You want to know how to attract women without talking.
Why on earth do you want that?
Maybe it’s because…
Let me tell you something:
It’s not that hard to get the attention of women. You don’t need to say anything. Most guys obsess over which opener to use and what to say in the first seconds of an interaction.
Here’s the truth:
Non-verbal communication is way more important.
Most guys never think about that. You are one of the few who does. This makes you special and it’s an honor for me to show you how powerful and how effective non-verbal seduction techniques really are. Pick up lines are only the tip of the iceberg.
Today you’ll learn who most guys will never understand:
After reading this article you’ll know how to attract women without saying a single word…
15 Ways to Attract a Woman Without Speaking to Her
I didn’t get it.
Whenever some pick up guru or dating coach talked about attracting women without talking, I reacted with disbelief. “Yeah right….” I said to myself. I didn’t believe it. I couldn’t believe it because it seemed impossible to me.
Here’s all I knew about attraction:
That was my strategy. I was completely unaware of my body language, my style, and the way I walked. I was like many aspiring seducers. The words...I wanted the magic words. It took me a long time to realize that the words don’t create the magic.
The truth is that the magic lies in what you don’t say…
1. Go to the Girls Who are Attracted to You
You want to know how to attract women without talking, right?
Then you need to go to the right places.
I bet you didn’t expect this advice. Well, this might be the most important tip of all. You can’t attract women if you try to impress the wrong girls. Finding your target audience makes everything so much easier.
Take my book Rise of the Phoenix as an example.
I’m super proud of this book. The feedback I got from guys like you is exception. It changes lives and that’s great. But what if I would try to sell it to male feminists? They would hate it and call me a sexist jerk…and probably burn my house down.
The same is true for attracting women:
Find your target group.
These are the girls you’ll naturally attract…without saying a word.
2. Dress Like an Alpha Man
I hate the term alpha man.
Too many guys believe that being alpha means having no emotions and walking around like a freaking cyborg. But that’s not what it means. Being alpha means having a high position in the social dominance hierarchy. That’s what you want.
Here’s how to communicate your high position:
I know. We live in a day and age where sneakers are the new status symbol. That’s fine and dandy but my experience paints a different picture. Women are attracted to men in elegant shoes.
Call me old-fashioned or try it. It’s up to you.
3. Smell Better than Your Competition
This is very basic advice but it works.
You have to smell good to attract women because they can smell what you can’t smell. Yep, the ladies have a heightened sense of smell, especially when they are fertile. So unless you want to date a dry 55-year-old cougar…take hygiene seriously.
Here are some tips:
Oh, and don’t forget your fingernails. It sounds so stupid but EVERY woman looks at your fingernails. You might not realize it, but she does. She knows that your fingernails will (sooner or later) touch her pussy. And she doesn’t want to die.
Keep them shot and clean.
4. Impress Her with Your Confident Walk
“How can I impress a girl without talking to her?”
I’m sure you’ve asked yourself this question. Did you know that your legs are the answer? I don’t care if you have muscular legs or skinny legs like me…you can walk with confidence. This is the easiest way to get noticed by every woman in the room.
And yes, women look at the way you walk. That’s the first thing I correct in my one-on-one coaching. If your walk screams “I’m insecure”, women will reject you straight away. So many guys walk up to girls like a wet sponge.
Even if you don’t like him:
Walk like Vladimir Putin and you’ll attract women with ease.
5. Have an Open Body Language
An open body language helps to get a girl to notice you without talking.
In fact, it does so much more. Having an open body language motivates women to chase you. It communicates “I’m open to meet someone” and “I’m fun to be around”. That’s exactly what all the frustrated single ladies are looking for.
Here’s how NOT to do it:
Instead, follow this simple advice:
Okay, sitting in a way that exposes your body doesn’t sound like good advice. I mean, you could get attacked by a tiger or a hedgehog. Don’t worry. You’ll be fine. And she’ll be attracted to you.
Open up and you’ll be able to open her.
6. Surround Yourself with Female Friends
I have good news for you:
You can attract women without talking AND without doing anything. Yes, that’s right. You don’t have to smile, look at her, or fart. You can sit back, relax, and enjoy the show.
Here’s the bad news:
You need at least one female friend.
I know. Putting yourself in the friend zone sounds like one of the dumbest ideas ever. That’s why most pickup artists avoid having female friends. But that’s naïve, and short-sighted.
What if I told you that your female friends can get you laid?
It pays to have vagina support.
7. Attract Her with Your Calm and Confident Energy
Let’s get woo woo hippie bum bum…
Calm down. It’s not that bad. I won’t torture you with a lecture about the importance of energy flow and the effect it has on the female mind. Oh, well…that’s exactly what I’m going to do. And it will be as painful as it sounds.
Here’s what you need to know:
Here’s what most guys don’t understand:
Hate women and they will hate you.
You also wouldn’t want to date a man-hating feminist. You’d sense that something smells fishy…and I’m not talking about her private parts. Really feel your energy before you go out and before you interact with women.
Mediate, listen to music, visualize…
Do whatever it takes to change your negative energy into a calm, confident, and attractive energy.
8. Show Your Interest with a Cheeky Smile
Forget about pictures. A smile says more than thousand words.
But seriously, your teeth can do more than chewing food and getting yellow. They have the power to attract a girl without saying a word. There’s just one problem. A lot of guys don’t use them for various reasons.
Forget about all these things!
Yes, there has been a study that came to the conclusion that pictures of serious guys are more attractive than pictures of men who smile. But there are also studies that prove the opposite. And don’t forget to look at the context.
Walking up to a girl without a smile on your face is a terrible idea.
She’ll think you’re either insane, dangerous or both…no matter how good you look when you don’t show your teeth.
9. Attract Her with Your Eyes
Prolonged eye contact is THE seduction technique.
Yes, I really believe that the ability to look girls in the eyes is that crucial. It sounds so simple, but most guys do it wrong. They look for a millisecond. Then they look away. That’s not how it’s done.
Here’s what you need to do:
Oh, and allow your thoughts to run wild. Don’t look at her thinking “I could play scrabble with her.” Look at her thinking “I want to kiss those sweet red lips”. Remember what I said earlier. Women can sense where you’re coming from.
They are attracted to men who make them feel what they want.
Your eyes have this power.
10. Speak with Your Hands and Face
Your gesture can speak louder than thunder.
That’s the power of your gesture…
Okay, skip the coffee and concentrate on attracting girls. Just think about it. You’re at a club and you see this beautiful girl. You smile at her and she smiles back. Now you can use your fingers to invite her to come over.
Let me give you another example:
Now you’re really ordering a coffee. You’re standing in line and you see this cute girl. You can use your gesture to communicate that you’re bored in line and that it takes forever. She’ll smile and now you can walk up to her.
Or you can make a funny face…
11. Make Her Laugh from a Distance
Humor is an attractive quality.
You can share funny stories, tell jokes, and make her laugh by changing your voice. That’s possible. But you are here because you want to know how to attract women without talking. You need a different strategy.
Here’s my secret tip:
Start the conversation with a funny face.
You can do this in all kinds of different situations:
Do it whenever there’s a distance between you and the girl you want to attract. It’s so simple. You just have to hold eye contact, smile, and then make a funny face. All the other guys try to act cool and alpha, but you make her laugh.
Now you can walk over and introduce yourself.
12. Shake Her Hand Like a Seducer
She’s not your friend.
So don’t shake her hand as if she was your friend. And let me guess. She’s also not your business partner. A firm handshake helps to close a sales deal but it isn’t helpful for the number close. Come on. You’re a Global Seducer.
Here’s how you shake the hand of a lady:
Treat her hand like a precious flower.
Be rough in the bedroom, but soft with the handshake. That’s how women want it.
13. Lean in to Increase the Tension
It’s time to get closer.
You made her laugh from the distance and you shook her hand like a seducer. She’s already attracted to you. She wants to get closer. But she’s shy. As a woman, she doesn’t want to be the one who makes the first move.
She wants you to take action.
What will you do?
If you’re smart (which you are), you’ll lean in. Let her know that you want her. Come closer and smell her hair. Feel her breath on your skin. That’s how close she wants you to be. Increase the sexual tension with your presence.
That’s how to attract women without talking.
14. Explore Her Body with Your Hands
Let’s talk about touching.
You need to do it. That’s the short answer. You can neither attract nor seduce a woman without touching her. However, you have to keep in mind that touching girls is a process and not a one-time action.
You don’t do it once and that’s it.
You increase the tension with each touch:
Explore her body step by step. That’s what she wants.
15. Lead Her Physically Instead of Verbally
Leading a woman verbally is easy.
You just have to say “come on, let’s go to the Italian place” and she’ll follow you…unless she’s allergic to pasta. But you want to know how to attract the ladies without talking. Well, you have to do it in a non-verbal way.
Here’s what I usually do:
These are the different ways I lead a woman physically.
Summed Up Wisdom
How do you attract women without talking? Well, you shut your mouth. But that’s not all. It starts with choosing the right venue. Go to places where women are attracted to you. Show up with a suit and a good smell and you’ve already won.
Walk like an alpha and look at her like a hungry wolf. Your cheeky smile and your direct eye contact should communicate what you want. You want her and she wants you too because, well, you’re the only guy who made her laugh from a distance.
But that’s not all. At one point you have to lean in. Getting closer is that important…and pretty easy after a seductive handshake. Now you just have to lead her in the direction you want her to go.