Don’t you also think that Malaysian women are special?
Meeting and dating these girls is an adventure.
How do I know that?
Well, I’ve been to Kuala Lumpur twice.
yes, twice
And I lived together with three Malaysian women during college. I dated two (none of the two I lived with) and one of my closest friends is a traditional Malay girl. God knows why, but we had hundreds of them on our campus.
I have enough experience to know that dating these women is different.
Sure, it’s a South East Asian country, but that doesn’t mean that you can compare the girls to the ones you can find on various Thai, Vietnamese, and Filipina online dating sites. But I promise you that, after you have read this article, you’ll know everything about them and about how you can meet, attract and date them.
Let me show you what I learned from living with them, dating them, and from two unforgettable trips to the capital of this fascinating country…
The 3 Types of Malaysian Girls You Will Meet
There are three types of girls you will find in this country.
- Traditional Malay girls
- Chinese girls
- Indian girls
I’ve dated all of them.
Okay, I have to be honest. I dated a Chinese girl and an Indian girl and I failed miserably with a Malay girl.
Today I’m glad that I failed and you’ll soon find out why.
But I will never forget the time I spent with the Chinese girl. I have to thank her for some of the most memorable experiences in my life. Even though I dated a Malaysian Indian girl on the side (we had an open relationship), she was devastated when it was time to say goodbye.
She cried the whole day.
It was an intense experience, but it was also an experience that taught me all the things that I want to share with you in this article…
1. You Can Date Muslim Women in Malaysia
You can…but only if you are a Muslim man.
I’m sorry to say this but 50% of the women in this country might not be for you. I’m not saying that they are not interested in you. They are. Some of them are so sick and tired of the restrictions that go along with their Muslim belief that they are yearning for an adventure.
But it’s difficult.
Even if you can find a traditional Malay girl who wants to date you, you should still be careful. Meet her in private. Think about it as your secret romance, especially when you are a Western man and you don’t want to convert to Islam.
If I were you, I would date girls from the other two ethnic minorities…
2. Dating Malaysian Indian Girls is Different
I only went on a few dates with the Indian girl from my university. My dating experience with her was different than anything I ever experienced.
It was so different that it creeped me out a bit.
- Whenever her parents called, she talked about me as if I was her husband.
- Whenever we were in private, she was talking like a waterfall.
- Whenever we were in public, she was quite like a church mouse.
She always kept asking me about my future plans and she mentioned the words, family, kids, and marriage a couple of times.
Even though she was really attractive (which is pretty rare for Indian women), I was not ready for that. But I learned something from this experience and from talking about it with my Malaysian Indian housemate.
I learned that these girls will treat you like a king in a relationship but ONLY if you are willing to commit. And when I say commit, I really mean it.
She’ll be talking about marriage after the first couple of days.
3. Dating Malaysian Chinese Girls is a Pleasure
If you are a Muslim and you want to date a traditional Malay girl, go for it. And if you dream about marrying an Indian woman, you have my blessing.
But why not take the easy road?
About 25% of women who are living in this country are originally from China. In fact, in Kuala Lumpur 43.2% of the women are Malaysian Chinese.
You just won the lottery.
In case you didn’t know, the Chinese girls you meet in Malaysia…
- Are the most beautiful
- Are more interested in Western men than the Malay and Indian girls
- Don’t have Muslim parents who want to kill their daughter for dating a white guy
- Use online dating sites to meet men like you
Dating Malay or Indian girls instead of Chinese girls is like signing up on a Western dating site with overweight girls instead of joining an international dating site. It doesn’t make any sense.
The Top 3 Places to Meet Malaysian Girls in Kuala Lumpur
Let me guess.
You plan to travel to Kuala Lumpur.
Maybe I’m wrong. You might be one of the few guys who know that Johor Bahru, Kota Kinabalu and George Town (not the one in the USA) actually exist.
But I’m probably right.
95% of people I met who have traveled to Malaysia said that they visited Kuala Lumpur. There’s a high chance that you will do the same.
You deserve to know where you can meet the hottest girls in town…
The Best Mall to Meet Hot Malaysian Women in Kuala Lumpur
The city has quite a few malls and even though the Pavilion Shopping Mall in the Bukit Bintang district is bigger, I was more impressed by the Suria KLCC, at least when it comes to approaching women.
Yes, these babies
The Suria KLCC is located directly below the famous Petronas Twin Towers.
The mall has six floors and you can meet hundreds, if not thousands, of beautiful women on each floor.
Here are a few things you can do when you visit this mall:
- Chat with your waitress.
- Ask the girl at the information desk for help AND for her phone number.
- Approach a girl who’s about to meet her friends for dinner.
The Best Park to Meet Malaysian Single Women in Kuala Lumpur
The KL Bird Park is best to look at birds, but the KLCC Park is best to look at beautiful women.
And again, we are at the Petronas Twin Towers in the center of the city. Besides a playground (you don’t want to go there), it offers a running track where the hottest women in Malaysia go for a run.
I will never forget the day I approached a sexy Chinese girl in this park.
She was busy stretching her long legs when I walked up to her. She had an incredibly beautiful smile.
The Best Nightclub to Meet Sexy Malaysian Women in Kuala Lumpur
The first time I visited the capital, I haven’t been to any club. The second time, one of my friends took me to the Zouk nightclub.
Even though this is the only club I visited, I don’t believe that it’s possible to find a better club.
This place is insane.
It’s more than just a club. It’s a whole district. It’s a district with an own rooftop garden, a main room, a terrace bar, and a bunch of other rooms where you can dance to Hip Hop, electronic beats and 80s music.
I really liked this place and the sexy party girls you can meet there. And I usually hate clubs.
Malaysian Online Dating: Asian Dating vs. Malaysian Cupid
I admit it.
Approaching sporty and damn sexy Chinese girls who went for a run in the KLCC Park is as fun as hitting on hot party girls in the Zouk club.
It’s fun. But it’s not effective.
On a good day, you can meet 10 stunning girls who exercise in the park. Three of them give you there number and one of them replies to your text message.
What about the Zouk nightclub?
Well, the girls are insanely hot but they are also insanely flakey. Heck, they are party girls. You know the game.
“There must be an easier and more efficient way to meet Malaysian girls” you think to yourself.
You are right.
There is an easier and more efficient way. It’s called online dating and when it comes to meeting women in Kuala Lumpur or any other part of this country, you have two options:
Malaysian Cupid
Asian Dating
Which one should you choose?
How to Meet Single Women on Malaysian Cupid
This international dating site has only one goal. It has the goal to connect Western men with Malaysian women. And it does a pretty good job.
It doesn’t have millions of members, but you can meet a decent amount of beautiful women on this site.
- You’ll meet traditional Malay girls
- You’ll meet some Indian girls
- You’ll meet a lot of stunning Chinese girls
In fact, most girls who replied to my message were Chinese…and pretty hot.
Check out my Malaysian Cupid Review to see their replies
How to Meet Malaysian Single Women on Asian Dating
Why on earth would you want to join Asiandating.com when you can meet girls on a dating site where 100% of the female members are from Malaysia?
Well, let’s say it like this:
I accidentally discovered that most Malay girls who are interested in foreigners (the ones without headscarves) are looking for them on Asian Dating.
I don’t know why, but I guess it’s because they are scared that some of their friends and family members find them on Malaysian Cupid and they believe that nobody will search for them on Asian Dating.
If you want to meet Chinese girls, you should stick to Malaysian Cupid.
But if you want to have a secret romance with a hot Malay girl who forgets her Muslim upbringing as soon as she’s in your room, you should…
Check out the messages I received from Malay girls on Asian Dating
4 Things You Need to Know About the Malaysian Dating Culture
No matter how much you focus on the thin, beautiful, and elegant Chinese girls, you should never forget that you are dating someone who was born and raised in a Muslim country.
And no matter how tolerant her parents are, the Malaysian dating culture had an effect on her, even if it’s just a tiny one. There are some things that you just can’t do in this country, no matter how normal you think they are…
1. Dating Malaysian Women Can End Badly
I dated local girls. One of them even lived with me for a couple of day.
Did I run into any trouble?
No, because I respected the Malaysian dating culture.
- I didn’t hold her hand in public.
- I didn’t kiss her in public.
- I didn’t talk about sexual topics in public.
I did none of these things because I know that the girl I’ve been with could have ended up in jail. Yes, in jail.
Jesus, this is a Muslim country!
Showing any form of affection in public (normal and healthy human behavior) is strictly forbidden. You better respect this rule.
2. One-Night Stands are Rare
I don’t say that having a one-night stand is impossible.
All I say is that most girls are looking for a serious relationship, especially the Indian girls and the traditional Malay girls who haven’t changed their Malaysian Cupid account into an account on Asiandating.com.
You are in a Muslim country with a traditional dating culture.
You are not in Singapore or Hong Kong where the Western hookup culture is widely accepted. However, just because she doesn’t want to be your one-night stand doesn’t mean that she won’t sleep with you…
3. Malaysian Girls Love Sex
Believe it or not but Malaysian women are extremely sexual.
“What? But you said that they don’t want one-night stands?”
My Malay friend (she’s a woman) said it best:
“We have been raised to believe that having one-night stands is a sin and being in a monogamous relationship is okay. Nobody says how long this monogamous relationship has to be…”
In other words, she wants to have sex with you, but only if you are in a relationship, even if this relationship only lasts for three days.
This leads to this weird fact:
74% of Malaysians are having sex at least once a week, but only 38% are satisfied with their sex life (Source).
I can only assume that the women who are not satisfied are in relationships with men who believe that good sex is a sin. But I know for sure that not every woman who has sex every week is married.
4. It’s Easy to Get a Date in Malaysia (It’s Harder to Date the Right Girl)
Does that sound confusing?
Maybe it does. But it’s actually pretty simple.
Let me explain…
Getting a date in Malaysia is easy, especially when you chat with girls online.
- The Malay girls are curious but they know that their parents would kill them if they found out.
- The Indian girls know that they can’t compete with the Chinese girls and want to marry you straight away.
- The Chinese girls are smart enough to realize that marrying a Muslim guy is the same as going to prison.
What does that mean for you?
Well, it means that you might have a lot of dates when you focus on traditional Malay girls and Indian girls, but none of the girls is right for you.
My honest advice: Focus on the Chinese girls.
They want you and most of them are so beautiful that you want them. Don’t waste your time, especially when you are looking for a Malaysian girlfriend or wife…
Should You Marry One of These Beautiful Malaysian Women?
I can’t answer this question for you.
- If you are a Muslim, you might want to marry a Malay girl.
- If you are a Western man, you might want to marry one of the Chinese girls.
- If you are insane, you might want to marry one of the Indian girls after the first date.
No matter how you choose, you need to be prepared.
How to Get Married in Malaysia
I’m not a lawyer and before I give you wrong advice that will lead to drama, a messed up wedding ceremony and the third world war, I rather link to this article that explains everything you need to know about marrying a woman in this country.
I personally don’t know anyone who is married to a Malay woman, but I know a Malaysian Chinese girl who is married to a British dude she met at university. We talked about the good old times and about marriage in her home country.
Here’s what she said with my notes in brackets:
“As long as your future wife has the required minimum income (the RM2000 that are mentioned in the article I linked to) you can get a visa for six months. Our country is very open to foreigners and it’s easy to get a long-stay visa. During this time you can get married, at least when you have all your documents, such as your birth certificate. It’s also not difficult to get a work permit. The only thing that’s difficult is to become a citizen.”
Why There Is No Typical Malaysian Marriage
You want a typical Malaysian marriage?
Good luck with that.
When it comes to weddings, there are so many different ceremonies that it’s impossible to list all of them without turning this article into a 150-page book.
It all depends on the girl you want to marry.
- Is she Malay, Indian or Chinese?
- Is she a Muslim, a Buddhist, a Christian or a Hindu?
- Does she want to make her parents or your parents happy with the ceremony (probably hers)?
The only thing I know for sure is that the wedding ceremony will be an experience that you (and your bank account) will never forget.
Believe me. I had a look at the photos of my friend’s wedding. This shit ain’t cheap.
Bu it can be worth it…
Why Malaysian Mail Order Brides are Worth Pursuing
You always hear about Thai, Vietnamese, or Filipina mail order brides, but you never hear about Malaysian mail order brides.
Why?
I think that there are two reasons for that:
1. Malaysia is relatively unknown in comparison to other South East Asian countries.
2. Most Western men are not looking for a Muslim wife.
What most men don’t realize is that this country is full of beautiful Chinese girls with traditional family values, legs to die for, and a deep understanding of the Western culture.
These girls want but can’t find a foreign boyfriend or husband because all the guys are searching in Thailand, the Philippines or Vietnam.
This is your chance to find your dream girl in Malaysia.
Summed Up Wisdom
No matter if you want to date a traditional Malay girl, a beautiful Chinese girl or an Indian chick who wants to marry you after the first date, I’ll show you how you can get what you want. I lived with Malaysians, I dated them and I’ve been to Kuala Lumpur twice.
During this time I learned that the Malaysian dating culture has unspoken rules that you need to know before you fly to Kuala Lumpur. I learned that it’s easy to get a date in this country, but a very bad idea to show affection in public.
But that doesn’t mean that you can’t show affection in private. These girls are conservative, but they love sex. And they love it even more when a man is committed, no matter for how many days, weeks or years.
Pursuing a Malaysian mail order bride can be worth it. Dating such a girl is definitely worth it. I know it from my own experience. And I also know that meeting her online is the easiest way to get the dice rolling.
I am glad that you provided the YouTube video of an international couple.
I really enjoy reading this info about Malaysian ladies.
Awesome!
Hi I am serene Malaysia’s Chinese which my bf is a Indian guy,
It even varies inside the state. Penang island girls are really different from mainland girls!
Malay girls don’t usually age well either. Their culture is full of bad habits, and their food is super sweet and unhealthy. She might look great at 25 but she’ll be a frumpy old auntie by the time she hits 45. Chinese girls age much better because Chinese people obsess about health and take exercise seriously.
Malaysia is effectively two countries because of the unequal laws, and foreigners would be amazed how much Malay and Chinese culture can vary. Think about the difference between Taiwan and Indonesia!
What is PDA?
You are welcome!
Thanks sebastian Im an Indian who was brought up in a semi-westernised environment and i was not aware of how to survive (literally survive ) in this country…at first i was afraid but after reading your article and other’s comments..i think now I’ve pretty clear idea how to find a love here..and speaking of which i thought Malaysia was a god forbidden country before i landed here but now i think that it depends upon regions..Malaysia is a great country people are good here (i know about) Bandar Sunway…The girls what to say “legs to die for” i felt that we’re bros..awesome the way you made this article..thanks to all here..You guys are making my Stay very easy here.
Thanks a lot Simon!
I mean seriously you can’t even give a handshake to a Malay lady. Most of the time.
Man this is an amazing and lovely article.
As a half Malay and half American teenager , i found this super useful and a fun read. Also relatable lol
You made a lot of sense and maybe i should start checking out Chinese women.
Since Malay women here, are as free as a caged bird.
Thanks for sharing. You’re awesome !
Hi Anna I had a positive experience in your country. I had a very nice Malay girlfriend from Penang. Malay girls are wonderful. You must respect the culture there. I am from NZ. I really like Malay girls. Much respect to you culture. I spent time in KL and other places it was awesome there. Liked your reply to this article. Very positive. All best from. Ants Lower Hurt, NZ
Hey Annay,
I’m sure you’ll find the right guy.
Hey Anna,
thanks for sharing.
Hey, when you want to date a girl it doesn’t mean that all you want is having a sex. Yes, chinese is gorgeous and more into western type of girl. Probably it easier for you because you don’t have to convert yourself. But if you really love a malay or indian girl out there you need to accept who they are. You’ve only dated one malay and indian girl. If you don’t like her religion (malay) why would you date her on the first place by the way (I’m curious). Is this kind of experiment for you? There is a white man marrying a local (malay) and their life just fine. What you missing is you think that when it comes to convert yourself into another religion, you need to change everything from your life style. I think you need to find a book to have better understanding not just google in the internet. Most of internet is not 100% true. And for your info most malays and indian really respect others religion too. And when it comes to their own religion, they really strict about it. Who dares to play fire with a God by the way? Are you?
I am Malay girl & i believe there r lot of Malaysian Malay girl wanting to date a white guy. Yes i didnt deny most of Malays r having traditional way according to their culture & religion. But believe me, there r also many that non-typical malays type. Some of them want to enjoy the relationship without forcing u to commit & marry them. They might be a slow to warm up when u first dating them, but be patience & u will bear the fruit. What makes it worst is white man always have the perception of it not gonna work with Malay girls & avoiding us in the first place, or make us the second choice. Btw, i’m interested in white guy but havent got my luck yet.
I believe there r lot of Malaysian Malay girl wanting to date a white guy. Yes i didnt deny most of Malays r having traditional way according to their culture & religion. But believe me, there r also many that non-typical malays type. Some of them want to enjoy the relationship without forcing u to commit & marry them. They might be a slow to warm up when u first dating them, but be patience & u will bear the fruit. What makes it worst is white man always have the perception of it not gonna work with Malay girls & avoiding us in the first place, or make us the second choice. Btw, i’m interested in white guy but havent got my luck yet.
Very true, there are many Indian Girls who are attractive and has sharp featureas.
The working class is also independent, social, good mannerism, kind and certainly not a gold digger.
Everybody has a different taste.
i do not know who you are sebastian, how attractive are you ? I find you unattractive ! Indian girls are very attractive and extremely intelligent !
Thank you 😉
Hi there. I believe she is trying to convey that there is another, quite significant, ethnic group in the Eastern Malaysian region, known as Borneo.
Malays, Indians and Chinese are the main ethnic groups in Western Peninsular Malaysia. In contrast, Malays, Chinese and native Malaysians are the main ethnic groups in Eastern Malaysia (states of Sarawak & Sabah).
For a better understanding, native Malaysians are somewhat similar to how America has the native Americans, such as Cherokee and Apache. Native Malaysians are mainly comprised of the Iban, Bidayuh, Kadazandusun and Bajau tribes.
Hi and good day. As a local, I would like to share something that I think may be helpful to the community here. I noticed that Peter’s and Sebastian’s description of MCs slightly differed from each other, which is ‘shy and cold’ against ‘sweet and funny’. I would like to remind you to also consider the state that the girl was born in or grew up in. Most Penang & KL MCs are generally more open-minded, while those from other states may be much more conservative, thus shy. Best of endeavours to all.
PS I accidentally ended up here just by googling for a local girl band. I also didn’t expect an article like this to exist haha.
Hey William,
thanks for sharing your experience!
I think the article understates Malaysian Chinese women. They are my absolute favorite! And I love KL!
There are three types mentioned:
1. Malay Girls
2. Chinese Girls
3. Indian Girls
But there is one more type:
4. Gorgeous Hooker Girls
Well, two more types if you count SPGs (Sarong Party Girls).
I have never been tempted more than from seeing the most incredible looking Malaysian Chinese prostitutes. Someone should make a movie about them, a modern Suzy Wong with better looking women.
But for the Malaysian girls I’ve dated, I have gone out with 2 Malays and four or five Malaysian Chinese (MC).
If you are planning on dating a Malaysian, you need to protect her. Malaysia is prosperous, but it spies on its citizens. Do not assume the government is not reading your email, listening to your phone calls, or doesn’t know what websites you are viewing. There is no expectation of privacy. So do not discuss politics. That holds for all Malaysians. The government doesn’t care that you are chatting up three different women, they do care if you say something critical of the government and they might care if you bring porn into the country. And do not even think about drugs, as they will execute you for it.
For Malays, they have a second set of laws that don’t apply to non-Muslims except in Kelantan. How strictly those laws are enforced depends on the state, with Kelantan being the worst. She (and possibly you) can be caned in Kelantan for violating Sharia, as the religious clerics of Kelantan interpret it. As long as you don’t go to Kelantan, you have no fear from the religious police as they have no jurisdiction over you, but she will. Malaysia is a great place otherwise.
The religious police will arrest Malays if they are in a hotel room with someone of the opposite sex and are not married to each other. Chinese owned short time hotels are common, as the owners won’t turn them in. Singapore is another answer to that, where nobody cares. I recommend that if you meet a Malay, that you do it in Singapore where she is free. That was the suggestion of the first Malay girl I dated, and it worked fine. I have heard some dating couples wear fake matching wedding rings, I don’t know how true that is or how well that works, but it is an idea.
The second Malay girl I dated was a grad student in the US. She loved sex, wine, and bacon. I asked her if her mother (a doctor) knew she wasn’t a virgin, and she said, her mother would kill her if she knew otherwise. I asked if her mother knew she ate bacon, and she said her mother would kill her twice if she knew she did. She had no intention of living in Malaysia ever again.
Neither of these girls is a typical Malay. I have also dated a Singaporean Malay, a nurse, but they are very different than their Malaysian counterparts.
Of the MC girls, one was from Sabah and lived in KL. We met at third country’s airport and she invited me to visit her in KL, so I did, and she was so cute, funny, and horny. She had a car and drove me around too, which is a nice role switch. She ended up marrying a white European man who lives in KL. They look so happy together.
One was in the US, having gotten an H-1B visa after getting her degree in the US, and the rest were MCs working in Singapore. I find that it is a LOT easier to date Malaysians in Singapore than Singaporeans. They are much more open to being approached and easy going. One girl I saw regularly over about a year+ had me come to her flat one time when her mom and sister were visiting from Penang. They had clearly been well briefed on our relationship. The mom and sister treated me like we had grown up together, just like family. I probably would have ended up marrying this one if she had not taken a promotion in Auckland.
The only problem with Malaysian Chinese girls is that they are hard to find for Americans (probably easier for Aussies and lucky you if you go to college with some). They are not poor and therefore not looking for a foreign husband to increase her standard of living. They are legally discriminated against in Malaysia, so a lot do attend universities in other countries and would be comfortable living somewhere else. I find they are sweet, funny, often very intelligent, independent, and great in bed. They are feminine, but an equal partner, not a dependent. They are like the best of East and West. My ideal wife material. If you find such a Malaysian Chinese girl, marry her!
Hey Hantu,
thanks four your comment.
This article is funny. I like your style of writing. Personally I am a Malay Muslim girl who has traditional views in the sense that I’d like to be married before having sex. I find it romantic as well if I can find the right guy regardless of race. I have dated a westerner who has no qualms with marrying me as long as he doesn’t have to convert. Needless to say, it didn’t work out. In terms of beauty, on behalf of my lovely beautiful ladies of various skintones…I do not believe that your skin colour defines your beauty and in terms of relationships as well…sex shouldn’t be the only thing sticking *sic you together. Good luck
WTF?
I cant bro, My penis too small, so i need small petite girl
– ME-Malaysian unknown race/ maybe 15% monkey
And many more articles that missed on those couples who engaged in PDA.
Hey Peter,
thanks for sharing. I hope you enjoy your life there.
Hi,
Thank you for sharing your experience, well I have been living in Malaysia for almost 2 years, I have dated many Malaysian girls from the three different races, personally I am more into Malay or Indian who tend to be more social and easy going, Chinese girls on the other hand are usually shy and kinda cold especially for a west European guy.
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience…and for agreeing with me 😉
I lived in Malaysia for 8 years, and I agree a lot with the analysis here. I’ve dated all 3 at some point. Malay girls are very hot and beautiful and can appear very liberal. However, if you decide to marry you have to convert and I have seen on at least 2 occasions the wife goes from being liberal to being v traditional after marriage. They guy has to adapt, so be aware of this! Like one girl says, if you get lucky you can end up marrying royalty or dating someone high on the ladder.
In my experience, chinese were the best match. Hard working, enjoyed beer and more westernised. But hey, it just depends.
Hey Mawar,
I can always only tell from my own experience. Everything else would be wrong. That’s why I appreciate your comment. And good luck with the German guy!
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. However, there are many newspaper articles and stories about this issue.
on behalf of traditional malay woman, i think this is not true. just because you dated one girl, you assumed everyone like that. many malay girl are without hijab, wear shortskirt and even our parents will not gonna kill you for dating us. unless if you impregnated us of course.
we also use tinder.. widely…in fact i found my german boyfriend from tinder.
many malay are club goers too. we wear bikinis, having drinks at the rooftop bar etc. you just need to find the right place to taste this mysterious tanned skin ethnic. some of us already liberal. you might get royalties,princesses and socialites if you lucky as they date western man.
I’m a Malay girl but most of malays, are very open with showing affections on public, and I’ve never heard the term of getting jailed for doing so. Most muslims couples do hold hands but you are right, kissing, hugging or other affections aren’t respectful to do in public. But who knows what they do in private, ayte?
And I would like to point out that most of themalaysian parents are okay with their children having a relationship with foreigners, or westerners, but of course, no sex before marriage. You’re dead if they found out.
But really, we dont get jailed for being lovey dovey in public (at least, I never heard of it nor did it ever happen ), we just respect the law and culture. And oh, I live in Selangor.
I’ve never met an Asian girl who wasn’t jealous. Most Asian guys have side girls, in Thailand they are called “Gik”. It’s very common and the girls hate it and are scared that you do the same.
Hi Sebastian,
Your article caught my eye because I live in Melbourne Australia and I’m dating an ethnically Chinese girl who is originally from Malaysia/Singapore. It’s interesting to hear what you have to say about them because what you said is a pretty good description of her. She’s really cute and fun to be around but I have to say that she also seems really jealous. She told me that she was with a guy back in Singapore for five years and then found out that he’d had another girlfriend for the last two years that they were together. Did you find find that Malay girl were more jealous than girls from other countries? Maybe it’s just because of her douchebag ex and not typical of all Malaysian girls but I just wanted to share my experience.
Unfortunately, yes.
I hate to be mean but it is rare to see a attractive Indian woman, I agree with you.
Hey Michelle,
thanks for your tip. Maybe I was a bit too harsh 😉
Hi there. I stumbled on your article and thought it was interesting. But I would love to point out that there are also lots of girls who (some of them) aren’t raised with the “common traditional Malaysian culture” that requires us to be more conservative. I’m a Kadazan (native race) living in Sabah and I don’t mind my significant other holding my hand in public etc. And neither do some of my Muslim and Chinese friends. It all depends on how we were raised. I just wanna say that not all Malaysian women share the same culture just because of their race 🙂
Hey Jerin,
I included the three main groups of Malays, Indian Malaysian and Chinese Malaysian in the article. I also said that only Malays are Muslims. Which ethnic group do you belong to? (just curious)
Hi Sebastian,
Quite an interesting research you made there. But on behalf of other malaysian women, you know Malaysia is a multiple country with lots of native too. We are not malay, yes we are lokal. We live in and obey malaysian law, but we are not raised in muslim law. You are kind of missing that. Good luck
Hey Jesse,
thanks a lot for your encouraging words. I hope your comment will give a few other guys a kick in the ass and motivate them to take action 😉
Responding to “man” on behalf of Malaysian Chinese men:
I am a Malaysian Chinese guy as well. There are plenty of fishes in the sea for you to pursue. Literally, you can date any kind of women you desire, regardless of their race. Rather than blaming Sebastian who is trying to help his fellow western men to approach traditional Chinese women in Malaysia, you can always step up your game and be a true man and find your own date/love.
Rather than limiting yourself to date only Chinese women, you can always expand your horizon and date women from different cultures, races, and nationalities (Caucasian, Latina, Afrikan, Japanese, Korean, Indian, European, etc.)
Stop being a little b*tch and be a man.
Hey man,
I want to help Western men because I’m one of them and I experienced how happy and fulfilling it can be to date a traditional Asian woman.
I don’t know what u wrote in this article is true 100% or not.but I am malaysian …I am just said 10% is not true in this article.i have readed your article before this …can I ask u a question why are u interested make a article about helping especially white western guy to found a foreign Asian woman??because what I readed in this page global seducer focus on that ->white man with foreign woman especially Asian woman. I don’t want you give answer to me said because western men and traditional foreign women are a match in heaven. Because this make traditional foreign men are aggrieved and they will be say white caucasian men always take our Asian women .