You want to know how to find a good girlfriend.
That’s great because it proves to me that you don’t want to date her…
You don’t want to waste your time with women who have more issues than the Vogue. You don’t want to end up in a relationship with a girl who turns your life into a never-ending nightmare. Heck, you want a happy relationship.
But why haven’t you found your Mrs. Right?
Let me guess:
These are the typical mistakes. I’ve made them in the past and the result was painful, sometimes even dangerous. It’s not funny to realize that the girl you’re dating is not exactly girlfriend material. I know how shitty that feels.
That’s why I decided to reveal:
Are you ready to start your quest?
The 5 Characteristics of a Good Girlfriend
“I want a good girlfriend!”
Calm down. I know you want her. But have you ever asked yourself who she is? Let’s face it. Most guys have a pretty superficial idea of their dream girl. It’s always the same description and honestly, it’s not very helpful.
She has to have a nice ass, big boobs and a cute smile.
This is the biggest mistake guys make. If you are looking for a relationship and you only focus on physical traits, you’ll end up disappointed. I’ve heard this story so many times.
This is the path to hell.
Choose wisely and you’ll end up in heaven…
1. She’s Proud to Be a Woman
I don’t date third-wave feminists.
And no, this doesn’t make me a misogynist. I love WOMEN. I really do. And no, I didn’t write this in all caps because I want to tweet like Trump. I want to emphasize that the girls I date are in fact women.
Is it really too much to ask for to want women who are women?
No, it’s not.
You are a Global Seducer, goddammit! You deserve feminine women who genuinely like men. You deserve a girlfriend with long hair, a feminine dress, and a caring personality.
Don’t settle for less.
2. She Enjoys Taking Care of Her Man
Speaking of her caring personality…
You want a girlfriend who takes care of you, right?
Nowadays it’s easier to find a girl who can drink like daddy, but there are still women who can cook like mommy. I can’t guarantee that you’ll find her in the USA or in Western Europe, but the world is a big place.
Make sure that she enjoys taking care of her man.
These are the girls who really care about you and you deserve nothing less.
3. She Supports Your Vision
You have a vision, right?
There must be something you’re working on. A vision doesn’t have to be a huge contribution to mankind. You don’t have to be the next Elon Musk (congratulation if you are). A simple plan for the future is enough.
No matter what it is…she has to be all in.
You are more than a man who wants to know how to find a good girlfriend. You are a man with a purpose. She can either be all in or she’s out. It’s really that simple.
Never change your plans because a woman wants it.
This is the fastest way to misery, slavery and she’ll eventually leave you because of it. A good girlfriend follows you while you follow your vision.
4. She Values Her Mind and Her Body
You are what you eat.
That’s true, at least to a certain extent. But it’s also true that you are what you consume mentally. Your body and your mind are interconnected. If you’re highly intelligent, it’s highly unlikely that you’ll watch dumb shit and eat crappy food.
Don’t you want to have a smart girlfriend?
Then stop wasting your time with girls who…
Sorry for having high standards. But you didn’t just ask me how to find a girlfriend. You asked me to find a good girlfriend. Come on. Be honest. You want a woman who’s physically healthy and mentally healthy.
So stay away from the McDonalds broads.
5. She’s Not Batshit Crazy
This one is tricky.
It might just be the most important advice I can give you. And I have to admit it. I’m biased because the women some of my friends married are…whuuuuiii. I don’t even have words for it. They are beyond batshit crazy.
She’s bipolar, punches and pushes my friend whenever she wants, and this idiot put a ring on her finger. Now she can do whatever she wants with him and his money…with full support of the government.
That’s how you mess up your life big time.
Learn from these morons and only date sane women.
Where to Find a Good Girlfriend
Now you know what makes a good girlfriend.
The question is:
Where do you find girls who are physically and mentally fit?
Well, you stay away from the most popular places to meet girls. Yep, that’s right. Most guys end up in toxic relationships and then ask me how to get over a breakup because they looked in all the wrong places.
Here’s the no-go list:
I don’t say that you can’t find girls in bars and in clubs. You can, but most of these girls are not girlfriend material. What about Tinder? Come on. Take off your rose-colored glasses. These chicks want to ride the cock carousel.
You’re better off looking somewhere else…
1. Find Her in a Park or at the Gym
Who doesn’t want an active girlfriend who loves nature?
Well, you won’t find her at McDonalds.
The park and the gym are perfect for finding a good girlfriend. I’m serious. I met amazing girls at these venues. Most girls go to the park to read a book or to work out. In other words, they are mentally and physically healthy.
What about the gym?
Physical health is obvious but there’s more to it.
Sporty girls are disciplined and take responsibility for their weight and their well-being. These are they type of girls you want to date.
2. Look for Her on Online Dating Sites
Online dating sites can be great.
The emphasis lies on “can”. They can be great but they can also be horrible. I mean, think about Tinder. Technically speaking, it’s an online dating site (in app format). But it’s not a great place to meet women who are girlfriend material.
You might be able to find your future girlfriend on a dating site in your county, but international dating makes everything so much easier.
Why do you think I call myself The Global Seducer?
3. Find Her While Shopping
Didn’t I say that beauty is irrelevant?
No, I said it shouldn’t be the only factor. You want to know how to get a good girlfriend. But she also has to be physically attractive, right? I don’t want you to need Viagra one year into the relationship. That’s what happens when you date a woman you’re not attracted to.
You’re future girlfriend is beautiful because…
Yep, you can meet hot girls in grocery stores and in shopping malls. And it’s so easy to choose the right woman. Look in her basked or shopping bag and you’ll know if she’s the kind of girl you’d like to go on a date with.
4. Volunteer in the Name of Love
One of my friends met his girlfriend while volunteering.
This was the first thought that popped up in my mind. I love to support charities and I really enjoy volunteering (no, this is not a joke). But I’ve never thought of this activity as a great way to meet women. God, it’s so obvious. I must have been blind all those years.
It’s an incredible opportunity because these are the qualities of an amazing girlfriend.
What if you won’t find your special someone?
At least you collect karma brownie points because you did something good.
5. Approach Nurses and Kindergarten Teachers
That’s what I would do.
I don’t know if I’ll ever want kids. But I do know that women who love children (and people in general) are the better girlfriends. In my experience, women who hate kids are not relationship material. They are lacking so many qualities.
I have to be honest:
When it comes to finding a good girlfriend, you can’t go wrong with nurses and kindergarten teachers. It’s definitely better than dating a ruthless lawyer or a CEO who’s married to her job. But hey, you can date whoever you want.
Don’t steal all the nurses from me. 😉
Is She a Good Girlfriend? Find Out!
Let’s imagine you meet a girl at the park.
She’s exactly your type. Her body is perfect, her smile is real, and she has an amazing personality…or at least you think so. It seems to be the case.
But you’re not sure.
Now there’s just one thing you can do:
You have to find out if she’s the kind of girl you think she is…
1. Ask Her about Her Relationship with Her Dad
What’s one of the traits of a good girlfriend?
She doesn’t have extreme daddy issues. I mean, every girl has daddy issues to a certain extent. That’s normal. However, not all of these girls hate their dads. Believe me. You want to stay away from the ones who do.
Her relationship with her dad defines her relationship with you.
I don’t have scientific evidence to back this up (let me know if there are studies), but I do know one thing: Women treat their boyfriends EXACTLY like they treat their fathers. You have to trust me on this. Do yourself a favor and stay away from women have a terrible relationship with their dads.
This rule never fails.
If she hates her dad, she grew up hating men. This makes her a hot stove plate. Touch her on your own risk.
2. Ask Her What She Would Do with One Million Dollars
Her answer matters because it reveals her character.
In Germany we have a saying:
“Give a man money and he’ll reveal his true nature.”
The same is true for women.
Ask her this simple question and you’ll know if she’s a good girlfriend or a bad girlfriend.
3. Test If She Has the Qualities of a Good Girlfriend
What is a good girlfriend?
You already know that but do you also know how to test her?
It’s about to get really mean.
But hey, it works. Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to be an actor? You’ll soon find out. You deserve your big breakthrough…right in front of your future girlfriend.
Now observe her reaction.
Her reaction will tell you if she deserves to call you her boyfriend. Maybe she’s supportive and caring. Maybe she blames you and doesn’t give a shit about your situation. The truth will come out.
How to Have a Good Girlfriend
Allow me to end this article with a few survival tips.
Let’s say you’ve met your dream girl.
You couldn’t ask for a better woman by your side. Your relationship is great and you don’t want it to end…ever. You love this woman and you want to do everything in your power to keep her.
What do you do now?
Here are some suggestions…
1. Do for Her What You Expect from Her
She’s caring, supportive, and mentally and physically healthy.
You got the full package while you…
Will this relationship last?
You already know the answer.
Of course it won’t. You can expect her to stay with a man who expects the world and gives nothing in return. Talking the talk is not enough. You have to walk the walk and lead by example.
A good relationship is about giving and taking. Always remember that.
2. Value Her But Don’t Idolize Her
You wanted to learn how to find a good girlfriend and now you have her. Yeah, she’s awesome and that’s great. I’m happy for you. But I also want you to be careful. The pedestal you’ve built for her can easily collapse and crush you.
Value and respect her, but don’t idolize her.
She doesn’t want to stand on the pedestal you’ve built for her. This damn thing is way too high. If you force her to climb up, she’ll leave you on the ground. She can’t take you with her because she wants a man who has the confidence to look into her eyes without looking up.
Are you this kind of man?
3. Be the Man She Wants and Deserves
I hope you can be this man for her because she wants and deserves…
She doesn’t want to date a needy boy who’s soul is tortured by jealousy and insecurities.
She wants a man who has the power, the strength, and the confidence of a burning Phoenix.
Be that man for her.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know how to find a good girlfriend? Then stop looking for her on Tinder, in bars and in clubs. Most girls you meet there are not exactly relationship material. It’s better to look for her in parks, at the gym, and volunteering is also not a bad idea.
What about her beauty? Of course, you want to have a hot girlfriend. That’s okay. But don’t make the mistake and only focus on her looks. You should look out for characteristics, such as empathy, a supportive nature, and a caring attitude.
How do you find out if she’s for real? Ask her the right questions. You want to know what she thinks about her dad and what she would do if she had a lot of money. Now it’s up to you if you take the necessary steps to become the man she wants and deserves.
Sebastian Harris says
I’m glad you found it helpful.
You’re awesome! Thank you,