This African country has less than 2.1 million inhabitants…but thousands of beautiful Gambian women who want to meet and date you.
I couldn’t believe my eyes when I logged into my Afro Introductions dashboard.
I didn’t expect that. I expected to find a few dozen girls, maybe hundreds. But I searched for women between the age of 18 and 29 and found thousands of potential matches. It seems like every women in this country is looking for a man online.
The question is: Why?
Why Gambian Girls Want to Date You (According to a Girl I Met)
Let’s address the elephant in the room.
Yes, money is an issue. Dating a Western man means having a lifestyle that she could never afford herself. It’s not easy to live in a country where the average salary is twice as low as in Senegal.
Of course she wants a better life!
But money is only one small part of the equation. According to a Gambian girl I met online, the local men are the number one reason why so many women are looking for love abroad.
Have a look at the last statement. That’s not from the girl I met online. It’s the official statistic. You don’t have to be a math professor to see that something smells fishy.
Here’s what the local women want:
They want to live a good life with a mature and reliable man who doesn’t make babies with other women.
Most Gambian Women are Muslims But Who Cares
Do you know that 90% of the Gambian girls you can meet online are Muslims?
I had no idea that only 10% of the population is Christian. I assumed that this is a Christian country. I mean, you don’t see anyone wearing a headscarf or a Hijab. And the local girls are known for being a bit hardcore when it comes to sexual openness.
Here’s the truth about Islam in this African country:
Neither the light-skinned girls from the Fulani tribe, nor the dark-skinned Mandinka women care about your religion. Okay, maybe one or two percent give a damn. But they are so traditional that you don’t want to date them anyway.
Why Gambian Women Can Date You (Talky Talky)
Are you ready to learn Fula, Wolof, or Jola?
These are the local languages. You have to learn them if you want to have a Gambian girlfriend. Nah, you don’t.
I have good news and even better news for you.
English is the first language. And you could say that French is the second language because they are surrounded by French-speaking African countries. Most girls speak French. So it doesn’t really matter where you come from.
So don’t worry about your first message or your first date. You’ll be able to communicate. You just have to know where to meet her.
This is the Best Dating Site to Meet Your Gambian Girlfriend
I already told you how shocked I was when I logged into my Afro Introductions dashboard. Or let’s say positively surprised.
Here’s what I saw:
Of course, I’m not allowed to share the faces of the girls, but you’ll see them if you…
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Why should you do that?
The 3 Best Cities to Date Gambian Women
Of course, you can also meet women at the venues I’m going to share with you.
But I have a better idea.
Why don’t you look for girls online and then take them to one of these venues?
Speaking of normal girls…
1. Date Gambian Women in Senegambia
It’s really hard to find women in Senegambia that don’t fall into one of the following three categories:
- 3Crazy white guy hunter
In the 20th century, Senegambia was a loose confederation between Senegal and The Gambia. Today it’s THE place for nighthawks and club-addicts. This is the place with all the bars and clubs and that’s exactly why it’s so dangerous.
Unless you are looking for prostitutes, you should avoid this area.
I mean, you can take a girl you met online and dance with her all night long before you continue in the horizontal position.
Just avoid clubs that don’t have a cover charge because Gambian men can’t afford to pay the cover charge. Higher prices mean fewer local guys who try to pick up 50-year-old white chicks…and more beautiful Gambian girls who want to dance with you.
2. Date Gambian Women in Banjul
Banjul is the capital.
With less than 50.000 people it’s not the second London, but it’s big enough to meet local girls. In fact, most of the Gambian women I met on Afro Introductions live in Banjul.
The streets are too crazy to pick up girls during the day, but the city offers some good venues for your first date.
Choose one of these places:
Calypso Bar and Restaurant (romantic as fuck)
Dominos Beach Bar and Restaurant (incredibly cheap)
Visit the Albert Market with her (Let her be your tour guide)
Enjoy a laid-back day at the Abuko Nature Reserve (and play with monkeys)
3. Date Gambian Women in Serekunda
Let’s go to the beach.
Serekunda is only 14 kilometers away from Banjul. Take a taxi and you’ll be there in less than 30 minutes. This area consists of 9 separate villages that form the largest urban center in The Gambia. Here you can find the most beautiful beaches in the country.
The Poco Loco beach is only one of them…
Here are some of the other beaches that are worth checking out:
But wait! You don’t want to go there alone, do you? Choose the beach you like the most and ask a girl you meet online to join you. She’ll say yes. And seeing her in her tight bikini will make you say “hell yeah”.
3 Pitfalls of the Gambian Dating Culture
Hell yeah! You’re ready to date Gambian girls!
Not so fast. You have to know what it’s like to date a woman in this country. You can’t just show up, meet a stunning 21-year-old African beauty and expect to have an unforgettable time.
You might land at the Bajul International Airport with the intention to have a crazy dating adventure and boom…you have a Gambian wife…
1. Your Gambian Girlfriend Wants to Be Your Wife
This is what she wants.
Even though it’s pretty easy to get a one-night stand, that’s not what the local women are after. Yes, she wants to sleep with you. She loves white guys, just like most African girls. But she wants more than just sex.
She wants to be your mail order bride.
Her ultimate goal is to marry a white man who makes her feel like the female main character in My Last Day Without You.
Never forget that.
2. You’ll Get Cockblocked by Gambian Men (Not What You Think)
It’s not that kind of cockblocking.
You can approach the local women. They don’t say anything. You can set up dates with them. They let you do your thing. But as soon as you are on a date, you’ll get harassed. And no, they don’t try to steal your girl from you.
Here’s what they really want from you:
That’s the burden of being a white man in Gambia. Smile and continue walking. Don’t react rude. You don’t want her to think that you’re an arrogant asshole.
Don’t give up after the first try. It might take two to three attempts until you can have a meaningful conversation without getting harassed by some dude screaming “Sir, sir, my friend”.
3. Good Luck Pronouncing Mandika Slang
What’s the easiest way to impress a Gambian woman?
Well, it depends on the tribe she’s from. If she’s from the Mandika tribe, you can impress her with a few words in her local tribal language. If she’s from the Wolof tribe, you have to remember other words.
You can ask her name with I Ton Ndii? (Mandika) or N Ka Nga Tudda? (Wolof).
You can say goodbye with “Fo Waati Koteng (Mandika) or Ci Jamma (Wolof).
You can say thank you with Abaraka (Mandika) or Jerejef (Wolof).
It doesn’t matter which words you choose. She will be impressed. I’m 100% sure that no foreigner has ever made this effort.
Why You Will Enjoy the Time with Your Gambian Girlfriend
You will enjoy your time in Gambia.
I have no doubt about that. The women are too easy-going and fun-loving to not enjoy their company. Your Gambian girlfriend will treat you like a king because she doesn’t want you to leave her….ever.
And if that doesn’t inspire you to take action, the following video might help you to get a feeling for this fascinating country.
Click here if you’re ready to take action and to meet beautiful Gambian women
Summed Up Wisdom
There are many reasons why the women in this African country want to date you that have nothing to do with money. It’s simple. They want a reliable man who doesn’t have 2 children with another woman.
Even though one-night stands are definitely possible, these girls are looking for something serious. They want you and they want you long-term (Hint: that means forever). Never forget that when you meet a girl in Banjul, Serekunda or Senegambia.
But don’t worry. They speak your language and they know how to treat a man. Impress her with one or two tribal words and she’ll be yours. Enjoy your time.
Sebastian Harris says
Iam a Nigerian from North part want have a girlfriend from Gambian from 25 – 29
Sebastian Harris says
I hope you’ll find her.
hi, I’m a native of Nigeria I, leave in borkinafaso I’m single and I need a lady of my choice
Sebastian Harris says
I haven’t been anywhere else. Yeah, if she’s more than 15 years younger it can be because of money. But not for all girls. Some are into older men.
Nick S says
My experience of Afro has been less positive . On and off over anumber of years I have found that all the African women I have corresponded with have asked me for money .Maybe it is because I am in my 50s and chatting with women 20 years younger .The stories are always heart rending about operations needed for close relatives or their rent needs paying or they will become homeless.It is very difficult when you have established a bond with people to say no as it may be a scam .Even the nicest people do it . I think they see white European men as rich and we are compared to them. I have not been able to balance protecting myself with finding a relationship . I have sent money when the stories are too painful but when you stop they stop writing .
You also have not said whether you ended up with a nice long term girlfriend or just had a number of dates .Did you go to Lagos or Accra or any where else ?
Sebastian Harris says
You’ll find one.
I’m a girl and I want girl friend for me