Do you suffer from sexual depression?
When was the last time you had sex?
No, I didn’t ask you about the last time you jerked off to porn. I want you to think about the day when you had your penis inside a real woman for the last time.
In case you still have to think about the exact date, you have a serious problem. In case you don’t have the sex life that you truly want, you have something in common with millions of men out there.
The equations are pretty simple:
Happy sex life =happy man
Unhappy sex life = unhappy man
If you think that banging chicks isn’t as important to us as I just said, you should think about all the stuff that you would do in order to get a girl like Miranda Kerr in your bed. We are men and as men we have the desire to fire our tiny white friends in or at least on women and we have the desire to do this on a regular basis.
A man, who doesn’t see any possibility of getting rid of his slimy lodgers without giving the finishing touches, can never be truly happy. Unfortunately, most men try to cure their sexual depression with all kinds of things, except the things that would really help him.
Porn, medication and asking God Almighty to forgive your pervert thoughts are not the best ways to address this problem.
Even though antidepressants are probably more helpful than running to the church, at least when you don’t bang a nun to get some relief, there must be a better way to transform your sex life into a never-ending porn movie.
And yes, there is a better way.
In order to successfully embark on the path of the Global Seducer, that will eventually lead you towards sexual fulfillment, you have to be willing to analyze your problem, to rethink society’s norms and to take action.
Are you ready to do that?
How to Heal Your Sexual Depression: A Two-Way Street
Before you can solve a problem you have to find out the reasons why you have the problem in the first place. Makes sense, right?
Now, what is the number one reason why men suffer from sexual depression?
In case you want to slap me because you think that the obvious answer to this question is “because they don’t have anyone to bang”, I have to admit that you are correct…at least to 50%.
But is having no sex really the problem for sexual depression or is it just another accompanying effect along the way?
Don’t just think that the fact that you have no one to bang is the source of the whole dilemma. Go one step further and think about WHY you don’t have someone to bang.
Now we have opened Pandora’s box.
You Have No Chance to Have Sex
One of the reasons why so many guys suffer from sexual depression is because they have absolutely no chance to experience the pleasurable feeling of putting their dick inside a woman’s vagina. In case you are one of those guys who never had sex or who hasn’t experienced this pleasurable feeling since the first black President of the United States took the Oath, it is time to end your dry spell.
What are the reasons why you think that getting your dick wet is impossible, even if you might be more motivated to change this condition than ever before?
From my experience of talking with a lot of guys about their sex life and why it isn’t as fulfilled as they wish, I know that it comes down to three different aspects that are all directly related to each other.
The guys who are convinced that they simply don’t have what it takes to have the seduction success that other guys experience, usually have three different sticking points.
Afraid of approaching women
Have no clue how to seduce women
Are insecure because of their lack of sexual experience
Do you recognize yourself?
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You Have No Will to Have Sex
Speaking of Charlie Runkle…
Maybe you don’t have any severe anxiety attacks when it comes to approaching women. Maybe I am currently writing to a guy who has the ability to seduce all the girls he wants. If this is the case and you still suffer from sexual depression, you might have some psychological issues that hold you back from dipping your dick in some delicious pussy juice.
If you actually have the ability to seduce women and you have a normal sex drive, but you still don’t attempt to seduce the women that you want to sleep with, you should think about the reasons that got you to this point.
What destroyed your will to experience the pleasure of your own sexuality?
It can have multiple reasons why you try to avoid any contact with women that could lead to sex. The two most obvious reasons are either negative past experiences or unhealthy conditioning.
A man who once suffered from premature ejaculation while sleeping with a girl who made fun of him is branded for the rest of his life. If you avoid sexual contact with women because of a particular past experience, you are throwing your life away, because of the past, instead of working towards the future. This is a fatal mistake.
Maybe past experiences aren’t the reason for your sexual frustration, but the fact that you were raised in a religious household that conditioned you to believe that sex before marriage is a sin, motivates you to avoid every contact with a girl who could lead to her getting naked.
It doesn’t matter if you had a fucked up childhood or if you undressed the wrong girl at the wrong time, you don’t have to stay a slave of your past. You can overcome your issues. However, you can only do that if you question the common convictions of our society.
How to Heal Your Sexual Depression: Society’s Standards
No matter if you don’t fulfill your deepest desires because you are afraid of approaching women or because you are afraid that you will break your penis, like the last time when you tried anal sex without lube and with too much speed.
The society we live in conditions us in so many ways. I don’t say that all we learn when we grow up is wrong. I would say that telling young boys that killing each other because of bagatelles is actually not the best idea is a good thing to do.
However, a lot of stuff that countless institutions try to hammer in the brains of us men (you and me included), is anything but helpful for a healthy development. Make the decision to end your sexual depression.
All you have to do to come one step closer to this goal is to question common convictions of our society.
Stop Listening to the Voice of Your Parents
I sometimes listen to my parents. Honestly, I do. That doesn’t make me a weak person. It only shows that my parents are people who give me valuable advice (at least sometimes) and it also shows that I have a very good relationship to them.
What if you don’t have a good relationship to your parents?
What if they tell you things that are completely counterproductive for your personal development?
If my parents would tell me that sex is bad, that you should wait until marriage to experience the pleasure of thrusting inside a woman and that I would end up in hell if I don’t listen to them, I would immediately stop listening to them.
No matter how painful the process of cutting the cord might be for you, you have to do it unless you want to live a life of quiet desperation. You can continue to persuade yourself that your sexually depressing life is a life worth living, but deep down you know that your only chance of developing a healthy relationship with your own sexuality is by getting rid of those negative voices.
Get out of there, now!
You Are NOT a Loser
Did the last girl you had sex with laugh at you after you ejaculated after a few seconds?
Did a girl who you dated one year ago didn’t respond to your text messages, because you couldn’t get it up two times in a row?
Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Everybody has moments in his life where he thinks that he is the biggest loser on earth. Everybody has moments where he doubts himself.
Do you think you are the only one who had such negative experiences?
Do you think I never had any problems with getting it up in my life?
Of course I had and millions of other men, professional seducers included, had the same issues at some points of their life. The problem is that we are conditioned to think that our life ends, as soon as we have those issues.
The guys in the porn movies you watch can have sex for hours without coming and without losing their erection. The girls in the Hollywood movies that you watch make fun of a “loser” who came too early. In the songs you listen to, all those cool rappers tell you how many bitches they satisfy with their monster dicks.
What we tend to forget is that all those things are just an attempt to trick you.
The only thing that is real is that you throw away your life because of wrong images in your mind that motivate you to believe that you are a loser, even though you are nothing but a man on the way to personal and sexual excellence.
Those distracting external influences don’t matter. What matters is that you live a fulfilled life with the women you truly desire. It doesn’t matter when you had those experiences and how painful they were. All that matters is how you deal with it and what you are willing to do, to never experience them again.
Male Sexuality is Not Bad
The video that went viral about a woman who was walking ten hours in New York was terrible, right? I mean, she got sexually harassed all the time by unfriendly rapists who told her that she is beautiful and who wished her a good day.
We also know that Julien Blanc is a terrible human being who chokes women (who obviously like that) on videos. You have to agree with me that it makes a lot of sense to ban him from countries while well-known terrorists who are responsible for the death of millions of people are allowed to travel wherever the hell they want.
I am sorry to reveal the uncomfortable truth to you that our world is completely fucked up.
We live in times in which every form of male sexuality is condemned as something evil, whereas women are described as liberated love-seeking angels when they engage in sex tourism in Kenya.
Even though I probably can’t change our society, I hopefully can change the way you look at those things. Please realize that everything our society tells you about male sexuality is a lie.
Let’s have a look at what the desire to have sex with beautiful women really is (P.S. Women have sexual desires too. They fantasize about a man who seduces them, takes them, and enslaves them. Find out how you can become this man)
How to Heal Your Sexual Depression: A New Understanding of Sexuality
Having the desire to sleep with young and beautiful women is wrong. Sexually dominating women, even if 99% of women want exactly that, is wrong. The desire to have sex with more than one woman is wrong.
It’s wrong, wrong, wrong!
I can’t hear it anymore…
Unless we finally gain a new understanding of sexuality, especially of the benefits and positive power of male sexuality, women and men will drift apart more and more.
We don’t need more men who go on the rampage and we also don’t need more frustrated and lonely women who eat antidepressants like Tic Tac’s.
What we really need is a wake-up call that reminds us that sexuality is something beautiful that not only ensures the continued existence of our species, but that also has the power to transform our existence into a stream of happiness.
It is Natural
Having sexual desires, feeling the urge to seduce women and sometimes fucking it up are all completely natural processes. In the same way as the desire to put your erected penis inside a vagina is a natural desire, the fear of failing in the bedroom is a natural thing.
Our sexuality and all the fears, worries and desires around it are what eventually make us human. Even though our society tries to convince you that your desires and needs are comparable to a crime, the truth is that male sexual energy is the only reason why our civilization exists.
If our ancestors would have suppressed their sexuality in the way today’s society wants it, you and I wouldn’t be here!
Don’t ever let someone tell you that your desire to put your penis inside a woman is wrong. In case an angry feminist tells you this you should ask her if she got the gift of life out of a man’s penis or if she was cloned.
It Leads to Fulfillment
Sexuality means fulfillment. Everybody who tells you that sex doesn’t play a huge part on his path towards fulfillment is either lying or has killed his sex drive with hours of masturbating to porn movies.
It doesn’t matter if you have killed your sex drive or if you flat-out lie to me…
In both cases I can feel nothing but pity for you.
Please close this article now and come back once you are man enough to accept the truth that your life without having sex with beautiful women is not a fulfilling life.
You can’t really feel as a man if you have never had sex with a woman or if you don’t even remember the last time a naked girl was lying in your bed.
Once you made the decision to heal your sexual depression instead of lying to yourself and wasting your sperm by firing it in tissue papers, you are ready to change your life.
How to Heal Your Sexual Depression: The Healing
Now that you know that everything society tells us about sexuality, besides the fact that sex can transform you into a daddy, is one big lie, it is time to wake up. Now that you made the decision to finally relieve your frustrated dick from his burden, it is time to do whatever it takes to come to a point of incredible sexual fulfillment.
I don’t want to lie to you by saying that all you have to do in order to get rid of your issues is to switch off the TV and to scream “I have huge balls!” under the cold shower.
Changing beliefs, insecurities and fears that have been conditioned for years doesn’t usually happen overnight.
If you not only want to live the life of your dreams but if you also want to bang the girls of your dreams you have to be willing to face your past demons and to change things radically. Only then will you be able to live a sexually fulfilled life.
What is the alternative?
Internet porn, erectile dysfunction until the rest of your life and being trapped in a never-ending misery called YOUR LIFE.
It is time to choose…
Overcome False Conditioning
I don’t care if your parents told you that sex is evil. Get over it and move on. I also don’t care if your ex-girlfriend made fun of you because you couldn’t get it up once. Be happy that she is not your girlfriend anymore and move on.
Forget all the lairs of well-intended advice and lies that only had the purpose to castrate you and to make you another one of those drones who are too insecure to even admit that they dream of banging beautiful girls. Accept the fact that your parents and societal institutions have never had the intention to help you, when they tried to convince you that sex I bad.
The tactic of social intimidation might work with 99% of men but it doesn’t work with you!
Change Your Lifestyle
I assume that if you suffer from an extreme form of approach anxiety, you are not often around women. I also assume that if you suffer from premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, you waste more time on porn websites than you invest in exercises that strengthen your dick and make you better in bed.
Well, if that’s the case it doesn’t take rocket science to find out what you need to do.
Change your lifestyle in a way that makes the goal of healing your sexual depression easier for you to achieve. Trade masturbating to porn for masturbating that has the purpose to increase your stamina. Trade wasting your weekends at home for going out to social events where there is at least one woman you can talk to.
If you are not willing to change your lifestyle, you are not willing to overcome your sexual depression.
Develop Sexual Confidence
Once you have deleted all the bullshit beliefs from people who either consciously or unconsciously tried to hold you back, and once you developed a lifestyle that is designed for winning, it is time to develop the confidence that makes it possible to fulfill your sexual fantasies.
Be proud of your sexuality.
It is ime to learn the necessary skills that will transform you into a guy who not only has the chance to seduce the women he wants, but who is also willing to seduce the hottest girls that this world has to offer (just in case you had any issues with that before).
Summed up Wisdom
How to heal sexual depression? Become aware of the fact that this is a two-way street and that you deserve to have a fulfilled sex life, no matter if you are not willing or not able to have it at the moment.
You have to realize that you have been conditioned in a negative way. Male sexuality is not a bad thing and you are not a loser if you can’t get it up once or twice in your life. Please don’t listen to your parents or religious institutions when they tell you that sex before marriage is wrong.
If you want to overcome your sexual depression you need to understand that sexuality is completely natural and that living your desires is the most fulfilling thing on earth. Leave your past conditioning behind you, change your lifestyle and become the man who is both willing and able to get the girls he wants.
it was ok. we saw wonder woman and then we went to eat at buffalo wild wings. and then, right before the date ended, we sat in her car for 5 to 10 minutes and shared a few moments of awkward silence. she’s ignored my attempts to contact her—so i’m pretty positive she lost interest in me.
i can’t read a woman’s mind, but i THINK the reason she lost interest in me after our second date is because i didn’t make a move. in other words, i didn’t go for a kiss. i did initiate some physical contact between us–like i grabbed her hand and sat REALLY close to her (side by side) at dinner–but that’s it.
because i’m not that experienced with women, its not easy for me to just go for a kiss. it just didn’t feel like the right moment. its all good though, you live and you learn. i gotta start taking more chances.
Sebastian Harris says
How was your date?
Sebastian Harris says
Being religious is not bad, but restricting human nature can lead to terrible consequences. I have coached so many guys who struggled in life and especially with women because of guilt and shame about something that is beautiful and natural. If you don’t have sex with a woman BEFORE you marry her and you find out that you are not compatible AFTER you have married her, you are up for a lifetime of regret, porn, and probably a nasty divorce.
good article. my dad is religious and he recently told me that i shouldn’t be having sex before marriage, lol. i understand why HE feels that way because i know his beliefs. but me, personally, i don’t feel that way. i think a lot of times kids feel like they should do/believe what their parents do. peer pressure.
i’m not that experienced with women, but i recently got this girl to agree to go on a SECOND date with me and i feel like i’ll do just fine. i’ve been reading many of your articles and i feel like i can move things along smoothly, despite my lack of experience. either way, i’m really excited to see her tomorrow and try these things out. 🙂
“Afraid of approaching women (these audio files helped me to overcome my fear)
Have no clue how to seduce women
Are insecure because of their lack of sexual experience”
all 3 of these apply to me. 🙁
however, i recently got a girl from tinder to agree to go on a SECOND date with me. 🙂 and although i’m not that experienced at all with women, i actually think i’ll be able to move things along sexually/romantically. her wanting to see me again really puts me at ease and i’ll even be more relaxed on our second date this sunday. 🙂
thanks for the article