Even though the capital city of Kenya is the complete opposite of the place you call home, you have more in common with Nairobi girls than you can possibly imagine.
- Many of them have the same Christian values and beliefs as you.
- Many of them believe in the same traditional family values that you believe in but miss in the Western women.
- Many of them want to same thing as you.
But they don’t just want any random man. Your typical Nairobi girl is sick and tired of the local men. She doesn’t want to waste another minute of her life with a man who doesn’t care about her feelings and who cheats on her, just because the law allows polygamy.
Many beautiful Nairobi ladies believe that it’s time for a change…at least when it comes to dating.
They dream about another type of guy and another type of relationship.
“But Sebastian, I always thought that Nairobi girls are all about sex.”
Is Dating in Nairobi All About Sex?
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Jesus, give me a break.
Is this really all that the women in this city have to offer?
I was shocked and frustrated when I did my research for this article. Blogs, forums and websites are full of sleazy ads and experience reports that talk about Nairobi women as if they were pigs in a slaughterhouse.
I have to be honest with you. At first, I didn’t want to write this article because I got the feeling that Nairobi girls are nothing but prostitutes…at least in the eyes of Western men.
And please don’t get me wrong. I know that there are a lot of prostitutes in the capital of Kenya. I know that it’s one of the hotspots for sex tourism. But I also know that many girls in Nairobi are looking for more than sex in exchange for money.
Then I remembered something.
I remembered how I tested and reviewed KenyanCupid, the biggest dating site for Western men who want to meet Kenyan women and how I chatted with many women from Nairobi. I also remembered that they all wanted the same.
A relationship with a man who loves them, takes care of them, and treats them with respect.
Then I continued my research.
After I looked at another 20-30 forums, I knew that I had to write this article about dating Nairobi girls.
- One guy asked if you can meet normal Nairobi girls who don’t work as prostitutes.
- One guy asked where he can meet women in the capital of Kenya.
- Another guy asked how he can be sure if his girlfriend from Nairobi really loves him.
This article is for them and for you.
And to answer the question:
No, dating in Nairobi is not all about sex.
There are thousands of normal girls who want to meet a man like you. You just have to know where to find them and how to attract them.
Is Dating Nairobi Girls Good When You Are Looking for Something Serious?
Please watch the following video and tell me if a club in Nairobi is the right place to meet your future girlfriend or wife...
It’s naïve to date a party girl in the West. It’s utterly insane to do the same in the capital city of Kenya.
There’s something you need to know about the club scene in this city and the girls who call it their home:
These girls are not girlfriend material.
They are nasty. The way they dance can only be described as explicit, naughty, and sexual. They wear next to nothing and some of them are willing to drop the little clothes they wear for a random guy.
That might be exactly what you like. The thought alone turns you on.
Who am I to judge? I dated girls like that in the past and you can do the same.
What if you are looking for a girlfriend who has traditional values and doesn’t sleep with ten other guys between your first and second date?
Stay away from the party girls. They are nothing but trouble.
Where Can You Find a Girl in Nairobi Who Wants to Date a Mzungu?
As a mzungu (white foreigner), you can do better than that.
You have the privilege to choose among the most beautiful, intelligent and caring women in Nairobi. Don’t waste your time with a party girl who only looks good with 5 layers of makeup when you can have a woman like her...
Especially the educated women are interested in Western men.
They believe that Western men are more romantic, more loyal, and more caring than the local men. Oh, and they can’t find a man with the same education because they are far more educated than the Kenyan men.
I know. It’s hard to imagine how positive Nairobi girls react when a man like you approaches them. You need to experience it yourself.
The following places are perfect for this experience:
- The Nairobi Java House-Westage
- Galleria Mall
- The Junction Mall
- Yaya Shopping Center
- The Maasai Market
- The City Market
Choose one of these places, go there and approach one, two, or maybe ten stunning African women.
Make them smile.
What’s the Best Online Dating Website to Meet a Girl in Nairobi?
What if you don’t want to walk around for hours and hours until you meet a girl who is young enough to excite you and single enough to give you her phone number?
I mean, walking around Nairobi can be fun. Approaching women can lead to unforgettable encounters. But it can be tough.
The heat, the jealous boyfriends, the goats that piss on your shoes…all these things can kill the fun.
There’s a better way, an easier way.
Imagine how easy it is to meet beautiful women on an international dating site where more than 50% of the women are from Nairobi.
What? You doubt that such a dating site exists?
Just have a look at the messages that I received from sexy Nairobi girls
The last time I logged into my account, I saw more than 1000 women from Nairobi under the age of 30. They are waiting for your message.
Who are the Nairobi Women Who Are Looking for a Serious Relationship?
They are all prostitutes. Every single one of them!
Nope, they are not.
As you’ll discover in my KenyanCupid review, they are god-fearing women with traditional family values who work in pharmacies and big companies.
They are educated women with normal jobs…at least the ones who don’t work in brothels, strip clubs, and massage parlors (but you don’t want them anyway).
But if you really want to make sure that you don’t end up with the wrong girl, you can live by the following rule:
Find out if she wants to date you even though you are not rich.
What if you are rich? (You probably are by Kenyan standards)
- Don’t buy her expensive gifts.
- Don’t take her to expensive restaurants.
- Don’t brag about how much money you earn.
In other words, control your ego for the purpose of finding the right Nairobi girl.
What are the Best Date Ideas and Dating Places in Nairobi?
Do you think you can control your ego?
Breathe in. Breathe out. Don’t touch your black credit card. She doesn’t have to know about it.
Try to control yourself and do not (under no circumstance) take her to the Carnivore restaurant or any other ridiculously expensive restaurant where the lobster ate caviar before it had to die.
You want to take her somewhere that’s romantic but not so expensive that one meal costs more than an average monthly salary in Kenya.
Why don’t you take her to one of these dating places in Nairobi?
- Sisima Coffee
- Ranch House Bistro
- Under the Radar
But you don’t have to go somewhere to eat. You can do other things. A lot of Kenyan women starve because they believe that Western men prefer skinny women. She might be more comfortable when you do something fun instead of eating something dead.
How about indoor rock climbing at the climbing hall BlueSky?
This climbing hall/gym (call it whatever you want) is located at Diamond Plaza Parklands. It costs less than $12, even if you don’t have any ice skates.
How about boat riding at the Uhuru Park?
A romantic boat ride at the Uhuru Park costs a shit load of money. It costs less than $2.50. No, I didn’t forget a zero. I think you can afford it. And don’t worry. She won’t think that you’re her sponsor, just because you pay for the ride.
How about ice skating at the Panari hotel?
Aaawww how romantic…and cheap. Believe it or not but it costs less than $8 for one hour. And falling down, seeing her running towards you and looking into her eyes while she tries to help you up is priceless.
How Can You Date a Girl in Nairobi and Make Her Your Girlfriend?
When it comes to dating Nairobi girls, there are a few simple rules you should follow. I already shared one of these rules with you.
The “don’t throw around with money” rule.
It’s easy to impress a Nairobi girl with money, but it will only attract the girls you should stay away from. There’s another way to impress them that gold diggers are resistant to. All you need to do is to think.
Think about WHY sexy Nairobi girls want to meet Western men like you…
You are more educated than the local guys. Remember, the women in this country are more educated than the men.
You have been to places and seen things. Maybe you’ve traveled all over the world. Maybe Kenya is the first country you visit. It doesn’t matter. She has never been outside of Nairobi.
You look completely different than the local guys. The way you look, the way you dress and the way you speak is not comparable.
You come from a different culture. This makes you interesting and exotic. You can show her that the stereotype of the romantic Western man is true.
So, what’s the secret for dating Nairobi girls?
- Impress her with intelligent humor and deep topics.
- Share your travel stories with her (just leave out the naughty details).
- Embrace your own style and don’t try to fit in with the locals.
- Open the door for her, give her compliments and be the gentleman she always dreamed of.
Do this and Nairobi girls will smile at you as if you were the male version of the White Masai.
Summed Up Wisdom
Dating Nairobi girls is serious business. But it’s not all about the sex. There are so many traditional girls in this city who are looking for love and who’ve never worked as prostitutes. You just need to know where to find them.
But you also need to know how to get them and how to keep them. I’m sure that you can get more girls when you throw around with money, but I doubt that these are the girls you want. No, you want beautiful Nairobi women who are attracted to your brain, your experience, and your terrible sense of style that only white guys have.
Sebastian Harris says
I always have first dates at cheap places.
Hello Sebastian, Im in Nairobi now. And i met few girls, most of them can go to meet at coffe shop (java House for examples) and I paid about 600-1200 ksh for all. But there are few who wanted to take me to restaurant for dinner when I paid about 3000 KSH and later drinks etc And finalyy night costs 5000 ks.. I think its too much, but some girls behave like Hi-So or semi golddiggers (especialy the most beautyfull ones). Can you explain how to recognize these grils or what to do when girl wanted to go to restaurant you see pricess for example 800-1000 KSh for drink (K1 club). You have some tips for this? What to do in this situations?
Sebastian Harris says
of course, the HIV rate is higher than in other parts of the world. You need to wear condoms.