Why would you be looking for Filipino mail order brides?
Well, I guess because you believe that Pinay women…
- Are beautiful and seductive.
- Want to date and marry Western men.
- Don’t mind marrying a man who is 10, 20 or even 30 years older than they are.
What can I say? You are right.
It’s no secret that these women are cute, feminine and excellent wives.
But did you also know that it’s really easy to find your future wife?
It’s not rocket science. You don’t have to be young and handsome and you don’t have to be rich. Heck, you can meet thousands of beautiful Filipina brides for less than $10 (I’ll show you how in this article).
Finding the woman of your dreams can be easy, effortless, and fun. All you have to do is to follow a few simple steps.
And it all starts with distinguishing the truth from deception…
Step 1: Free Yourself from the Filipino Mail Order Bride Guilt
The first step in finding your future wife is to free yourself from the Filipino mail order bride guilt.
“What the fuck is that?”
Glad you ask.
The FMOBG is a disease that every Western man has.
Some suffer from it more than others, but we all have it. You and I got infected at a young age and the disease carrier is the politically correct culture we live in.
Maybe you got infected with this overwhelming feeling of guilt when you saw how some people in your neighborhood look at the happy American Filipino couple next door. Maybe you watched a documentary about “the evil” mail order bride business.
What? You told your friends and family about your dream to find a Filipina bride?
I’m sure they infected you with their concerns.
“They just want your money”
“You will get scammed”
“You can’t find a girl in your country, huh?”
I love the last one. I’m also in a relationship with a South East Asian woman and whenever someone says that to me, I give the same answer:
“I could, but why should I choose a life of misery over a life of happiness?”
Whenever I say this I see this...
The truth, even though feminists don’t want to hear it, is that marriages between Western men and Filipino women are happier and last longer than marriages between Western men and Western women. There have been countless studies that prove it. Here’s one of them.
- Say no to marrying nagging Western women (I’m sure you’ve already done that).
- Free yourself from the Filipino mail order bride guilt.
- Be proud that you’ll soon wake up next to a stunning Asian beauty.
Step 2: Think About What Christian Filipina Brides Have to Offer
Don’t get me wrong.
I’m not a frustrated man who hates Western women. Some of my best female friends are American, German, English, and Australian. It’s great to have fun with them, but I would never ever consider marrying them.
As a left-brained German, I see the facts and the facts speak for themselves:
Western women can’t compete with Filipina mail order brides
I think I don’t have to tell you that the idea of marrying an entitled, nagging, and career-oriented woman who knows that she can rake in the cash when it comes to a divorce is terrifying. But I want to tell you why the idea of marrying a Pinay bride is actually not that bad.
Just have a look at the facts:
- Filipinas are born into a patriarchal system (a real one) where respecting men is taken for granted.
- She has been raised with Christian values.
- Being a good wife and mother are her two highest goals in life.
- Divorce is illegal in the Philippines.
- Adultery is also illegal in the Philippines.
Hell, you are not looking for a party girl to spend the weekend with. You are reading this article because you want to find a Filipina bride and maybe even the future mother of your children.
Marrying a respectful, conservative, loyal Filipina woman who believes in marriage but not in divorce is the best damn decision you can make.
Step 3: Understand What Mail Order Brides from the Philippines Want
“They all want your money…these freaking gold digging bitches!”
Does that sound familiar?
I’m sure it does, at least if you’ve told your friends and family about your plans to marry a Pinay.
Well, they are wrong.
I’ve dated Filipinas and some of my closest friends are Filipinos.
Are they all gold diggers? Nope!
Do these girls dream about a good life with a man who takes care of them? Absolutely!
But let’s look at the facts again:
A Western woman who grew up in a $300.000 house doesn’t want to lower her standard once she is married.
A Filipina who grew up in a $3.000 house doesn’t want to lower her standard once she is married.
You get the point.
In comparison to Western women, Filipina mail order brides are less entitled, have lower standards, and are so much happier with less.
They don’t expect much.
All they want is a man who doesn’t run away when they are pregnant and doesn’t beat the crap out of them after a night of drinking. They dream about meeting a nice Western man who treats them with respect and kindness.
Being the man of her dream is not that hard and it costs less than you think…
Step 4: Calculate the Costs to Find Mail Order Brides from the Philippines
Let’s talk about money.
The truth is that finding Filipino mail order brides can cost as little as $10 a month or as much as $10.000 per month.
You have three options and it’s totally up to you how much you pay.
Option #1: Fly to the Philippines without meeting girls online
This can be expensive and success is not guaranteed. Just because you walk around the city all day doesn’t mean that your dream girl will magically appear out of nowhere. Imagine your disappointment when you pay more than $1000 on the flight and accommodation, just to find out later that the girl of your dreams lives in another province.
Option #2: Trust one of many Filipina Mail Order Bride Agencies
Be careful. I was not joking when I said that it can cost as much as $10.000 per month to find your Pinay bride. This is the truth, at least when you trust mail order bride agencies. There are exceptions, but most of these bride agencies try to scam the shit out of you. How do they do this? Well, they charge you more than $20 whenever you want to read a message from a girl who doesn’t even exist and they charge you another $50 when you want to write back. The costs add up and there’s a much better and cheaper option.
Option #3: Meet Filipina brides online on a Pinoy dating site
Joining a Filipina dating site is way cheaper than relying on a mail order bride agency and it allows you to chat and skype with as many REAL girls as you want without additional charges. There are many Filipina dating sites. Hundreds. Thousands. Okay, I’m exaggerating a bit, but there are a lot of dating sites that promise to give you access to hundreds of thousands of beautiful Filipinas who want to marry Western men. And they all promise that they are the best. But there are only a few that can deliver on this promise.
Step 5: Find Filipina Brides Online on THIS Pinay Dating Site
The two Filipino dating sites that I recommend to anyone who’s into Pinay girls are Pinalove and FilipinoCupid.
Pinalove has more than 600.000 members. FilipinoCupid has more than 3.5 million members. Yes, million. As you’ll see in my reviews, both dating sites are great to meet Filipino women. I even share the messages that the girls sent me.
But I have to be honest.
Pinalove is only good for guys who are looking for a holiday romance or a girlfriend in the Philippines. It’s not the right dating site for a man who is looking for a wife. If you dream about marrying a stunning Filipina woman, you have to…
Check out my FilipinoCupid review
This is the best advice I can give you because…
- FilipinoCupid is the largest Pinoy dating site on the internet
- Has the best matching algorithm
- Gives you access to millions of girls who want to marry a guy like you
Oh, and it’s free to join.
Step 6: Chat With Pinay Brides and Avoid Philippine Bride Scams
Did you check out my FilipinoCupid review?
Then you already know that chatting with Filipina girls is fun and that they are really, really, into Western men. I mean, the positive replies I got speak for themselves. These playful ladies love guys like us.
“But what if I get scammed…”
Well, there’s one thing you need to understand…
Mainstream magazines love to publish Filipina mail order bride horror stories. They love to publish this stuff. It’s fuel for their feminist agenda. And no, it’s not a coincidence that you’ve never seen a Filipino mail order bride success story on Buzzfeed.
I know dozens of men who are married to Pinay girls and they all have one thing in common:
They are happy.
None of them got scammed and do you know why?
Because none of them did any of the following things:
- They didn’t sent money to a woman they never met.
- They didn’t get naked in front of their webcam.
- They didn’t marry their Filipino wives without getting to know them and their family.
That’s it. This is really all you have to do to avoid getting scammed.
Is it really so hard to keep your credit card in your wallet and your dick in your pants?
Step 7: Win the Trust of Your Future Filipina Wife
Imagine you meet a girl who is so beautiful, smart and funny that you have to smile whenever you think about her. You dream about waking up next to her. She likes you. You like her. It’s perfect.
You decide to visit her in her hometown.
A couple of hours after you land in the Philippines you meet her in a restaurant…probably at Jollibee. She smiles when she sees you and she smiles even more when she realizes that you really want to get to know her.
You ask her everything you want to know. She tells you everything.
It turns out that she is the perfect girl for you. That’s why you decide to invite her to your apartment. You are excited to spend a romantic and passionate night with her.
Maybe, but maybe not…
She might sleep with you on the first. She might not. Don’t give up in case she doesn’t. It’s not because she doesn’t like you. It’s because she likes you but she’s afraid that you are one of these guys who…
- Lie about their feelings to get her into bed.
- Sleep with her and don’t answer the phone the next day.
- Get her pregnant and fuck off as soon as it gets serious.
In other words, she’s afraid that everything you said before was one big lie.
And I can understand her. The Philippines is a sex tourist hotspot. She wants to be sure that you are different than these guys. This takes time and if you want her to be your wife, you need to give her the time she needs to trust you.
She wants to be your loyal wife, but she wants to be sure that you also want to be her husband.
Step 8: Marry Your Chrsitian Filipina Mail Order Bride in the Philippines
Filipinas believe in God and your future wife has probably been to church more times in the last week than you in the last year. Pinays are Catholic to the core. She wants to be your wife more than a mouse wants cheese.
She dreams about her wedding day since she was a child.
I can guarantee you that she wants to wear a beautiful wedding dress and that she wants to marry in a church. Anything else would kill her mom, mother, and twenty cousins. And you don’t want that.
Let’s have a look at what you need to when you want to marry a Filipina mail order bride in the Philippines...
I’m not a lawyer and I’m also not a pastor (duh!). That’s why I can’t guarantee that everything I share with you in the following lines is 100% correct. But I did a lot of research. It’s at least 96.39% correct.
So, giddy up!
Here’s a checklist of things you need to know:
- Her parents need to agree to the marriage, at least when she’s younger than 25.
- You can easily get a marriage license at the civil registrar of the city your Pinay bride lives in (here are the requirements).
- If you want to marry in a church (she wants to), you need a document that proves that you have been baptized.
- If you want a regular civil wedding, you need a certificate of legal capacity to marry.
But let’s not think about that now.
It’s still a long time until you can see the woman of your dreams in a beautiful white dress. You still have a long way to go until you can see tears running down her cheek when she says “I do”.
Before you can even think about marrying your Filipino bride, you have to meet her, get to know her and connect with her.
Just remember that even the longest way starts with the first step.
Take the first step now and enjoy your future with your beautiful Filipina bride.
Summed Up Wisdom
Finding and meeting your Filipina mail order bride is not that hard. First, you have to realize that your desire to marry a Pinay woman is not bad. Thinking about the qualities of a Filipina wife will give you the motivation to meet her online and to be the man she always dreamed of.
And as long as you don’t do anything stupid, such as sending money to a girl you’ve never met, you don’t have to be afraid of getting scammed. You won’t. Instead, you have the chance to connect with dozens of beautiful Filipina brides. Your future wife might be one of them.
What if you have found the perfect girl? Meet her and give her the time she needs to trust you. Once she trusts you, it’s just a matter of time until she cries tears of joy when you ask her to marry you. She imagined being your loyal wife the moment she opened your first message.
Sebastian Harris says
I only have experience with Filipina Cupid and Pina Love. I don’t have any experience with Truly Filipina. Thanks for the info. I’ll check it out.
What about TrulyFilipina?