How long does it take to become a successful seducer?
I recently got an e-mail from one of my amazing readers who wanted to know how long it will take until he can finally say that he is successful with women. I am pretty sure that he is not the only guy who asks himself this question.
At first I didn’t know what to answer. I would really love to tell you that it takes exactly one year, two months, thirty days and four hours until you are ready to receive the certificate with the imprint “successful seducer”. Unfortunately, I can’t give you an exact date. The only answer I could provide him with were the following four words:
It is your decision.
There is really no one else than you who can answer this question.
I know some guys who waste all their time on pick up forums complaining about how evil women are and reading through made up infield reports that sound way too good to be true. Those guys confidently claim that they are active pick up artists but when you ask them about the last time they approached a woman, they can’t even remember if it was months or years ago.
On the other hand, there are guys who leave the dabbling phase and self-sabotage behind, right after they stumble upon the first entry in a pick-up forum. They decide to read a couple of articles, they learn everything they need to know about seducing women by reading the right book and then they go directly in the field. They put their knowledge into practice, they learn from their failures and they do whatever it takes to become successful.
The sky is the limit, but unfortunately there are a lot of guys who decide to rot on the ground.
If you spread your wings and reach the sky, the girls will spread their legs for you. Wow, that was philosophical. Okay, back to reality.
How long does it take to become a successful seducer?
Well, it depends on two aspects and if you are really honest to yourself you already know them. It all comes down to your definition of success and to your decision to take action.
What is Your Definition of Seduction Success?
What is your definition of seduction success? If you would ask me this question I would give you the following answer:
I want to be able to combine an amazing relationship with my passion to seduce women all over the world.
Before I even ordered my first book about seducing women I knew that I wanted to achieve this goal. I wasn’t interested in having one night stand after one night stand. My definition of seduction success was to combine two aspects of dating that sound completely contradictory for 99% of men. On the one hand, I wanted to have a relationship that provides me with love and a place to call home. On the other hand, I wanted to experience sexual adventures all over the world that provided me with excitement, passion and unforgettable memories.
Today I am living this life.
Are you ready to live your life?
What is your definition of seduction success?
My vision is to inspire you to become a Global Seducer, but that doesn’t mean that you have to live the exact same lifestyle as I do.
You need seduction skills to approach women, to seduce them and to keep them in your life. No matter if you want to have threesomes, one night stands, short-term sexual relationships, a monogamous relationship, an open relationship or if you want to get married…
…you need to become a successful seducer before you can achieve any of those things!
I don’t judge you for the relationship form that you choose. All I want is to provide you with the knowledge and inspiration that allows you to design your dating life the way you want. Who am I to dictate you if you should have a monogamous or an open relationship? That’s your decision alone, even though I highly recommend looking for a potential wife outside of the Western hemisphere.
I want to help you to avoid the same mistakes that I made, I want to inspire you to take action and I want to provide you with all the knowledge you need to transform your action into sex, love and happiness. I want to lay breadcrumbs on your way, but it is your decision in which direction those breadcrumbs lead you.
How long does it take to become a successful seducer? It all depends on how many breadcrumbs you need to follow in order to live your definition of success. If your ultimate goal is to have a one night stand every now and then you will reach your goal faster than if you want to have a polyamorous relationship with three bisexual women.
Even though the first goal is obviously easier to achieve, there are still guys who achieve the craziest seduction goals within the same time that others need to approach their first girl.
How is this possible?
It Takes as Long as You Decide That it Takes
What distinguishes the guys who achieve seemingly impossible seduction goals within days from the guys who need months to get the first number of a girl? It has nothing to do with how they look or how much money they make.
It all comes down to a simple decision.
The only difference between the successful and the unsuccessful seducers is that the successful ones made the decision to take action. The guys who are truly successful with women were determined enough to do whatever it takes to achieve their goals.
They made the decision to become successful seducers. They made the decision to read, to learn and to do whatever it takes to become good with women. It is your decision if you want to live the life of your dreams in two months, two years or never.
It takes as long as you decide that it takes.
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Summed Up Wisdom
How long does it take to become a successful seducer? I wish I could just tell you an exact date when you will achieve your goals, but that’s not how it works. Your seduction success depends on two aspects. It depends on how you define seduction success for yourself and if you are willing to take action or not.
I am aware of the fact that I needed longer to call myself a successful seducer than a guy who simply wanted to have a one night stand every two weeks. Define what seduction success means to you and work towards your goal, no matter how long it takes.
However, keep in mind that it is on you how long it takes to ahieve your goals, no matter how impossible they seem. All you need to do in order to reach the level of success that you want to have is to make the decision to take action and to do everything in your power to become better every day. It takes as long as you decide that it takes.
Ioan Daniel Marinescu says
For sure that its impossible to have results in a day or even a week…if you start from near 0…
I think if someones a virgin or havent had a girl/woman in months he has chances to get numbers closes in day one if he approaches many targets in a big city.
But real results like dates or instant dates or sex at first date are going to happen probably in at least two-three weeks of every day practice like approaching and approaching and using the app like Tinder and others for time efficiency as well.
The “wheel” will start moving slowly at first but will accelerate the more effort and dedication and seriousness you invest and put in.
In my country women/girls are not easy to date or approach due to traditional mentality or fear of judgement or feeling “easy/slut”.
In USA or Western European nations is easy because women are empowered and have guts and are wiiling to take chances and make things happen when they see men and they like them.
Here where I live in the best scenario they will look you for a second in your eyes at best or very rarely ask for some info.
Thats it no smiles no nothing.
There are countries where it is easier due to cultural factors and countries where its harder.
Women are different from country to country.
What works in USA or UK doesnt work in Bulgaria Greece or Hungary.
Most advice on net is made from the US standpoint or viewpoint.
In my country that doesnt work.
Indirect works better and being polite and being without goals to achieve if it happens it happens if not thats ok…
Its a numbers game with some minor things you can do to gain a small leverage over time but few really want to accept this reality.
Sebastian Harris says
that’s great to hear.
Great words really got inspired I m already good with women to a certain extent but after reding this I ll b a great seducer