There are over 7 billion people on this planet and you want to know how to get a girl to notice you?
Good luck with that!
I didn’t just say that, because I want you to lose all your hope. There is actually another reason why I just reminded you of the fact that you are one of 7 billion people and therefore approximately 3.5 billion guys, who also want to meet, seduce and date beautiful women.
I just want you to understand one important truth that a lot of aspiring seducers ignore:
The dating market is a competitive market.
Even though there are still a lot of guys who wouldn’t even approach a woman if their life would be dependent on it, more and more men are joining The Global Seducer Community every day. There are still a lot of guys who don’t know shit about attracting women, but that doesn’t mean that the competition sleeps.
You landed on this site, because you want to know how to get women to notice you. You are ready to set yourself apart from all the average and sexually frustrated guys. You have the goal to become a man who is seen by women and who gets their attention with ease.
Congratulations, you just declared war on your competitors.
The Key Principle to Get Noticed By Girls: Be Better than Your Competition
There are a lot of things you can do to stand out from the crowd and to literally force girls to stare at you (in a positive way). However, when you really think about it, it all comes down to one key principle:
In order to get girls to notice you, you have to be better than your competition.
If you want to stand out from the crowd and be more visible than the others, you always have to be better. This is true for business success and for seduction success.
Of course you can ignore this advice and stay average. The only problem is that nobody cares about average.
An average man gets what an average man deserves, which is an average woman. If you really want to end up marrying some overweight 35 year old woman on Prozac who gives you hell every single day, you can do that. If that’s what you want, you can close this article and stay average.
If you, however, want to live an extraordinary lifestyle and date amazingly beautiful women, you have to think about a strategy that helps you to focus on the elements you need to work on in order to get noticed in the mass of average men.
The Key Strategy to Get Noticed By Girls: Become Better than Your Competition
Before we come to the specific action steps that you can put into practice right after you have read this article, I want to talk about the right strategy and mindset. Yep, when you really want to get noticed by girls without causing nausea, you need a strategy.
Trying to get girls to notice you without a strategy leads to this:
I am pretty sure that you don’t want to walk around like that and I am 100% sure that no woman wants to be seen with you in this outfit. In order to get noticed in a way that fascinates women, that makes them horny and that motivates them to spread their legs for you, you need the right strategy.
Just like a business owner you need to think about the factors that allow you to become better than all your competitors.
That’s why I decided to analyze the following video and to show you different strategical approaches that will help you to get noticed in the dating pool.
Now let’s have a look at what this guy says about your ability to get girls to notice you.
- Your website needs to be better – You need to present yourself better
The first thing he says is that your website has to be better than the website of your competitors. It’s the first thing that people see when they find your business. Your website is the way a business owner presents himself and his company.
Besides hoping that I did a good job when it comes to the design of this website, I also hope that you understand how important it is to present yourself the right way. The sad truth is that a lot of women judge you by the first impression they get from you.
The good news is that you can do a lot of things to improve the way they look at you and how they perceive you.
And no, you don’t need to be a male model to get female attention. Later I am going to give you a lot of practical tips that allow you to get noticed by girls, without the need of plastic surgery.
- You need to convert at a higher rate – You have a higher approaches to numbers to lays ratio
If you want to stay in business you have to convert and if you want to be better than your competitors you have to convert at a higher rate than them. It sounds so simple and yet, so many guys don’t follow this principle when it comes to picking up girls.
There are hundreds of self- proclaimed pick up artists who run around on the streets approaching one girl after another without having a clue what they are doing. They have no game, are not calibrated and chase without a plan.
They don’t even think about what they could do to get noticed by girls BEFORE they approach them.
Again, I will later give you a lot of examples of what you can do in order to get to the next level. For now you just have to understand that blindly approaching girls without knowing what to talk about is not the best way to beat your competitors. If you want a higher success rate, you have to get noticed among the crowd of unnoticeable men.
- You need to implement a better strategy – Read my articles and put my advice into practice
The guy in the video also says that you need to implement a better strategy in order to beat your competitors. I totally agree with that, but you won’t be able to implement a better strategy if you don’t invest time and energy into learning the skills that are necessary to put your strategy into practice.
Look, I really respect and admire you for taking the first step to a better dating life by reading this article. By clicking on this article you have done something that 90% of men will never do.
You took action.
If you want to be better than the other dozens of guys who are on my website right now, you have to do what they don’t do. You have to go the extra mile. You have to put in the work. You have to do everything in your power to get noticed by women.
- Not only focusing on one channel – Knowing how to approach is not enough
Another very important aspect that this young business man is talking about is the fact that you shouldn’t just focus on one particular aspect of your seduction skills.
Yes, the ability to approach women is absolutely essential, but it’s by far not all.
If you run up to ten girls without knowing what to say, how to say it and how to escalate, you are faced with the same problem that I already mentioned above. Focusing on one specific skill is okay if you are just starting out, but if you still don’t know how to connect with women after “doing pickup” for five months, you have a serious problem.
You can’t expect girls to notice you and to fantasize about you, when there are a lot of elements missing in your skillset. Women are attracted to skillful seducers, not to ones who are too lazy to figure out the big picture.
- Continuously optimizing – Practice every day
Running an online business is associated with a lot of work. There is always something to do and something to optimize. The guy in the video knows that, I know that and you should also know it when you want to get noticed by the most beautiful girls while you are in the same room with dozens of other guys.
I not only have to optimize my website every day, I also have to practice my seduction skills on a regular basis. You just have to do one of those things, so make sure that you do this one thing right.
Deliberate practice includes theoretical side and the practical side. I know that there are many guys who read my articles without ever taking action. If you are one of them I love you and I appreciate your support, but I also want to give you one very important advice:
Nothing will happen, unless you do.
No girl will ever notice you, unless you do what it takes to get noticed.
- You don’t need to spend more than the Competition – Money doesn’t help you to get noticed
You don’t necessarily need more money than your competitors in order to succeed. I spend zero dollars on paid advertising and I have more fans and readers than others who spend thousands of dollars on paid traffic every month.
Your goal should be to get noticed without worrying about money.
We’ve all seen the gold digger pranks on YouTube and some of them are very hilarious. But they also have a dangerous side. They trick you into believing that you need money, fast cars and famous friends to get noticed by girls.
Unless you want to attract gold diggers who rip your heart out and take you to the cleaners, you don’t need any of that. There are a lot of amazing, generous and respectful women who couldn’t care less about what car you drive. They notice you for who you are, not for what you have.
- Never think that you are the best – Arrogance can lead to ignorance
Another very important business lesson that I thankfully learned very early is to not think that you are the best. I actually collaborated with quite a few men and women in the dating industry and I know that they are doing a great job. I am very thankful that I wasn’t too arrogant to ask them for help and advice.
What happens when you are too arrogant and when you think that you are the best PUA on the planet?
You become ignorant. You stop learning. You stop improving.
You scare other people away, especially people who you could learn from. This delusion of grandeur makes you ignore your weaknesses and your sticking points. It makes you blind for opportunities to improve, because you think that you’ve already reached Mastery.
James Marshall, one of my early mentors, once said to me that a truly great seducer understands that there is always more to learn.
Just because you already get noticed by women, doesn’t mean that you can’t do anything to get even more female attention.
How to Get a Girl to Notice You (and Reject Your Competitors)
Now that you have the strategy nailed down, I want to share some practical tips with you that will give you a better understanding of how to get a girl to notice you, without plunging into debt by buying a noticeable red Ferrari.
You don’t need to be rich and it doesn’t really matter if you have hit the genetic jackpot. All you need are the willingness to work on yourself and to do what it takes to be better than your competitors.
Action Step 1: Try to Look More Handsome
The first thing you can do to get noticed by women is to improve the way you look. Now I already hear you screaming “you just told me that I don’t have to look like a male model and now you tell me that I have to work on my looks!”
Yep, I am telling you to work on your looks and nope, this doesn’t involve running to a beauty doc and getting a facelift and a penis enlargement. When I say that you should try to look more handsome I am talking about all the things you can influence without battling Mother Nature.
I mean, yeah, you can of course be angry at me for telling you that working on your looks improves the chance to get noticed by girls. You can close this article and run straight to another dating coach who tells you that you can be 100 kilos overweight and still be attractive by saying one secret pick up line. You can do that.
However, you can also accept the truth that the first impression is very important.
You can accept that your beard, your hair, your clothes and your smell have a major influence on this first impression. In case you have the guts to admit that getting a gym membership and eating healthy is actually a good idea, you can click here to learn how to become more handsome.
Action Step 2: Give Her a Reason to Stare
Let’s say you followed my advice, read the article I just linked to and did all the things that made you more handsome. That’s awesome, but there are hundreds of guys who have read this article before you. If only a handful of them put my advice into practice, you now reached the next level of competition.
Now it’s time to set yourself apart from all the guys who learned how to groom their beard and how to smell like a god instead of a garbage dump. In the same way as I must have done something that motivated you to click on my site instead of another site, you must do something to make women look into your eyes instead of your competitor’s eyes.
The good news is that standing out of the masses is actually not that hard. You just have to be a bit different than your competitors. A hat, a scarf or a jacket that nobody else wears can make all the difference.
You have to give her a reason to stare at you.
Just take me as an example. I learned by accident that my fake leather jacket that I bought in a really dodgy shop in Poland is an eye magnet for the ladies. It cost me $14 and it’s far more effective than any Ralph Lauren jacket for $1000.
Action Step 3: Own the Room
Imagine you are in a club and every guy is dressed up. You can of course stand out by adding an item to your outfit that the others don’t have, but it might be even more effective to beat them on a much deeper level.
When it comes to guys who wear a good-looking outfit in a club, at a party or at any other social event, you can generally put them in two categories.
Category A: The guy who wears his outfit because he saw it in a celebrity magazine, or because his friends told him that it’s cool. You can see that he is completely uncomfortable wearing it.
Category B: The guy who takes being stylish to an unhealthy level. He is scared to miss a trend and he is dependent on female attention that confirms him that he is doing it right. He is the male equivalent to the attention whore and he tends to be afraid of negative feedback.
If you know how to own the room by using your body language, your movement and the way you stand, none of those guys are a serious competition. You can learn how to do that by reading this article.
Action Step 4: Have a Friendly Vibe
What do most guys do when they read on some manosphere blog that they have to be a strong alpha man in order to attract women?
They approach them walking around like a Gorilla and staring at them as if they were a serial killer who just broke out of the Oklahoma Country jail. Then they wonder why the ladies reject them in a nasty way and eventually they end up spreading hate comments all over the web.
Don’t do that. Smile instead.
A positive attitude and a friendly smile can go a long way. A smile communicates so much more than happiness. It definitely makes you stand out from the crowd when all the other guys try to act cool and alpha.
Oh, and due to the fact that you are probably taller, heavier and stronger than the woman you approach, she will appreciate it if you leave the impression that you are a great and fun guy and not a seral killer.
The left blondie agrees with me on that:
Action Step 5: Get Some Social Proof
This is an important and quite disturbing message to all the introverts:
If you really want to learn how to get a girl to notice you, you have to be willing to socialize.
I know how painful and nerve-wracking that can be. I am also an introvert and even though I learned to seduce women as an introvert, I can’t deny the fact that socializing is a great way to get noticed by women.
In some way it is the same as when one of my articles gets a lot of social shares. As soon as you click the share button, the likelihood that my site gets noticed increases tremendously. So please share my articles and please work on your ability to socialize.
Overcome your social anxiety, talk to at least one person every day (even if it’s your neighbor) and practice the art of not being a socially awkward weirdo. If I can do it, you can do it. It’s time to get some social proof.
Action Step 6: Have a Hell of a Good Time
I already told you that having a friendly attitude and an inviting smile is a sure way of getting positive attention from the ladies. Now we just have to take being friendly to the next level by having a hell of a good time.
Do you want to know what I do whenever my friends convince me to go to a club with them?
I don’t drink, I don’t walk around trying to be cool and I don’t give a flying fuck about what anyone things of me. The only thing I do is having a good time. I crack jokes, I jump around, I dance to “I want it that way” from the Backstreet boys and I make weird facial expressions whenever a group of girls stares at me.
I have fun and the girls love it.
There is nothing more attractive than a guy who is so at peace with himself that he does whatever he wants in an environment in which everyone else cares about how they are perceived by others.
If you know how to have a hell of a good time, you already know how to get girls to notice you.
Action Step 7: Do Your Job
Now that she is already in love with your scarf, with the way you confidently own the room and with your really annoying laugh that you just can’t control anymore, there is just one more thing left to do.
You have to do your job as a man.
Yes, she already noticed you, but thanks to her poor eyesight she isn’t 100% sure if you are the guy of her dreams of a dusty floor lamp. Come closer and allow her to see the confident and handsome fella that you are. Allow her to see and admire you in all your glory.
Now that you put all my advice on how to get a girl to notice you into practice, it is your job to make the first move. Don’t hesitate for too long. Your competitors might already cast an eye on her and by now you know that your competition never sleeps.
So wake up and become better than your competitors.
Summed Up Wisdom
If you want to learn how to get a girl to notice you, you have to understand that it’s all about being better than your competition. The strategy you should use is comparable with the strategy that an online business uses to outrank their competitors.
You need to present yourself in a better way than the other guys around you and you should work on becoming an efficient seducer. You should not only read a lot about dating and seduction, you should also put the advice into practice. And don’t just work on one particular area. You need to work on every aspect. Therefore, you need to practice every day. The only things you don’t need in order to get noticed by beautiful girls is money and arrogance.
In a practical context this means that you should work on becoming more handsome and on having a certain something that other guys don’t have. Work on your body language and use your friendly vibe to socialize and to attract female attention. Once you have fun and can’t stop having a good time, you just have to make the first move. She already noticed you, now it’s time to allow her to get to know you.