“How is it possible to not lose my mind when I am around an incredibly beautiful woman? “
A couple of days ago I received an email from one of my readers. He wanted to know how he can approach, date and seduce beautiful women without losing his mind, without getting frustrated and without falling in a trap that he can’t get out again.
You might ask yourself if the curious young man who was kind enough to share his thoughts with me is a little bit crazy. You might ask yourself one of the following questions:
“How can a beautiful woman make me lose my mind?”
“Why the hell should I want to resist her?”
I don’t think that the fellow Global Seducer who wrote me this email is crazy. I think that he is an extremely intelligent man who thinks about a problem that a lot of guys completely ignore.
As soon as you date a woman who is more beautiful than any other girl you have ever been with, you will understand that it is a big mistake to not think about the impact that her physical appearance has on you.
I remember quite a few moments in which I did things that were utterly stupid, just because the woman I was with was so beautiful that my brain decided to function in standby mode.
In case you have never dated a woman who could be on the cover of the Playboy magazine, you won’t believe how easy it is to deny the existence of condoms as soon as she takes off her clothes.
Yep, sleeping with gorgeous ladies can be a risky business.
That’s why you need to be prepared for the day when you are on a date with a girl who tells you that she works as a model. You might think that this day will never come, but if you continue to read my articles, I promise that this day will come faster than you think.
But before I show you how to deal with beautiful women without getting insane, I want to show you why the next model you approach has the power to make you come inside her, even though you never wanted to have children.
The Effect That Beautiful Skin Has on You
Is there anything more satisfying than looking at beautiful woman, especially when she lies naked in your bed?
Okay, maybe to have sex with her, but let’s be honest:
For you and me and all heterosexual men out there it is an incredible feeling to touch, smell and to taste the skin of a beautiful woman.
The irresistible body and the sweet face of a young beauty have the power to make our dick hard and our brain squashy.
Just close your eyes for a few seconds and imagine how Bar Rafaeli opens the bedroom door and walks into the room. She wears nothing but a towel and she miles at you in a seductive way before she drops that piece of fabric to show you her gorgeous naked body. You can see her well-shaped breasts, her flat stomach, her deliciously looking vagina and when she turns around you can have a look at her perfectly shaped ass.
The body of a woman is one of the most exciting things for a man and even if the view is immensely stimulating and makes every man happy, unbelievably beautiful girls can be the most dangerous threat you can encounter.
Let’s have a look at the reasons why the nude skin of those beautiful creatures can be such an endangerment for us.
Beautiful Women Make You Stupid
Beautiful girls turn your brain into applesauce. I am not joking. It is scientifically proven that men get stupid when they look at attractive women.
We don’t just get stupid, we get mentally incompetent.
There is this common saying that love makes blind, but the truth is that it makes stupid and not blind, at least when a stunning woman is involved.
Have you ever asked yourself why you are attracted to girls who are incredibly hot and also incredibly rude or compeltely retarded, while you ignore the nice overweight girl who lives next door?
Yep, she’s the kind of girl men are willing to die for:
Sorry ladies, but even thinking about beautiful women makes us men lose our sense for what’s good and what’s bad for us. I don’t say that this is a good thing. All I say is that it is true.
The problem is that men do a lot more stupid things than choosing a partner with huge breasts and a fucked up personality. Many men spend all their money on hot women, just because they hope to get them naked by pampering them and treating them like princesses.
No man would ever do that for an ugly woman.
Okay, maybe some very desperate guys but the vast majority would spend more on Miranda Kerr than on Patty Murray.
Some men make unbelievably retarded decisions when they want to get a beautiful woman out of her panties and into their bed. In some cases they end up broke, while the stunning girl who melted their brain cells lives in their house while they have to move in a one bedroom apartment.
Please don’t shut down your brain the next time you see a hot chick and don’t make the same stupid mistakes millions of men made before you.
Beautiful Women Have Power
Maybe I should have used another wording for this headline. The truth is that a beautiful girl has not more power than an ugly girl.
The only problem is that men tend to give all their power away as soon as a girl who has what it takes to grace the cover of the Cosmopolitan enters their sheltered world. When the innocent or not so innocent beauty then takes the power that her needy admirer gives away, the trouble is sure to follow.
The reason why beautiful women have such a power over men is pretty simple:
He thinks that he hit the jackpot and is happy as hell that he ended up dating such a trophy girl. Even though he is happy that he got her, he constantly worries that she might leave him when he doesn’t indulge her every whim. In the hope that she will stay with him he does everything for her.
In case he has a moment of clarity in which he asks himself why he spent $1000 on her new handbag without even getting a blowjob, when he could spend $100 for an escort girl who looks exactly like her, she simply does one thing…
She gets naked.
As a guy who has at least a bit of experience with women you know that women always ask you for a favour when they are lying naked in your bed.
No, that’s not a coincidence.
Every beautiful woman knows that her body has the power to domesticate you and to make you do things that you don’t really want to do. That’s why topics, such as moving together or starting a family are always introduced when you have the perfect view on her boobs.
Is that really so bad?
You give her the power, she gets naked, you have sex and everything is perfect.
Unfortunately, that’s not how it works.
The more power you give to a woman and the more powerful she gets in the relationship, the less attractive do you become and the more likely it is, that she will look out for a powerful man who knows how to keep his power in the presence of a beautiful female.
Don’t let this happen. Keep your powerful, even if you can’t stop slobbering on the pillow while you look at her. Women might take the power you give away, but unless she is a professional gold digger who loves to use men, she doesn’t want your power.
The only reason why a woman takes the power you hand over to her is because somebody has to be in charge of the relationship. In case she is in charge most of the time, your relationship is doomed to fail.
Beautiful Women Make You Forget Your Values
Do you have a friend who was single for a long period of time and who then finally met a girl who took pity on him and ended up becoming his girlfriend?
From one day to another his life changed from dull, sexless and hopeless into a firework of positive emotions and mind-blowing orgasms. His girlfriend probably wasn’t particularly beautiful and maybe she was anything but good for him, but something inside of him started to change.
Suddenly, his world view changed. His world view changed into her world view.
I know a guy who went through this. When he was single, his biggest values where living a life in freedom and enjoying adventurous travels. As soon as he found a girl who was nice enough to ride him twice a week, he threw his values overboard and settled into a relationship with a girl who didn’t enjoy traveling.
The only reason why he now travels the world in order to experience unforgettable sexual adventures with breathtakingly beautiful women is that he broke up with this girl in order to live in alignment with his values.
Yes, this guy was me.
Today I know that beautiful women are dangerous in the way that they motivate us to ignore our most important values. I learned a lot from this experience and I certainly wouldn’t make the same mistake again.
As a Global Seducer you defend your values, even if you lie in bed with two professional models.
Beautiful Women Cause Addiction
The uncomfortable truth is that we men get addicted to beautiful women. There is no real difference between snorting cocaine and gazing at gorgeous girls. Once we are hooked we can’t get enough of it and if we don’t get our daily dose, we get grumpy, angry or become one of thousands of men who are addicted to pornography.
The fact that naked women are extremely addictive and more available than every other drug on the planet can give us a really hard time. In the same way drug addicts do everything to get their drugs, men do everything to surround themselves with beautiful women.
They buy expensive things they don’t need, they start careers in fields they don’t like, they do things that are against their values, they make decisions they later regret, they give all their power away and sometimes they even risk to lose everything.
The only reason why they do all those ridiculously stupid things is because they want to have sex with beautiful women.
Now that you know all the weird and stupid things that guys do to end up in bed with a gorgeous lady, I have good and bad news for you.
The bad news:
You can go to rehab and overcome your addiction to every synthetic drug on this planet, but it is impossible to recover from your addiction to beautiful women. Due to the fact that this would violate against your biological purpose of producing good-looking children, your brain won’t allow that. Your biological programming is stronger than any psychological therapy.
The good news:
You can live a happy life while still being addicted to beautiful naked women. By reading my articles, stepping out of your comfort zone, overcoming your fears and mastering the art of seduction you will be able to enjoy your addiction without making one of the above mentioned mistakes…
…and the best of all is that a little work on your inner game can help you to handle beautiful women, without losing your money, your house and your sanity.
How to Handle Beautiful Naked Women
I originally wanted to call the subheading of this paragraph “how to resist beautiful women”, until I realized that I can’t keep this promise without cutting your dick off, which I am pretty sure you don’t want.
Let’s face the truth. We men are biologically programmed to have sex with young, fertile and especially beautiful women. This internal desire makes sure that we do everything that is in our power to end up in bed with a woman who has the potential to breed the healthies and most beautiful children.
I know that this sounds like the script from a documentary about the mating behaviour of Chimpanzees, but that’s how it is. The uncomfortable truth is that our biological programming is stronger than our willpower.
You can in fact become a bit more resistant to beautiful women than other men by practicing meditation, but the desire to undress gorgeous ladies will always come back. Some men try to suppress this desire by burying it under strict beliefs and moral values, but we all know what catholic priests do when they suppress this desire for too long.
Even though you won’t be able to resist beautiful women, you can program your brain in a way that transforms every interaction with a hot girl into a pleasurable and completely normal experience.
How to Not Lose Your Mind
Practicing meditation can help.
Surrounding yourself with beautiful women can help.
Talking to beautiful girls in your social circle can help.
I don’t deny that those things help, but the number one thing that helped me the most to not lose my mind during an interaction with a woman who is so incredibly hot that you doubt that this was the work of Mother Nature, is to remember what women are.
Look, I love women. I really do. I think that most women are lovable, sweet and intelligent creatures who deserve your love and your respect.
However, they are not the perfect angels that you imagine them to be.
They are human beings.
This means that they do the same disgusting things as you, they have the same insecurities and fears as you and they have the same value as you.
It makes absolutely no sense to give your power away and to forget your values, just because you are interacting with another human being who is just like you. The only difference between you and a hot girl is that she has bigger boobs and that her ass is not as hairy as yours.
The best way to not lose your mind in the presence of a breathtakingly gorgeous woman is to remind yourself of the fact that she is just like you.
No matter how beautiful a woman is, her mouth doesn’t smell like vanilla when she wakes up. The next thing she does right after she brushed her teeth is to take a huge dump. Yes, it’s disgusting, but that’s now Mother Nature designed the female body. In case you have thought that the only purpose of a girl’s ass is to welcome your penis, you are now disabused. Afterwards, she has to pee, shave her hairy armpits and put on the right amount of makeup to make you believe that she is the flawless angel that you think she is.
Once you accept the fact that incredibly hot women do the same disgusting things as you and are just normal human beings, the effect that beautiful skin has on you won’t be that big anymore.
How to Not End Up Frustrated
Now you know how you have to program your mind in order to not lose it as soon as you are talking with a woman who seems to be too beautiful to be human. However, just because you don’t lose your mind whenever you see a hot girl, doesn’t mean that looking at long legs in high heels won’t frustrate you.
When I think back to the time when I was anything but good with women, I remember that I was angry, disappointed and extremely frustrated whenever I saw a beautiful girl. I was frustrated because I thought that it would be impossible to ever end up in bed or in a relationship with such a girl.
The thought of living my life without touching and tasting the skin of beautiful women killed me and the frustration of not being able to talk to them gave me the rest.
Thank god I made the decision to break out of this vicious cycle of frustration.
Do you know what I did?
I did the same thing as you do right now!
I searched for answers and I looked for help. I was determined to become a man who is confident in the presence of beautiful women, without running the risk of making stupid decisions as soon as a model enters the room.
I made the choice to study harder than everyone else, to talk to more beautiful women than anybody I knew and to handle beautiful women better than the best seducers.
As a result of this choice I am not only able to survive in the presence of beautiful women…
Here’s why I’m able to attract amazing beautiful women who enrich my life.
Now it is on you to make the same choice.
Summed Up Wisdom
Beautiful women have the power to destroy you, at least when you give them this power. In case you are a heterosexual man who doesn’t have some really strange fetish for ugly girls, you know that the skin of a gorgeous woman can have a huge effect on how you feel and how you behave.
It is scientifically proven that we men tend to get stupid or even mentally incompetent when we are in the same room with an extremely attractive girl. Beautiful women are like drugs. They make us addicted and in the worst case they make us forget our values and do things that we don’t really want to do. Once her beauty made you give your power away, your relationship is doomed to fail.
Even though interacting with hot girls can be a challenge, I have some good news for you. You can be addicted to them and still live a happy life. All you have to do is to accept the fact that stunning women have the same value as you. They are just normal human beings. There is absolutely no reason to be frustrated, at least when you are determined enough to learn to communicate with them, approach them and seduce them.
Sebastian Harris says
There’s a big difference. Getting a girlfriend is easy. Getting the right girlfriend is a lot harder.
how were they the wrong girls? as in, they settled for them, they went for women they weren’t that strongly attracted to? and another thing, this is something powerful that hit me hard lately, it is: “theres a different between getting a girlfriend and getting a girlfriend that you want”, does that make sense to you?
Sebastian Harris says
Keep up the good work. Your site is an eye opener. I like your style of explaining things, and I have read many of your posts..
Sebastian Harris says
I am really glad that I could help you and I am proud that you are ready for the next step!
i got over my anxiety to approach girls. The next step is approaching BEAUTIFUL girls instantly without being influenced by her beauty. Working hard on it. Thanks sebastian. Your articles help me to adopt right mindest.
Don’t think that your wife is stupid, she gets the situation and it hurts her, but she says nothing because she doesn’t want to put the relationship in danger. When i love a woman, i don’t even feel the need to look at the others. But nice guys finish last.
Sebastian Harris says
Excellent comment. Thanks a lot for sharing your insights!
Being married for a long time it may seem weird I would comment on this website but the truth is the desire for beautiful women never leaves us. It is ingrained in our make-up. You may be with the love of your life but your heart still races at the sight of a beautiful women. If you want to maintain your relationship you must stay loyal to your partner. This causes you an issue because as you age you are still attracted to young fertile women. How do you keep from going crazy? You can resign yourself to being old or you can build up your ego. Building up you ego is not as good as the final sex conquest but it does support you male ego and gives you something to look forward to. So what do you do to build up your ego? You take the first step of the seduction. For example my spouse and I were at dinner the other night. Our waitress was an attractive young lady. When she first approached us her focus was on my wife. As we went through ordering I made constant eye contact with her when speaking with her. I was not overt but confident. Before we finished our order the waitresses eye contact with me was fixed. By the time we were finishing up the meal the waitress was completely ignoring my wife and completely focused on me. I would go as far as to say she was entranced. So this made me feel great because she validated my manly attractiveness. I did so without my wife having a clue and I am sure the young lady was thrilled to have a man focus his attention on her. If we are truthful with ourselves as men, 95% of our fulfillment comes from the conquest. As a man in a committed relationship we can still have our conquests with beautiful women but we just have to change our end goal. As an older male I have not desire to have children again. So getting a young lady aroused is quite fulfilling for the ego even if you don’t get her in bed. Just knowing you can is quite a boost to the ego..
Sebastian Harris says
Don’t get me wrong. It is a beautiful thing, if you have children with the right woman. Unfortunately, I know quite a few guys who messed up their lives by having children with the wrong girls.
I don’t see how having children with a beautifull woman is giving our power away…starting a familly is a natural evolutionary desire, and it’s a good thing, it’s how life thrive on earth. Of course you have to make sure that she is a good person to you and your futur children.