In case you are one of my long-term readers, I doubt that you have any interest in dating Western men…unless you are gay. Let’s face it. You read my articles because you want to meet, attract, and date hot foreign women.
However, within the past couple of months, I received more and more emails, comments, and questions from the beautiful ladies that my male readers want to meet so bad.
- African women leave comments in which they ask me where they can meet white men.
- Asian women leave comments in which they thank me for this controversial article (Western feminist absolutely hate it!).
- South American women send me long emails in which they ask me how to attract Gringos.
To be honest, I love it!
It makes me happy to see that the Global Seducer community evolves to a community of Western men who want to date foreign women and foreign women who want to date Western men.
It proves to me that the one or two “you are a sexist bastard!” comments that I get from frustrated WESTERN feminists whenever I publish an article about FOREIGN women don’t reflect the reality.
The feedback I get from foreign women is positive in every respect!
And that’s why I decided to give some advice to all the beautiful foreign ladies who are still hoping to meet their Western husband, now that they’ve signed up on one of these international dating sites.
To the foreign ladies: This article is for you.
To the Global Seducers: Feel free to add your own tips in the comments below.
1. Western Men Don’t Want Strong and Independent Women
I will never forget when I had this conversation with my Thai girlfriend.
One evening we were lying in bed and talking about the difference between dating in the West and dating in the East. Suddenly, she said something that shocked me.
“I always thought that Western men want strong and independent women.”
I then told her that we are craving foreign women because…
- They are more feminine.
- They don’t pretend to be strong and tough right before they swallow their Prozac.
- They accept and admit the fact that they need a man in their life.
The person who told you that Western men want strong and independent women should be hanged, shot, and buried.
2. Don’t Try to Fulfill the Western Standard of Beauty
Why do you think so many guys are crazy for Asian women? (Just as an example)
- We love your dark skin.
- We love your unique facial structure.
- And yes, we think your eyes are cute.
So please stop ruining your health and risking your life with eyelid surgeries, whitening creams and other humbug!
3. Get a Premium Membership on One of these International Online Dating Sites
I give you the same advice that I give my male readers:
Join one of these online dating sites and get a premium membership.
Yes, you have the privilege that you can contact other members, even if you only have a free membership. But listen. 99% of the female members have the same free membership.
What do you think happens when the man of your dreams sees your free membership profile and the premium membership profile of another girl?
Of course he will contact the girl with the premium membership!
He instinctively assumes that…
The other girl is not a gold digger because she can afford a premium membership.
The other girl is really looking for a relationship because she makes an effort.
4. Dress Up and Wear High Heels
It’s time for your first date with the man of your dreams.
What do you do?
I think I don’t have to tell you this but I do it anyway. I mean, you are a beautiful foreign woman. You are woman enough to know that men are into feminine women and that a tight dress and high heels have magic powers.
5. German Punctuality is One of Your Biggest Assets
Are you from Thailand? Listen carefully!
Are you from Colombia? Listen even more carefully!
I know that nobody in your hometown is punctual. I also know that nobody expects it from you. But the rules change when you’re dating a Western man. He doesn’t expect you to be punctual because he knows that he’s not dating an American, British, or German girl, but he will love you even more if you are on time.
This is your big chance!
None of the other girls he went on a date with showed up on time. Be the one for him.
6. Dating Western Men is about Being His Biggest Supporter
Do you know why Western men are sick and tired of dating Western women?
- It’s not just because you are more feminine.
- It’s not just because you care more about your body.
- It’s not just because you are more respectful.
It’s also because dating a Western woman feels like dating a man. A Western woman doesn’t want to give a man the support he wants, needs, and expects. She wants her own career without realizing that men will never be attracted to career women.
Deep down men are attracted to women who support them.
Deep down women want to be their men’s biggest supporters.
Unfortunately, Western society fucked us over.
Western women believe that pursuing a career will make them happy, even though every scientific study proves this to be wrong.
Elliott Hulse describes it perfectly:
I told my girlfriend the exact same thing that Elliot told his wife.
Be his biggest supporter and he will become the best version of himself and the best partner he can be. It’s that simple.
7. Pay for Your Drink and We Will Pay Respect
Western men have been conditioned about dating foreign women and the conditioning has been brutal.
Documentary movies show…
- Evil mail order brides who try to scam every guy.
- Reckless bar girls who use men as ATMs.
- And of course overweight Western women who say I told you so.
Nobody ever shows all the happy couples…
Or all the happy guys who send me emails like this one…
The viewers want drama so the media gives them drama. That’s why we are so afraid that we end up dating a gold digger.
Here’s what you can do:
Pay for your drink and for your meal. My girlfriend did this on our first date and we are still together.
8. Believe it or Not but We are Nervous
Don’t expect your Western man to be completely relaxed on the first date.
We might earn more money than you and yes, it’s true that we get a lot of attention on international dating sites, but that doesn’t change anything about the fact that…
- We want to make a good impression.
- We are scared about dating a gold digger.
- We don’t want to mess things up.
You are both nervous and that’s okay.
9. Remember That We are Not Disrespectful (At Least Not on Purpose)
What if he disrespects one of the unwritten rules of your culture?
Smile and tell him what he did wrong without blaming him.
He didn’t do it on purpose. You have to understand that the Western culture is very different from the Asian, African, or South American culture.
Sometimes we mess up.
When I think back to the first date with my girlfriend, I remember how I did three disrespectful things in less than 5 minutes without even realizing it. She told me months afterwards. Thank God she forgave me.
10. You Have Children? Don’t Hide them in the Closet
What if you’re a single mom?
Come on, let’s face the truth. Sooner or later he will find out. Don’t hide your kids in the closet, just because you’re afraid of his reaction.
It’s a problem for some Western men. It’s okay for others.
Please ask yourself this question:
Do you really want to fall in love with a guy who leaves you as soon as he finds out that you have children?
Bring it up on the first date. If he wants a second date, he’s really into you and ready for you and your kids.
11. Don’t Try to Get Pregnant on the First Date
What if you don’t have kids but you want one?
Take it slowly!
The biggest mistake you can possibly make, and I read about it on a lot of forums (yes, this is especially for the Filipinas!) is to try to get pregnant as soon as you’re in his bed.
- I know that you want stability.
- I know that he’s husband material.
- I know that you want a family.
But listen to me:
Getting pregnant from a guy who is not ready to have a family will lead you on the path to single mom village. It will mess up your future and the future of your child.
Do you really want that?
Instead, establish a relationship with the Western man of your dreams and talk about family planning once you are in a relationship. That’s the path that leads to a fulfilling relationship and the family you always dreamed of.
Did I forget anything?
Let me know in the comments below...
Summed Up Wisdom
I love the fact that more and more foreign women send me emails and leave comment on my site. That’s why I decided to write down a few tips for all the girls who stumbled upon my site because they are looking for Western men.
Remember that Western men want to date you because you think different and look different. However, we are afraid that you are a gold digger and we absolutely hate it when a girl shows up late, even if it’s normal in your culture.
Yes, we are also nervous on the first date and no, we are not disrespectful because we are mean or evil. We just don’t know it any better. Give us time and be honest with us, especially when it comes to children or your desire to have one.
Sebastian Harris says
I like feminine career women 😉
So you don’t like career women but you also want a woman to pay for herself? You can’t have your cake and eat it too.
If you want a woman to drop her career dreams and support you 100%, be prepared to man up and pick up the bills. Asian women are not attracted to manchildren.
Sebastian Harris says
yep, it is.
Sebastian Harris says
thanks for your feedback. I really appreciate it.
Sebastian Harris says
check out my international dating site reviews. There are a lot of Western men waiting for you.
How can I find one
Point 2 is so important. Its such a waste when asian ladies do surgeries to look like a cocasian