Do women like fat men?
Allow me to make some pretty bold assumptions about you:
What if I’m completely wrong?
Then close this article right now and go back to the mirror to admire your rock-hard six pack abs. This article is not for the skinny and the buff dudes. Today I want to tell you the truth about a topic that’s both controversial and bullshit-infested.
In fact, I’m so damn honest that I reveal something you won’t like:
I’m not fat.
My body is full of scars, I have a baby face, and I look like 16, but being overweight is not my problem. Hey, I told you that I won’t lie to you. I won’t make up some stupid story that’s not true.
So…why should you even listen to me?
Because I’ve coached hundreds of guys like you and I helped them to…
Oh, and one more thing. Stop calling yourself a “fat man”. That’s not who you are, at least not anymore. From now on, you can call yourself a seducer because that’s who you will become.
Are you ready for the transformation?
Then let’s get started…
Why Not Even Dan Harris Believes that Women Like Fat Men
Let me ask you something:
What’s so unbelievable about a fat guy with a hot girlfriend?
I’m serious. I don’t understand why this is such a big deal. Whenever I see an overweight guy with a tall, slim, and extremely attractive girlfriend, I’m happy for him. Others don’t seem to have the same emotions.
You know it better than I do.
Most people make fun of him and assume the wildest things.
“She must be a gold digger, right? Yeah, he’s rich. That’s for sure. She can’t possibly be attracted to him. I mean, he doesn’t even have abs? What the hell if going on?!”
Not even ABC correspondent Dan Harris believes that this is possible…
Why are so many people shocked when they see an overweight guy with a hot girl?
I can tell you why:
Okay, ignored is the wrong word. Let’s say that it is believed that only muscular male models have charm, charisma, and flirting skills. That’s why so many fat guys believe that they have zero chances with women.
This is completely ridiculous!
Your ability to seduce women has absolutely nothing to do with your body weight and one of my friends is the living proof….
The Truth: Some Girls Are Totally into Fat Guys
I couldn’t believe my eyes.
When I first met Jakob my whole worldview collapsed. I met him in high school. I was skinny as fuck and a virgin. He was not just a little bit overweight and he was dating one of the hottest girls in school.
At least I could still blame my scars for my dry dick.
We became friends…even though I would have given anything to sleep with his girlfriend. Anyway…I wanted to know his secret. I wanted to know how it’s possible that a guy like him could get a girlfriend like her.
So I asked him: Do girls like fat guys?
His answer blew my mind…
“There are a lot of girls who don’t like me. But some do. And the girls who like me, they really like me. You see, I never talked to girls because I was ashamed of my body. That’s why I was always lonely. At some point, however, I decided to do it anyway because I had nothing to lose. That’s when I realized that some girls are totally into overweight guys and guess what? I’m the only fat guy in who has the balls to courage to approach them.”
I stood there with my mouth wide open because it made perfect sense.
Let’s assume the following scenario:
Don’t tell me that you can’t do it. If Jakob could do it, you can do it too. And because most guys who have your size are too insecure and anxious to take action, you have no excuse anymore.
Let me show you why you don’t need these excuses anymore…
In Field and Scientific Studies Reveal Why Women Like Fat Men
Have you ever heard of Johnny Soporno?
He’s a fat guy, a successful dating coach, and he’s dating porn actress Violet Marcell. And no, she’s not together with him because of his money. She made enough money in the adult entertainment industry.
Or have you heard of David X?
Back when I started out he was one of the most famous dating coaches and here’s what he looks like…
Okay, David X is not just fat. He would also be ugly if he wasn’t overweight. But anyway, the point I’m trying to make is that it’s not impossible to get laid and to get a girlfriend, just because you weight more than other guys.
In case you don’t believe me, you should check out the following facts…
1. You are a More Trustworthy Partner
Do women like fat guys?
Let me ask you another question:
Do women want to date trustworthy men?
Yep, they do. Every girl who’s looking for a boyfriend would prefer a guy she can trust than a guy who’s known for lying and cheating his way through life.
Here’s what these women want:
Guess what? Women assume that overweight men are more honest and reliable. That’s why they often choose them for long-term relationships, but more on that later. That’s why fat and chubby politicians are seen as more reliable and honest.
What about inspiring?
I have no idea why they’re seen as more inspiring, but I guess that’s just another advantage of a few extra pounds.
2. Your Genes Will Most Likely Survive
Here’s what it means when hot girls go out with fat guys.
She wants to have healthy children.
And no, I’m not joking. According to a scientific paper called “A history of obesity, or how what was good became ugly and then bad”, some women instinctively choose fat guys because of their good genes.
Yes, my friend. You have superior genes.
Just think about it. Your children won’t die of starvation because your gene code makes it more likely that they are well-nurtured. Even though most people in the Western world don’t have to starve anymore, this primal instinct is still there.
I can’t emphasize enough that big guys are in big demand when it comes to relationships and marriage.
3. Women Love to Stand in the Spotlight
I have to warn you.
The next reason why girls like fat men is mean and it might hurt your feelings. And even though that’s the last thing I want, I decided to include it because it increases your chances to date model-type girls.
Here’s what one of my best female friends said:
“I love to date guys who are a bit fatter because they make me look good.”
Yes, she’s kind of a narcissist and I admit that this statement can be seen as rude. But look at the positive side. A lot of girls happily date overweight men because they love to be the ones who get all the attention.
As long as you get love and sex from her, she can have all the attention she needs.
It think that’s a great deal.
4. Women Know that You Last Longer in Bed
Girls who like fat men
This study made me cringe.
Like I said, I’m a skinny guy. It doesn’t make me proud to admit that a lot of my overweight coaching clients might last longer in bed than me. Oh man, I had no idea that your extra pounds can give you a few extra minutes.
According to science, you’re a sex god.
The study “insight on pathogenesis of lifelong premature ejaculation: Inverse relationship between lifelong premature ejaculation and obesity” came to the conclusion that obese men last longer in bed.
I hate to admit it but fat guys have a higher stamina.
Mhhh, now that I think about it, maybe that’s why Jakob is so successful with women.
5. Confidence is More important than Your Body Weight
Here’s a question I get asked a lot by my obese coaching clients:
Can fat guys be attractive?
The answer is obvious. Or is it? Unfortunately, a lot of men, skinny and overweight, falsely believe that only muscular guys with six-pack abs and the arms of a professional bodybuilder can be attractive. They watch Chris Hemsworth on screen and think they have to look like Thor.
I have news for you:
You can look like the guy in the video and still get phone numbers…
How is that possible?
It’s possible because women are not attracted in the same way as men are attracted. Let’s face it. Give us big boob, a nice ass, and a flat stomach and we are happy. For women, attraction is more complex than that.
Women don’t talk to a fat man. They see the big picture. I hope you see it too.
6. Women are Conditioned to Believe that You’re Funny
Fat guys can entertain their hot girlfriends.
John Pinette, Ralphie May, Chris Farley, Gabriel Iglesias and the now infamous Louis C.K…all these guys have one thing in common. Okay, they have two things in common. They are all fat and funny.
Women are conditioned to believe that you’re funny.
The see it in the movies and on stage. And we all know that humor is incredibly attractive.
7. You Have Excellent Chances to Find a Girlfriend
You might ask yourself:
Can fat guys get girlfriends?
By now you already know the answer. Of course, they can. Thousands of overweight men have found love before you. You are definitely not alone. But you are in demand. I know it because my female friends have told me and I recently read an interesting study.
Here’s what I discovered:
According to this study, women tend to choose muscular guys for one-night stands, but overweight men for a relationship. In fact, a lot of the participants were not interested whatsoever in dating handsome Hollywood hunks. Take that Chris Hemsworth!
There are several reasons for that:
These are all qualities that women assume about fat men.
8. You Don’t Need to Be Skinny to Be a Great Seducer
Now you know it.
There are women who like fat guys and they can get girlfriends. And let’s be honest. Your ability to seduce women has nothing to do with your weight.
Seduction is an art but it’s the only art form that doesn’t require talent.
I hope this article inspired you to go out and to meet beautiful women, no matter what the weighing scale says…and to start your journey towards seduction mastery.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do women like fat men? You are conditioned to believe that you have no chance on the dating market. But that’s not true. I have coached overweight men with great success and I know women who have dated guys like you.
Science is on your side. There are several reasons why some women prefer fat guys over skinny guys. It’s a primal instinct. It’s no secret that women are programmed to ensure the survival of their children.
They also don’t want a guy who treats them like shit and cheats left and right. That’s another reason why some girls prefer men with a few extra pounds. You have to realize that being an attractive man is about more than a chiseled body.
Sebastian Harris says
everything that’s legal is okay. A lot of young women are into older men.
Hi,Sebastian! What about dating girls if you have big age discrepancy with them. I am over 50, and despite this fact some young girls occasionally grant me with warm and inviting glance. But I feel uneasy to approach them. Any tips?