Do you want to have a stunning Russian girlfriend?
Do you dream about marrying a hot Russian bride?
You don’t have to be ashamed of it.
Not so long ago my friends gave me the nickname Russian Radar because I had to approach every woman who looked as if she was born In Moscow, Saint Petersburg or Kazan.
I think you agree with me when I say that Russian women are some of the most beautiful women in the world. It’s no secret. I’ve never met a man who wasn’t attracted to them.
I know that you would give everything to wake up next to a breathtakingly beautiful Anna, Olga or Ekaterina. Just imagine how it would feel to look in her sparkling eyes, to kiss her soft lips and to touch her perfect body.
And you can!
It’s possible to turn this dream into reality.
Once you’ve read this article to the very end and know how to get a Russian bride or girlfriend, there’s nothing that could stop you from meeting, attracting and keeping the woman of your dreams…
Why Most Men Will Never Date a Russian Woman
The sad truth is that most men will never date a Russian woman, let alone marry her. Heck, most men don’t even try it.
Are you one of them?
In case you fantasize about meeting and dating long-legged woman who look like models and speak with a sexy accent, but you haven’t done anything yet, you are one of them.
And I know exactly why you haven’t done anything yet. I know why you look at pictures of hot Russian brides without ever signing up on the online dating site where you could meet these women.
You are afraid.
You are afraid that your neighbor finds out what you are doing.
Congratulations! You’ve been successfully brainwashed.
It's time to exit the Matrix and to discover the truth about Russian brides
You Feel the Russian Mail Order Bride Guilt
What do you feel when you look at hot Russian brides on the internet?
You are aroused, of course. That’s natural. No need to deny it. But besides arousal and excitement you feel something else. It’s a negative feeling that you can’t get rid of.
You feel guilty for your desire to meet beautiful Russian women.
You think that something is wrong with you.
Because you believe the lies that the media has told you! That’s why!
“You are looking for Russian women? You know that you can just order one in a catalog”
“Are you one of these perverts who are seeking a mail order bride?”
“So, you can’t deal with a strong and independent woman, huh?”
I’m sure these three accusations sound familiar. You think of them whenever you dream about walking hand in hand with your beautiful Russian wife or girlfriend.
I call this The Russian Mail Order Bride Guilt.
The society you live in has influenced your subconscious mind to believe that getting a Russian girlfriend or wife is wrong.
It’s not wrong. It’s completely natural that you have the desire to have a young and beautiful foreign wife. Hell, I wouldn’t date a “strong and independent” aka “narcissistic and living with a cat” woman if my life depended on it.
And I hope I don’t have to tell you that this whole mail order bride thing is nothing but a lie…
You Believe That Russian Brides Are For Sale and Can Be Ordered
I don’t know why, but a lot of people still believe that Russian brides are for sale and that you can order them for $99.97 on Amazon.
Jesus, when does this insanity stop?
Russian women can’t be bought. They are human beings with needs, wants and feelings. Yes, they want to meet a Western man and there are plenty of reasons for that (more on that later), but if you really believe that you can order your Russian girlfriend or wife, you need to wake up.
Heck, if you want to buy a Russian bride you should stop reading this article right now.
Don’t get me wrong. I want you to meet the woman of your dreams. But I also want her to meet a decent and sincere man who knows that winning a woman’s heart is not the same as clicking on an order button.
You Think That the Photos of Hot Russian Brides Can’t Be Real
“She can’t be real. She’s just too beautiful. No woman on earth can be THAT beautiful.”
That’s what I thought when I looked through countless profile pictures for my Russian Cupid case study that I conducted when I reviewed this online dating site.
I just couldn’t believe that all these beautiful women were real.
Then I got my first reply and many replies after that. One girl was so stunning that I asked her to have a skype conversation. She agreed and when I saw her on skype, I was blown away.
You might also think that all these Russian brides who are looking for men can’t be real. Well, I have a surprise for you that will help you to realize that these models are in fact real:
The Truth about Young Russian Brides
The truth about young Russian brides hurts.
But it doesn’t hurt you.
It hurts the media, political leaders and Western feminists who continue to spread lies about Russian women and so-called mail order brides from all around the world.
What about you?
Well, for you, a man who wants to know how to get a Russian bride or girlfriend, the truth will be liberating…
The Truth about the Statistics and Divorce Rate with Russian Brides
Have you ever read a Russian mail order bride horror story?
I have read many of those articles. They usually start with a woman named Olga K. or Natasha S. (who obviously doesn’t exist) and continues with a story that is more frightening than the screenplay of SAW 1-6. Oh, and the article always mentions this one guy who killed his Russian bride.
Please don’t get me wrong. This guy committed a terrible crime that he should be punished for.
However, it’s also a terrible crime to only write negatively biased articles that use this one case as a way to turn all decent Western men who dream about having a Russian wife into potential murderers.
Let’s have a look at the reality, shall we?
When it comes to marriages between Western men and Russian brides, countries like Switzerland show an 85% success rate, while the success rate between Swiss men and Swiss women is a lousy 50%.
The same is true for the USA.
The United States Citizenships and Immigration Service (USCIS) released a study that shows that 80% of the marriages between Americans and foreign brides have lasted over 3 years. A study by the Center of Immigration came to the same conclusion.
While your friends who believe the lies about Russian brides will end up in the divorce court with their Western wives, you have the best chance to enjoy a beautiful relationship with an even more beautiful woman.
The Truth about Why so Many Russian Brides are Looking for Foreign Husbands
“They just want your money and then they are gone!”
I mean, there are no rich men in Russia, right? It’s not that Russia ranks among the top three countries with the most billionaires. No, these poor women can’t find a rich guy. That’s why they are looking for Western men with average incomes.
Yep, that makes sense.
As a man who understands sarcasm, you know that this is not the real reason.
The truth is much simpler.
Russian women outnumber Russian men by about 10.5 million. Read that again. There are 10.500.000 more women than men in Russia. That’s an insane number.
Oh, and men tend to kill themselves through alcohol, drugs and car accidents. In case you don’t believe the car accident theory, you just have to type “Russian driving” into YouTube.
In addition to that, Russian men are stuck in a patriarchic system (no, not the pseudo patriarchy that Western feminists complain about) that leads to a lot of abusive marriages and domestic violence.
Yes, these women are exceptionally beautiful and yet they are lonely and sick of the men in their country. All they want is a decent, sincere and romantic man who loves them and treats them with respect.
Where to Find Beautiful Russian Brides for Marriage
You don’t have to fly to the moon to find a hot Russian girlfriend. You don’t even have to leave your house.
But you probably can’t wait to leave your house when I tell you that your neighborhood is one of the best places to meet the woman of your dreams…
Find Lonely Russian Brides in Your Neighborhood
I’m from Germany, a country that is home to thousands of Russian immigrants, many of them beautiful women. You might be living in the USA, a country that is home to more than 2.95 million people with Russian ancestors and over 750.000 people who were born in Russia.
Let’s assume that 50% of these 2.95 million people are women.
That doesn’t sound too bad, does it?
At the beginning of this article I told you that my friends used to call me Russian Radar, because of my addiction to chase and approach blonde long-legged women. Well it turns out that having this radar can be a huge advantage, especially when you are looking for beautiful Oksanas and Olgas in your neighborhood.
Find Russian Brides in Moscow
Russia is the largest country in the world. Yes, it’s bigger than the United States of America. The country is huge and has over 143.5 million inhabitants and as you know by now most of them are lonely women.
It’s impossible to spend a couple of weeks in Moscow or any other part of the country without seeing dozens (no thousands!) of beautiful single women. Sorry, but if you go on a trip to Moscow and come back saying that you couldn’t find any hot women, you drank way too much vodka.
That doesn’t mean that I encourage you to pack your suitcase and book a flight as soon as you have finished reading this article. Even though the women can’t wait to meet a man like you, getting a date is not as easy as it sounds.
Russian women are not like American women.
They are very traditional. They won’t jump in bed with you on the first date. The so-called hookup culture doesn’t exist in this part of the world.
Getting to know them takes time, time that you don’t have when you travel to this country without setting up any dates in advance. Thank God there is a way to contact hundreds of Russian girls BEFORE you fly to Moscow, Saint Petersburg or Kazan.
Find Russian Brides Online
A man who travels to Russia without talking to at least one or two women online is a fool.
Sorry, but I can’t say it any other way.
Not meeting women online before you travel to Moscow is as stupid as traveling thousands of kilometers to buy a book that you can find on Amazon. It doesn’t make any sense.
There are hundreds of online dating sites that allow Western men like you to meet beautiful Russian brides. Some of these sites have millions of female members who are all looking for a boyfriend or husband.
Some of them are traditional marriage agencies that charge for every letter, contact and translation service. Others are designed like modern online dating sites that allow you to use all features without hidden costs.
One of these sites enabled me to set up more than 10 dates with stunning Russian women…
The Best Way to Meet Lovely Russian Brides
If there’s one Russian online dating site that I can recommend with all my heart, then it is Russian Cupid. And no, I don’t just say this because I met my amazing girlfriend on one of the other dating sites of the Cupid Media Group.
I tested this site and when I say that I tested it I mean that…
- I signed up for a free account
- I set up my profile and took screenshots of every step
- I looked at hundreds of profiles of beautiful Russian women
- I invested a couple of bucks in a Platinum Membership
- I contacted more than 20 women
- I received more than a dozen replies of women who wanted to get to know me
- And I share EVERYTHING with you.
Just check out my Russian Cupid review and decide for yourself if you want to join this Russian online dating site for free.
All I can say is this:
If I hadn’t found the woman of my dreams on one of their other sites, I would spend day and night chatting with stunning models on Russian Cupid.
How to Get a Russian Girlfriend
Okay, now you know that you should have a look at my Russian Cupid review. Seriously, you should check it out. I even share the exact messages with you that I used in order to get over a dozen replies from insanely hot Russian women.
One more thing:
Don’t be scared that these girls will reply something in Cyrillic that you don’t understand. Most young Russian women, especially the educated ones who live in Moscow, Saint Petersburg or Kazan, can speak English.
As you will see in my Russian Cupid review, some of these girls were fluent in English. And in case you meet a girl who doesn’t know the difference between frog, fog and fuck, Russian Cupid offers a free translation service for premium members.
I’m just sayin’.
But what if you fall in love with one of the 1.5 million female members and you want to meet her in Russia?
First of all, you should visit her in summer. Ignore this advice and you’ll end up like this poor bastard.
And there are a lot of things you must do if you want to win her heart once you are in Russia…
Learn to Deal with the Russian Straightforwardness
You can be glad that you met her online. She already likes you, which means that she won’t look at you like the walking dead when you meet her in person for the first time.
Do you know what happens when you approach a Russian model on the streets of Moscow?
You walk up to her with a friendly smile and tell her that she’s the most beautiful woman on earth. She shows her appreciation by looking you into the eyes without blinking. You can consider yourself lucky if you get a “thanks”.
What about an emotional reaction? Forget it!
That’s how Russian women are when you talk to them for the first time. Ice. Cold.
She doesn’t do this because she hates you. No, she wants to test you. And she’s honest. She lives in a country where complimenting women is normal. She’s not impressed and waiting for more.
But don’t worry. Once she throws you out of the stranger box and puts you in the potential boyfriend box, her behavior will change. Russian brides are ice cold when they meet a stranger, but warm and kind when this stranger becomes their lover.
Learn to deal with the Russian straightforwardness and she will soon transform into the sweetest and kindest girl you ever met.
Impress Her With Russian Compliments
One thing that Russian women value more than anything is when a man makes an effort.
According to the conversations I had with Russian Brides online, the local men don’t even know what it means to make an effort. They are used to being surrounded by millions of lonely single women. Why make an effort?
Use this to your advantage. Make an effort. Show her that you care.
One way to do this is by giving her compliments in Russian. Yes, it’s really that simple. All she wants to know is that you make an effort. And learning another language proves this to her.
Remember one or two compliments and your future Russian wife will be smitten. Just choose one of the following 33 compliments and she will beg you to marry her:
Dress Better than the Russian Men
A good friend of mine is Russian. His name is Alexei. And he agrees with me on this:
Most Russian men have no style.
Feel free to kill me in the comments below this article, but it’s true. Russia is one of those countries where the women need two hours in the bathroom, while some men have never seen a bathroom from the inside.
When I visited the Ukraine I was shocked about this, but when I visited Russia my shock turned into happiness. I knew that if I dressed appropriately, I’d have a competitive advantage.
Just wear a stylish jacket, a nice shirt and leave your sweatpants at home. Boom, you look more handsome than most local guys.
Bring Flowers to the First Date (Yes, I’m Serious!)
Disclaimer: I would NEVER give this advice when you are dating a Western woman.
But you’re not. You want to know how to get a Russian bride or girlfriend. That’s why you’re here. And that’s why brining flowers to the first date is totally fine.
In fact, one of the owners of a matchmaking agency told me that most Russian women expect flowers on the first date. Yes, they are actually disappointed when you don’t bring them flowers…and when you bring them a cactus because it’s the only flower you know.
I mean, let’s face the truth.
If you gave a Western girl flowers on the first date, she’d think that you are a total loser. Oh, and she will hide the flowers because she doesn’t want anyone to see how “awkward” you are. That’s what our dating culture has become.
What about the Russian woman you’ll soon meet online?
She will smile. She will smell the flowers and kiss you. Yes, this small gesture will make her day.
That's the beauty of international dating!
Prove That You Are a Man of Status
Russian women are attracted to men of status, but that doesn’t mean that you need to have a lot of money.
Let me explain.
Of course, you shouldn’t be living on the street, especially when you think about staring a family with your beautiful Russian wife. But status is not about money.
Status is about who you are as a man:
- A man with status dresses appropriately
- A man with status walks with pride and confidence
- A man with status knows how to socialize
- A man with status isn’t afraid to lead
That’s the kind of man Russian brides from Moscow to Kazan dream of.
Be Confident Around Your Russian Model Girlfriend
One quality of a high status man is that he’s confident. And you need confidence when you are dating a hot Russian model…a lot of it.
You walk hand in hand with your beautiful Russian bride. She looks gorgeous. Every man you walk past stares at her, even the ones who walk next to their foreign girlfriends. They imagine her naked. They fantasize about…
I don’t have to finish the last sentence. You know exactly what they are thinking.
The question is: Are you confident enough to deal with it?
When it comes to dating beautiful Russian women, jealousy is your biggest enemy. I mean, your girlfriend is gorgeous, absolutely stunning. And you are not the only man who has eyes.
A Russian woman wants a man who has the confidence to smile with pride when other men gaze after her. She knows that a jealous man doesn’t have what it takes to date a woman like her.
Gain the Trust of Your Russian Girlfriend
Here are two words to all the men who are reading this article because they want to have one-night stands with hot Russian women:
Warning, warning: You are outside of the hookup culture zone.
If you are looking for easy girls for a night of fun, you are in the wrong country. Russian women, at least the ones you meet online, are not interested in one-night stands.
They want a boyfriend. They dream about meeting the man of their dreams. They are very sexual, but they will only let you taste their forbidden fruit when they trust you.
No Trust = No Sex.
She wants a man who is honest. And she wants a man who’s not afraid of commitment. The beautiful Russian models you are going to meet online want a sincere man, a man they can trust.
And building trust takes time.
She’ll ask questions about your life, about your dreams and about your vision of the future. She wants to get to know you.
And yes, she also wants to sleep with you, but only if she’s 100% sure that she won’t wake up naked and alone the next morning.
How to Get a Russian Bride
What if she trusts you? What if she sleeps with you?
What if kissing her, touching her, making love to her and holding her in your arms is the most wonderful experience you ever had?
Well, your Russian Radar turned into Soviet fever. You are in love and proud as a peacock that you have such a beautiful girlfriend. You even think about marrying this Russian princess.
But hold your horses!
Turning your hot girlfriend into your beautiful Russian bride is not that easy. You already know what you need to do to get her, but do you also know what you have to do to make her your wife?
You Get a Russian Fiancé by Being a Leader
You just learned how to get a Russian girlfriend. Now it’s time to learn how to turn your girlfriend into your bride.
Girlfriend, fiancée, bride…these are the three steps. And each step requires a different strategy and different skills.
Bringing her flowers and proving that you are a man of status makes her fall for you. Being a leader makes her want to marry you.
Listen very carefully: A Russian woman will NOT consider marrying a follower. She will only marry a leader. Unfortunately, a lot of Western men mess this up.
Western feminism has taught you to have one of these oh so amazing 50/50 relationships where every tiny decision needs to be discussed. Do this with a Russian woman and she’ll run as fast as she can.
You are the man. You are the leader. Got it?
In Russia the man is the head of the family and the one who makes the decisions. She expects this from you. And don’t even think about telling her that she should be the one who decides because that’s how it is in the West. She’ll lose all respect for you.
You Get a Hot Russian Bride by Being Kind
She’s your fiancée. You are her man, her leader.
She respects you as the head of the family. Not it’s time to shake her world by doing the opposite of what Russian men usually do.
They tend to exploit this situation, but you don’t.
Don’t turn into one of the ignorant and abusive men she tried to avoid all her life. Yes, she wants a determined leader, but she also wants a kind husband with a big heart. All she ever wanted was a sincere man who loves her, respects her and treats her good.
Be the kind of man her mother never had and she will drag you to the altar.
You Keep Your Russian Bride by Being a Romantic Gentleman
Congratulations. You now have a hot Russian bride.
She already knows that you are a leader and a kind man. You don’t have to prove anything anymore. You are the husband she always wanted and she is proud to be your wife.
Russian women are some of the most loyal women on the planet, at least when they are together with a man who deserves their loyalty.
Do you deserve it? Then act like it.
Be the gentleman that she fantasizes about since she saw the first romantic Hollywood movie with Hugh Grant. When they love a man, Russian women are anything but cold. They are hopelessly romantic.
Let her hold your elbow while walking. Give her a compliment whenever she dresses up for you. And please don’t forget to open the door for her…
If you are the romantic gentleman she always dreamed of, she’ll be the loyal Russian bride you always wanted…
How to Get Russian Brides Q&A
What? You still have questions?
But please don’t ask me: “Sebastian, how do I get a Russian girlfriend or wife?”
I already answered this question in the 4.246 words you just read.
Even though this article is already crazy ass long, I decided to add a Q&A at the end of it.
As you might know I already published an article about the women in Kazan and one about the beautiful women in Samara. Since then I received quite a few emails from guys like you who asked all kinds of questions about Russian girls.
This Q&A is a collection of questions that readers from all over the world sent me and the answers I gave them.
Are Russian Mail Order Brides Real?
Yes, yes and double yes.
I think I’ve already answered this question, but because this is the most common question I get, I’ll say it again:
Of course I haven’t tested every single Russian dating site on the planet (at least not yet) I can’t guarantee that you will never come across a fake dating profile.
However, my big Russian Cupid Case Study has shown that the majority of girls reply and that these women are in fact real. Many of them wanted to meet me on skype. If Oksana would be Boris she wouldn’t suggest a skype call.
I know that it can be hard to believe that women are THAT beautiful, but they are.
Russian genes make it possible.
Do Russian Brides Want an American Husband?
Most of my readers are from the USA and a common question I get is:
“Do hot Russian brides want an American Husband?”
The answer: yes, they do.
Even though Obama and Putin will never be best friends, the women in his country are interested in dating and marrying American men. They love American TV, have the same Christian values and consider Americans to be romantic partners and good husbands.
How Expensive Are Russian Brides?
Again, you can’t order a Russian bride in a catalog. And if you really wanted that, you shouldn’t pursue foreign women but read this article instead.
However, it’s legit to ask this question in regards to online dating.
A lot of traditional matchmaking agencies charge for every email and translation. This can easily cost hundreds of dollars. That’s why I’m so in love with Russian Cupid. You can join for free and once you have a premium account, you can send unlimited messages and use the translation service for free.
Do Russian Brides Make Good Wives?
No, they don’t.
They make excellent wives.
A Russian woman knows how to take care of a woman. She learned it from her mother. The only difference between her and her mother is that she is together with you, a man who doesn’t take her support and effort for granted.
Let her know that you appreciate her for all the things she does for you and she will be the best wife she can possibly be.
How Loyal are Russian Brides?
Russian women would do everything for their family. Not for their career and not for a promotion, but for their family.
Family comes first and as her husband you are a part of her family.
As long as you are the confident leader she craves for and the romantic gentleman she desires, you can enjoy a fulfilling relationship with a loyal woman.
Summed Up Wisdom
Most men will never date a hot Russian woman. But not because they can’t, but because they are brainwashed to believe that they are bad for having the natural desire to date young and beautiful foreign women.
It’s time that you free yourself from these chains and to do everything in your power to learn how to get a Russian girlfriend. You are ready for the truth. You are ready to meet hot Russian brides online.