How to Find a Girlfriend in Moscow

You want to know how to find a girlfriend in Moscow, right?

Maybe you are a lonely expat who lives in the capital city of Russia. You are sick and tired of spending the nights after a long work day alone. Your apartment on Tverskaya Street is empty, just like your bed. But you don’t want it to be empty.

You want a beautiful Russian woman who lies in it.

Maybe you are not an expat. No, you are a lonely man who dreams about traveling to Russia for an international dating adventure. You don’t just want to visit this beautiful city for three days and two one-night stands. You want to meet an amazing Moscow girl and you want to make her your girlfriend. That’s what you want.

And to be honest, it doesn’t matter if you live in Moscow for five years or if you are about to plan your first trip. As long as you believe the following two things, this article is for you.

I promise you that once you have read this article your tip to or your life in Russia will be so amazing that you don’t ever want to leave again.

Discovering the truth about dating in Moscow is only a fraction of what I’m going to share with you. I also show you why most men who are looking for a girlfriend in Moscow do it wrong and how you can do it right. I show you where you can meet your future wife and where you can spend an unforgettable first date with her.

Believe me, finding a girlfriend in Moscow can be the start of a new life…

The Truth about Dating in Moscow 

I could say that dating in Moscow is easy. And then I could sell you my ultimate Moscow travel guide for just $47.99. That’s what I could do. But that’s not what I’m going to do.

I will tell you the truth.

The Truth is that the women in the capital city have higher standards than the girls in other parts of the country.

And it’s expensive. God, dating in Moscow is so damn expensive. It’s not uncommon to pay up to $9 for a cup of coffee. Take her to an expensive dinner and you are $100 poorer. Yes, the women have high standards and the city is freaking expensive.

Yet, finding a girlfriend in Moscow is an incredible experience, at least when you know the truth about dating in Moscow.

Casual Dating is a Foreign Word in Moscow

Are you looking for a kinky one-night stand with a cute Moscow girl who jumps in bed with you after you buy her one drink?

Do you dream about sleeping with another smoking hot girl every night of the week during your trip to the capital city of Russia?

Then you are in the wrong country AND in the wrong city.

I guess you’ve heard about the hookup culture. It’s quite popular in Western countries, but it doesn’t exist in this part of the world. Russian women in general are not interested in one-night stands, the girls from the capital even less.

Casual dating is a foreign word in this city.

If the women in Moscow were looking for casual sex, they wouldn’t sing up on a bride’s agency or on one of many online dating sites. They would bang one of the local guys. But they don’t want to.

The only reason why dating Moscow girls is so rewarding is because they are not interested in casual dating. The women you meet, even when they have very high standards, want a serious relationship.

You are here because you want to know how to find a girlfriend in Moscow, right?

Good, then you are exactly what these girls are looking for.

The Girls in Moscow Know How to Shine

The women in Moscow, no matter if they are party girls or brides on a Russian dating site, know how to shine. They are more than just beautiful.

The way they walk is an expression of pure femininity. Looking at their lips when they talk is a sensual experience. Their style is out of this world. When you step on the Red Square in Moscow for the very first time, you’ll think that you are in the middle of a huge catwalk.

High heels, skirts (even when it’s cold as hell) and perfect makeup are the norm, not the exception. Seeing a Moscow girl without high heels is like seeing a German girl with high heels. It just doesn’t happen.

You will become addicted to the beauty of these girls. The more days you spend in this metropolitan city, the more you’ll dream about waking up next to a beautiful Russian bride.

But there’s a dark side of this beauty.

It’s costly to have the latest designer clothes and to use one bottle of makeup every week. Yes, your Russian bride will be out of this world beautiful, but her beauty shouldn’t lead to your bankruptcy. Keep that in mind.

She Wants to Date a Man Who Knows How to Dress for Moscow

If you want to experience how it feels to get rejected by 100 Russian women, you just have to walk around in tank tops and Bermuda shorts. When it’s winter it will be your death (literally) and when it’s summer it will also be your death (verbally).

You are lucky if she even looks at you when she rejects you. She might just walk away and pretend that you don’t exist. The women in this city are pretty good at this, at least when they talk to a guy who doesn’t know how to dress for Moscow.

I told you that these girls have higher standards than the women in other parts of the country. They dress up and they expect their men to look like a decent human being.

Why do you think they want to meet Western men?

Not because they hope to meet a guy who walks around like a Russian construction worker.

Walking around like a homeless guy with a beard like Brad Pitt in his worst days is a terrible idea. If you really want to find a girlfriend in Moscow you need to dress appropriately. You don’t need the same high heels that she’s wearing (please don’t), but a nice jacket won’t kill you.

Check out this article if you think that there’s no way that you can look better than the Cookie Monster.

The Dating Scene in Moscow is in Your Favor

High standards, expensive coffees and you can’t walk around like a hobo…

Dating in Moscow seems as impossible as destroying the Death Star.

No, it’s not.

Just like the Death Star has one weak point, there’s also one weak point, or let’s call it a gift from heaven, that makes finding a beautiful foreign girlfriend in Moscow relatively easy.

It’s called gender imbalance.

This might shock you, but the majority of the more than 11 million people who live in Moscow are beautiful women. I already discussed the gender imbalance in Russia in my article about Russian women, so I won’t discuss it again.

You can look it up. It’s true.

The reason why finding a girlfriend in Moscow is so easy, despite the traditional dating culture, is because there’s an abundance of lonely single women. Read that again. In this very moment, in Moscow, there are millions of beautiful, educated and classy women who are lonely and frustrated because they can’t find a decent man.

The dating scene in Moscow is in your favor. No matter where you go, I promise that there’s an abundance of lonely women. And still, so many guys struggle to find a girlfriend in Moscow.

Why Most Men Who Are Looking for a Girlfriend in Moscow Do it Wrong

Most men don’t get it. They don’t get how dating in Russia works and they don’t understand why they can’t find a hot girlfriend or bride in the capital of this enormous country.

But what do these guys do wrong?

Well, I would say that the number one problem of these men, and maybe you are one of them, is that they watch too many YouTube videos.

Sorry, but watching another “how to pick up girls in Russia” or “picking up girls on the streets of Moscow” video won’t help you. It will only lead to more confusion and frustration.

Don’t get me wrong. I have nothing against these picking up girls videos. There was a time when I watched thousands of them. It’s just that the ones that were filmed in Russia show you an ideal world that doesn’t exist.

The girls smile like crazy. They giggle. And oh, their English is perfect, but that’s not how it is in reality.

Finding a girl on the streets of Moscow who speaks English is extremely difficult. Unless you speak Russian, like Vitaly, I don’t recommend you to pick up girls in the streets of Moscow.

Everyone and their grandmother tries to pick up girls one the Red Square. But that doesn’t mean that it’s a good idea. There are far better ways to meet Moscow girls who…

Just look at one of the messages I received from a beautiful Moscow girl who is fluent in English.

I even received a message from a girl who is fluent in German, my mother tongue.

It would have taken me hours, if not days, to meet these women in the streets of Moscow. It took me a couple of seconds to find them on Russian Cupid, the biggest Russian online dating site on the internet.

Is the Nightlife in Moscow Good to Meet Girls?

As you can see, online dating is a great way to find a girlfriend in Moscow (more on it in a bit). But that doesn’t mean that it’s the only way that leads to the Kremlin.

There are other ways to meet beautiful Moscow girls. But none of them is as exciting as meeting women at night.

This city is famous for its nightlife and not without a reason.

However, it’s also freaking expensive. Paying $20 for a drink is normal. Expect to pay an entry fee that’s higher than what you spend in one week in Thailand. That’s the downside of the nightlife in Moscow.

What’s the upside?

You can meet thousands of beautiful blonde girls in tight dresses who want to dance, have fund, and meet a guy who sweeps them off their high heels.

The Best Clubs to Find a Girlfriend in Moscow

This city has more than 11 million inhabitants and dozens of amazing clubs.

Please excuse my mistake. There are not just dozens of clubs. There are hundreds. And because it’s impossible to list all of them here, I recommend you to check out this list of clubs in Moscow.

This is the best clubbing guide I found for guys who are looking for a girlfriend in Moscow. However, I want to devote a few lines to the two clubs that I believe are the best.

1. The Soho Rooms

Let’s start with the one club that I would visit first if I flew to Moscow tomorrow.

The Soho Rooms is one of the hottest and most exclusive night clubs in the capital of Russia. And as the name already reveals, it’s not just one room. No, this prestigious club consists of a dining room, a huge dancefloor, a bar room and a rooftop pool.

When you visit Moscow in the summer you need to check out the summer terrace with the pool. Wait till they have a pool party and enjoy dozens of hot Moscow girls in tight bikinis.

To sum it up:

If you want to feel like a celebrity and meet Russian women who look like models, you must visit the Soho Rooms.

2. SPACE

It’s a short name for such an amazing club. But don’t just take my word for it. This club was awarded Best Global Club at the international Dance Music Awards. Not just once. The SPACE club received this award in 2005, 2006, 2012 and 2013.

It’s THE club for everyone who loves electronic dance music. No matter if you are 25 or 55, you will have a great time here. And of course you will enjoy the abundance of beautiful women who visit this club in groups.

They are at the SPACE club because they want to dance and have a good time. And a lot of them are single.

It’s time to dance.

The Best Bars to Find a Girlfriend in Moscow

What if you would love to meet beautiful women in Moscow at night but you don’t want to destroy your eardrums in one of the clubs?

Then you need to check out one of the bars that this city has to offer.

I mean, let’s face it. Meeting women in bars is way easier than seducing women in clubs. It’s not so loud, she is not so drunk, and you are not so annoyed by all the people who bump into you.

If you are looking for a girlfriend in Moscow, you should check out one of the following two bars.

And who knows...

1. Gypsy

The Gypsy bar is located within the former Krasny Oktyabr confectionary factory complex. In comparison to most clubs in Moscow, the prices are reasonable and the view over the Moscow River that you have from the roof terrace is breathtaking.

But the view is not the only good thing about this place. With more than 200 disco balls and thousands of beautiful Moscow girls who visit the Gypsy to have fun and to meet interesting people, it’s the ideal place for everyone who is looking for a girlfriend in Moscow.

2. Klava Bar

The Klava bar is located in one of the oldest parts of the city, the Patriarch Ponds. On the weekend this bar is packed with girls from all over the city. This is the perfect bar for every single guy who is looking for a girlfriend in Moscow.

And even though this place is mainly a bar, there is also a small dance floor. In other words, you can approach her at the bar, get to know her, and then dance with her until the morning sun.

How to Find a Girlfriend or Wife in Moscow

Rubbing your body against stunning Russian women until the sweat drips of your balls is awesome.

But no matter how amazing the nightlife in this vibrant city is, there are easier ways to find a girlfriend in Moscow.

Got to a Speed Dating Event in Moscow

When you type “Speed Dating Moscow” into google, you’ll find many companies that offer speed dating events in the capital. Some of them are for expats who want to meet other expats. Others are for Russians and expats and I also found events that introduce Russian women to Western men.

Speed dating is fun and when you go to an event where you get introduced to beautiful Moscow girls who dream about meeting a Western man like you, your chances to succeed are even higher.

Just avoid a speed dating event that’s exclusively for expats.

You want to meet stunning Russian women, not overweight middle-aged female expats.

Ask a Moscow Dating Agency for Help

There are dozens, if not hundreds of international dating agencies in this city. They are like mushrooms in a moisty forest.

Some of these agencies feature hundreds of stunning women.

It’s definitely easier to meet a girl who is single AND looking for a foreign husband through one of these dating agencies than in a club. However, there’s one big problem.

Some of these companies are legit. They want to help foreign men to find a wife in Moscow. Others are not. There are lots of rotten apples in the basket and until I have reviewed the majority of these dating agencies, I can only say one thing:

Be careful.

Don’t pay hundreds of dollars just to send two messages and a flower bouquet that she probably never receives. Before you do that you should consider the cheaper and better option that allowed me to set up countless dates with stunning Moscow girls.

How to Meet Moscow Brides on an Online Dating Site

Do you remember the two messages I shared with you earlier?

I didn’t have to pay $20 for a cocktail and another $20 to get into a crowded club to meet them. I also didn’t have to pay $100 to send a message and another $100 for an imaginary flower bouquet.

I only did one thing and this one thing allowed me to chat with dozens of beautiful women from Moscow and to set up quite a few dates.

I joined Russian Cupid.

That’s all I did. This one action allowed me to contact hundreds of beautiful female members at the same time. This one action allowed me to meet hot and educated Moscow girls who are lonely, speak several languages and who want to meet a Western man.

Finding a girlfriend in Moscow can be so easy, especially when you…

Check out my RussianCupid Review

Where to Take Your Moscow Bride on a Date

Did you have a look at my Russian Cupid review?

Believe me, you won’t regret it.

When you are snuggling with your beautiful girlfriend in your apartment in the city center of Moscow you will remember my words.

But to make sure that the first Moscow girl you chat with online wants to meet you in real life, you need to take her on a date that she will never forget. Remember, there is no hookup culture. 

It won’t work in Moscow.

She might not even kiss you on the first date, even though she can’t wait to go on a second and a third date with you. Like I said, she’s not looking for a one-night stand. She wants a relationship. And if you are serious about finding a girlfriend in Moscow, you should take her on an exciting date.

Take Your Moscow Girl to the Theater

The capital city of Russia has many amazing theaters. The Bolshoi Theater and the Musical Theatre Aivengo are only two of them.

I know, having your first date at the theater sounds a bit strange. But just because a typical Western girl doesn’t know the difference between a movie theater and a real theater, doesn’t mean that your Russian girl is infested with the same ignorance.

Just don’t take her to the Dubrovka Theater. She won’t be able to enjoy the date when she thinks about the theater hostage crisis.

Take Your Moscow Girl to the Café Pushkin

It’s not cheap, but it’s one of the best first date spots in Moscow. Oh, and it’s not really a café. It’s actually a high class restaurant that is open 24 hours a day. The nostalgic design, the romantic atmosphere and the excellent service turn this place into a perfect date venue.

The staff speaks Russian and English, so you can ask them if your girl just ordered the most expensive item on the menu.

Take Your Moscow Girl to the City Space Bar

Imagine you sit in a romantic restaurant with an incredibly beautiful Russian woman. She has blonde hair, a slim body, and the way she looks at you with her big eyes and her lascivious lips makes you want to kiss her right here and right now.

But you have to wait with the kiss.

For now, she wants to get to know you and enjoy the view over Moscow. She wants to hear more about your life and your adventures while looking at the invigorating city lights.

Take her to the City Space Bar above the Swissotel and you will experience a first date that couldn’t be more romantic. Believe me, you will experience how fun, beautiful and exciting it can be to not just find, but to get a girlfriend in Moscow.

Summed Up Wisdom

So, you want to know how to find a girlfriend in Moscow, right? Hell, maybe you even dream about meeting your future wife. That’s great and yes, it’s possible, at least when you understand a few fundamental truths about dating in the capital of Russia.

In addition to that, you have to understand that most men who are looking for a foreign girlfriend in this city are doing it wrong. Instead of running around like a chicken without a head, you should think about how you can make meeting and dating stunning Moscow girls as easy as possible.

No matter if you dance in the exclusive Soho Rooms club or if you go to a speed dating event, your chances of finding a beautiful bride are higher than when you approach women on the street. However, online dating is still the best option. And once you met the right girl online you have to take her to the City Space Bar. She will soon be your loyal girlfriend.