Do you want to meet sexy Ethiopian girls in the mother country?
That’s how they call it. This place on earth is considered the origin of civilization. This is the place where scientists have discovered the jawbone of a 2.8 million-year-old human…maybe the first on the planet.
"Reeeally?"
Most of them are between the age of 18 and 35. And yes, they are breathtaking. The stories and tales are true.
Here’s what you will learn:
Let’s start with the one question you can’t stop thinking about…
3 Reasons Why Ethiopian Women are the Most Beautiful (In Africa)
“Ethiopian women are the most beautiful women in the world!”
You’ve heard it before. Hundreds of articles have been written about the beauty of the women at the roof of Africa.
But why? Nobody knows!
Of course, everyone and their grandmother write about the incredible features of these fascinating females. Their high cheek bones, their big round eyes, their large breasts…but nobody has an answer.
I did some research. And found the answer.
1. Revealed: Why are Ethiopian Women so Beautiful?
Oh, I forgot to mention their incredible cheeks (not the one in the face), their wild hair, and their chocolate skin.
I can’t stop thinking about the beautiful Ethiopian women I met online.
Isn’t it weird?
You ask someone about the most beautiful women in the world. Usually, the answer contains the words Colombia, Russia, Ukraine, or Japan. Nobody says Africa.
Please don’t get me wrong. I love dark-skinned women. But let’s face it. No African country gets so much attention.
Here’s the scientific explanation:
An autosomal DNA study in the year 2001 revealed that 62% of Ethiopians have the same DNA pattern as Ashkenazi Jews, Norwegians, and Armenians. Less than 24% of their genetic influence came from African and Afro-Caribbean tribes. 6% was Chinese. A study from 2012 confirmed the fact that the non-African component that was responsible for white skin and European facial features was more dominant in Ethiopians.
That’s why these girls have…
I love science!
2. The Elegant Natural Ethiopian Beauty
That was the scientific explanation. Now it’s time to share my personal experience.
I know. Ethio girls are African. My brain knows it. But my heart doesn’t accept it. They are just too different. Neither Kenyan nor Nigerian women are in any way comparable.
It’s hard to describe.
You have to experience it for yourself after you’ve read this article.
Even though these girls live in one of the poorest countries on earth, they dress and behave as if they have an appointment on the red carpet. It’s truly fascination.
3. Don’t Get Fooled by Ethiopian American Girls
There’s one more thing you need to know about their beauty.
Do you remember what I asked you at the beginning?
I asked if you want to meet Ethiopian babes in the mother land. I asked this question because I hope you are here for the real deal. And no, I don’t consider the 151.515 Ethiopian-born Americans as the real deal.
I don’t know how many of them are women, but I do know this:
Not the same
Yes, you can meet a lot of them in Washington D.C and New York City. But just because she looks Ethiopian doesn’t mean that she lives and breathes the culture.
4 Facts You Didn’t Know about Sexy Ethiopian Girls (Stereotypes Debunked)
Here’s something to think about:
Ethiopian girls are the opposite of African girls.
It sounds weird, but it’s true. I mean, you already know that they are technically half-European. Genes don’t lie. But the lies about them continue.
Let’s debunk the stereotypes…
4. The Phenomenon of the Uneducated Responsible Ethiopian Girl
I still don’t know how this is possible.
Ethiopians have the second lowest IQ in the world. You can’t deny it. The official data is there. And yes, I’m sure it has to do with the malnutrition in the poorer areas, but there are some things that fascinate me even more.
Maybe it’s because of the combination of conservative Islamic and Christian Orthodox values. I don’t know. All I know is that hot Ethiopian chicks are more responsible than the girls in neighboring countries.
5. Ethiopian Girls Debunk the Stereotype of the Loud African Woman
Who doesn’t know about the stereotype of the loud African woman?
Well, sexy Ethiopian models are not like that.
They are a lot more subtle, quiet, and reserved. I didn’t make a psychological study, but I’m sure you can find more introverts in the mother land than in Ghana.
You won’t find them screaming in bars and clubs and you won’t find them fighting on the streets of Addis Ababa.
Okay, they also love to dance. But even if they shake their booties, they do it with style…
6. Ethiopian Girls and the African Epidemic of Materialism
It’s not a secret that some African girls are extremely materialistic (Hint: Nigerians).
That’s a fact, a fact I don’t like. I’m a minimalist and I’m not interested in dating girls who want to buy stuff that neither she nor anyone else needs.
Ethiopian women want the same.
They grow up with little to no money. Of course, they want to date a man who can support them. The man is the provider. That’s ingrained in their culture. But that doesn’t mean that your Ethiopian girlfriend expects you to buy her a purse, a new pair of shoes, and designer jeans.
She was happy with nothing. Now she’s happy with less.
7. Ethiopian Girls Speak Your Language (and a Bunch of Others)
English is NOT their first language.
Now what?
Well, you could learn one of the 88 languages that are spoken in the country. Come on. Make a little effort. Love has its price. Only 86 of them are still spoken.
If you start today, you are fluent in 50 years.
No, seriously. You don’t even have to learn Oromo or Amharic, the two most popular languages because English is the medium of instruction in universities and secondary schools. Unless you meet a girl who hasn’t finished high school (not a good idea), she will speak English.
All the girls I met online spoke English.
4 Tips for Meeting Ethiopian Women Online (The Perfect Approach)
What’s the best way to meet English-speaking Ethiopian girls?
Online dating
That’s the only answer because…
8. Thousands of Ethiopian Girls are Looking for You Online
How many of them?
Ethiopia has a population of more than 100.000 people. That’s more people than the Czech Republic, Croatia, Bulgaria, Hungary, and Italy combined.
In other words, you can meet thousands of them. Yes, right now!
and they all want to look good...
“On which Ethiopian dating site did you meet them?” I hear you asking.
Well, I had a look at the largest Ethiopian dating site. This site promised to be THE number one site to meet Ethiopian girls looking for marriage, dating, and love.
I got utterly disappointed…
9. Afrointroductions vs Ethiopian Personals (Not What You Expect)
So I joined Ethiopianpersonals.com.
I expected it to be the best dating site to meet women in this country. I had a look at the profiles. I searched for women in Addis Ababa.
Then I compared this dating site with Afro Introductions, the largest African dating site.
The results shocked me:
Afro Introductions has more female members than Ethiopian Personals
I made three separate tests:
- 1I searched for girls between the age of 18 and 21 in Addis Ababa.
- 2I searched for girls between the age of 18 and 29 in Dire Dawa.
- 3I searched for girls between the age of 21 and 37 in Bahir Dar.
Afro Introductions won. Every. Single. Time.
Here’s why:
The most popular countries on Ethiopian Personals are Canada and Eritrea.
The most popular countries on Afro Introductions are Cameroon, Cote d’Ivorie, and Ethiopia.
I know that it’s counterintuitive that the largest African dating site has more female members than a site ONLY for Ethiopian women. But it’s true. The data is clear.
And it makes sense.
Afro Introductions is the largest African dating site with more than 2.500.000 members and Ethiopia is under the top three.
Click here to see the message I got from a hot Ethiopian girl
10. Approach a Habesha Girl in a Non-African Way
Sorry, I totally forgot to tell you that Ethiopian single women call themselves Habeshas. It’s a local word for the people who live at the Horn of Africa.
Here’s what you need to know about Habesha girls:
If you check out my Afro Introductions review (the link I shared above), you’ll stumble on two types of messages I sent out.
One opener is romantic. I called it the overly romantic opener. The other one is very sexual. I called it the slightly sexual opener. African women love the sexual opener.
You can see the positive replies in my review.
What about the women in Ethiopia?
I got zero replies from the sexual opener and a lot of replies from the romantic opener. Remember that before you send the wrong message. Heck, just copy and paste my romantic opener. You’ll get replies.
11. Addis Ababa and Dire Dawa are Your Only Two Options
Meeting Ethiopian singles for marriage or dating is easy.
But you have to focus on girls in Addis Ababa or Dire Dawa. Okay, Bahir Dar is also an option, but don’t go smaller. These are the only cities with more than 500.000 people.
Isn't Addis Ababa beautiful?
In these cities you’ll meet girls who…
Dating an African village girl is not as romantic as it sounds.
3 Thoughts That Sexy Ethiopian Girls Have (About You)
What do cute Ethiopian girls think about Western men?
It’s one of the only African countries that have never been colonized. That’s why she doesn’t think of you as an oppressor. For her, you’re a good catch, not a weirdo with a colonial fetish.
They know Western people for foreign aid, not for exploitation.
Look at the image she has in mind when she thinks about meeting a man like you…
12. This is What Ethiopian Girls Think of Their Husbands
Every woman in this country wants to be a wife.
Feminism is not a part of society. Heck, some girls get married when they’re 15. Not that I think that it’s good. But you have to play with the cards your dealt.
Here are the cards you can play with:
You'll be a damn happy guy
That’s how she’s been raised. That’s what she believes in. And she considers herself lucky that you choose her and that she doesn’t have to “choose” a local guy her parents want her to marry.
Here’s what one of the girls I met online said:
“In Ethiopia, a woman’s status depends on her ability as a wife and mother.”
13. This is What Ethiopian Girls Think of Marriage
Here’s the truth about being in a relationship or marriage with a woman from Ethiopia:
If you grow up struggling for survival, you don’t break up because of a pair of dirty socks on the floor.
These women know how to make a marriage work. Not making it work is not an option. She knows your value. And she knows that she won’t find another guy who treats her like you.
14. She Doesn’t Want to Have 7 Children with You
Relax and take a deep breath.
I know. You’ve read about the high birthrate. Now you’re afraid that your Ethiopian girlfriend wants 7 children. But don’t worry. The girls in the cities (the ones you’ll meet) think differently.
According to the BBC, Ethiopia has seen a massive cut in its birth rate.
- 1Family planning has become more popular.
- 2Contraception is now widely accessible.
- 3The birthrate in Addis Ababa is 1.7.
That’s a lower birth rate than in Iceland, the United Kingdom and Sweden. There’s nothing to be afraid of. She probably doesn’t even want to have children.
5 Tips for Being the Perfect Man for an Ethiopian Girl (And Her Scars)
Ethiopian women who are seeking men for marriage and dating want to meet a man like you. For them, you are a 10. That’s why so many of them join Afro Introductions.
Are you perfect?
Well, you are, at least for her…but only if you do the following things…
15. You Have a Habesha Friend. Yes, You Do
She’s curious.
It’s rare to see European, American, or Australian tourists Ethiopia, especially when you leave the capital. That’s why she wants to know why you are her.
Here’s what I would do:
Tell her that you’ve had an Ethiopian friend in college. Or tell her that you’re curious about the culture and the people.
Just don’t tell her that you once banged a Habesha girl and now you’re hooked.
She’ll take it the wrong way.
16. Ethiopian Women Love White Men (What a Surprise)
Are you white?
African girls love you.
Beautiful Ethiopian girl you meet online is no exception.
Even though the country has never been colonized, the beauty ideal remains. Maybe it’s even stronger in the mother land because the girls have lighter skin than in other parts of Africa.
You’ll see what I mean when you give online dating a shot.
17. Ethiopian Women Love Men Who Educate Them
Ethiopian ladies have traditional parents.
They have to jump through hoops to finish high school. What about college? Forget about it! Most parents don’t allow their daughters to go. It’s such a waste of money.
Is it? Really?
Imagine you meet a girl who wants to go to college so bad.
Will you allow her to go?
You should because she’ll be thankful forever.
18. Ethiopian Women Dream of Meeting a Nice Guy
Hot Ethiopian girls want nice guys.
Here’s why:
According to a systematic review about domestic violence against women and associated factors in Ethiopia, physical violence ranges from 31% to 75.5% and sexual abuse from 19.2% to 59%. This study also found out, that the violence is directly correlated with sociodemographic characteristics.
In other words, half of the women who are married or in a relationship are abused by their boyfriends and husbands.
This is the reason why she wants a Western man.
19. An Ethiopian Girl Wants a Man Who Loves Her and Her Scars
Not all Ethiopian beauties have scars.
But if you’re dating a tribal girl (remember: be careful), she might have one or two scars. Maybe her whole body is full of scars. Her scars are the reason why she feels beautiful.They are a part of her culture.
and yes, they paint their scars
Her ideal of beauty is the opposite of the beauty ideal in the West.
Of course, this only affects tribal girls from rural areas. But you might meet one of them in a bigger city. Don’t be scared when you see her naked for the first time.
2 Tips for the Perfect First Date Venue in Ethiopia
What if you meet an incredibly beautiful girl online and she wants to meet you?
What’s next?
Your first date is next.
And you should be prepared. You can’t just take her to any random street food vendor at the corner of the darkest road in Addis Ababa. She’ll be scared and you’ll end up with a nasty diarrhea.
Instead, choose one of the following venues for your first date.
20. The Best Dating Venues in Addis Ababa
Of course, you can also meet Ethiopian women at these places.
But most of these venues are a bit chaotic and not that good for daygame. It’s way better to meet girls online and to take them to these places for the first and second date.
The third date should be at your place. Here’s the list:
Ask her to visit the Addis Mercato with you (the biggest open air market)
Visit the St. George’s Cathedral and museum (prove that you’re interested in the culture)
Enjoy the local food at the Habesha Cultural Restaurant (Warning: Spicy!)
Take selfies at the Lion of Judah monument (kiss her cheek for the photo)
Drink an original Ethiopian coffee at one of the local cafes (delicious)
21. The Best Dating Venues in Dire Dawa
Dire Dawa is the second largest city in the country.
There’s a 90% chance that you’ll end up meeting girls who live in Addis Ababa. But there’s also a 10% chance that you’ll visit Dire Dawa.
Here’s a list with ideas for your first date:
Taste the local food in the Paradiso restaurant (they also have pasta)
Please her tongue with Al-Hashimi sweets
Visit the Dire Dawa Market (less chaotic than the Addis Mercato)
Ask her to show you the Bete Mikael Church (and talk about your values)
Now you know where to go on your first date. But you still didn’t learn the rough dating lessons that will make or break your success…
7 Lessons for Dating Ethiopian Women (Eskista & Amharic)
What does it take to date a girl in this country?
Be nice and don’t hit her.
That’s a good start. But there’s more to it. And it all starts with the perfect answer to an uncomfortable question.
22. Her First Date Question: What Do You Do For a Living?
I said that they are not materialistic.
What’s the point of asking this question if you’re not in it for the money?
Remember:
She has struggled all her life. Her sister and maybe even her mum have been abused by their husbands. Yeah, what about their husbands? Whenever they have money, they spend it.
That’s why she asks this question.
She wants to know if you can support her. Just tell her that you have a job and that you save at least 10% of it. That’s all she wants to hear.
23. Learn How to Eat with Your Hands (Do it for Love)
Dating Ethiopian women is about using your hands.
I’m talking about eating (not her). I don’t know how to say this, but forget about knife, fork, and spoon. You won’t need them. You have to learn to use your hands.
Learn and watch:
Get this skill down and she’ll ask you to make beautiful babies..
24. Ethiopian Girls Don’t Have the Money to Pay for Their Drinks
You’re ready. You know how to use your hands.
But you don’t want to date a gold digger. That’s why you promise yourself to not pay for her food and drink on the first date. I live by the same rule. But Ethiopia is one of these countries where it just doesn’t work.
Sorry, but I have bad news for you.
The average salary is $660. And no, that’s not $660 per month. That’s her yearly income. She won’t be able to pay for the $10 meal at one of the best restaurants in town.
25. Remember that You’re Not Dating a Nigerian Woman
The same rules that apply to online dating apply to your first date.
Don’t be too sexual!
"I'm so shy..."
Ethiopian chicks are not like the women in Kenya, Nigeria, or Ghana.
If she wants you, she’ll sleep with you. But it won’t happen as fast as in other African countries.
26. She Won’t Introduce Her Foreign Boyfriend to Her Parents
Pretty Ethiopian women are afraid of their parents.
If her mom and dad knew that she’s dating you…oh boy.
They’d expect you to marry her. That’s why you are her little secret. She enjoys the time with you while her parents think that she’s out with friends.
You’ll only meet the parents if you want to marry her. That’s the rule.
27. Impress Her with Your Non-Existent Amharic Skills
You are not giving up on dating an Ethiopian woman, aren’t you?
Then learn Amharic!
No, don’t worry. You don’t have to be fluent. You don’t even have to speak a whole sentence. A couple of words are enough to impress her.
Here are some you can try:
Selam – Hello
Ibalalew – My name is
Dehna Ideru – Good night
Dehna hunu – Goodbye
Baletidar ajdelehum – I’m not married (very important!)
28. Dating an Ethiopian Girl is Like Dancing Eskista
Here’s what’s going to happen when you meet Ethiopian single ladies:
It’s like learning Eskista, the local dance.
You feel weird when you try it the first time, but the more you do it, the more you’ll enjoy it.
And the more girls you talk to on Afro Introductions, the more you’ll enjoy your trip to the mother land.
Click here to start your Ethiopian dating adventure...
Summed Up Wisdom
Why are Ethiopian women so beautiful? That’s a good question and the answer is: Genetics. These beautiful ladies have a weird mix of European, African, Caribbean, and Jewish genes. They are the proof that interracial dating is freaking awesome.
The only problem is that you can’t meet them at the local market in Addis Ababa. It’s way too chaotic. And you probably don’t want to end up with a girl who sells sheep for a living. Online dating is the solution.
I was sure that EthiopianPersonals was the best dating site. Then I ran some tests. It turned out that AfroIntroductions is better and has MORE members. That shocked me. And it might shock you to see her scars when she gets naked. Tell her that she’s beautiful.
Thanks for sharing!
Beautiful!!!! Gold Bless You Brother!!!!
Hey Harry,
yep, you can meet a lot of girls on Afro Introductions.
Had a look on afrointroductions (signed up as non paying member). I been 1 time in Ethiopia for 5 weeks and had an absolute good time. Did not only meet girls from Addis but also from Bahir dar, and the south (Sashemane, Hawassa).
i did not see much talent on Afrointroductions so far and to make matters worse even less from Ethiopia. An online search revealed that there were only 11 girls from ethiopia online (from a total of 3000) so that’s only one third of a percent Habeshas online. lots from Ghana though (signed up 3 hours ago and got 70 messages, many from ghanese girls but not a single habesha).
I think Afrointroductions one does not need in Ethiopia, just meet them in coffee places, juice places, cafe’s and Bole area. And go South.
Good luck!
Iam from South Africa and I’m so interested in marring an Ethiopian woman . It’s so good to get information . Thanks a lot .
I would try my luck
Thanks for sharing your feedback!
I found this article as mixture of positive and negative. We Ethiopians shouldn’t forget our culture and not fall for this non value white men thing. Remember why our great forefathers referred white men as “nechacheba”.
And Ethiopians aren’t a mixture of African/European/Caribbean/Jew.
Hey Tutu,
it’s nice to hear such a positive feedback from an Ethiopian woman with a foreign boyfriend.
Thank you for this. I am an Ethiopian girl studying postgrad in the US. I have an American friend, and recently I started liking him so much. Why? I guess he has been reading this site and applied it on me. Because, most of the characters mentioned above that most Ethiopian women like on men are correct. Thank you for letting me realize how he hit the nail on my head
I appreciate you for sharing your thoughts.
Okay, where shall I start? My friend referred me to this article because I told him I was Ethiopian and I’m glad he did. I would have believed everything written here if I wasn’t an Ethiopian girl who was born and raised in Ethiopia. I’m attending college elsewhere so I no longer live there.
1. I don’t think the Ethiopians women are the most beautiful woman in Africa is a fair statement. We all know it’s all because of euro-centric beauty standards and most, not all, Ethiopian women have features that are deemed Caucasian. That is the only reason for the above statement.
2. Ethiopians have the second lowest IQ. That was painful to read for me but I wouldn’t say, “You can’t deny it. The official data is there” as if the study has no faults and is right in every aspect. In fact, it’s a controversial study; it often considers only specific population groups and a few individuals per country.
3. ‘Are you white? African girls love you.’ If you consider love as being a free ticket out of an impoverished lifestyle then good for you. It’s not because they adore your ‘glorious’ white skin, it’s because of your money. It doesn’t matter if you’re dark skinned as long as you are rich and provide a way out of the country.
Overall, the feeling I got from reading the article was that Ethiopian women are some sort of beautiful creatures with an ‘exotic’ look, poor, reserved, uneducated and will settle for any white guy who shows interest in them as long as he doesn’t beat them. Things are changing there, a lot of women are getting educated and our ultimate goal in life isn’t being a good wife.
Hey Edwine,
I’m glad to hear that my article could help you. I wish you and your girlfriend all the best.
This article has really help me understand something. I am currently dating an Ethiopian and she never even want to share our photos mostly in social media where her family could see. I am a Kenyan and I thought she is never serious with our relationship but this article proves me wrong. She doesn’t want her parents to know. She visits me only if her friends are accompanying her.
We sometimes have problems in understanding each other because she doesn’t speak very good English and mostly while texting rather talk to her verbally or else she get angry most of the time she misinterprets my words.
However she never quits. She is a graduate and very beautiful. She will always say sorry when she realizes her mistake and will say it in black and white when something is wrong. Culture is very important here. I do visit Addis Ababa many times for work and that’s how we met and not online. I love her.
Jared is not Ethiopian. The population of Ethiopia is over 106,000,000. Not 1,000,000. What a joke.
Hey Jared,
thanks for your feedback. Glad to hear that an Ethiopian man agrees with me ,-)
Well written. I agree on almost all points. Ethiopian womens are beautiful.I am from Ethiopia and a male. I can’t deny the girls preference for western ( Ferenj – Amharic equivalent for western white people). But it is also for economic reason and the eagerness to go out of the country.
The advises, they are 100% correct. It adefinitely helps on the dating trial.
I also warn about scammed. They ask you to send money in few days conversation.
Correction – Ethiopia population is near 1,000,000
Jared