How to Get a Girl to Say She Likes You

That’s what you want to hear. Heck, you don’t want to hear “you’re a really nice guy, but…” That hurts. You want to hear her saying the three words. No, not I love you. That comes later.

First, she has to develop feelings for you.

How do you do that?

And how do you make her say it?

It’s one thing to get a girl to like you. It’s a different thing to make her express her feelings in words. But that’s why you’re here. You want to hear her say it. Why? Because you want to have the certainty that she’s really into you!

Let me show you how it’s done:

Women love games and I’m sure you’ll love this article…

How to Get a Girl to Say She Likes You  

“Hey Sebastian, I really like you.”

Do you have any idea how long it took me to hear these words from a woman?

The only female human beings who said something even closely resembling were my mom and my grandmother. And they meant it in a completely non-sexual way…at least I hope so. I’ve heard a bunch of other stuff from women I talked to but not what I wanted to hear.

That’s the kind of crap I had to listen to all my life. Honestly, I was sick and tired of it. Something had to change. I wanted to break free from this curse. My dating life was one big disaster and my self-confidence suffered a slow death.

I had to change.

And I did. It took me a while but eventually I figured out why every girl (the ones who actually talked to me) said anything but “I like you”. I wish I could blame women or society for it. But it was my fault. I have to take responsibility for my miserable dating life.

I didn’t say and do the things you’re about to learn…

1. Become the Kind of Man Women Like

Liking someone is a reciprocal process.

On the one hand, she can’t like you if you hate her…at least most women can’t. On the other hand, she can’t develop feelings for you if you’re unlikable. You have to become the kind of man women like to be around, snuggle up to, and sleep with.

As an attractive man, you must have certain qualities women seek in a man. And no, it’s not about being nice. Being a nice guy has NOTHING to do with being a likeable guy. I mean, yeah. She’ll like you…but just as a friend.

Do you really want to land in the friend zone?

If that’s your goal, you can close this article right now.  I’m dead serious. For Global Seducers the friend zone is your enemy. You want to get into her panties zone. And you will. But only if you become the kind of man women want.

Be confident when you approach her and sexual when you flirt with her. And don’t forget to share your opinion. She’ll say she likes you, but only if you’re honest, authentic, and a man.

2. Say the Things She Likes to Hear  

What do women like to hear?

Well, I just said it. They want to hear your honest and authentic opinion, stories, and thoughts. Beautiful women don’t want to waste their time with fakers, liars, and phonies. They have better things to do…such as sleeping with men they like.

This is very important:

Don’t confuse what she wants to hear with what YOU think she wants to hear. Most men (falsely) believe that women want to hear how successful you are, how well-mannered you are, and that you share all her interests.

Are you ready for the truth?

She knows that you don’t give a shit about horse riding. Don’t even try it. She also knows that your empathic “ohh, I love that movie” is an utter lie. No man on earth watches a Nicholas Sparks movie without the slightest chance to have sex with the girl who forces him to watch this crap.

She’s not as naïve as you want her to be.

You’re not the first guy who tries to sneak into her pants. She’s been there before…dozens of times. It’s better to say what you want to say and what you really think. Tell her you don’t like Nicholas Sparks movies.

It might sound counterintuitive, but she’ll like you more and eventually she’ll say it.

3. Do the Things She Says She Likes

This one is really easy.

You ask her what she likes and then you do these things. Come on, it can’t get any easier than that. Don’t be shy. You can either ask an open-ended question, such as “what do you like in men?” or you can ask specific close-ended questions.

Here are some examples:

Now you know what she likes and what she doesn’t like. What’s the next step? Well, you behave accordingly. If she’s into funny men, you try to remember the two inappropriate jokes you learned in high school.

What if you don’t want to ask her?

No worries. There’s a high chance that she’ll say it anyway. You probably don’t have to ask. You just have to look out for signs. Women are not the evil creatures the MGTOW movement wants to make you believe.

They want you to succeed.

Imagine the following situation:

You’re talking to a cute girl. Suddenly, she mentions her ex-boyfriend and all the stupid things he did. Most men listen, nod their head, and forget about it. That’s a huge mistake. She basically tells you what not to do.

You just have to listen.

The same is true when she tells you about a gentleman in a movie she has seen recently. She wants you to listen. Then she wants you to be a gentleman. She’ll like you for it. Believe me.

4. Assume That She Likes You

This is a funny way to get a girl to say she likes you.

But you have to be bold. This technique is not for shy guys. But hey, what am I talking about? You’re a Global Seducer. You have a heart of gold and balls of steel. You can pull it off. I believe in you…maybe more than you believe in yourself.

So…are you ready for the boldest way of making her say it?

Awesome! Here’s what you do:

Let her know that you think she likes you.

Here are some examples:

Don’t be afraid to offend her. You’re on a date and not on a college campus. Heck, even if you’re on the most left-wing college campus in the world. Get out of your freaking safe space and hack your cry closet into pieces.

Assume that she likes you because she likes bold men.

5. Make Her Say it with Reverse Psychology

This is some really deep shit.

Yes, you can use reverse psychology to get a girl to say she likes you. It’s the complete opposite of the “assume that she likes you” technique. But it works equally well because it requires the same courage and untamed boldness.

Here’s what I want you to do:

Sell yourself as Mr. Badass Motherfucker.

Yep, that’s right. This time you don’t assume that she likes you. And you also don’t list your positive qualities. You do the exact opposite. You assume that she doesn’t like you, but you do it in a confident “I don’t give a shit” kind of way.

Have you ever watched Californication?

Look at how Hank breaks up with his casual girlfriend in the following scene…

Yes, she runs away, but if you watched the whole season, you’d know that she comes back to him…and that she tries to kill him and herself in an act of sick love later on. Okay, shit. That’s a terrible example. But I hope you get the idea.

Hank sells himself as broken and damaged man.

However, he does it in a way that’s highly attractive. He understates his value and she knows it. That’s what makes him attractive. He sells himself as too bad for a relationship…and thereby he achieves the opposite effect.

Now she’s hooked.

Here are some lines that work extremely well:

Being a humble bad boy is incredibly attractive to women.

6. Say “I Like You” First  

I know you can do it.

Open your mouth, let your tongue bounce up and down, and say the words…

You are the man. And it is a man’s duty to make the first move…at least when it increases your odds to get laid like a freaking rockstar. So be a man. Do it for your country, for yourself, and for that underused thing between your legs.

“Hey Sarah, it might sound weird, but I really like you.”

That’s all you have to say.

“Hey Sarah, do you want to know what I really think about you?”

Then you say it.

Yeah, it’s hard. You have to take your courage in both hands and go first. But the reward is worth it. Honesty is an aphrodisiac. And who knows…she might want to say it since she met you. She was just too shy.

Now that you made the first move she can finally say it.

7. Play The I Know What You’re Thinking Game

Who likes to play a fun game?

You might think to yourself “oh Gosh, I hate games. Leave me alone with this bull crap.”  Well, no. I won’t leave you alone because I’m a mean and cold-hearted son of a bitch. But that’s not the reason why I want you to play a game with her. 

Here’s the real reason:

Women love games more than their life.

I play games on every date. And the “I know what you’re thinking” game is one of my all-time favorites. It’s really simple. You just tell her what she’s thinking. If you tell her the right thing, she’ll say she likes you.

Here are some things I would say:

Now it’s her turn.

Encourage her to tell you what you’re thinking.

Here’s what she’ll do:

She’ll say the same things about you. That’s exactly what you want. Now you’ve both said the magic words.   

8. Ask Her How She Feels About You

You can be honest or you can demand honesty.

Yep, it’s okay to ask her about her feelings. There’s just one problem. Most women don’t give you an honest answer. They are too shy and too afraid that you don’t feel the same way. Most guys don’t believe it but sexy girls have insecurities, too.

Of course, you can still tell her that you really want to know, and that she doesn’t have to be scared and blah blah blah. But let’s face it. It’s still a risky move. It’s up to you if you want to try it. I mean, the higher the risk, the higher the reward.

In case she’s honest, you will hear what you want to hear.

Then you can tell her the truth:

“I like you too.”

That’s how happy ends are written. You’ll have a bright future with amazing sex, a beautiful wedding, and a terrible divorce. Enjoy every moment of it.

Enjoy it as much as you enjoy my super mega awesome book Rise of the Phoenix.

Summed Up Wisdom 

You want to know how to get a girl to say she likes you. It took me a long time to hear the first “I like you” from a girl. Usually, all I heard was “you’re such a nice guy, but…” Eventually, I became the kind of man women want, like, and admire.

But I did more than that. I did the things women naturally like and I said the right things. More often than not, it’s not what you think she wants to hear. She wants to date a confident man, a man who has the courage to assume that she likes him.

If that doesn’t work, you can still use reverse psychology. Be bold and tell her that you like her. Make the first move or at least ask her about her feelings. This requires courage, but you’re a Global Seducer. You have the courage and you’re not too old to play the I know what you’re thinking game.