Who am I to tell you how to be funny around girls?
Nope, I’m not George Carlin’s grandson. And I’m also not Louis C.K.’s son. But I make girls laugh since the year 2012. That’s when I took a bootcamp with Sasha Daygame who’s both a dating coach and a standup comedian.
And I’m German. I have humor in my blood.
Okay, that was the worst joke ever. Everyone knows that even Adam Sandler has more humor than the average German. That’s why I can proudly say: I started from the bottom now I’m here.
My biggest challenge: I had to unlearn to be so freaking German.
What about you? What’s your biggest challenge?
Let’s change that with the help of a goat…
No, seriously. Today you will discover:
I can’t promise you that you will become a professional standup comedian after reading this article, but I promise that you’ll know how to be funny around girls…
Why You Want to Be Funny Around Girls and Make them Laugh
During my bootcamp with Sasha Daygame, I always asked myself:
“How the hell does he do that?”
He could walk up to a girl, make her laugh, and five minutes later he had her number. Boom! Effortless! I, on the other hand, walked up to countless girls (with my serious German face) and got rejected left and right.
Sasha looked at me and said: “Stop being so goddamn German!”
Here’s why this was the best advice I ever received:
Great seducers know how to be funny around women. Creating a fun and playful atmosphere is the best way to make her forget about her social conditioning. You know…the voices in her head that tell her to be a good girl.
This three-step process can be all you need to get her out of her shell and out of her clothes.
The #1 Reason Why Most Guys Can’t Make a Girl Laugh
There are many fun things to talk about with a girl.
But it’s all for nothing if you behave like a dancing monkey!
There’s a huge difference between being a dancing monkey who doesn’t get laid and a funny seducer who gets laid all the time. You can say the same things and take the same actions, it doesn’t matter. Your mindset makes all the difference.
Always ask yourself THE most important question:
“Did I just say or do this to entertain her or to entertain myself?”
She wants to hear the stories and jokes that make you laugh. She wants you to have a great time and then step into “the feel good bubble” with you.
Remember these two rules:
1. Entertain yourself and she will laugh with you.
2. Entertain her and she will laugh about you.
How to Be Funny Around Girls and Make Them Like You
Do and say the things YOU consider funny.
That’s the number one rule for learning how to make a woman laugh. It took me a long time to understand this principle. I wasted so many opportunities by saying the things (I thought) she wants to hear.
Instead, I should have entertained myself.
Then I would have learned the following principles and techniques a lot sooner…
1. Your Main Goal is to Have Fun
What’s your goal when you walk up to a woman?
You want her to like you and you want her number.
You want all these things. But let’s face it. You can’t have fun if your mind is focused on the next step. Pressure kills playfulness. It’s way better to approach women with a much simpler goal.
“My main goal is to have fun.”
That’s what I tell myself when I go out to approach women.
My number one priority is to have a great time. What if she smiles? Even better! What if she laughs? That’s also great. But no matter what happens, as long as I have fun, everything is alright.
This approach will make her laugh and get you laid.
2. See Everything as an Opportunity to Laugh
Opportunities are everywhere.
If you want to know how to be funny around women, you have to open your mind, eyes and ears. Be ready to take the chances the Game Gods provide you with. Every moment, every rejection, and every awkward moment is a chance to make her laugh.
Let me give you some examples:
This is how you turn your weaknesses into strengths.
3. Introduce Yourself with a Weird Handshake
How can you make her laugh in the first couple of seconds?
Let me introduce the weird handshake to you. This is the ultimate seduction technique for guys who have been brainwashed by Hip Hop and all the countless Westside and Eastside handshakes…or for guys who like to finger girl’s hands…
Here’s what I like to do:
I walk up to a girl, give her a compliment and introduce myself. While I introduce myself, I shake her hand. Afterwards, I say something like…
“That was way too normal. Let me show you how we do it in Germany.”
Then I make up some weird handshake that makes her laugh.
Alternatively, you can say…
That’s how to be funny within the first three seconds of an interaction.
4. Give Her a Funny Nickname
You introduced yourself.
Now it’s her turn. In case she’s a girl with manners, she’ll introduce herself to you. That’s your opportunity. Look at her and come up with a cute nickname. You don’t have to call her Julia, just because he mom calls her like that.
Here are some ideas.
Giving girls a funny nickname can be a great way to make them forget about the awkwardness of the situation. And let’s face it. It’s always awkward when two strangers meet for the first time.
5. Share your Funniest Stories with Her
Storytelling is an art.
Emotional stories are good for a really deep connection. But you are here because you want to know how to be funny around girls and like you. This is not the right place for tears…only for tears of laughter.
Here are the kinds of stories you want to share:
Combine storytelling with humor and she’ll laugh and like you.
6. Tell Your Most Inappropriate Jokes
What are the funniest jokes to tell a girl?
That’s easy. Tell the most inappropriate jokes and you’re on the safe side. I know. That’s the exact opposite of what a lot of guys believe. While thousands of men crack innocent jokes because they are afraid to offend her, I do the opposite.
I crack sexual jokes and make fun of her reaction.
Here’s something you need to know:
You’ll stare at shocked faces. But you need to know that women only pretend to be shocked and offended by these jokes. Deep down they love it. They just want to maintain their “I’m a good girl” image.
Tease her for her reaction and she’ll show you her real reaction.
7. Apologize for Being Such a Naughty Boy
That’s one of the earliest lessons every aspiring seducer has to learn. She rejects you? Don’t apologize for showing your interest. She doesn’t want to kiss you? Don’t apologize for trying.
Apologizing is weak…but only if you’re serious.
Here’s how I use apologies to make girls laugh and like me:
- 1I give her a direct compliment.
- 2I wait for her reaction.
- 3I apologize.
What do I mean with “a direct compliment”?
Well, something sexual. “Your ass looks amazing.” That’s a good one. Now wait for her reaction. She might say “excuse me!” or something similar. You hold your frame and use your apology to make fun of her reaction.
Here’s an example:
“Oh my God, I’m sooo sorry. I’m so naughty. It’s my mom’s fault. She told me to always be honest.”
She’ll laugh…and think about all the naughty things you could do.
8. Use Self-Depreciating Humor (The Right Way)
Self-depreciating humor is a tricky topic.
It works, but only if you do it right. Unfortunately, most guys do it wrong. They choose one of their negative qualities (their weight, their laziness), make fun of it, and wonder why she doesn’t get turned on. Well, that’s not how it works.
Here’s the number one rule:
Don’t make her conscious of your negative qualities!
Instead, make fun of your positive qualities. This kills two birds with one stone. You make her laugh with self-depreciating humor and you make her conscious of your positive qualities. That’s what I call win-win.
Let me give you an example:
"I'm really driven and kind of a workaholic. Unfortunately, my shoulders are so tense that you can stick a fork in it. I'm always in pain."
She might offer you a back massage.
Positive qualities are what make self-depreciating humor effective.
9. Sell the Worst Joke on Earth as the Best Joke in History
Do you want to know some funny jokes to tell a girl you like?
Sorry, I don’t have any.
Here’s the thing about funny jokes:
Yep, that’s right. Think about the worst jokes you know.
Here’s how you can use it:
Ask her if she’s ready for a joke. Next, you build up the tension by calling it the best joke in the world. Let her know that she’ll rofl and lol her heart out. Sell it as this big thing. Then you tell the joke…and it’s really bad.
This releases tension and she’ll laugh. It works every time.
10. Choose Funny Topics to Talk About
Don’t talk about the war in the Middle East.
Is that really too much to ask for?
Don’t laugh. I used to be a serious German and as a good serious German, I had the terrible habit of talking about the news on dates. I thought I had an engaging conversation while she wanted to run away from the political argument.
She’s on a date because she wants to have fun!
Choose topics that are more fun than war, natural disasters and economic crisis:
Talk about the topics you laugh about. Everything is funnier than the news.
11. Prepare a few Funny One-Liners
It’s always good to be prepared.
I already told you that I’m not a big fan of preparing amazing jokes. However, I believe in preparing a few funny lines you can say to a girl. Telling a joke is this big thing that can flop easily. Having a few one-liners allows you to react to every situation.
Allow me to share some of the lines I use:
- She smiles when you approach her: “Your teeth just made my day.”
- She shows interest in you: “You’ll be my future ex-wife. I feel it.”
- She gives you her number: “Now I have to insure my phone.”
- She hugs you: “Oh, that feels so good, please don’t stop.”
I’m sure you can come up with your own funny lines.
12. Tease Her in a Playful Way
One word of warning:
Teasing and negging are not the same…at least in my world.
Teasing has the purpose to make fun of a girl in a playful way. Negging has the purpose to insult her in a playful way. There’s a fine line between making fun of someone and insulting someone. Don’t cross it.
I would define teasing as making funny comments on the situation.
Here are some situations and ideas:
- She wears glasses: “You are the cutest Harry Potter on the planet.”
- She is upset: “You’re head is on fire. You need a cool drink.”
- She acts arrogant: “Stop being such a spoiled little brat”
- She tests you: “I’ve won against way bigger enemies.”
- She shares her opinion: “We can’t be friends anymore.”
- She shares a story: “Are you trying to impress me?”
- She is rude: “Don’t make me spank you, little girl.”
Have fun teasing her!
13. Use Your Body to Make Her Laugh
Use the power of body language.
Whenever guys ask me how to be funny around girls and how to make them laugh, they only focus on the words. But that’s a mistake. Your body is a powerful weapon. Use it.
There are a gazillion ways to do it:
Nobody’s better at this than Jim Carrey…
Okay, nowadays he’s more about being conscious, not existing, and saying the truth about fashion events, but I’m sure you find one of his old standup stuff on YouTube.
14. Talk with Funny Accents
That’s politically incorrect nowadays, right?
Ah, nobody cares. Women love funny accents, even in today’s politically correct culture. But if I make an example with a Chinese accent, I’ll get labeled as a homophobic racist. That’s why I make fun of my own culture.
I mastered the art of making fun of Germans:
That’s all you have to do to make women laugh with a German accent. If you don’t believe me, watch this extremely realistic video…
Of course, we Germans are not the only nation who is perfect for this technique. Chinese, French, and Australian accents are also great.
But that’s just my personal opinion.
15. Surprise Her with Crazy Moments
Here are more funny things to make a girl laugh:
You’ll laugh but I have to share this with you:
I’m aware that this sounds like the dumbest idea ever, but it works. I’ve done it so many times. When I’m on a date with a girl and she orders a cake with cream or a hot chocolate with cream, I take a bit on my finger. Then I put it on her hand and kiss her hand.
She looks at me with this “what the hell?” face, but she smiles.
I say: “I needed an excuse to kiss you.”
It sounds absolutely ridiculous, but it works like charm.
Are you still not weirded out by me?
Then you have to check out my book Rise of the Phoenix.
Summed Up Wisdom
Here’s how to be funny around girls: Entertain yourself and not her. Do and say the things you consider funny. And yes, it’s totally fine to prepare a few one-lines. Just leave out the good jokes. The bad ones work best.
You can even use your body to make her laugh. And don’t forget to tease her. She has been a naughty girl. What about you? You’ve been a naughty boy too and you apologize for it…but not in a serious way.
If you want to be as crazy as me, you can put cream on her hand and kiss it. Alternatively, you can share funny stories, choose the right topics and use self-depreciating humor…the right way.
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