How to Get a Girl to Want to Kiss You

You’ve done it before, right? 

Okay, maybe you haven’t. A lot of my younger coaching clients are virgins. Some are also saliva exchange virgins. They’ve never done it….not once. You might be one of those guys. But hey, maybe I’m wrong and you have used your lips before.

It doesn’t matter because I’ll show you:

After reading this article, you’ll have the power to get any girl in the mood to exchange saliva with you until your mouth is bleeding. Yeah, I have to admit it. That sounds a bit scary. But you get the point.

Just read the goddamn article…

How to Get a Girl to Want to Kiss You Every Time  

What does it take for her to open her mouth and welcome your tongue?

Let’s back up a little bit.

At first, it’s innocent. You taste her lips. Then you slowly open your mouth. When she feels comfortable, you can try to use your tongue. But you probably already know that because I’ve written about how to go in for the kiss.

The question is:

How do you make her want it, crave it, desire it?

Yes, desire!

That’s the word I was looking for. You have to make her desire you. In fact, she has to reach a point where she desires your lips more than anything else. Money? Fuck that! She wants to taste your lips and she wants it now.

Desire leads you on the path that brings you closer to your goal…

1. Look Out for Signs She Wants to Kiss You  

What if I told you she already wants it?

I know. You want to learn how to get a girl to want to kiss you. And that’s what I’m going to show you. But maybe, yeah just maybe, you’re closer to your goal than you think. She might have given you clues and hints…you just didn’t see them.

Do you know how the signs a girl wants to kiss you?

It’s important to know these things. I mean, scoring a goal is always easier when the goal keeper is not on the field. Look out for these signs. Sometimes you don’t even have to get her in the mood because she’s already in the mood. You might be able to kiss her straight away.

What if she isn’t?

Then you should have a look at the following advice…

2. Stare at Her Lips Whenever You Can  

Why staring and not looking?

Looking is innocent. I’m not talking about a five-second gaze. I really mean what I say. I want you to stare at her lips and smile. That’s all you have to do. You can do it while you’re talking to her or while you’re watching a movie with her. Don’t be afraid to be too obvious.

It should be obvious because you want to increase the sexual tension.

What if she asks you why you’re staring at her lips?

Here’s what I usually respond:

And no, this is not creepy. If you’re on a date with a girl or having a conversation with her you communicate exactly what you want to communicate. You’re a sexually confident man who’s not ashamed of his desires.

If you do it long enough, she’ll have the same desire.

3. Touch Her Cheeks and Her Chin  

The good old cheek and chin move.

Oh, and in case you’re wondering. I’m talking about the cheeks in her face. I know you want to touch her other cheeks too. But this is not the time to go down under. First, you have to kiss her and make her horny. Then you can play with the lower part.

Got it?

Awesome….here’s what you need to do:

Now she has two options:

Why does she lift her head up?

It makes it easier for you to go for the kiss. Whenever a girl chooses option #2, you have to kiss her. She wants it. There’s no doubt about it.

4. Place Your Hand on Her Leg

Are you ready for another secret Sebastian Harris move?

Okay, it’s not THAT amazing and it’s also not a secret. But it works. In fact, it works surprisingly well. All you have to do is to place your hand on her leg while you’re talking to her. Yes, that’s all you have to do.

Continue talking with your hand on her leg.

She can react in three different ways:

Here’s why this simple move is so effective:

Let’s start with the obvious. You’re touching her and whenever you touch a woman sexual energy flows. That’s a part of human nature. But resting your hand on her leg fulfills a second purpose.

You make her feel protected and safe.

My mom used to place her hand on my leg when I was crying as a child. Her mom probably did the same.

5. Admire Her Beautiful Red Lips 

Compliments are another way to get a girl to want to kiss you.

Here’s what you need to know:

Women are less visual than men, but they have a vivid imagination. That’s why men watch porn and women read romance novels. You might feel nothing when reading 50 Shades of Grey but for her...oh man…her vagina is vibrating.

That’s why your compliment has to be specific.

It’s okay to tell her how amazing she looks. But it’s not specific enough. You also don’t want to compliment the parts of her body you can’t kiss…at least not while she’s still wearing clothes. Focus on the part that you can kiss.

“You have the most beautiful lips in the world.”

It sounds cheesy but it works. She knows why you give her this compliment. She can already imagine what you want to do…and she wants it to happen.   

6. Share Different Stories about Your Lips  

“Stories about my lips? Sebastian, are you completely retarded?”

Well, maybe. But I also know how to get laid. So listen up. I already told you that women love to imagine stuff. Compliments are one way to activate her brain cells and to create some pretty naughty images in her head.

Sharing stories is even more powerful.

Human beings learn through stories. Women experience emotions in the same way. You share your stories and she shares her saliva with you. Sounds like a good deal to me. You just need to share the right stories with her.

Can you guess what the right stories include?

These stories include your lips, kisses and emotions.

Let me give you an example:

This story includes everything a woman wants to hear:

You can come up with your own stories that make her want to taste your lips.

7. Hold Eye Contact and Let Your Eyes Wander  

You can’t be afraid of her eyes.

If you want to know how to get a girl to want to kiss you, you have to get comfortable with holding eye contact. Use the power of eye contact and make her feel what you think. And yes, it will feel uncomfortable at first.

You have to get comfortable with being uncomfortable…

Practice makes perfect. In fact, you can go out today and try to make eye contact with women who walk past you. The more you practice, the more comfortable you’ll get.

Here’s what I like to do:

You can do this while she’s talking to you. But I have to warn you. She might stutter and struggle for words. That doesn’t mean that she has a stroke. She’s just nervous because you make her nervous. But she doesn’t know why.

Suddenly, she has this strong desire to kiss you.

8. Ask Her How She Likes to Be Kissed 

Do you have the balls to do that?

Come on. You’re a Global Seducer. You’ve read my book Rise of the Phoenix (Or you’ll read it today ;-)). You have the courage to ask a girl how she likes to be kissed. But yeah, I get it. You can’t just ask her “hey, how do you want to be kissed?” That’s weird.

Instead, you play a game with her:

You increase the tension step by step. You don’t even have to use my coffee or tea example. Feel free to come up with your own ideas. Just don’t forget to arrive at the kiss question. Women love games and she’ll give you an answer.

At the end of the date you should kiss her the way she wants to be kissed. 

9. Place Your Finger on Your Lips  

I love this sneaky technique.

I do this all the time when I’m talking to girls. Of course, I don’t place my finger on my lips and don’t let go until the conversation is over. That’s weird. If you do that, she’ll want to know what’s wrong with you. You don’t want that.

You just want her to focus her attention….on your lips.

Here’s what you do:

You touch your lips every couple of seconds. Do it while you’re talking. I tend to do it when I have to think of something (or pretend to think). This millisecond is already enough. She’ll end up looking at your lips multiple times.

As a result, she’ll think about kissing you multiple times. 

10. Place Your Finger on Her Lips  

Are you up for the ultimate challenge?

Awesome! Here’s what I want you to do:

I can already hear you screaming “I can’t do that. That’s too much”. Hey, I didn’t say that this technique is for beginners. It’s not. But hey, you’re here because you want to learn how to get a girl to want to kiss you. So suck it up buttercup.  

There are several reasons why this technique is so effective.

First of all, women love to hear inappropriate jokes and men who have the courage to say something offensive. Most girls will only act offended to test if you stand your ground. And believe me….you don’t want to date the 5% who actually are offended.

She reacts like a bratty little girl an you are her daddy.

Your finger on her lips makes her feel several emotions at the same time. She’s a bit upset, but she’s also turned on by this dominant move. And she feels your skin on her lips. That’s when she has to decide whether or not she wants to submit to you and kiss you.

Here’s what you do next…

11. Get Closer with a Smile on Your Face

It’s time to go in for the kiss.

“But Sebastian, how do I know that she really wants it?”

You get closer and observe her reaction. Oh, and don’t forget to smile. Get really close. Yes, it’s okay to feel her breath on your lips. That’s the whole point of it. 

Now you kiss her.

And if you want more than an innocent kiss, you can click here to learn how to get her out of her clothes.

Summed Up Wisdom 

You want to know how to get a girl to want to kiss you. Well, it’s not that hard. You just have to follow the right steps. Start by asking yourself one simple question: Does she already want to kiss me? Look out for the signs before you do anything.

What if you’re not sure? Then you should stare at her lips and see how she reacts. Does she like it? In case she’s into you, she also likes it when you touch her cheek or her chin. Touch her anywhere near her lips and she’ll know what’s going on.  

Even though it sounds stupid, sharing stories about your lips is a highly effective technique. And don’t forget to place your finger on your lips. Do this during the conversation. If you’re really bold, you can take it one step further and place your finger on her lips.