Do you dream about having crazy adventures with sexy milfs?
Do you want to know how to attract older women, so that you can make your fantasies come true?
Even though I have never been in a long-term relationship with a mature and experienced woman, I have had an incredible sexual adventure with a woman who was more than 10 years older than me.
I honestly have to say that I have never had sex with a girl who already had her menopause. I have also never been in bed with a woman who had grey hair and whose boobs hung down to her knees. Somehow I am proud of that fact.
The oldest woman I had sex with was 36 years old. Here you can read the whole story about how I met her and how I had sex with her under the shower in a hotel room in Bangkok. For you 36 might not be very old but for a guy who just passed the age of 20 and who looks like 16 this is quite an achievement.
No matter if you are in your early twenties and you fantasize about getting taught by a woman over thirty, or if you are over thirty and you want to know how it is to have sex witha woman without worrying about birth control…
… I will show you exactly what you have to do if you want to attract and seduce older women.
I am going to share the only reason with you, why older women want you and besides telling you the exact steps that you have to follow to get them into bed, I’ll also tell you which two types of older women are the easiest to seduce.
And because I neither want you to pay for the rest of your life, nor to miss out on crazy sexual adventures with experiences women, I am also going to share the mistakes that you should avoid at all cost once you know how to attract older women.
The Top 3 Mistakes Young Guys Make With Older Women
Do you know what I don’t want to hear after you have read this article?
I don’t want to hear the following three sentences from you:
“That’s all bullshit. Older women will NEVER be attracted to me!”
“I took her to the Opera, why didn’t she suck my dick in the restroom?”
“Great. Now she is pregnant and my life is fucked up! Thanks man!”
Promise me that you will never ever say one of those three things.
Unfortunately, I see myself forced to talk about three mistakes that way too many men make when they date older women. I really don’t want you to become disappointed, because you weren’t able to seduce her, or because you weren’t able to withstand her skills to shackle you.
Let’s have a look at the top three things that you absolutely must avoid when you want to successfully seduce and bang sexy cougars without risking your freedom.
They Don’t Even Try
What do most guys who want to learn how to attract older women do in order to achieve this goal?
They do nothing.
Okay, I have to admit that there are some guys who don’t do it because they are afraid to talk to women in general, no matter if they are 18 or 80 (how gross!). If you are one of those guys you have to become confident around women and learn to attract them.
However, even the majority of guys who have all the knowledge and skills to seduce a sexy 18 year old girl are too afraid to hunt for the older fishes.
Because learning how to attract older women is not even in their reality.
Most men who I have talked to about this delicate and wrinkled topic don’t even think that it is possible to seduce women over a certain age when you are a young guy. I was one of those guys.
I still remember how I told Sasha Daygame during my bootcamp in Oslo that one of my biggest sticking points is that I don’t believe that it is possible for me to seduce women who are older than me. Heck, back then I was even convinced that I couldn’t attract women who had the same age as me. Remember, I look like a freaking teenager.
After I got the number of a smoking hot thirty-something teacher, my limiting belief was gone forever.
Don’t believe that something is impossible, without even trying it. Once you have approached at least twenty women who are in the same age as your mother, you will know how easy it is to get their phone numbers, even if they might be too old to have smartphones.
They Act Completely Weird
What’s another popular mistake that men make who want to learn how to attract older women?
They act completely weird.
When I was on my first date with a woman who was a decade older than me I acted like a complete idiot.
I tried to behave like a mixture of a well-behaved British gentleman and an educated professor from Harvard. For a twenty year old guy who didn’t even have a college degree that was the most inauthentic behavior that you can imagine. No wonder that there was no second date.
I will talk about how you should and how you shouldn’t act around older women later. For now you should understand that being the authentic young and maybe even inexperienced guy is way more attractive than pretending to be an old fart that you are obviously not.
They Settle Down
What’s the biggest mistake you can make once you have learned how to attract older women?
No matter how hot the naughty old woman is that you end up in bed with, don’t even think about settling down with her!
Unless you are 100% sure that she is the love of your life, you shouldn’t end up in a relationship with her. I know that there are some exceptions to the rule but most relationships in which the woman is a lot older will end up in a complete misery. Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore are not the only example.
Even if you are ONLY into older women those relationships are tough to maintain, but if you are usually into young women and you settle down with her anyway, the relationship is doomed to fail.
But why should you even think about settling down with her?
Well, maybe you made the biggest mistake of all and you banged a hot 35 year old woman without a condom!
Whenever you seduce a woman who is between the age of 30 and 40 you HAVE to keep in mind that her biological clock is ticking louder and louder with every year.
Learning how to attract older women is great and the sex you have with such an experienced lady can be mind-blowing, but remember that she might regards you as her last chance to have kids.
The good news is that you can consider yourself fortunate that it is highly unlikely that she regards you as marriage material. Usually, an older woman has only one reason why she decides to give you her number and a blowjob.
The Only Reason Why Old Women Want Young Guys
Why is the negative belief that older women won’t ever date you guys completely wrong?
Why are some older women totally attracted to you?
Well, it’s not because they regard you as their potential husband, at least not when you are intelligent enough to not put a baby in their belly.
Even though I told you that this shit can actually happen, the majority of mature women don’t regard you as their potential husband. A woman who looks for a provider usually looks for a guy with a lot of life-experience and especially with a lot of money to provide for her and her potential babies.
Unless a woman whose biological clock ticks louder than your alarm clock suffers from loss of reality, she won’t choose a young, adventurous and most likely irresponsible guy as the father of her child. The majority of sexy old ladies want something else from you.
They want your dick!
Besides some rare and extremely unlucky exceptions there is only one reason why a woman chooses a young guy over an older guy. Young guys are strong, persistent, adventurous and at their sexual peak. Ending up in bed with guys like us promises great sexual adventures with a man who has the endurance to please her multiple times a night.
I am sorry to say that, but she doesn’t want you heart. The only thing that she wants is your penis and the physically fit body around it. For her you are nothing but a sexual object. You are her boy toy. Fucking enjoy it!
The Two Types of Older Women You Should Go For
When you want to know how to attract older women, you should also think about the type of women that you want to end up in bed with. I already told you that the worst decision that you can make is to end up in bed with a hot 35 year old woman who desperately wants children.
Unless you bring your own condoms and make sure that all your potential babies end up in the sink, before you throw the condom away, this can easily go wrong. It is quite scary but I have heard from women who even tried to get pregnant with used condoms.
Instead of wasting your time, your money and especially your sperm on women who want to transform you from a life-affirming Global Seducer into a trapped and suicidal father, you should concentrate on two types of milfs that will rock your world.
I read it over and over again that men should avoid career women like the plague. Well, I also think that it is not very intelligent to plan to have a family with a woman who works 60 hours a week and who has neither traditional family values, nor mother instincts, but for sexual adventure those women are actually perfect.
Career women might be the worst wives and mothers, but they have the potential to be the best lovers.
Do you know what a career woman who has to lead, to command and to work hard all day wants when she comes home?
She wants to have someone who gives her the feeling that she is a desirable woman. She wants someone who doesn’t regard her as just another man in a suit. Give her this feeling by seducing her like a woman wants to be seduced.
Oh, and she is probably tense, stressed and maybe even aggressive when she comes home after a hard day of work. Those feelings must be released and the best way to help her with that is by fucking the shit out of her.
A woman who has to be dominant in her career, which goes completely against her nature, wants to live out her female side by being your submissive slut once she is in your bed.
Besides focusing on career women who don’t even think about getting married, you should also lay an eye on women who already have been married. The last thing a newly divorced woman wants is to end up in the same shitty situation in which she was trapped in for years.
The likelihood that those women want to end up in a relationship with you, or even marry you, is basically nonexistent. All they want is sex and they want a lot of it.
There are reasons why those women got divorced and chances are high that a miserable sex life was one of them.
All that those desperate women whose ex-husbands ended up dating younger girls want is a man who shows them that they are still attractive, desirable and sexy.
How to Attract Older Women
Now you know the three mistakes that you have to avoid at all cost once you know how to attract older women and you also know WHY those old ladies love you and WHICH of those wrinkled grandmothers you should focus on.
You are more than prepared to go to war and to seduce all the beautiful cougars that you always dreamed of.
The only thing you need now is a step by step guide that helps you to attract the women that you want to end up banging, while you are avoiding the ones that are pure poison.
What do you have to do to attract and to seduce beautiful women who are decades older than you?
Let’s have a look at what you need to do from the moment you meet her until the moment you dispose of the full condom.
Dress Like a Man, Not Like a Boy
A man who wants to know how to attract older women should be willing to dress like a man and not like a body. You don’t have to exaggerate it by wearing beige pants and checkered shirts (remember the acting weird thing), but you also shouldn’t look like a teenager on a school trip.
Believe it or not but the majority of old women aren’t attracted to boys with trucker caps.
Wearing a blazer and elegant shoes is never wrong if you want to attract women who reached a certain age. Make sure that you look handsome for her.
On the one hand, the mature lady you seduce will be more attracted to you if you look like a real man instead of a young boy and on the other hand, she will enjoy it to not get stared at for dating a guy who walks around like the twelve year old version of Lil Wayne.
Don’t Even Mention Your Age
If there is one thing that you shouldn’t do when you approach an older woman, then it is to mention the age gap during the approach. Don’t make it awkward, before you even shake her hand. It is embarrassing to admit it, but I used to approach sexy mature ladies with the following line:
“Excuse me. I know that I am a lot younger than you, but I have to tell you that you look absolutely amazing!”
I used this approach until I finally realized that the over 20 rejections that I got from my last 20 approaches were directly correlated to this line.
The only thing that I achieved with it was that every woman instantly asked me how old I was.
Be Honest if She Asks
What if she asks you how old you are?
Tell her the truth.
Unless you are twenty and you look like forty, in which case I am really sorry for you, lying is completely pointless. Unless you approach an old woman with a guide dog, she will know that you could be her son. If you pretend to be older than you are, you only make yourself ridiculous.
Besides not getting busted as a liar, telling her the truth has another benefit. By confidently telling her your real age, you show that you regard it as something completely normal that you are attracted to her. If you regard it as normal, she’ll regard it as normal.
Let Her Know That You are Attracted to Older Women
How to attract older women?
Address the elephant in the room.
The older a woman gets, the more insecure she is about her effect on men. I know that leading feminists would say that women get more confident when they get more mature, but this is absolutely not true.
Every woman knows that men tend to prefer young, juvenile and fertile women over women who already have their best years behind them.
Even though she might not be confident enough to ask you directly, she for sure wants to know why you choose her and not one of the young girls in your age. Tell her why you want her in bed and not any other girl.
Let her know that you are into older women, because you want to spend your time with women with a lot of life experience, instead of wasting it with girls who only think about partying and the latest celebrity gossip.
Just don’t tell her that you recently dreamed about banging a hot milf and that you want to try it out. That could backfire.
Don’t Make Her Think
How do you act around an attractive middle-aged woman who you want to end up in bed with?
Don’t ever make her think. Think about what? About the fact that you could be her son and that fucking your own son is not very ladylike.
Avoid all topics that make your pretty obvious age difference look inappropriate.
What if you want to make a joke about how funny it is that she is twice as old as you and that she could be your mother? Just don’t do it, unless you are 100% sure that she is completely confident with the age difference.
The less you make her think about how weird it might be to fuck you, the more likely it is that she will end up fucking you.
Should You Act Mature?
How to attract older women? Act mature!
That’s what I have read over and over again when I did my research for this article. All around the web people are claiming that the best thing you can do to attract women who are much older than you, is to act mature.
Sounds reasonable, but wait a minute.
Why would a woman end up in bed with a young guy who acts mature, when she could have a real mature guy?
Why would a mature woman want to date a boring, predictable and mature guy, when the only thing she wants is passionate sex?
That makes absolutely no sense.
The only reason why she chooses you instead of all the mature and responsible men who are willing to settle down with her is because she hopes to experience passion, adventure and excitement by being with you.
She wants you to be the crazy, playful and adventurous young guy that you are. All she wants is passionate sex with a young boy toy. Forget about being mature and give her what she really wants!
Summed Up Wisdom
How to attract an older woman? Make dating older women a part of your reality and don’t act like a complete weirdo around them. Oh, and don’t impregnate them. Even though there are some girls in their thirties who regard you as their last chance to fulfill their child wish, the majority of mature women want you for one reason. They want to have sex with you.
This is good news and it gets even better when you focus on horny career women who want to live out their submissive side at home and on divorced ladies who want to feel desired again. How should you act around the milf of your dreams once you learned how to attract older women?
Your style should represent the fact that you are a man and not a little boy. As the young man you are it should be completely normal to approach mature women. Don’t even mention your age when you approach her. Only talk about it when she asks you directly. Letting her know why you choose her and not a sexy young chick will increase her confidence and being a playful and adventurous guy increases your chance to get laid.