Today we are going to have a look at how to french kiss a girl like a boss.
Kissing is not only a great way to show your affection and your love. It is also an essential skill that every man has to have, at least when he aspires to become a successful seducer.
Even though the seduction process itself starts with a direct and honest approach, the transition from being seen as a quite interesting stranger towards being seen as a potential lover, usually starts with an innocent kiss. One innocent kiss has the power to change the way two people think and feel about each other.
Now that you know what immense power an innocent kiss has, you can probably imagine how powerful a not so innocent kiss is. In order to experience a clash of lips that has enough power to sexually arouse a woman within milliseconds and to make her vagina wet as soon as you place your lips on hers, you have to learn how to kiss a girl like a boss. This way of exchanging saliva has nothing to do with innocence.
In order to experience a kiss that triggers incredible feelings in her, you have to do more than simply pressing your lips against hers while hoping for the best. If you treat her lips in a way that doesn’t arouse her, it will be nearly impossible for you to initiate sex.
If you want to learn how to kiss a girl in a way that drives her crazy you have to stop regarding kissing as a simple exchange of saliva and start seeing it as a holistic process that involves more action steps than your mouth allows you to do.
Let’s have a look at the individual steps that transform an average kiss into the best experience she ever had.
How to French Kiss a Girl: Get Ready
Before you even think about brushing her teeth with your tongue, you should think about what you can do in order to be perfectly prepared for kissing the girl you want to drown in your saliva. Besides eating a Fishermen’s Friend or a Tic-tac before your great performance, you should think about how to position yourself for the kiss.
Learning how to French kiss a girl always includes learning to stand and to hold her in a way that makes this experience as comfortable and intimate as possible. All you have to do in order to get to a point where she can completely relax and give herself to you is to stand in a way that allows her to smell, feel and touch you.
The best way to drive a girl crazy before you even place your lips on hers is to stand really close to her.
Don’t give a flying fuck about respecting her private space. Now it is time to invade her private space in a way that feels exciting and arousing for her. Show her that you are the boss and that you are willing to take over the leadership.
The distance between your nose and hers shouldn’t be more than a few centimeters.
Unless she is feeling your breath on her skin you are too far away
Wrap your arms around her and show her that you won’t let her go until you have done what you intend to do. This dominant and slightly aggressive behavior will already awake the desire in her to feel you on her lips. Of course there are a couple of things you can do, that increase her arousal at this stage.
Wait…What? You don’t have the confidence to come so close that you feel her breath on your skin? Then it’s time for a powerful hypnosis.
Breathing and Staring
As soon as you stand as close to her as you possibly can without breaking her nose you should start to drive her wild by using your breath, your eyes and by touching her in a dominant way. On the one hand you can smell her hair and her skin. This will motivate you even more to finally place your lips on hers.
On the other hand, you should use your breath in a way that increases her sexual arousal.
Start to breathe on her neck and on her cleavage. This will drive her insane.
In addition to that, you can use your eyes to communicate your sexual intent. While you are looking her straight into the eyes you should think about nothing else than giving her the most pleasurable experience with your mouth that you can give her without going down on her.
Besides staring at her in a way that lets her know that you are in charge now, you can touch her back or her hips. Do something unexpected, such as embracing her hips and pulling her towards you. The combination of your hands grabbing her ass and your dominant gesture of pulling her towards you will make her beg for your lips.
How to French Kiss a Girl: Use Your Hands
Your hands are not only a powerful weapon when it comes to touching a woman. Those clumpy things with five fingers can also be quite useful for learning how to French kiss a girl in a way that makes her wet like the Mississippi.
If it happens that you are standing right next to a wall when you are about to kiss a girl you just have to place one hand on the wall so that your arm is in a position that doesn’t allow her to escape. Your can either keep your other hand in your trouser pockets or you can use it to embrace her hips or her back.
Unfortunately, there won’t be always a wall nearby when you feel the urge to passionately kiss a girl. The good news is that this doesn’t matter because there are things you can do with your hands that are even better than leaning against a wall like a lovey-dovey high school couple.
Hold Her Head
The best way to use your hands while kissing a girl in a passionate way is to lay your left hand on her left cheek and your right hand on her right cheek. No, this time I am not talking about grabbing her ass. I am talking about the cheeks in her face.
Embrace her head and allow her to let herself fall into your hands. Before you kiss her, you can then turn her head slightly to the left, so that your noses won’t stop your lips from meeting each other. It is up to you if you decide to turn her head to the right, to the left or if you leave it where it is. I personally prefer a gentle turn to the left. Just don’t suddenly pull her head backwards. This could break her neck.
Holding her head and embedding it in your hands gives her a feeling of security and comfort.
By letting her head sink into your hands, she communicates to you that she trusts you and that you are allowed to lead her to the pleasurable experience that you want to share with her.
Lead Her to the Kiss
Learning how to French kiss a girl in a way that sexually arouses her more than having a penis inside her always contains learning how to lead. If you are serious about getting good with women you simply can’t get around developing leadership qualities.
It is your job to lead a woman to give you her phone number, it is your job to lead her towards going on a date with you, it is your job to lead her into your bedroom and it is your job to lead her to the kiss.
Let’s imagine you are currently holding her head in your hands and she is smiling at you with nearly closed eyes while she awaits your kiss in joyful anticipation. All you have to do now is to take her head and gently pull it towards you. In case she is completely comfortable with you embracing her head, she will definitely follow your lead and give you a smile before your lips are touching hers.
How to French Kiss a Girl: Use Your Mouth
No, the next step after leading her towards the kiss doesn’t include opening her mouth as wide as you can in order to plunge your wet and slimy tongue in there. Even though your tongue plays a part in learning how to French kiss a girl, you should start a kiss slowly and gentle before you go over to a rougher and more aggressive way of tongue wrestling.
Kissing a girl is like enjoying a good meal.
Before you begin to swallow everything like a starving wolf, you should enjoy your first bites to fully experience the taste of your food.
The same applies to the beautiful lips of a woman. You should start slow, enjoy the process and after both of you are comfortable with the taste of each other’s lips, you can transition into eating her alive and strangling her with your tongue.
Start with Her Lips
Let’s imagine you pulled the girl you want to kiss closely towards you until your nose nearly touches hers. Now it is time to pull your head to the side and to kiss her. Place your lips gently on hers and kiss her, then back up again, give her a seductive smile and place your lips again on hers. Do this a few times in short intervals.
At this time you don’t have to use your tongue. Her head in your hands and her lips on yours are enough to arouse her with the taste of your lips, at least when you haven’t had a combination of garlic, onions and Swiss cheese for lunch.
As soon as you have the feeling that she is ready to taste more of you than just your lips, you can go on and increase the intensity of your kiss.
I don’t want to shatter your dreams but in order to do this your lips won’t be enough…
Tongue and Teeth
Be honest, you have waited the whole time for the moment when I finally tell you that it is okay to put your tongue in a girl. Put it in there as deep as you can.
But before you do this, remember that even if she loves the feeling of your tongue inside her mouth, she doesn’t want to throw up because you triggered a nasty urge to gag.
Have a look at minute 1:10 of the following video and you know what I mean:
Instead of forcing her to vomit in your mouth (god, what a disgusting image) you should slowly put your tongue in her mouth and wait for her response. If she also moves her tongue towards you, it is a sign that she enjoys what you are doing.
Then you can increase the intensity of your kiss. If she doesn’t reciprocate your attempt of merging your tongue with hers, you can decrease the intensity and wait till she feels more comfortable.
If you want to learn how to French kiss a girl, learning how to use your tongue is not enough. You also have to become aware of the fact that your teeth can play an important part when it comes to making out with a woman.
Biting her lips can have an incredible influence on her sexual arousal. Of course you shouldn’t bite her lip so strong that she is bleeding all over the floor. However, the ability to gently bite a girl’s lips is definitely not the worst skill to have.
How to French Kiss a Girl: The Extras
Now you officially know how to French kiss a girl in a way that makes her want to kiss you, undress you and please you. You know how to use your hands, your mouth, your tongue and even your teeth to give her more pleasure with one kiss than another guy could give her by licking her for an hour.
You know what you have to do, but there are still some things that you can do in order to make this experience even more pleasurable for her. Let’s have a look at some extras that increase your ability to kiss her into nirvana.
Play with Her Hair
A small little extra that can turn a kiss that is already passionate into an experience that she’ll never forget is when you include her hair in the process. No, I don’t want you to suck on her hair and I also don’t want you to kiss her hair, even though a lot of women like that. There are better ways to involve her hair that arouse her a lot more.
It is time to kiss and it is time to connect with your inner child.
Start to play with her hair as if you were a five year old child. Stroke it, rifle through it and rough it up. One thing that will drive her absolutely crazy is when you gently pull her hair while you are kissing her lips or another part of her body.
Bite Her Neck
One of the best ways to make a kiss more sexual and more passionate is to focus not only on her mouth but to also include other parts of her body that are within near reach. You can either softly kiss her cheeks, stroke her cheeks with your hands or you can start to nibble on her earlobe.
Okay, nibbling on her earlobe might not be the best technique to turn her on, unless she’s really into this, but there are other things that are way more powerful than that.
The one thing that I did to turn every single girl that I have ever kissed into a horny freak was to play with her neck.
No matter in which way you involve her neck in the game, it will turn her on. You can start to kiss her neck, caress her neck with your hands and you can even start to lick her neck. I can guarantee you that she will love it.
Do you want know how to turn a French kiss into more…way more…?
Summed Up Wisdom
How to kiss a girl in way that triggers more sexual arousal in her than David Beckham and Cristiano Ronaldo together? The first thing you have to do is to get ready and to put yourself in the right position. You should come as close as you can without breaking her nose with your tremendous schnoz. As soon as you stand right in front of her you can wrap your arms around her and use your breath and your eyes to arouse her even more.
To introduce the kiss you should embed her head in your hands. This will make her feel comfortable and safe. In order to finally kiss her you should take your role as a leader very serious and pull her head towards you. Don’t start out too strong and aggressive by ramming your tongue inside her mouth. Remember that you learn how to French kiss a girl and not how to destroy her teeth.
Start with kissing her lips in a gentle way. As soon as you have the feeling that she is comfortable with that you can use your tongue to slowly test if she also moves her tongue in your direction. You can then increase her arousal by not only using your tongue but by also biting her lips in a subtle way. In addition to that, you can involve little extras, such as playing with her hair or biting her neck in order to kiss her in a way she has never been kissed before.