Have you ever wondered how to attract beautiful women?
“There must be a way…” you’re thinking to yourself.
Deep down you know that seducing and dating hot girls is not the same as getting it on with the ugly ducklings. Heck, you can’t even compare a model-type woman to the average plain Janes you see day in and day out.
You know that you need a different approach.
You might be confident with the 7s, but what if I told you to talk to the 9s and 10s? Could you do it?
I know you want to scream “yes, I can!” but I also know that your mind knows the truth. But hey, just because you couldn’t do it yesterday doesn’t mean that you can’t do it today. You can.
I promise you one thing:
After reading this article you’ll know how to attract beautiful women because…
I mean, who doesn’t want to sleep with the most beautiful girls in the world?
I want it and you want it too.
Let me show you how to get what you want…
How to Attract Beautiful Women When You’re Tempted to Settle for Less
It’s tempting. I know.
Before I share the exact steps you need to follow to attract the most beautiful women, I have an important message for you:
Do NOT give in to the temptation.
I wasted hundreds of hours approaching, texting, and dating average women. There was a time when I had no standards and no self-respect.
I felt miserable beyond words.
And do you know what pisses me off the most? I’ll never get this time back. It’s gone. What about you? Do you want to waste your precious time with women who are below your standards? Don’t make the same mistake I made.
It’s time raise your standards and to finally attract beautiful women…
1. Destroy Your Fantasies about Beautiful Women
Sorry, but I need the sledgehammer.
Give me your fantasies, throw them on the ground, and let me hack them into pieces. That’s the only way to free you from the demons that are holding you back from attracting beautiful women. There’s no other way.
“Sebastian, what fantasies are you talking about?”
Come on. You know what I’m talking about. I’ve been there too. I know how it feels to look at women from below the sky-high pedestal you put them on. And I know how it feels to look a stunning girl and think “wow, look at this angel. She’s perfect. I wish I could date a goddess like her.”
You can, but only if you NEVER use the word goddess again.
I love women. I adore women. But I would never call them perfect, flawless, and goddesses. They are human beings. Believe it or not, but the hot girl you can’t stop staring at, doesn’t shit glitter and she also doesn’t fart lavender spray.
I don’t want to crush your dreams, but THIS is not what it looks like:
Why do I tell you all these disgusting things?
Well, because it’s funny. But that’s not the main reason. I want you to understand that there is no logical reason to put beautiful women on a pedestal. Come on. You don’t want to tell me that you’re afraid of someone who farts and poops like you.
Now get out and approach her before she farts the next time…
2. Change Your Beliefs about Dating Beautiful Women
I want you to approach a few hot girls today.
But before you run away from me, I want you to think about your beliefs. Nope, I don’t mean your religious beliefs…even though a lot of guys call model-type girls goddesses.
Here are some of the beliefs I want you to think about:
Let me tell you something:
If you’re making enough money to afford a cheeseburger at McDiabetes, you are rich enough. Yes, you do have a chance to attract beautiful women. And don’t let anyone tell you that you don’t deserve the best of the best.
Go for the best! Fuck the rest!
I know. Hollywood movies, fake Gold Digger Pranks on YouTube, and your insecure friends…you are conditioned to believe that you need to look like David Beckham and have more cash than Grant Cardone.
No, you don’t!
You need the right beliefs. That’s what you need. If you believe that you DESERVE beautiful women, you’ll get beautiful women. No, that’s not some Law of Attraction bullshit.
The principle is simple.
First, you need to believe. Then you can take action.
3. Embrace the Fact that Beautiful Women are Lonely
I know what you’re thinking. I’ve heard it so many times…too many times.
“Beautiful women are not lonely because reason X, Y, Z and they get approached all the time because Instagram, Facebook and Hashtag yada yada yada…”
Yes, they get approached:
What about the kind of guy she wants to meet?
You’re too busy calling her a goddess and thinking that she would never be attracted to a guy like you. While you’re too busy making excuses to NOT approach her and to NOT get to know her, she’s on the way to her empty apartment for another night alone on the couch.
Here’s the truth:
Average girls are more in demand than the hotties.
Ignore Instagram and Facebook. Yes, on social media you have zero chance because you compete with thousands of desperate desperados. But in real life, things are different.
Do the math and take action.
4. Understand What Hot Girls Really Want
Have you ever asked yourself what beautiful women really want?
It’s easy to believe that money, a handsome face, and the latest Mercedes is all you need. That’s what the advertising industry and popular YouTubers (who earn a living with advertising) want you to believe.
I know a few girls who work as models.
None of them wants a guy who stops at the side of the road and screams “you look like you need a ride”. Let’s get realistic. Life is not a movie and it’s also not a prank. Beautiful women want a man who is real.
Here’s how a real man seduces beautiful women:
Are you a real man?
Then you’re okay with the fact that she’s beautiful. Maybe she’s the hottest girl you’ve ever seen. That’s okay. It’s no big deal for you. All you care about is to get to know her, to find out more about her and to see if you click.
Suddenly, you are the one in charge.
5. Accept that You Need Confidence to Attract Beautiful Women
Let me ask you something:
Would you approach a model if she walked past you?
Yes, right now! Imagine you’re at the bus stop and she walks past you. Her legs are ten times longer than your dick (no offense). Her skin is softer than the skin of the girl in the L’Oreal commercial right next to you.
She is drop dead gorgeous!
So…would you approach her or would you cicken out?
In case the answer is “I would run away and hide behind the bus”, you need to work on your confidence. Nope, I won’t sell you the “magic pickup” line that doesn’t exist. The truth is that beautiful women want confident men.
If you aren’t confident, you won’t even approach her.
In other words, you need experience. And yes, it’s okay to approach average girls before you take the next step and approach the really hot ladies. That’s fine. The more you put yourself out there, the more confident you’ll become.
More beautiful women in your bed than you could possibly imagine.
6. Make the Right Investments
What investments attract beautiful women?
Nope, it’s not the designer watch for $1900. It’s way better to invest in yourself. And no, I don’t want to pitch my book Rise of the Phoenix (even though it’s 100x cheaper than the watch) because that would be waaay too obvious.
Instead, I want to give you FREE access to…
Investing (it’s a free investment) in this PDF is a good start. I mean, you have to start somewhere. And these scientifically proven seduction techniques increase your chances to attract beautiful women tremendously.
Don’t invest in meaningless stuff. Invest in knowledge.
“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest” – Benjamin Franklin
Become a better man and beautiful women will be more attracted to you. Develop skills and getting them in bed and in a relationship will get easier and easier.
7. Dress Well to Attract Good-Looking Girls
Let’s face it.
Beautiful women are beautiful for a reason. They don’t just wake up being sexy as hell…at least most of them.
They look good because they value beauty.
What about you?
No, you don’t have to be a male model. But walking around like one doesn’t hurt. A woman in tight jeans and a stylish leather jacket doesn’t want a boyfriend who wears sweatpants and a dirty shirt.
That shit only works in Russia.
8. Approach Her with a Compliment She Doesn’t Expect
Imagine you see her walking on the street.
Your eyes meet. She smiles. She wants you to approach her. Hell, she’s waiting for you to make a move. She looks away. Now she smiles again. She’s so beautiful that she doesn’t expect you to do anything. Most men don’t. But she hopes you take action.
But she’s afraid you’ll say the same lines as the others:
She knows that she’s beautiful. Her 10.000 followers on Instagram remind her every day. Tell her something she doesn’t know. Tell her something new.
Here are some alternatives:
Yep, I used the last compliment quite a few times and it works because it implies that you’re looking for danger. Even the most beautiful women want to be dangerous…at least sometimes.
9. Keep Your Cool When Her Beauty is Blinding You
You’re talking to her.
You try your best to stay focused. But you can’t. Her face is too beautiful, her breasts are too juicy. Don’t even get me started on her hip to waist ratio. God, you have a hard time hiding the growing tree underneath your boxers.
Hey, you wanted to learn how to approach beautiful women…
So don’t complain and suck it up buttercup. The biggest challenge is not to say the right things, but to say anything at all while you’re busy thinking about all the positions you want to try with her.
Here are some tips to keep your cool when her beauty is blinding you:
- 1Inhale and exhale (it really helps).
- 2Remember that she has already pooped today.
- 3Think about how common beauty is. It’s everywhere.
Do whatever it takes to keep your cool. Okay, don’t pull out a hip flask while you’re talking to her. Heck, address your nervousness if you have to. Say “I’m really nervous right now. I don’t do this every day”. Some women think it’s cute and it helps with the stuttering.
10. Don’t Try to Buy Your Way into Her Pants
I can’t stress this enough.
She gets these offers all the time, especially if she has Instagram. Then she gets them every day. I’m serious. Do NOT try to impress her with your job titles, status, or a shiny object. You can’t compete with money. There’s always a richer guy and he has already tried to buy her.
You compete with seduction skills.
You can even make jokes about this whole “rich dude with hot chick” phenomenon. Say something along the lines of “I’m not rich, but a first date with me is better than stinky caviar and headache-causing champagne”.
She’ll laugh…unless she’s a gold digger.
What if you’re a rich guy who wants to learn how to attract beautiful women?
In this case, I have to ask you why you didn’t buy my book Rise of the Phoenix yet. Don’t make me cry. But I also want to ask you something else.
Do you want a beautiful woman who wants you or your money?
We both know that you want to compete with your seduction skills. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be a part of the Global Seducer Community.
11. Be Careful with the Your Negs
What the heck is negging?
“You look like my little sister” is probably the most famous example.
Some say it’s a highly effective seduction weapon. Others say it’s the dumbest thing you could possibly do. I say that it can be both.
The idea is simple:
You insult her in a funny way, which lowers her self-confidence. That’s the idea behind the technique. It works sometimes. But it only works with women who…
A: Are not used to guys negging them.
B: Have a low self-confidence.
Here’s the reality:
A: Most guys try to pick up beautiful women with negs.
B: Hot women tend to have high self-confidence.
Okay, some models are extremely insecure. But it’s hard to find a genuinely beautiful woman who thinks she looks like that girl from The Ring.
The moral of the story:
Slow down your negging. It can backfire.
12. Connect with Her and Not with Her Body
What can you do instead of negging her?
Here’s what most guys do:
I mean, you can get away with it because this is what she expects you to do. From her last 10 dates, 10 of them contained hundreds of “I can’t believe how beautiful you are”.
That’s why she hasn’t had sex in months.
If you give a woman the feeling that you really can’t believe how beautiful she is, she’ll assume that you’ve never been with a beautiful woman like her. That’s the most unattractive thought you can put in her mind.
She wants to be with a man who has choices.
You have to give her the feeling that you are used to being around beautiful women. Treating her like a rare diamond does the opposite. Before you can connect with her body in your bed, you have to connect with her heart.
Summed Up Wisdom
You want to know how to attract beautiful women and I started this article by destroying your fantasies. Yep, I’m a bad guy. But I also showed you how to change your beliefs in a way that makes seducing hot girls damn easy…or at least easier.
Now you know why investing in yourself is so important and why investing in a designer watch is useless. Beautiful girls (the ones without gold-digger syndrome) are attracted to men with more confidence, not to men with more watches.
And yes, I know how amazing she looks. You want to stare at her face, her body and her boobs. You’re a man. That’s totally natural. But please try to focus on her personality and try to connect with her. I don’t say this because it’s politically correct. I say it because that’s how to attract beautiful women.