You have looked at enough pictures of hot Dominican Republic girls on tumblr and other sites that I won’t mention now. You have wasted enough time fantasizing about meeting, dating, and seducing sexy, curvy Caribbean women.
It’s time to stop drooling and to start taking action.
You are here for a reason:
Hell, you want to know everything about them.
In this article, I’m going to share everything I learned from waking up next to a beautiful mulatto woman in an Airbnb apartment in the center of Santo Domingo…
3 Tips for Not Drooling In Front of a Sexy Dominican Girl (Stereotypes Debunked)
I love Dominican women. I really do.
And to be honest, I don’t know why they have such a bad reputation. When I was in Colombia, one of the local guys told me that I should stay away from the women in the DR. In his words “the people down there are terrible.” That’s what he said.
But is that true?
Now that I’ve traveled to the country that he warned me about and dated the girls I should stay away from, I know the answer.
The answer is: “It depends.”
Stereotypes are everywhere, especially if you’re looking for them in Santo Domingo, Santiago, or Sosua. Let’s find out what really happens when you meet Dominican beauties for the very first time…
1. Meditate Before You Meet Hot Dominican Girls
What do Dominican girls look like?
Holy Mother of God!
Let me ask you something: Will this be your first time in this country? Yes?? Oh man. You’ll drool like a dog that hasn’t eaten in five days. And no, this is not an exaggeration.
You are used to overweight Western women, aren’t you?
Here’s what you’re going to see once you get out of the airport in Santo Domingo:
And yes, I’m talking about natural breasts, not the fake ones you see all over Colombia. You’ll see white girls who look like Iggy Azalea and you’ll see black girls with curves that make you dance Bachata in the streets.
How is that possible?
That’s what happens when you mix 53.15% European, 39.57% African and 8.28% Native American genes into one pot. As a result, 73% of the girls are mixed race, mainly European and African. The remaining 27% are African or European.
You can’t be against interracial dating if you see the results walking along Malecon Boulevard.
2. Ignore the Prostitution and Ugly Face Stereotypes
Some girls in the Dominican Republic work as prostitutes.
That’s a fact. You can’t change it. Accept it and get over it. Not all girls you meet in the bars in Santo Domingo (especially in the bars in Sosua or Punta Cana) are angels. Some of them want sex. Others want sex and money. That’s how it is.
But that doesn’t mean that EVERY girl is a hooker.
It all depends on where you go. I mean, if you visit the beach in Sosua and you complain about prostitution…what can I say? That’s like standing in the middle of the Walking Street in Pattaya and complaining that you see gogo bars.
Avoid the sex tourist hot spots and focus on the bigger cities, such as Santo Domingo and Santiago. Less than 10% of the girls are working girls. 90% are potential lovers, girlfriends, and wives.
And no, they are not ugly.
I don’t know why, but every forum and website talks about the ugly faces of Dominican girls. That’s a lie. I’ve been there. Some of these girls have incredibly beautiful faces. If you don’t believe me, read my Dominican Cupid review, join the dating site for free, and see it with your own eyes.
3. Expect Dominican Singles to Dress up (But Not For You)
She’ll look like a model on the first date.
High heels, makeup, a tight skirt that shows her delicious curves…she’ll do everything to make you stop and stare.
But that doesn’t mean that you’re special.
She does the same when she goes to the local market.
These ladies dress up, no matter where they go.
They are proud of their beauty and if they only have $10 left, they spend this $10 on a day in the beauty salon.
Enjoy the show.
3 Tips for Using Your Gringo Value (The Unfiltered Truth)
I don’t say that the cute Dominican girl you’ll be dating doesn’t love you.
I’m sure she’s crazy for you. And I’m sure it’s because of your charm, your charisma, and your irresistible confidence...at least mostly. There is, however, one part of you that’s more attractive than your dimples and your George Clooney smile.
You are a gringo and your value is through the roof.
4. The Truth about Black Men and Dominican Girls
Dominican women love black men…but only if they are black.
No, I’m not a racist. I know that what I’m about to share with you will trigger hate comments. But don’t hate the messenger. I’m just sharing the truth.
Here’s what I learned from a local woman:
In the Dominican Republic, status is more defined by family background than wealth. Black men have a higher value than Dominican men because they are foreigners. That’s true. But they ONLY have this high value with the dark-skinned women. The reason for that is extremely racist, but deeply ingrained in the culture.
Of course, this is not always true, but most of the time.
Here’s what that means:
A white local girl who’s dating a black foreigner loses status whereas a black local girl who’s dating a black foreigner doesn’t.
If you’re black, you’ll have 100 times more success with dark-skinned women. Period.
5. The Truth about Dominican Girls and White Men
No matter if she’s black, white, mulatto, or mestizo…she loves white men.
And again, it can be explained with the status game in the DR (Later I’ll show you how to manipulate it):
A white local girl who’s dating a white foreigner gains status and a black local girl who’s dating a white foreigner gains even more status.
Here’s what one of my African American friends said about this:
“You know. Before I came to the DR, I thought that the girls are crazy for black guys. Then I realized that there’s only one reason why everyone thinks that. The black girls approach us aggressively because they believe that Caucasian men prefer the light-skinned girls. Deep down they want to get approached by you. Man, I hate you for that.”
It’s true. White men are considered high status. That’s why the girls are too shy to approach us white guys. And we white guys are too shy to approach them. It’s so stupid.
She has waited long enough:
6. Black Dominican Girls are Easier than White Dominican Girls
Here’s the universal rule for dating in the Dominican Republic:
Black women are easier than white women.
It doesn’t matter if you’re African American, Caucasian, Asian, or from Planet Krypton…the darker her skin, the easier it is to attract, impress, and get her.
And yes, it’s because your skin color defines your class. Light-skinned girls are descended from European settlers. Dark-skinned girls are descended from African slaves or Haitian immigrants.
This is in their heads.
3 Tips for Meeting Dominican Girls Online (On the Best Dating Site)
What’s the best way to meet women in this country?
Online dating is the answer.
There are a lot of Dominican dating sites, shady marriage agencies, and chat portals that promise you to give you access to thousands of curvy chicas.
But there’s only one dating site that I can recommend.
Let’s have a look at it and at some of the things you have to consider when you’re talking to beautiful Dominican girls online…
7. Choose the Best Dominican Online Dating Site
I don’t want to beat around the bush.
Here are four reasons why Dominican Cupid is the best dating site for you:
I received messages from girls in Santo Domingo, San Felipe de Puerto Plata, and Santiago de los Caballeros.
8. Search for Single Girls (or Single Moms) on Dominican Cupid
Here’s what you have to do when searching for girls online:
Ask the baby question.
No, not if she wants to have a baby with you. She probably does. But that’s not what I mean. Instead, ask her if she already has one.
The odds are pretty high because this country has more than 1.5 million single moms.
This is absolutely insane for a country with less than 11 million inhabitants. Just think about. Let’s say there are 5 million women, 3 million of them between the age of 18 and 35. Half of them have a child.
It’s not your fault that the local guys, especially the so-called tigres (ghetto guys) play the pump and dump game. But it’s your fault if you end up with a family that you’re not ready for.
I hope you’re searching for the right girls.
9. The Lost Puppy Approach Works with Single Dominican Ladies
How to approach Dominican girls when chatting with them online?
You’re a lost puppy.
I’m serious. The lost puppy approach works like magic. All you have to do is to tell her that it’s your first time in the DR and that you’re looking for someone who can show you the local sights and culture.
One of two things is going to happen:
Option #1: She thinks that you are boyfriend material because sex tourists are not interested in the local culture. She’s a good girl.
Option #2: She thinks that you’re naïve and easy to con because you are new to the country. She’s a bad girl.
You’ll either meet a good girl who wants a relationship or a bad girl who wants to milk you and your wallet dry. Meet her and enjoy your life (if she’s a good girl), or prove her wrong and contact another girl (if she’s a bad girl).
4 Best Places to Visit in the Dominican Republic For Singles
Online dating is the most effective way to meet more sexy Dominican girls than you can handle. But the choice is yours.
You can either…
The Dominican Republic is a paradise for singles and you don’t have to book one of these ridiculously overprized single resorts that charge thousands of dollars per night.
You can have your free lunch and eat it. You just have to know where to go…
10. Meet Dominican Women in Sosua or Boca Chica
Let’s face the truth.
Most girls you meet in Sosua are hookers. And even the ones that aren’t expect wining and dining before the big bang. That’s just how it is when you’re traveling to a sex tourist hot spot.
But there are normal girls.
I mean, Sosua has beautiful beaches. It’s a great place to live, even for a guy who doesn’t want to “date” prostitutes.
Here are some first date ideas for Sosua:
A relaxed day at Sosua beach or Beach Alicia
Visiting the Castillo Mundo King
Snorkeling with a hot Domincan
Visiting the Monkey Jungle
Challenging her at the International Tennis Center
A horseback riding trip at the Rancho Lobo Girls
What about Boca Chica?
Boca Chica is very similar to Sosua. It’s just at the other end of the island. Both towns offer a lot of things that don’t involve bars with shining red lights, overprized liquor, and girls who’re looking for the richest guy for the night.
11. Meet Dominican Women Puerto Plata
It takes less than 30 minutes from Sosua to Puerto Plata, but these two places are like day and night.
The prostitutes who work in Sosua live in Puerto Plata and travel to Sosua every single day. The girls who STAY in San Felipe de Puerto Plata are normal women. Think about it. This city has more than 100.000 inhabitants.
Not every one of them is a hooker.
You can meet office workers, travel agents, tourist guides, bank employees, real estate agents, shop assistants, waitresses…the list goes on and on. It’s a normal city where you can meet normal girls.
Here’s where you can take them on the first date:
Take her to the Country World Adventure Park
She will love the Rancho Lorilar
Be careful that she doesn’t buy too much at the Fifi Jewelry and Cigar Store
Get her wet at the Ocean World Adventure Park
Share a pizza at the Panaderia & Pizzeria San Jorge
Spend a romantic evening at the Ristorante Passatore
Scream your lungs out in the cable car cabin.
12. Meet Dominican Women in Santiago
With 550.000 inhabitants, Santiago de los Caballeros is the second largest city in the country.
The city has more than half a million inhabitants and four big universities. It’s the perfect place to meet smart Dominican girls. Santiago (and of course Santo Domingo) are the only cities that allow you to meet thousands of English-speaking girls.
Here are some of the things you can do with her:
Dance Merengue with her in one of the many small dancing schools.
Explore the shots at Calle del Sol.
Overlook the city at the Monumento a los Heroes.
Eat local food at the El Tablon Latino
Show her your artistic side by visiting the Casa de Arte.
13. Meet Dominican Women in Santo Domingo
The capital. This is where I stayed most of the time.
Santo Domingo has almost 1.000.000 inhabitants and is by far the largest city in the country. Most tourists who arrive in the Dominican Republic land at the Airport Las Americas, which is right between Santo Domingo and Boca Chica.
Here’s my insider tip:
Avoid the Zona Colonial.
I stayed there for the first few nights. That’s where all the tourists are. And guess what? That’s the place with the most rip-offs, hookers, and guys trying to sell you a watch they stole from the guy next to you. It’s a pain.
Instead, stay at Melcon or Piantini.
Melcon is right at the beach, next to the Zona Colonial, but the vibe is completely different. Piantini is in the city center. Go there if you want to rent a luxury Condo that makes you feel like a millionaire in Miami…for 50 bucks a night.
What about the nightlife?
I’ve been to the Mamma and Jet Set Club. Both of them are full of chapiadoras (more on that later). The girls go there to catch a rich guy. That’s it.
Here’s the only club I liked:
I also went to the La Baricca in Mega Centro, but that was awkward as hell. I was the only tourist AND the only white guy.
7 Tips for Your First Date with a Sexy Dominican Girl (Be Careful!)
“Dating a Dominican woman is fun!”
But it can end in a disaster.
And it will end in a disaster if you think that you have the upper hand. You don’t, at least not yet. First, you have to understand the true nature of the Dominican woman…
14. Don’t Think that You’re Cleverer than Hot Dominicans
What are Dominican women like?
Never underestimate her street smarts.
Read the last point again. Yes, that’s what’s going to happen if you are what she wants. You’re not in the West. She won’t change her mind every five minutes.
Instead, she will pursue you and she will use her body, her charm, and her to make you weak.
Don’t fool yourself. She will succeed.
You can find many naïve women in Asia. You won’t find one of them in the DR. Don’t confuse her playfulness with nativity.
She’ll hunt you down like a Balinese beach boy who wants to bang a middle-aged Australian widow.
You have been warned.
15. Here’s what to Do When Young Dominican Girls Ask for Taxi Money
Let’s say you want to meet Dominican ladies in Santo Domingo.
There’s just one problem:
She lives at the other end of the city and asks for taxi money.
What do you do?
Do NOT send her money. She might never come. Instead, tell her that you’ll give her the money once she arrives. Oh, and don’t forget to ask her where she lives and to check the official rates. Just in case she adds a few hundred kilometers.
Search for girls who live close to you. That’s easy when you use online dating. And you can save a lot of money. can save a lot of money.
16. Don’t Be Shocked When She’s on Time
I dated girls in Colombia, in Costa Rica, and in Brazil. Not one of them was on time.
The two girls I dated in the Dominican Republic showed up on time.
Yes, both of them. Not one minute late.
Have you had a similar experience?
Let me know in the comments below. Maybe I’m lucky and every other guy who visits the DR has to wait. Hah! I loved it.
17. Shut the F**ck Up When You Meet Dominican Singles
Here’s my reaction on my first date with Carla:
I went nuts.
Remember what I said about not drooling? Forget about it! I drooled like a hungry dog, hell no, like a tiger. I wanted to make sweet love to her…right here and right now. The way she dressed made me want to howl like a wolf.
But I’m glad I didn’t. Here’s why:
Dominican hotties are used to whistling, screaming, and catcalling local men. The local guys are not good at controlling their emotions. She’s not a feminist. She won’t scream “sexual harassment!” But that doesn’t mean that she likes it.
Be different. Be indifferent.
Play the gentleman gringo card and show her that you’re used to seeing beautiful women.
18. Impress Beautiful Dominican Girls with Your Baseball Knowledge
What’s the most popular sport in the DR?
Nope, it’s not Bachata. It’s baseball.
I’m German. Baseball doesn’t exist in my home country. I don’t know the rules and my only memory of baseball is watching Leslie Nielsen in The Naked Gun. There’s a 99% chance that you know more about baseball.
Use your knowledge.
There is no better topic to talk about on your first date.
19. Ask Her About Her Best Friend Jesus
Okay, maybe there’s one.
Talk about religion and her eyes will light up. Tell her that you believe in God and she’ll smile like a child. Say that you’re Catholic and she’ll text “I found my husband” to her mom.
Her faith is not so much about the bible. It’s about status.
Being Catholic is a sign of status. Being with a Catholic man is the same.
20. Dance Bachata with Dominican Single Ladies
Here’s what I did on my first date with Carla:
What if you don’t want to go to one of the small dance clubs?
Just grab her and start dancing on the street.
Relax gringo. Have some fun.
3 Tips for Manipulating the Dominican Status Game (Shift Her Reality)
Remember what I told you about status in the DR?
In the Dominican Republic you don’t game the girls. You game your status. If you do it right, you can shift her reality and seduce her fast…very fast.
But I have to warn you.
What I’m about to share with you can be considered unethical. Only continue reading if you’re willing to shake hands with the dark side of the force…
21. Show the Status You Don’t Have
I’m a big fan of radical honesty, but I’m also a big fan of getting laid.
Call it an emergency lie, a white lie, or manipulation. I don’t care. All you have to know is that dating in the Dominican Republic is about status. There’s no way around it.
Seduction skills + status manipulation = 10 insanely sexy Dominican girlfriends.
Here’s what I did to win big time:
Here’s the secret:
The shirt cost $3.50. I bought it in a run-down mall in central Bangkok. I bought the watch for free from a Facebook advertisement. You know…the startups that offer watches and you only pay the shipping. Yep, these offers are real. What about the shoes? Not more than $50.
I looked like the young version of Grant Cardone and I only payed $55 for it.
But that didn’t matter because in the eyes of the girls in Santo Domingo, I was Grant Cardone. I got eyes wherever I looked.
22. Make the Chapiadoras Test with Pretty Dominican Girls
What is a Chapiadora?
Are all girls gold diggers?
No, of course not! But some of them are. And it’s your job to sift them out. Let’s say that 10% of the girls are chapiadoras. Unfortunately, you’ll have the feeling that 90% are chapiadoras.
These 10% pursue gringos like mice pursue cheese.
Here’s how to find a girl who doesn’t belong to the chapiadora club:
If she sticks around, she’s not a chapi chapi.
23. Challenge the Hottest Dominican Girls
Status, integrity, confidence…what do you imagine when you think about these words?
I’m imagining a leader.
Dominican babes have the same image in mind. This is no country for weak men. Holding your frame is important. Setting boundaries is even more important. Otherwise, she’ll test you relentlessly.
But she only does it if you’re too slow.
Here’s the deal:
Test her first and she will accept you as her leader.
I never thought that I would say this, but testing a Dominican girl is the best way to seduce her.
4 Tips for Dating Your Dominican Girlfriend (Survival Handbook)
Have you made the chapiadora test?
Have you successfully tested (is that even a word?) your way into her pants?
Then there’s a high chance that you made this hot Dominican woman your girlfriend. Congratulations my friend. You have a girlfriend who’s ten times hotter than the girls your friends are dating.
And there lies the danger…
24. Falling in Lust with Hot Dominicans is Dangerous
You’re not in love.
You think you are. But you are not. You have fallen in lust and that’s NOT the same. Unfortunately, men love to confuse lust with love.
Kissing, touching, sex…all these things can happen extremely fast when you’re dating a Dominican girl. Their femininity, their playfulness, their flirtatious attitude make you fall for her. Maybe she’s perfect for you. Maybe she’s not. You don’t care because you’re in lust.
She knows how to play the game.
Do you know how to distinguish between lust and love?
25. Women of the Dominican Republic Share Everything with their Comadres
Who are her Comadres?
Her best friend Lucia, her sister Anna, and her godmother Theresia.
Whoever is available.
That’s the golden rule for Comadres in the Dominican Republic. And guess what? She tells them everything. I know. Trust is an important part of every relationship. But be careful.
Don’t tell your Dominican girlfriend too many secrets. It won’t stay a secret for long.
26. A Hot Dominican Girl Can Have Terrible Nightmares
Want to know a strange fact about Dominican women?
Their dreams are visions and their nightmares are signs.
They are more superstitious than a 45-year old Romanian gypsy with a crystal ball. When your American girlfriend has a nightmare, you cuddle her and tell her that everything is okay. When your Dominican girlfriend has a nightmare, you have to talk for two hours.
Don’t make fun of her. She’ll hate you forever.
If she has a nightmare that involves you, there’s a 50% chance that she thinks about breaking up with you. Talk about it and calm her down. This is serious business.
27. Dating in the Dominican Republic is Like a Telenovela
Lust, drama, incredible sex, jealousy…
That’s what it’s like to date a Dominican woman. You are the main character of a telenovela. That’s how you will feel. Every. Single. Day.
- 1You never know what happens next.
- 2Drama is waiting around the corner.
- 3Untamable lust is a part of the deal.
Are you ready for the ride?
4 Tips for Finding Dominican Women for Marriage (One Alternative)
What if you want more than a holiday adventure or a girlfriend?
What if you want to marry a Dominican woman?
The following four tips will save your life…
P.S. What if you are NOT looking for a Dominican wife? Continue reading! At the end of this article, I’m going to share the only alternative to Dominican Cupid (It’s not what you expect).
28. Dominican Brides Want an Older Husband
Let me share a secret with you:
It’s really hard for a young guy like me to find a Dominican wife.
I’m not joking. I’m 28 and most girls on Dominican Cupid are looking for guys in their 30s and 40s. Some of them are not even 20. What about the girls in their 30s? They are looking for guys in their 50s.
Yep, it’s that bad. But it makes total sense:
The moral of the story:
Don’t hide your grey hair. Wear them with pride. You’re the kind of guy she’s looking for. You’re husband material.
29. Embrace the Family of Your Dominican Mail Order Bride
Dominican Republic mail order brides are extremely family-oriented.
It’s easy to meet a woman who…
Yes, they walk around like strippers in Atlanta, but their minds are programmed with traditional beliefs. They know that it’s hard to find a good husband.
Keeping you happy is priority number two.
Why only number two?
Well, because her first priority is to keep her family happy. That’s why it’s so important to get along with her mom, her cousins and of course, her Comadres.
30. My Dominican Love and Her Vick Vaporub
What if you’re married to a Dominican bride and you get sick?
Make your last will.
She will take care of you. There’s just one problem and it’s called Vick Vaporub.
These girls believe in Vick Vaporub more than in gravity. In case you don’t believe me, check out this forum thread.
31. This is the Only Alternative to Dominican Cupid
I keep my promise.
This is the truth. But there is one alternative:
The alternative is called Meetup. Yes, the good old meetup site where people with the same interests, passions, and beliefs can meet and exchange cultural…blah blah blah.
Let’s get real for a moment.
I went to the Santo Domingo Spanish & English Exchange. Officially, this meetup is about learning languages, getting to know each other’s culture and all that crap. But you have to admit that it’s a bit strange that the meetup picture shows one gringo surrounded by three stunning mulatto women.
I can tell you what’s going on. Yes, these beautiful ladies want to learn English. But they only do it because they want to meet foreign men. When I went there, we were five foreign men and 15 gorgeous local girls.
You don’t have to be a math professor to get it. Enjoy your meetup.
Summed Up Wisdom
You can date hot Dominican girls. You can meet so many single women that your head spins. It’s possible. But only if you get over the prostitute and ugly face stereotypes. Come on. These ladies are gorgeous. You can meet white, black, mestizo, or mulatto women.
However, it’s all about status and about using your gringo value. The rules of the game are different for black and white men. But the rules can be bent if you know how to manipulate the status game. It doesn’t take more than the right blazer and an effective test.
Yes, you’ll meet chapiadoras. Test them and filter them out. What about the good girls? You can meet plenty of them. They are looking for boyfriends and husbands. And if you have the same religious values, you’re already the man of her dreams. What if you want to marry her? You’ll have a feminine wife who embraces traditional gender roles. But you have to survive her Vick Vaporub attacks.