear you asking.

I’m always out of my mind. But that’s not the point. I know that the term “mind control” sounds a bit too voodoo for you. But don’t worry. I won’t tell you to implant an AI chips under your dream girl’s skin that work as a remote control…I first have to consult Elon Musk.

Mind control is much simpler than that.

dream girl wants you

The idea is to put thoughts and images in her mind that make her desire you. I’m sorry if it’s not sensational enough for you, but that’s really all it is. And it gets even better. It’s really easy to do it.

Let me give you some examples:

  • You mention the word “cuddling” over and over again.
  • You talk about funny movies.
  • You say romantic things.

What do you think will happen?

She wants you to cuddle her while watching a funny movie. Then she’ll want to do romantic things with you. And yes, passionate lovemaking is as romantic as it gets.


9. Win Over the Girl of Your Dreams with Emotional Warfare 

War is coming.

Oh wait, that was winter, right?

Anyway, you’re ready for combat. And no, you don’t need armor or a sword. Okay, you need your sword later when she’s in your bed...but for now you are enough. Yes, you and your emotions.

It’s time for emotional warfare and for…

  • Stories that show your vulnerable side.
  • Emotional topics that trigger feelings.
  • A deep connection between you.

Here are some examples (in case it sounds too abstract for you):

  • Talk about childhood experiences.
  • Share the moments that made you cry.
  • Encourage her to share her intimate stories.

That’s what makes her fall for you!

You can’t win over the girl of your dreams by talking about the weather, politics, and Donald Trump’s haircut. Emotions are what close the deal.


10. Pull the Girl of Your Dreams with Untamed Masculinity  

Here’s what you’ve accomplished so far:

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    You impressed her with your honesty.
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    You made her think about doing stuff with you.
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    You made her feel an incredibly strong connection to you.
connected with dream girl

Remember how I said that you’ll need your sword?

Emotional warfare is not enough. At some point you have to get physical. And no, I’m not talking about wrestling…even though that can be fun too. But let’s start small. Let’s start with your beliefs about yourself.

  • Are you confident in your sexuality?
  • Do you embrace your masculine energy?
  • Do you know how to get physical with girls?

If the answer to any of these questions is a reluctant “no”, you have to check out my book. In this book I share everything from touching to kissing to taking her clothes off. That’s what she wants you to do.

It’s time to unleash your inner lion and to…


11. Date the Girl of Your Dreams by Staying on Course 

You want to be with her for a very long time, am I right?

Learning how to get the girl of your dreams is just the beginning. You also have to know how to keep her. And that, my friend, is the hard part. That’s why I dedicated a whole chapter in my book to this challenge and that’s why I decided to share the most important tip with you right now.

Stay on course!

Here’s what I mean by that:

  • Continue to be the guy she met on the first date.
  • Act the way you promised her to behave.
  • Have the beliefs you shared with her.

This is one of the most crucial mistakes men make. They pretend to be someone else and then they wonder why they lose their dream girl. Well, if you order a Big Mac and you get a McChicken, you’re not happy.

Don’t suddenly change.

That’s not what she signed up for.  You were a Big Mac on the first date. So stay a Big Mac. Continue to be the man she fell in love with.


12. Get the Woman of Your Dreams with THIS Attitude  

What if the next woman you meet is NOT the girl of your dreams?

She most likely isn’t.

Please don’t think that every girl has this potential. In fact, thinking that the next girl you meet is the woman of your dreams can be a huge mistake. You have to kiss a lot of frogs until you meet your princess…who’s hopefully not a prince in disguise.

I want to end this article with an important message:

never give up to get a dream girl
  • Approach as many girls as you need to approach.
  • Go on as many dates as necessary. 
  • That’s how you get lucky.

We both know that getting the girl of your dreams has absolutely nothing to do with luck…


Summed Up Wisdom 

You want to know how to get the girl of your dreams. I’m sure she’s hot. But she’ll age. That’s why you have to be fast and look for her at your favorite places. And please don’t try to impress her with a sports car. Impress her with honesty.

I hope you promised yourself to not settle before you find her. Never give up. It doesn’t matter if you take one girl after another to your favorite date venue. Maybe nice out of ten hate it. One will love it. She’s the one.

But you still have to seduce her. And yes, seduction techniques are incredibly powerful. So is emotional warfare. Oh, and don’t forget to get physical. Nothing is better than a passionate kiss at the end of the first date.

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You want to know how to get the girl of your dreams and I’m pretty sure she looks like her…I don’t know what type of woman you prefer. All that matters is that I show you how to get her. Okay, I have to admit something. It wasn’t luck. You can do the same because…
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  1. Sebastian Harris says

    April 2, 2018 at 5:09 pm

    Hey Jeffrey,
    I’m sure you will find her.

  2. Jeffrey Tanasse says

    March 30, 2018 at 12:43 pm

    Finally..an author and point of view that reflects mine about Thai women. Found my guy. And although my flight and hotel are booked….and Thaifriendly has provided me a head start…I havent even been there yet. But Ive done enough research and way too many video chats and confident I WILL FIND THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS. I’m a confident, well spoken and romantic western farang… The Thai ladies love me…genuinely I might add. Im staying away from the ladies in their 20s. immature and phone addicts..many with problems.. After looking around a bit I was pulled to the Isaan women…Save it. Ive heard it all. Ive got a RN Bangkok gal on the hook too…but I am blue collar…all the way..and the farm bred dark beauties of the Isaan flavor do it for me. No lightened up faces and heavy make up for me..The one I like the most is a radiant gorgeous beauty and has all the qualities i like..High cheek bones..cut and slim, glossy long black hair..the famous Thai curved lip smile..and loves the shit out of me. I’m trying to keep an open mind…keep options open..but if theres a 100 dream girls that thinks you’re the shit…then Im digging in.

  3. Sebastian Harris says

    March 26, 2018 at 8:09 pm

    Good point, Tony.

  4. Sebastian Harris says

    March 26, 2018 at 8:08 pm

    Thank you and yes, I have immense respect for Elon.

  5. Sebastian Harris says

    March 26, 2018 at 8:08 pm

    I hope you’ll get her back!

  6. Sebastian Harris says

    March 26, 2018 at 8:00 pm

    Hey Tim,
    I’m sure you’ll improve over time!

  7. Tim says

    March 26, 2018 at 6:04 pm

    i love Latinas, but i’m open to anyone.

    in the article, you mentioned don’t settle. i tend to settle. 🙁 i tend to just take whatever i can get. i’m also not confident in my sexuality. don’t have much experience getting physical with girls…..so i don’t have much confidence in that department. 🙁

    thanks for the article

    Tim

  8. Sébastien Rearden says

    March 25, 2018 at 1:25 am

    ” Learning how to get the girl of your dreams is just the beginning. You also have to know how to keep her. And that, my friend, is the hard part. That’s why I dedicated a whole chapter in my book to this challenge and that’s why I decided to share the most important tip with you right now.
    Stay on course!
    Here’s what I mean by that:

    Continue to be the guy she met on the first date.

    Act the way you promised her to behave.

    Have the beliefs you shared with her.
    This is one of the most crucial mistakes men make. They pretend to be someone else and then they wonder why they lose their dream girl. Well, if you order a Big Mac and you get a McChicken, you’re not happy.
    Don’t suddenly change.
    That’s not what she signed up for. You were a Big Mac on the first date. So stay a Big Mac. Continue to be the man she fell in love with. ”

    Too bad i didn’t read that 2 months ago because that’s exactly how i lost my girl friend…(but i’m on the way to get her back)

  9. Sébastien Rearden says

    March 25, 2018 at 12:51 am

    Best dating coach ever.

    PS : we have Something else in comon, apparantly we are both obsseced by the work of Elon Musk ; )

  10. tony says

    March 24, 2018 at 9:38 am

    hie,
    the logic of knowing comes from the logic of knowledge,however inspiration comes from those who are knowledgeable and i urge you to keep up the good work
    cheers,
    Mr tony

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