Don’t you also think that Malaysian women are special?
Meeting and dating these girls is an adventure.
How do I know that?
Well, I’ve been to Kuala Lumpur twice.
And I lived together with three Malaysian women during college. I dated two (none of the two I lived with) and one of my closest friends is a traditional Malay girl. God knows why, but we had hundreds of them on our campus.
I have enough experience to know that dating these women is different.
Sure, it’s a South East Asian country, but that doesn’t mean that you can compare the girls to the ones you can find on various Thai, Vietnamese, and Filipina online dating sites. But I promise you that, after you have read this article, you’ll know everything about them and about how you can meet, attract and date them.
Let me show you what I learned from living with them, dating them, and from two unforgettable trips to the capital of this fascinating country…
The 3 Types of Malaysian Girls You Will Meet
There are three types of girls you will find in this country.
- Traditional Malay girls
- Chinese girls
- Indian girls
I’ve dated all of them.
Okay, I have to be honest. I dated a Chinese girl and an Indian girl and I failed miserably with a Malay girl.
Today I’m glad that I failed and you’ll soon find out why.
But I will never forget the time I spent with the Chinese girl. I have to thank her for some of the most memorable experiences in my life. Even though I dated a Malaysian Indian girl on the side (we had an open relationship), she was devastated when it was time to say goodbye.
She cried the whole day.
It was an intense experience, but it was also an experience that taught me all the things that I want to share with you in this article…
1. You Can Date Muslim Women in Malaysia
You can…but only if you are a Muslim man.
I’m sorry to say this but 50% of the women in this country might not be for you. I’m not saying that they are not interested in you. They are. Some of them are so sick and tired of the restrictions that go along with their Muslim belief that they are yearning for an adventure.
But it’s difficult.
Even if you can find a traditional Malay girl who wants to date you, you should still be careful. Meet her in private. Think about it as your secret romance, especially when you are a Western man and you don’t want to convert to Islam.
If I were you, I would date girls from the other two ethnic minorities…
2. Dating Malaysian Indian Girls is Different
I only went on a few dates with the Indian girl from my university. My dating experience with her was different than anything I ever experienced.
It was so different that it creeped me out a bit.
- Whenever her parents called, she talked about me as if I was her husband.
- Whenever we were in private, she was talking like a waterfall.
- Whenever we were in public, she was quite like a church mouse.
She always kept asking me about my future plans and she mentioned the words, family, kids, and marriage a couple of times.
Even though she was really attractive (which is pretty rare for Indian women), I was not ready for that. But I learned something from this experience and from talking about it with my Malaysian Indian housemate.
I learned that these girls will treat you like a king in a relationship but ONLY if you are willing to commit. And when I say commit, I really mean it.
She’ll be talking about marriage after the first couple of days.
3. Dating Malaysian Chinese Girls is a Pleasure
If you are a Muslim and you want to date a traditional Malay girl, go for it. And if you dream about marrying an Indian woman, you have my blessing.
But why not take the easy road?
About 25% of women who are living in this country are originally from China. In fact, in Kuala Lumpur 43.2% of the women are Malaysian Chinese.
You just won the lottery.
In case you didn’t know, the Chinese girls you meet in Malaysia…
- Are the most beautiful
- Are more interested in Western men than the Malay and Indian girls
- Don’t have Muslim parents who want to kill their daughter for dating a white guy
- Use online dating sites to meet men like you
Dating Malay or Indian girls instead of Chinese girls is like signing up on a Western dating site with overweight girls instead of joining an international dating site. It doesn’t make any sense.
The Top 3 Places to Meet Malaysian Girls in Kuala Lumpur
Let me guess.
You plan to travel to Kuala Lumpur.
Maybe I’m wrong. You might be one of the few guys who know that Johor Bahru, Kota Kinabalu and George Town (not the one in the USA) actually exist.
But I’m probably right.
95% of people I met who have traveled to Malaysia said that they visited Kuala Lumpur. There’s a high chance that you will do the same.
You deserve to know where you can meet the hottest girls in town…
The Best Mall to Meet Hot Malaysian Women in Kuala Lumpur
The city has quite a few malls and even though the Pavilion Shopping Mall in the Bukit Bintang district is bigger, I was more impressed by the Suria KLCC, at least when it comes to approaching women.
The Suria KLCC is located directly below the famous Petronas Twin Towers.
The mall has six floors and you can meet hundreds, if not thousands, of beautiful women on each floor.
Here are a few things you can do when you visit this mall:
- Chat with your waitress.
- Ask the girl at the information desk for help AND for her phone number.
- Approach a girl who’s about to meet her friends for dinner.
The Best Park to Meet Malaysian Single Women in Kuala Lumpur
The KL Bird Park is best to look at birds, but the KLCC Park is best to look at beautiful women.
And again, we are at the Petronas Twin Towers in the center of the city. Besides a playground (you don’t want to go there), it offers a running track where the hottest women in Malaysia go for a run.
I will never forget the day I approached a sexy Chinese girl in this park.
She was busy stretching her long legs when I walked up to her. She had an incredibly beautiful smile.
The Best Nightclub to Meet Sexy Malaysian Women in Kuala Lumpur
The first time I visited the capital, I haven’t been to any club. The second time, one of my friends took me to the Zouk nightclub.
Even though this is the only club I visited, I don’t believe that it’s possible to find a better club. And in case you don’t believe my words, you might believe your eyes…
This place is insane.
It’s more than just a club. It’s a whole district. It’s a district with an own rooftop garden, a main room, a terrace bar, and a bunch of other rooms where you can dance to Hip Hop, electronic beats and 80s music.
I really liked this place and the sexy party girls you can meet there. And I usually hate clubs.
Malaysian Online Dating: Asian Dating vs. Malaysian Cupid
I admit it.
Approaching sporty and damn sexy Chinese girls who went for a run in the KLCC Park is as fun as hitting on hot party girls in the Zouk club.
It’s fun. But it’s not effective.
On a good day, you can meet 10 stunning girls who exercise in the park. Three of them give you there number and one of them replies to your text message.
What about the Zouk nightclub?
Well, the girls are insanely hot but they are also insanely flakey. Heck, they are party girls. You know the game.
“There must be an easier and more efficient way to meet Malaysian girls” you think to yourself.
You are right.
There is an easier and more efficient way. It’s called online dating and when it comes to meeting women in Kuala Lumpur or any other part of this country, you have two options:
Which one should you choose?
How to Meet Single Women on Malaysian Cupid
This international dating site has only one goal. It has the goal to connect Western men with Malaysian women. And it does a pretty good job.
It doesn’t have millions of members, but you can meet a decent amount of beautiful women on this site.
- You’ll meet traditional Malay girls
- You’ll meet some Indian girls
- You’ll meet a lot of stunning Chinese girls
In fact, most girls who replied to my message were Chinese…and pretty hot.
How to Meet Malaysian Single Women on Asian Dating
Why on earth would you want to join Asiandating.com when you can meet girls on a dating site where 100% of the female members are from Malaysia?
Well, let’s say it like this:
I accidentally discovered that most Malay girls who are interested in foreigners (the ones without headscarves) are looking for them on Asian Dating.
I don’t know why, but I guess it’s because they are scared that some of their friends and family members find them on Malaysian Cupid and they believe that nobody will search for them on Asian Dating.
If you want to meet Chinese girls, you should stick to Malaysian Cupid.
But if you want to have a secret romance with a hot Malay girl who forgets her Muslim upbringing as soon as she’s in your room, you should…
4 Things You Need to Know About the Malaysian Dating Culture
No matter how much you focus on the thin, beautiful, and elegant Chinese girls, you should never forget that you are dating someone who was born and raised in a Muslim country.
And no matter how tolerant her parents are, the Malaysian dating culture had an effect on her, even if it’s just a tiny one. There are some things that you just can’t do in this country, no matter how normal you think they are…
1. Dating Malaysian Women Can End Badly
I dated local girls. One of them even lived with me for a couple of day.
Did I run into any trouble?
No, because I respected the Malaysian dating culture.
- I didn’t hold her hand in public.
- I didn’t kiss her in public.
- I didn’t talk about sexual topics in public.
I did none of these things because I know that the girl I’ve been with could have ended up in jail. Yes, in jail.
Jesus, this is a Muslim country!
Showing any form of affection in public (normal and healthy human behavior) is strictly forbidden. You better respect this rule.
2. One-Night Stands are Rare
I don’t say that having a one-night stand is impossible.
All I say is that most girls are looking for a serious relationship, especially the Indian girls and the traditional Malay girls who haven’t changed their Malaysian Cupid account into an account on Asiandating.com.
You are in a Muslim country with a traditional dating culture.
You are not in Singapore or Hong Kong where the Western hookup culture is widely accepted. However, just because she doesn’t want to be your one-night stand doesn’t mean that she won’t sleep with you…
3. Malaysian Girls Love Sex
Believe it or not but Malaysian women are extremely sexual.
“What? But you said that they don’t want one-night stands?”
My Malay friend (she’s a woman) said it best:
“We have been raised to believe that having one-night stands is a sin and being in a monogamous relationship is okay. Nobody says how long this monogamous relationship has to be…”
In other words, she wants to have sex with you, but only if you are in a relationship, even if this relationship only lasts for three days.
This leads to this weird fact:
74% of Malaysians are having sex at least once a week, but only 38% are satisfied with their sex life (Source).
I can only assume that the women who are not satisfied are in relationships with men who believe that good sex is a sin. But I know for sure that not every woman who has sex every week is married.
4. It’s Easy to Get a Date in Malaysia (It’s Harder to Date the Right Girl)
Does that sound confusing?
Maybe it does. But it’s actually pretty simple.
Let me explain…
Getting a date in Malaysia is easy, especially when you chat with girls online.
- The Malay girls are curious but they know that their parents would kill them if they found out.
- The Indian girls know that they can’t compete with the Chinese girls and want to marry you straight away.
- The Chinese girls are smart enough to realize that marrying a Muslim guy is the same as going to prison.
What does that mean for you?
Well, it means that you might have a lot of dates when you focus on traditional Malay girls and Indian girls, but none of the girls is right for you.
My honest advice: Focus on the Chinese girls.
They want you and most of them are so beautiful that you want them. Don’t waste your time, especially when you are looking for a Malaysian girlfriend or wife…
Should You Marry One of These Beautiful Malaysian Women?
I can’t answer this question for you.
- If you are a Muslim, you might want to marry a Malay girl.
- If you are a Western man, you might want to marry one of the Chinese girls.
- If you are insane, you might want to marry one of the Indian girls after the first date.
No matter how you choose, you need to be prepared.
How to Get Married in Malaysia
I’m not a lawyer and before I give you wrong advice that will lead to drama, a messed up wedding ceremony and the third world war, I rather link to this article that explains everything you need to know about marrying a woman in this country.
I personally don’t know anyone who is married to a Malay woman, but I know a Malaysian Chinese girl who is married to a British dude she met at university. We talked about the good old times and about marriage in her home country.
Here’s what she said with my notes in brackets:
“As long as your future wife has the required minimum income (the RM2000 that are mentioned in the article I linked to) you can get a visa for six months. Our country is very open to foreigners and it’s easy to get a long-stay visa. During this time you can get married, at least when you have all your documents, such as your birth certificate. It’s also not difficult to get a work permit. The only thing that’s difficult is to become a citizen.”
Why There Is No Typical Malaysian Marriage
You want a typical Malaysian marriage?
Good luck with that.
When it comes to weddings, there are so many different ceremonies that it’s impossible to list all of them without turning this article into a 150-page book.
It all depends on the girl you want to marry.
- Is she Malay, Indian or Chinese?
- Is she a Muslim, a Buddhist, a Christian or a Hindu?
- Does she want to make her parents or your parents happy with the ceremony (probably hers)?
The only thing I know for sure is that the wedding ceremony will be an experience that you (and your bank account) will never forget.
Believe me. I had a look at the photos of my friend’s wedding. This shit ain’t cheap.
Bu it can be worth it…
Why Malaysian Mail Order Brides are Worth Pursuing
You always hear about Thai, Vietnamese, or Filipina mail order brides, but you never hear about Malaysian mail order brides.
I think that there are two reasons for that:
1. Malaysia is relatively unknown in comparison to other South East Asian countries.
2. Most Western men are not looking for a Muslim wife.
What most men don’t realize is that this country is full of beautiful Chinese girls with traditional family values, legs to die for, and a deep understanding of the Western culture.
These girls want but can’t find a foreign boyfriend or husband because all the guys are searching in Thailand, the Philippines or Vietnam.
Summed Up Wisdom
No matter if you want to date a traditional Malay girl, a beautiful Chinese girl or an Indian chick who wants to marry you after the first date, I’ll show you how you can get what you want. I lived with Malaysians, I dated them and I’ve been to Kuala Lumpur twice.
During this time I learned that the Malaysian dating culture has unspoken rules that you need to know before you fly to Kuala Lumpur. I learned that it’s easy to get a date in this country, but a very bad idea to show affection in public.
But that doesn’t mean that you can’t show affection in private. These girls are conservative, but they love sex. And they love it even more when a man is committed, no matter for how many days, weeks or years.
Pursuing a Malaysian mail order bride can be worth it. Dating such a girl is definitely worth it. I know it from my own experience. And I also know that meeting her online is the easiest way to get the dice rolling.