Do you think you are able to read and to interpret the most common female sex signals?
Have you ever been in a situation in which you haven’t been quite sure if the woman you are looking at is interested in you in a sexual way?
What sign is she showing you? The full package!
I think you, me and every other heterosexual man on this planet who has the courage to look at a woman for more than five seconds had such an experience.
One of the worst things that you can do in such a situation is to not only accept the fact that you can’t read the sex signals of the woman you are interested in, but to also not approach her, just because you can’t interpret her signs.
What might be even worse is when she obviously shows you that she is attracted to you and that she wants to rip your clothes off, while you interpret her signs the opposite way. While she thinks about swallowing your offsprings, you falsely assume that she is just another girl who isn’t interested in you.
On your way home you already think about which porn movie could possibly help you to get over her. At the same time she goes home with tears in her eyes and anger in her heart, because you didn’t approach her.
Instead of having an unforgettable night of passion and lust with a girl who clearly showed you more than once that she wants you, you both spend the night alone.
Do you want to know what she does as soon as she is home? She takes her Lovegasm vibrator out of the cupboard and starts to masturbate while she thinks about the passionate sex that she could have had with you.
15 Female Sex Signals You Probably Interpret Wrong
Because I don’t want you to experience this feeling of regret ever again, I thought it would be a good idea to present you the 15 most common female sex signals that horny women all over the world throw at you.
I hope you interpret the signs of the next girl you see the right way. I also hope that you are going to fuck her the whole night, instead of forcing her to destroy another vibrator.
The following video and the next one million words will help you to do both. Even though the two chicks in the video are totally annoying, I have to admit that they mention quite a few signals that I also talk about. And the left one has extremely big boobs, so I guess it’s worth watching:
Now that you lost a few brain cells by listening to the Wing Girl freaks it’s time to reactivate your brain again…
1. She Comes Closer
In case you love clubs, you are probably familiar with the following situation:
You stand at the bar, chat with a friend and nobody is standing behind you. Suddenly, you have the feeling that something behind you is moving. You turn around to have a look and are surprised that a sexy girl appeared out of nowhere.
You don’t know her and she doesn’t look familiar. You can’t really tell why she suddenly stands behind you.
“Why is she shaking her ass and coming towards me? I don’t understand that?!”
“She is probably just waiting for a friend. I better make some space for her; otherwise I might hit her with my elbow.”
This is the very moment where you deserve a slap in the face. In case you have done this last week in the club, you can now allow yourself a couple of minutes of being angry at yourself. After you have hit your head against the wall, you have to promise yourself that you won’t ever make the same mistake again.
The fact that a woman suddenly appears out of nowhere in order to accidentally stand behind you is NOT a coincidence. They do this because they hope that you turn around and start to talk to them. Oh, and in case she touches your back while she is standing behind you, you can be 100% sure that she wants you.
The next time a girl accidentally positions herself right behind you, you know what to do. Every time a girl does this she basically screams: “don’t you see me? Approach me, please!”
Unless she is absolutely not your type you should do her the favor and approach her.
2. The Lip Bite
What does a girl think about when she bites her lip?
In case she looks at you while doing it she probably doesn’t think about eating you, unless she is a cannibal, in which case you should run as fast as you can.
When a woman bites her lip in the presence of a man she wants to show him that she is sexually attracted to him.
In most cases this is a subconscious decision and she doesn’t even do it on purpose. In this moment her socially conditioned good girl behavior gets replaced with her animal instincts that are craving for your dick. The moment she bites her lip she thinks about something she wants to do with you that you will definitely enjoy.
3. Ass out, Tits out
No matter if a woman stands in front of you or sits next to you, as soon as her instincts tell her brain that sexual reproduction with you is a great idea, her posture will automatically change.
I call this The Feminine Mode
First, she crosses her legs. This will naturally accentuate her hips, which makes her appear more feminine. In addition to that, she will emphasize the fact that Mother Nature gave her two beautiful breasts and a sexy ass.
That’s a perfect example of The Female Mode
A woman who is in The Feminine Mode does everything she can to show you that having sex with her is an extremely pleasurable experience. A straight posture to emphasize her balloons and her crossed legs to show her prolific hips are probably enough to turn your head.
This female sex signal is most obvious when you approach a woman in a very direct way. The next time you do this you should have a closer look on how her posture changes as soon as you give her a compliment. If she does the tits out, ass out move you can confidently assume that she is attracted to you and that she wants you to know that she feels this way.
4. The Puppy Face
What can I say about The Puppy Face?
Please remember the last time you have been in a group conversation and one of the girls in the group always looked up to you while she smiled as if she was the shiest girl on the planet. Of course she did this in a very subtle way so that nobody else than you could see the way she looks at you.
In case you can’t remember any situation in which a girl looked at you this way, there is still a 50% chance that you experienced it.
Most men just lack the necessary knowledge and awareness to detect this female sex signal.
The Puppy Face communicates that she respects you as a leader and that she is willing to submissively follow your lead. The next time you are in a group conversation with a few girls you know what you have to pay attention to. With some practice you will easily find out to which of the girls you should talk to in private once the conversation is over.
5. Hello Boobies
Another extremely popular female sex signal is The Hello Boobies Move. When you talk to a woman and she slowly but steadily pulls her top down without making it appear obvious, she definitely wants you.
“Oh, I am so sorry! I didn’t know that my jacket was open…”
She wants to show you more and more of her delicious breasts, but the last thing she wants is that you think that she does it on purpose.
Of course she does it on purpose, even if she might claim that “it is really hot in here”. The only thing she can think of is to bring more blood from your brain down to your penis. While you stare at her breasts that seem to get bigger every time you turn around, she is certain of victory.
Oh, there’s one last piece of advice you absolutely have to follow if you become a victim of The Hello Boobies Move:
Don’t even think about addressing your observation.
I know how proud you are that you are one of the few men who know what’s happening, but that’s no reason to mess everything up.
Her biggest fear is to be seen as a slut and unfortunately most people in our society are still ignorant enough to label a woman who wants to show her breasts to a man as a slut. Don’t give her the feeling that she is a slut, by exposing her behavior. Shut up and enjoy the view and the fact that you will get laid.
6. Direct Eye Contact
If a woman looks you straight in the eyes and combines this direct eye contact with an inviting smile, you can be quite sure that she is attracted to you and that she wants you to approach her.
The only problem is that I and many other people who have been raised in a Western country are conditioned to believe that direct eye contact is somehow rude and inappropriate. As a result of this cultural conditioning, nearly nobody is able to maintain prolonged eye contact.
It really blew me away when I visited Poland for the first time and later other Eastern European countries. Suddenly, I was surrounded by women who were not afraid to look me straight in the eyes. In case you are not in Eastern Europe you can regard it as a huge compliment if a girl looks you straight in the eyes.
7. The Seductive Smile
I already told you that the infamous Puppy Face isn’t always obvious. The seductive smile, on the other hand, is usually very obvious.
Unfortunately, most guys run around with blinders that are bigger than the ones of a racing horse. And to make matters worse, some women are a bit anxious about making it too obvious.
Do you remember that the biggest fear of a woman is to be labeled as a slut?
The attempt to hide her attraction leads to seductive smiles that are difficult to recognize for the inexperienced eye.
That’s why I want to transform your inexperienced eyes into experienced eyes by giving you the advice to consciously practice your awareness. Seriously, study the facial expressions of women. As creepy as this hobby may sound, it is extremely helpful when you want to learn to detect whether or not a woman is attracted to you.
8. Cheers!
Have you ever been in a bar, made eye contact with a woman and she raised her glass while she smiled at you?
You might think that this only happens in movies, but I have actually seen it a couple of times that women do this when they try to motivate a man they like to come over.
She silently screams: “come over you pussy!”
Of course she won’t do it as obvious as it is displayed in Hollywood movies where she raises her glass one meter above her head and looks as if she just had a multiple orgasm.
She will do it in a subtle way and the best thing you can do to respond to her is by also raising your glass and by moving your lazy ass to her table.
9. Lick it Baby
The female sex signal that I am going to talk about now is very similar to the lip-bite but it is even more likely that she does it without intending to do it.
When a woman looks at you and licks her lips she wants you to know that you make her horny. Even though she knows that doing this on purpose would seem a bit too aggressive, she might still do it on a subconscious level. She just can’t control herself while she is thinking about embracing your dick with her juicy lips.
But thinking about blowing you the whole night is not the only reason why she might lick her lips.
That’s the subtle under the radar version
and…
That’s the more obvious over the radar sign
When we human beings are nervous, our lips tend to get dry, while the other parts of our body start to sweat. This can naturally lead to the desire to lick our lips.
When you come to think about it, it doesn’t really matter why she licks her lips. She either does it because she is sexually aroused, or because you make her nervous. In both cases she does it because she wants you.
10. The Touch
You can say what you want, but when a woman touches a man it has always a sexual undertone.
Don’t tell me that you don’t feel at least slightly aroused when you hug your best female friend. In case you feel absolutely nothing when she presser her breasts against your chest, you are either lying or asexual.
Most men would never admit that they have sexual thoughts when their female friends touch them, but the truth is that it is in our nature to feel excited when women touch us.
And, by the way, how can you be sure that she doesn’t feel the same?
A subtle touch is still one of the best ways for a woman to express her desire to sleep with you, without making it too obvious.
This might be a soft touch on your arm, on your back or your chest. Some women even take it to the next level by softly stroking their fingers over your crotch.
She just wants to let you know that she enjoys touching you and that it would be okay for her if you would do the same.
11. The Offended Look
The offended look is my most favorite female sex signal. It is also one of the sex signals that most guys interpret completely wrong.
Every successful seducer knows that offending women with direct, offensive and completely inappropriate jokes can lead to two different outcomes.
Is she really offended or is she just submissively looking at you?
She is either really offended, or she pretends to be offended while she secretly admires you for your cocky attitude. In case she is really offended she will make it obvious by telling you to “fuck off” and by changing her body language to attack mode.
Do you want such a girl?
Hell no!
In case she just pretends to be offended, she will let you know.
A woman who is really offended doesn’t come closer to you and she also doesn’t smile in a cheeky way while she tries to maintain her “I am pissed face”.
12. The Giggly Girl
Have you ever experienced it that a girl who talked to everyone else in a normal and serious way suddenly turns into a giggly girl as soon as she talks to you?
In case you have, I hope that you took her back to your place or that you at least got her phone number. She was definitely into you and she tried very hard to let you know.
Some women do this on purpose, because they exactly know that this triggers our protective instinct.
It’s hard to admit, but when attractive women act like vulnerable girls our manly hearts turn into pudding.
Other women do it unintentionally. They do it because they are nervous and the only reaction their brain knows when confronted with nervousness is to giggle like a child. In both cases she shows her interest.
13. Playing with the Necklace
Women love to send you sex signals by playing around with some of their accessories. They know that it is an easy way to get your attention. Due to the fact that a necklace is more obvious than a bracelet, a lot of girls start to play with their necklace when they are near a guy they are interested in.
To be honest, the most obvious reason for this is because they know that by playing with their necklace you are basically forced to stare at the cleavage.
In combination with firmly pulling down her top this female sex signal can be very powerful. Of course some women also play with their necklace when they are bored, but as soon as she looks at you while doing it you should know that not boredom, but horniness is the reason for her action.
14. Look at My Hair!
In my opinion there is nothing more beautiful than a woman with long hair.
She wants you to imagine how you pull her hair when you f*** her from behind
For me this is the number one symbol of femininity and thanks to countless conversations with other men I can confidently say that I am by far not the only guy who sees it that way. That’s why I am afraid of the recent trend among women to cut their hair very short…thanks Miley Cyrus!
Of course women are aware of the fact that the majority of men are attracted to long hair. She knows that all you can think of when she starts to play with her hair is to play with the rest of her body.
A woman who plays with her hair while she talks to you or just looks at you communicates that she is playful, feminine AND that she wants you.
Would you say “no” to a playful and feminine woman who wants you?
15. Hide and Seek
The last female sex signal that I am going to share with you today is The Hide and Seek Game.
Women absolutely love to play when they are trying to turn a man’s head and they know that playing hide and seek is one of the best ways to make you addicted to them.
When I talk about hide and seek I don’t mean that she hides under the table and shows you her vagina once you have found her. This would be too good to be true. By hide and seek I mean the typical game that a woman plays with her eyes, as soon as she spots a man she is attracted to.
Imagine you see a girl and you try to establish eye contact. She immediately looks to the ground, either because she is nervous or because she wants to show that she is submissive, or both. Then you look away. In this moment she tries to look you in the eyes while she smiles at you. As soon as you look in her direction she giggles and looks away again.
This game will go on until you go over and talk to her.
By doing this she wants to playfully show her interest while she tries to communicate that she is an innocent and shy girl who expects you to make the first move. Your job is to read this sex signal and to make the first move.
What if you can’t make the first move?
Summed Up Wisdom
I really hope that listing the 15 most common female sex signals gave you a lot of new insights and made you realize that it can be quite easy to find out if a woman is attracted to you or not.
On the one hand you have to look at very subtle signs, such as the fact that she comes closer and closer to you, the fact that she reveals more and more of her cleavage and the fact that she smiles at you in a seductive way. In addition to that, women send out a lot of signs that are more obvious, such as the lip-bite, the change of her posture, the puppy face and direct eye contact.
Another call to action is when a woman raises her glass, when she plays with her necklace and when she plays with her hair. Women also use different emotions to send sex signals to you. Sometimes they pretend to be offended, sometimes they start to giggle and sometimes they show their interest in a physical way by licking their lips and touching you. If you then successfully play the hide and seek game with her you have already won.
brother i know how you feel im shy i have alot of girls mile at me i talk about the weather some even giggle dont no what to do nervous
Okay guys, this girl have been with me (not often) for two months after a suspended relationship with a friend who is not into her, is obvious that she dont want a relationship with me. But she talks about sex when were together alone, sometimes with my other friends, when she comes around she will and hug me and my friends, as in one of the points you mentioned hug. How will i know if this girl want sex or she just want to play around or anything.
Hi Sylvia,
Not all men give sex signals as far as I know. I don’t think most men would have a problem with
a woman being a virgin. In fact I would say that it;s something a lot of men would prefer.Because
women with experience is not always the experience that is compatible with the man Its like cutting a record they aren’t always going to like the other men’s music they want to make their own tunes in their own unique psychic way if that makes any sense?. .
Hey Andrew,
check out my about page and you will know all the names.
Johnny Berba is the name of the British Coach who has admitted publicly he lost his virginity to a hooker at age 21, so Sasha Daygame was your mentor, if someone else, who else mentored and coached, helped you to become good with women?
Hey Harsha,
maybe it means that you are a lucky man.
What does mean if my maid lifts her eyebrows seeing me,and gives a slight smile.
Hey James,
just tell her that her lips look delicious. She’ll know what you want to do with them.
Great article. How do you compliment a woman’s lips if she is a friend? (She has broken up with her boyfriend a while back and I’m reconnecting after some time not seeing her).
Ironically that banana picture happened to me a long time back with her (though she wasn’t single at the time). I honestly think she has a hot mouth. How does one hook up with a sweet female friend?
Hey Sylvia,
thanks a lot for your comment, but I guess I won’t write it because my site is for men who are looking for dating advice. Men who are looking for a long-term relationship will love the fact that you are a virgin. Don’t think that this is bad.
Thanks for writing this article. Do you think you could write one about the sex signals that men give off. I mean if you haven’t already written it. Also is it okay to tell a guy that I am seeing that I am a 25 year old virgin? I feel weird about it, I’m an extremely shy woman who has been hurt before so I have no idea if it’s okay or not. Do men care about whether or not women are virgins?
It’s just way easier for women to get sex. Men are very visual. Women search for qualties in men. And we have to acquire these qualities.
whenever you hear of a person who surpasses their mid-20’s or reaches their 30’s and has never had a relationship before or still a virgin, it’s almost always guys, men, and the reason should be obvious, i think it’s also part of biology as well too, i’m sure something similiar happens in the animal kingdom. The guy who lost his virginity to an escort, i know that British Dating Coach, although he used to be one, he is still a coach but his main priority now is just helping people remove, kill social anxiety and improve their social-lives, improve their social-skills, conversation-skills. He even has admitted publicly that he lost his virginity to a hooker at age 21.
As for animals, i had been doing research on Elephant Seals, it is provenly estimated that the vast majority of male elephant seals die virgins, never get to mate.
Hey Tom,
yeah, that signal was too obvious to write it in that list 😉
You forgot biting you on the neck, although usually by the time she does that, her bra is off.
Your move was good. Especially the massage prize.
but what do you think about the way i did my move ? was it a bad way ?
There will always be guys who play games and girls who play games. That’s life. Focus your energy on finding the ones who don’t need those games.
I have got a little storry to illustrate how fucking stupid it is to try to read female signals.
I asked to one of my female friends (ok it’s a sex friend) about a storry with an other girl.
This girl gave me a gift, said i was beautifull, and touch me a lot…but she rejected me when i did a move (she wone a bet against me, i playfully offered to exchange the initial price for the winner against a free massage, she asked if i were serious, i said “guess”, and then she didn’t answer).
My sex friend explained to me that all those things mean nothing, that she may very well have no romantic interest in me, and see me like a friend.
And then she explained that she is herself playing with a guy, saying him things like “i want to bit your neck” and “you are hot”, but in fact she has no romantic interest in him…crazy, right ? someday it’s hard to love women…
I did it with Sasha and it changed my life.
By the way, do you recommend the Sasha PUA London bootcamp for two days?
” but you don’t know what it’s like to already get an erection when you just see a smoking hot woman walk in the street in a sexy way. How can I ever approach them with such a handicap? ” i hope you are kiding…almost all guys are like that…i have an erection halph of the time when i’m talking with my gf…
” Were you crying in a good or bad way? ” i wasn’t craying but i wanted to, and it was in a bad way.
I’m really not sure about what you say on virginity, i think it clearly shows a low value and a lacke of social skills, which kills attraction.
Women want loyalty but in the same time they want hight value men.
I know what that’s like. I am horny 24/7. Masturbate before you go out to approach. Yes, women are more attracted to experienced guys, but just because something is a bit harder doesn’t mean that you should give up on it.
I am glad that you do’t regret your experience, but I think I would have regretted it. Were you crying in a good or bad way? 😛
I didn’t say that most girls fantazise about taking a man’s virginity, but I do say that a lot of them are cool with it, if you don’t make a big deal out of it.
I lost my virginity with an escort, after that i was almost crying, however i don’t regret it because it helped me to feel more relaxed about sexe, so now i can sexualise easier with a “real” girl and i’m not stressed about what come after. So i i have to disagree with you Sébastian.
Also about the virginity thing, i think that most women are more relaxed if the man is experienced, or pretend to be. If a man is still Virgin at 20 someting, it shows low value, so it’s not a good idea to talk about that. It’s mainly men who fantasise about taking the virginity of a girl.
I respect your opinion and I can surely see where you’re coming from, but you don’t know what it’s like to already get an erection when you just see a smoking hot woman walk in the street in a sexy way. How can I ever approach them with such a handicap? By the way, you already said that women are attracted to men who are experienced. That means I’m already out of the game. Especially with my age. I already contacted the escort in question. She specialized in this and she’s also a sexologist. I’m not just paying her for sex. I’m mainly paying her for advice in bed. It’s like training. I think we’re just gonna have to disagree on this.
I think it’s not a good idea to lose your virginity with an escort. Yes, you want sex but you also want something else. You want to feel like a real man and you want to feel desired. An escort can never give you this feeling. You want something real, otherwise you would go to a prostitute without hesitating. In addition to that, paid sex can kill your motivation to work on yourself, because it is easier to spend 50 bucks than to overcome your fears. It won’t improve you at all.
will some girls be turned off by it? maybe some, but those are not the girls you really want. A lot of women don’t care, as long as you are honest. The biggest mistake you can make is to lie to them.
Sorry , but I have another question. If my virginity isn’t a big deal, what about my serious lack of relationships? Won’t that be a huge stumble block when you’re trying to find a girlfriend at my age?
Thanks, I gotta say you’re the first guy to tell me that I have to be honest about this to women. Most guys tell me that I should lie about it. I have read some of your content. Very interesting stuff. I have to ask something though. I think my biggest problem is that I have never touched a naked woman. This fills me with a literal fear. I maybe thought about seeing an escort to get this over with first. What are your thoughts on this? Bad idea?
Hey Rust,
if you search in my archive you’ll find an article about how to approach women the right way. By searching my site you’ll also find an article about what you can say to women. The best tip I can give you is to be honest about the fact that you are a virgin. For most girls it’s not a bit deal and some even fantazise about taking your virginty.
Oh my God! I get looks and smiles quite often. I’ve always known I’m a good looking guy, but I just don’t know how to approach women. Everytime they stare at me I wait for them to come to me. This never happens though. What do I even say to them? Nice weather, huh? I mean, it just seems so stupid. You’re not gonna believe this but I’m already 28 and have never done anything physical with a woman. I was always comfortable with it, but now It’s really depressing me. I’m approaching 30. I think it’s already too late. What woman could possibly want a 30 year old virgin?
That’s why I said that it is more common in Eastern European countries. Looking down is also good, looking in the sky is often a sign of disinterest
” Direct Eye Contact ” i’m not sure about this one, it could be the exact opposite, if she likes you and if you impress her, she could fell insecure looking at you directly in the eyes, and so she could look away or even looking down.