I won’t say that you can’t date Nigerian women without reading this guide. You can. But you won’t be successful.
The color of your skin is not the only thing that’s different.
You have been raised on a different continent, in a different culture and with completely different values.
I know, you are fascinated by these beautiful and sexy dark-skinned girls. Being together with such a woman would mean the world to you. You can’t stop thinking about how it would be to hold her, to kiss her and to…
I promise you one thing.
After you have read this guide, you will be able to attract, date and keep your Nigerian princess.
How can I be so sure about that?
Well, because I’m going to share the following things with you.
- I share my own experience about (kind of) dating a Nigerian girl.
- I reveal the true character of these curvy ladies.
- I tell you WHY these beautiful African women want to date a man like you and WHERE you can meet thousands of them.
- I share, step-by-step, what you need to do if you want to date and/or marry a woman from this country.
And do you know why I share all these things with you?
I do it because I want you to have more success dating Nigerian woman than I had with my beautiful friend Rita...
6 Characteristics of the Pretty Nigerian Girl I Was Dating
I want to be honest. Her real name is not Rita. Her name is…
She would never forgive me if I shared her name with hundreds of thousands of people.
She’s a good girl.
And no, I don’t say this with a sarcastic undertone. I really mean it. When I met her during my studies in England, I was at a stage of my life where I wasn’t interested in good girls. Back then I didn’t have the emotional maturity for a serious relationship.
I will never forget her smile when she looked at me with her beautiful big eyes and said “you dey make my head scatter”…or something like that.
She was in love with me.
I learned a lot about Nigerian women and about myself from this experience. But technically speaking, we weren’t even dating. I mean, the definitions of third base and fourth base vary. All I can say is that we didn’t go all the way.
She was way too religious for that…
1. Nigerian Women Are Very Religious
I told you that you would be screwed without this guide.
You would probably tell a girl from the north of Nigeria that you are Catholic and wonder why she doesn’t reply. Religion is a very important part of the Nigerian society.
Rita, the girl I dated, was so religious that sleeping with me was not on the menu.
I mean, she wanted to, but her religious belief was strong enough to resist the temptation…until one night where I was the one who had to be strong enough to prevent her from doing something she would regret.
She was from Lagos, the biggest city in the country. And she was so religious that the Bible was her constant companion. In fact, about 50% of Nigerians are Christians and many of them live in the South. The northern regions are populated by Muslims.
But don’t believe that the women from Christian families are more liberated. Some of them are, but some of them are like Rita.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I don’t want that you waste your time with the wrong woman.
I’m sorry to say this, but if you are a Muslim and you want to date a Christian Nigerian girl, your chance of success is 1 to 1.000.000. The same is true the other way around.
Keep that in mind before you meet Nigerian girls online.
2. Sexy Nigerian Girls Have Amazing Curves
You can’t imagine how painful it was to be in one room with Rita. On the one hand, she was more religious than the Pope. On the other hand, she had curves like Nicki Minaj.
That’s the definition of torture.
But don’t worry. Not every Nigerian woman is that religious. There are a lot of women in this country who don’t want to wait until they are married. They are proud to show their curves…but only to the right guy.
Damn, Nigerian ladies have curves to die for.
If you are into skinny girls with small boobs, you should go to Thailand. However, if you are into curvy girls with juicy asses and beautiful round breasts, Nigeria is the right country for you.
3. Nigerian Babes Can Cook Like Gordon Ramsey
Want to know why I dated Rita, even though sex was not on the menu?
Well, other things were on the menu, delicious things.
Let me say it like this: If you are looking for a beautiful African wife who can cook the most delicious meals for you, you should date a Nigerian woman.
Your future wife can cook. And it gets even better. She really enjoys it…
God knows that the meals that this woman cooked for me made me say “hallelujah”. One day her meal made me scream “hallelujah!” but only because she tortured me with green chilly.
Whenever I was with her, I felt like a king…a sexless king but a king nonetheless.
Maybe it was because of the Suya she cooked for me, maybe because of the Jollof rice that I loved so much. But it was probably because of the deep-friend battered yams that I got addicted to.
But your future Nigerian girlfriend is more than just a good cook.
4. Nigerian Women are Highly Educated and Fluent in English
The hot Nigerian women you’ll meet online might not be highly educated, but they have the potential to become highly educated.
There are many controversial articles about the intelligence of the people in this African country. One article even says that “Nigerians are stupid people who deserve what they’ve got”. I really don’t want to share this article.
On the other hand, there are articles like this that prove that Nigerians are the most educated people in the USA. Yep, they are better than Asians. And Rita is one of these brainiacs. She studies aerospace engineering.
The last time I checked you can’t be an idiot to build spaceships.
Many Nigerian women, especially the ones in the bigger cities and the ones who’ve been abroad, are educated. And it gets even better. They are also fluent in English. Even though Nigeria gained independence from England in 1960, English is still the official language.
5. Nigerian Mail Order Brides Can Be Materialistic
Okay, Rita is an exception.
She doesn’t care about cars, designer handbags and other material things. Unfortunately, she’s not like most Nigerian women. Many of them care way too much.
Whatever the reason may be, you have to deal with it. It’s not easy to find a non-materialistic woman who believes in minimalism.
Nigerian women expect their men to do two things:
- A: Take care of them.
- B: Provide for them.
That doesn’t mean that these ladies can’t be sweet and supportive lovers. They can. I know a guy who’s happily married to a Nigerian woman. He loves his wife…
…but splitting the bill is something that she had to get used to.
These women are born and raised with the belief that men who can’t provide for a woman are worth nothing. Sounds brutal, but it’s the truth.
Don’t judge her when her first question is “what do you do for a living?”
6. Sexy Nigerian Ladies are Wonderful Wives
Nigerian women can be wonderful wives.
Not just because I know a guy who’s married to one. No, also because they have what modern Western women don’t have.
They respect men and they want to submit to their husbands. Yes, they want it. That’s their culture. Heck, many feminine and beautiful Nigerian ladies in Western countries don’t understand it when a woman doesn’t want that. They just don’t know what’s wrong with being submissive.
Rita is one of them. Even though she studies aerospace engineering and speaks out against domestic violence, she doesn’t understand Western relationships.
Not wanting to cook, not wanting to clean the house, and not wanting to take care of the man…that’s unimaginable to her.
That’s how Nigerian women show their love.
You better appreciate it.
4 Reasons Why Nigerian Mail Order Brides are Looking for Men Abroad
Now you might ask yourself:
“If these women are so sexy, educated, and can cook like Gordon Ramsey, why do they want to date ME?”
Well, there are several reasons.
First of all, I’m sure that you are a great guy. You would do everything to make your Nigerian girlfriend or wife happy.
This alone makes you a good catch.
However, there’s one other thing about you and a bunch of other things about the local men that force Nigerian mail order brides to look for men abroad.
1. Pretty Nigerian Girls Are Victims of Domestic Violence
Just have a look at the following headline.
Maybe now you understand why Nigerian women are seeking men from Western countries.
Unfortunately, this is not the only forum entry that I found in which women complained about the Nigerian tradition to beat the crap out of their wives. It’s brutal, but apparently it’s true. Rita didn’t deny it. She said that she was lucky to grow up in a family where it’s not common to use your hand as a way to get artificial “respect”.
Apparently, domestic violence is a huge issue in this country. If you don’t believe me, have a look at the following quote from a Nigerian man about South African women (and yes, I cite it word for word):
“Here in South Africa you women are too free. Every little beating and you call the police. In Nigeria….if she is your girlfriend, the police would leave you to continue.”
Imagine you would be a Nigerian woman and you could have THIS reality or the reality that you see in Hollywood movies.
It’s not hard to choose.
2. Nigerian Men are Not Famous for Their Faithfulness
Why do you dream of dating Nigerian women?
Probably because you want a beautiful African girlfriend and maybe even a stunning wife with traditional family values who takes care of you and your children.
I am in a relationship with the foreign girl of my dreams. I know how fulfilling this is.
The good news is that she wants the same. She wants a man who takes care of her and who wants to be with her…not with her neighbor, her sister and the lady from the laundry shop. Unfortunately, this dream will never come true, at least not as long as she stays in her Nigerian village.
“I’ve never met a Nigerian man who even tried to be faithful!”
That’s what Rita told me and due to the fact that I chatted with many sexy Nigerian women on the biggest African dating site, I believe her.
This was the first dating site I reviewed where you can choose between a monogamous relationship and a polyamorous relationship. That reveals a lot about the Nigerian dating customs.
In other words, Nigerian men expect that their wives accept or at least silently tolerate it that they bang the whole village when she’s at work. Many women don’t want that. They want a man who was born in a culture where being monogamous is the norm.
3. Nigerian Men are Extremely Good at Lying
I’m really grateful for my friendship with Rita. She showed me how amazing Nigerian people can be, especially the women.
What about the men?
Well, I’m sure there are many amazing men in this country, but I only made bad experiences. I had a Nigerian friend in college (at least I though he was my friend) who lied to me in order to get money. I never saw that money again. I trusted him. That hurt.
I was not the only student at my university who fell for this scam.
Then I found this article about Nigerian men. It’s an article that warns Kenyan women about these “conmen”. Apparently, many girls fall for their lies and frauds. The article ends with the words “you have been warned. Stay away from Nigerian men”.
You can say what you want, but I’ve never read such things about English, French, German, and American men. All these sexy Nigerian mail order brides haven’t either.
4. Nigerian Mail Order Brides are Attracted to White Men
Are you a Caucasian man?
In case you are, there’s a fourth reason why these dark-skinned beauties are chasing you. You have something what they are incredibly attracted to.
You have white skin.
Don’t even think about asking me if black women like white men. They do. Most African women are crazy for white guys, but Nigerian girls are on top of this list. According to Aljazeera and many other news outlets, Nigeria has the world’s highest percentage of women using skin lightening products.
Until today I thought that the Philippines are the leaders when it comes to this stupid obsession. Well, I was wrong.
“White skin is beautiful. It’s a sign of status. It’s a sign of purity. White skin is a sign of wealth.”
That’s what Rita told me. She uses skin whitening products, just like 77% of the Nigerian women. And like I said, she was obsessed with me…and probably also with my skin.
4 Types of Sexy Nigerian Girls Looking for Men Online
But who are these women you meet on African dating sites?
You have to understand that they are not all the same. There are different types of Nigerian women. Some of them are good for you. Others are very, very dangerous.
When I asked Rita about the different types of Nigerian women, she just said “that’s a long story…do you have time to skype?”
What I expected to be a short answer via Facebook turned into a Skype call that lasted for over an hour.
We had a great time and I’m sure that the result of our conversation will help you to find your dream girl…
1. The Religious Virgin Who’s Looking for Her Special Someone
No wonder this was the first type of Nigerian girl that Rita talked about. That’s her. No doubt about it.
You can find a lot of girls like her in this African country.
These girls won’t sleep with you on the first, second or third date. No chance. They might consider it when you are in a serious relationship, but most of them want to wait until they are married or at least engaged.
They know every line of the Bible. They know the New and the Old Testament and not only God, but also her father would kill her if she would have a sexual relationship with a Western man.
There are only two ways you can sleep with a girl like her:
- You are Religious (either Catholic or Muslim, depending on which part of the country she’s from)
- You wait until you are married or at least engaged
Being together with such a woman can be the most wonderful thing on earth. She wants to be a wife. She wants to be a good mother. If you are a religious man who wants to start a family, this type of girl is perfect for you.
What if you are not?
Don’t even think about it.
2. The Traditional Nigerian Village Girl
This type of girl can be very religious. But there’s a high chance that she’s only religious when her parents are around. Rita warned me about this type of girl. She said that they will do EVERYTHING to make a high quality man like you commit.
This girl has only one purpose in life:
Find a high quality man who takes care of her.
That’s it. That’s what she wants. She’s the kind of girl who gets nervous when she’s still not married with 18.
How are the traditional Nigerian village girls as girlfriends?
In one word: Incredible.
They have traditional family values. They respect their men. They are submissive to their men. Hell, they do EVERYTHING for their men. Dating a Nigerian woman like her will put you on cloud nine.
The only downside is that she will also do EVERYTHING to keep you…
And she has learned from her grandmother that sex and babies are a good way to make a man commit. Be careful that you don’t burn yourself while playing with her fire.
3. The Independent Nigerian Beauty Who Has Studied Abroad
She’s the complete opposite of the village girl. Her home is in Lagos, Abuja or Ibadan. And traditional is the wrong word to describe her. I mean, her parents might think that she’s traditional, but she’s not, at least not anymore.
Her parents are rich and that’s why they sent her to a college abroad.
Thanks to the influence of the Western culture, their daughter became everything they didn’t want her to become. She adapted the Western lifestyle of drinking, partying and forgetting about marriage. She’s not the kind of girl you want.
Or maybe she is…
Some independent Nigerian beauties don’t go to the extreme. They find the balance between traditional values and Western “freedom”. These girls can be amazing girlfriends because they combine the best of both worlds.
If she weren’t so extremely religious, Rita would be a great example.
4. The Classy Nigerian Lady Who’s Sick of Nigerian Men
She’s from a good family, but she hasn’t been abroad.
She’s religious, but she’s not a virgin anymore. In fact, she tried her luck with the local men but she’s disappointed.
She believes in a traditional marriage and traditional gender roles, but she’s too proud and too financially independent to put up with the cheating, lying and domestic violence of the local men.
Her mantra is “I deserve better”.
And she really does. She deserves a man who loves her and supports her, not a man who lies to her and beats her. She deserves a man like you. You will find a lot of these women on African dating sites.
How to Meet Hot Nigerian Girls Online
Now you’re probably asking yourself…
“Where can I meet these four types of girls?”
Well, you could travel to Nigeria. You could pay a couple of hundred bucks for the flight, another fifty bucks for a hotel room and fly to Lagos. Then you could run around the streets approaching women while you hope that you don’t get hit by a car.
That’s the complicated way. But there’s also an easy way and the easy way has a name:
It’s called Afro Introductions.
“What the hell is this?” You might ask yourself.
Well, it’s nothing less than the biggest African online dating site in this galaxy. With more than 2.5 million members, many of them from Nigeria, it is impossible to not find the right girl.
I tried to not get a reply. I send the most sexually inappropriate first message that you can possibly imagine and I received replies like this one...
What are you waiting for?
There are hundreds of thousands of beautiful Nigerian women on this site.
Dating a Beautiful Nigerian Woman: A Step-by-Step Manual
Did you already join Afro Introductions?
You are already one step ahead of all the men who dream about dating Nigerian women but never actually do anything.
But you already know that finding your African princess is just the first step.
The day will come when you’ll finally meet her in real life. She’s beautiful on Skype but she’ll be even more beautiful when you meet her in person.
That’s why you don’t want to mess it up. And believe me. There are many ways to mess up a first date with a woman from this country. Hell, you can even mess up everything BEFORE you meet her in person.
Step 1: Approach Nigerian Girls with Confidence
How can you mess it up before you meet her in person?
Try it with shyness. That always works against you, at least in Nigeria.
I mean, in some Asian countries the girls consider it as cute when a guy is a bit shy. Not in this country. Nope, you are in Africa and the African women expect men to be confident.
I don’ care if that sounds brutal. It’s the truth. She is a submissive woman and she wants a confident man.
Why do you think these girls are so into my sexually explicit message?
Confidence is the answer.
Step 2: Choose a Cheap Place for the First Date But Pay for Her
I already warned you about the one negative characteristic of Nigerian women.
They are materialistic, at least most of them.
What if you are a minimalist and you don’t want to date a materialistic woman?
Find out if the stereotype is true. Remember, MOST of them are materialistic. Not all of them. Rita doesn’t care about what car you drive. One of her friends wouldn’t date a guy without a black credit card.
It’s your job to find out what kind of girl you are talking to. It’s easy. You just have to follow two simple rules.
- Rule #1: Don’t reveal your income on the online dating site.
- Rule #2: Choose a cheap place for the first date.
Rule number one repels the gold diggers. Rule number two reveals if she wants you or a delicious free meal. Don’t laugh. I went on a date with another Nigerian woman in London. She wanted the free meal.
Follow these two simple rules and you will find out if she wants you or a lobster.
Step 3: Prove to Her that You Are Serious
There are no F boys for cute Nigerian girls.
Hey, don’t complain about my inappropriate language. That’s what she said…
And she’s right. I learned this the hard way while I tried to date Rita.
Commitment is the only way to win the heart of a Nigerian woman. That doesn’t mean that you have to marry her straight away. Just remember that the expressions “casual sex” and “friends with benefits“ are not in her vocabulary.
She already believes that you, as a Western man, are more responsible than the local men, but she’s still suspicious.
That’s why you need to prove that you are serious.
How do you do this?
Communication is the magic word you’re looking for.
Tell her that you want a serious relationship. Oh, and tell her exactly how you imagine your ideal relationship. Once she knows what she can expect, she will do everything to get it.
Step 4: Find out if her Father is Racist against White People
Breathe in. Breathe out.
You can do it. I know you can. You are nervous. I would be nervous too. Nevertheless, you need to take this step. If you have found the right girl, there’s no way around it.
She wants you to meet her family.
As a Western man, this can make you nervous. As a white Western man, this can scare the shit out of you. I mean, you don’t know if her father is racist against white people.
“Well, it can happen. But it’s very rare.”
That’s what Rita said.
One the one hand, Nigeria has been an English colony. Not so good. On the other hand, Nigerian people (especially the women) are obsessed with white skin. Not so bad.
If I can believe Rita, the father of a Nigerian girl won’t get a stroke when she sees her dating a white guy. Her grandfather might get one, but all I would care about is her father.
What about her mom? She will love you the moment she sees you.
4 Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before Marrying a Nigerian Woman
Let’s imagine that you are smart enough to read my Afro Introductions Review and to sign up on this amazing African dating site. Imagine that you meet a hot Nigerian woman who is so sexy, so sensual and so passionate that your head is spinning.
You take her to a cheap place. She smiles. You meet her family. She smiles even more.
You can’t wait until she finally gets the visa to live with you in your country. It’s just a matter of time until you ask her the question that she’s been waiting for since your first date.
“Will you marry me?”
The answer is “yes!” and you are the happiest man in the world.
You can’t wait to experience THIS every day…
You love her and she loves you, but for some reason you are asking yourself if this is the right decision.
You need answers.
1. Is it Okay for a Nigerian Woman to Marry a White Man?
For some, it’s the biggest dream. For others, it’s unthinkable.
I already told you that white skin is considered beautiful. Many Nigerian women would kill to date a white guy. However, some girls, even though the might want to, would never marry a white man.
Maybe their family is racist. Maybe they just don’t like strangers. They wouldn’t even marry a man from another tribe, let alone a man from another country. Whatever it is, you don’t have to worry about these girls.
You will never find one of them on an international dating site.
If you are dating a Nigerian woman you’ve met online, she wants to marry you. Otherwise, she wouldn’t have joined this site in the first place.
2. Why Are there so Many Nigerian Women Caught Cheating?
You won’t believe how much stuff shows up when you type “Nigerian woman caught in the act” into Google. Do this and you might think that I’m insane for telling you that marrying a woman from this country can be a good decision.
I looked at several videos, read dozens of articles that discuss this issue and watched three raunchy videos. Here’s what I discovered:
- All the girls were cheating on their Nigerian husbands. There’s not one video of a woman who’s cheating on her white husband.
- The girls who were caught on camera seem to be uneducated and live in run-down huts in villages.
In general, faithfulness is very important to Nigerian women. I mean, one reason why your girlfriend chose you is because you don’t expect a polyamorous relationship.
Yes, they cheat, but only on Nigerian men.
According to Rita, it’s because they know that the men do the same. Many of them don’t understand why they should be faithful when their husband has banged the whole tribe. Makes sense, right?
Would she act like this when she’s married to you?
She chose you because she wants a monogamous relationship and she knows that she would destroy everything by cheating on you.
3. Is My Nigerian Wife Married to Me or to Her Career?
That’s a good question. Heck, that’s probably one of the main reasons why you don’t want to marry a Western woman. You don’t want a woman who’s married to her career.
You want a woman who’s married to you.
I already answered this question by telling you that all these sexy Nigerian women have traditional family values, are submissive to their men, and love cooking more than drinking. But I answer it again with this popular forum question…
Calm down. You are marrying a feminine and supportive woman. Not a CEO.
4. Can I Keep up with the Sexual Demands of a Hot Nigerian Woman?
Until recently it was a cultural taboo in Nigeria to talk about female sexual gratification.
In fact, one of the reasons why these beautiful dark-skinned ladies love to cheat on their men is because their husbands don’t give a flying fuck about their pleasure. There are dozens of articles about that.
“When you marry, you are there to satisfy your husband…you are not really told that you are there for any pleasurable fulfillment.” – Iheoma Obibi, Adult sex shop owner in Nigeria
Still wonder why they cheat on their Nigerian men?
It’s still a taboo to talk about female orgasms but things are slowly changing. These sexy, curvy ladies have demands.
They have desires and they want a man who wants to fulfill these desires.
If you can answer this question with “yes”, you don’t have to worry about a cheating wife and you for sure don’t have to worry about a boring marriage.
Summed Up Wisdom
Dating Nigerian women without knowing what to do is suicide. Without knowing about the characteristics of these sexy dark-skinned ladies, you will never know if you really want to date them. And without knowing the four reasons why Nigerian mail order brides go crazy for Western men, you might not believe your luck when you get dozens of messages from hot Nigerian girls.
It’s really easy to meet Nigerian girls online on the biggest African dating site, but you might still mess up the first date by taking her to an expensive place and by being way too insecure.
Oh, and if you are worried that your Nigerian wife might cheat on you, you absolutely have to read the last chapter of this article. Knowing why they cheat and when they cheat will blow your mind. And she will blow yours, but only if you can keep up with her demands.