Have you ever wondered how to be a seductive man?
I’m sure you have. I mean, you’re here because you want to become a Global Seducer. You want to have the power and the skills to approach, attract, and date incredibly beautiful women. If that’s not the case, you can leave this site.
Of course, I don’t want you to leave this site because I love you (no homo). And I want you to succeed in the land of women. But I don’t want to help men who refuse to work on themselves. I need my energy for all the amazing guys who want to improve and become unstoppable.
Are you one of them?
Then you’ll be happy to hear that you’re about to discover…
Are you ready to unleash your full potential?
Follow in my footsteps and discover what it takes to be a truly seductive man…
How to Be a Seductive Man: My Transformation
I haven’t always been the person I am today.
There was a time when I didn’t have any seduction skills. I had no clue what to do. I didn’t even know what it means to be a seductive man. Heck, the only mentor I had was my dad. And he’s married to my mom for more than hundred years…at least it feels like it.
I had to embark on my own journey.
Eventually, that’s what I did. I looked for mentors and I found them. I looked for ways to improve myself and eventually, I figured it out. The pain, the struggle, the rejections…in the end it was all worth it because it made me who I am today.
This journey turned me into the Global Seducer.
Are you ready for your transformation?
Then allow me to open your head and to rearrange the wires in your brain…
1. Seduce Women in Your Mind
Here’s how to be a seductive man:
Imagine being one.
Yes, I know. It sounds completely nuts. But it works. You have to trust me on this. If visualization works for entrepreneurs, there’s no reason why it shouldn’t work for seducers. I stumbled upon this secret by accident…or let’s say out of desperation.
One night (after I had cried my eyes out) I closed my eyes…
Isn’t that mental masturbation?
Well, yeah…especially the part with the kissing and undressing. I can’t even remember if this mental exercise inspired me to cuff the carrot. All I can remember is that I felt more confident afterwards. It inspired me to keep going, despite the pain.
If you can see it, you can be it.
Having the mindset of a seducer eventually allowed me to become one.
2. Overcome Your Hate and Learn to Love Women
Let me ask you an uncomfortable question:
Do you hate women?
Be honest. A lot of men do. Look, I get it. You’ve been rejected countless times. You went on so many dates and not once did you make it to third base. That’s frustrating. You are sick and tired of losing. And you don’t want to be a loser.
That’s why you blame women.
A lot of men take this path because it’s the easy way out. But it doesn’t help you to become a seductive man. Just think about it. No woman wants to be seduced by a man who hates her. You also don’t want to date a woman who despises men.
Loving women is the only way to becoming a seductive man.
Once you truly love women, they will respond to you in a loving way.
3. Embrace Your Masculinity
“Sebastian, do I have to become one of those whiny male feminists?”
The answer is no, you don’t.
I said “once you truly love women”. I didn’t say “once you pretend to love women.” Those guys don’t love women. They submit to them because they are afraid of them. That’s not love. That’s fear…and it’s pathetic.
I want you to embrace your masculinity.
Heck, forget about what I want. Think about what women want. They want you to embrace your masculinity. They don’t want to date a wishy washy man. They hate harmless domesticated men. That’s the opposite of a desirable man. Women want masculine men.
Embracing your masculinity brings you one step closer to an incredible life as an incredibly successful seducer.
4. Use Seductive Language
Being a seductive man is about more than being masculine.
Yes, you behave differently than Joe Average. But you also talk in a different way. You use words most men would never use. The way you speak is filled with color and descriptive storytelling. You don’t just talk. You seduce her with language.
Here are some examples:
Excitement, adventure, fun, playfulness, unpredictable, passionate…these are the words a seducer uses. Women love to listen to these men. They are thrilled to hear their stories and to escape in their fantasies. They love them as much as they love their words.
Use seductive language and she’ll be yours.
5. Dress Like a Seductive Man Would Dress
Here’s how to be a seductive man:
I can tell that you didn’t believe a word I just said. Why? You instinctively know that it’s bullshit. You know that this is not what a seducer looks like. Nevertheless, you might wear baggy pants and oversized shirts. Well, let me ask you a question.
Why do you walk around like someone you don’t want to be?
Many of my coaching clients make this mistake. They book a coaching with me because they want to become seducers. Then they show up with the infamous Adam Sandler style. Sorry, but that’s not the kind of guy they want to become.
Here’s the solution to this problem:
Dress like a seductive man and you will feel like one. Eventually, you’ll become on.
That’s why I love my tailor-made shirts.
6. Practice Until You Have a Seductive Body Language
God gave us mirrors. So use them.
Okay, it wasn’t God. It was Justus von Liebig. You see, Germans are not only good at showing you how to be a seductive man. They’re also good at inventing shit. But anyway, use your mirror to correct your body language.
Look at yourself in the mirror and take the following steps:
Women don’t want to date men who bend like a reed in the wind. They want to date trees. They also don’t want to waste their time, energy, and their body on a guy with the posture of a sack of potatoes. They want a real man with the body language of a man.
As a seductive man, you take big steps, stand like a tree, and walk in a room with confidence.
7. Use the Power of the Perfect Moment
Some moments are better than others.
Sometimes the Game Gods are on your side. That’s when they create these magical moments for you. In these moments everything feels right. She’s in the right mood, the band plays the most romantic song on earth, and the food tastes delicious.
Here’s how to be a seductive man and use these moments:
“What look?” you’re asking.
If she has this look in her eyes, she’s ready to talk about emotional stuff. That’s when you can pull out the big guns. Tell her that you like her and that you enjoy spending time with her. She’ll snuggle up to you like a cat that needs love because…
It’s the perfect moment.
In other words, don’t go in for the kiss while she’s looking at a pile of dog shit. Wait until the Game Gods provide you with a better moment. But don’t wait too long. A seductive man knows that taking action is the only path to success.
8. Create Seductive Situations for Women
What if the Game Gods are cruel?
Maybe you’ve been a naughty boy and the Game Gods teamed up with Santa Claus. Now they want to punish you. That’s why they don’t create the perfect moment. All you see are piles of dog shit that make it almost impossible to seduce her.
Well, I said it’s ALMOST impossible.
You don’t have to be at the mercy of chance. You have the power to create those moments. Don’t allow the piles of dog shit to sabotage your seduction success. Go somewhere where there is no dog shit. Your place is an option…unless you have a dog.
Men who know how to be seductive men are also creators:
Dimmed light, candles, and a romantic playlist are your best friends.
9. Seduce Life Like You Seduce Girls
Do you live your life to the fullest?
I know. It sounds like a stupid cliché. But I ask you anyway because most men don’t. They live a life of quiet desperation. And don’t get me wrong. By living your life to the fullest I don’t mean that you run after every short-term pleasure.
Taking drugs is fun for one day. On day two you’re fucked.
Here’s what I mean:
Unfortunately, a lot of men don’t. They are stuck in jobs they hate. They have to hang out with and talk to coworkers they despise. And they don’t have any hobbies because, well, time is money. They are too busy to enjoy their life.
They don’t live their life. Their life lives them.
That’s a big mistake because women want men who are alive and who feel alive. A man who’s already dead inside doesn’t have what it takes to make her feel alive. And women want to feel alive. Seductive men seduce life. That’s why women want to be a part of their life.
10. Enjoy the Process of Seducing Women
The player has to love the game.
Why do you think Stephen Curry plays basketball and not Cricket?
Well, first of all because he’s not Indian. Jesus! That was a terrible joke. Of course, the real reason is because he loves basketball. That’s why he plays it every day. That’s why he practices harder than everyone else.
I would love to say the same about you.
If not, you might not enjoy the process. A lot of guys have this problem. They want the reward. All they can think of is the naked girl in their bed. I get it. But unless you pay a hooker to sleep with you, you need to approach women and go on dates.
Truly seductive men enjoy the process.
They enjoy the preparation as much as the lay. They enjoy the hunt as much as the dreamy minutes after sex. I’m one of these men. I fell in love with the process and that’s why I became successful with women. I enjoy every second of it.
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Summed Up Wisdom
It took me years to learn how to become a seductive man. But if I can do it, you can do it too. Actually, it’s pretty easy. You just have to seduce women in your mind. Yes, I want you to imagine naughty scenarios. Come on. It’s fun and it helps you to improve.
But it doesn’t help if you still hate women. You need to learn to love women. For some men that’s harder than for others. It’s a lot easier to throw away your oversized shirts and to look like a seducer. But yeah, that’s as important as embracing your masculinity.
What about your body language? Practice in front of a mirror. Don’t give up. And don’t quit just because the Game Gods don’t provide you with the perfect moment. You can create these moments and situations. Be the captain of your own life and enjoy the process.
Sebastian Harris says
everyone wants something different. And that’s okay. Sometimes I have the desire to have more than one woman in my life. At another point I might be in a monogamous relationship again. It depends on your preferences.
John Marshall+ says
Why Sebastian do many men keep wanting to seduce many women? What is the point. A man that finds a woman that he loves & who loves him in return has no need to carry on looking. When you have sex with a partner who loves you it is very different in all aspects. I have no interest in any other women.
When I found the one. Being interested in any other women stops. Try to explain this feeling to young men will be hard.