You dream about marrying a Khmer woman, right?
Of course, I can only assume this. But I’m sure that it’s true. Otherwise you wouldn’t have clicked on an article that’s called My Guide to Your Cambodian Bride…which is actually a pretty lame headline.
I’m sorry for the headline, but I’m not sorry for the over 2400 words that you’re about to read.
And I encourage you to read every single word because I can confidently say that this is the most detailed guide for Western men who want to find and meet a Cambodian mail order bride that has ever been written.
- The 4 Things you must know about these ladies BEFORE you chat with them online.
- The 3 things you must know about marriage in Cambodia BEFORE you ask her the question.
- The best and easiest way to meet your future wife WITHOUT leaving the comfort of your home.
Come on. Your dream girl might just be a few paragraphs away from you…
4 Things You Must Know About Cambodian Brides
They are beautiful.
Khmer women are smaller and darker than women from other Asian countries. And they are curvier. Some of these girls have bodies that make you shake your head and smile, especially the Chinese Cambodian women who are even more beautiful than the traditional Khmer girls.
But that’s not why they are special.
Beauty alone is not enough. At least when you have the goal to find a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. She has to offer more. She has to have certain qualities that turn a sexy girl into a good wife.
It all starts with the way her parents raised her…
1. Cambodian Brides are Traditional to the Core
Many people say that Cambodia is comparable to Thailand…half a century ago.
Surprisingly, the infrastructure and the buildings are not the only thing that hasn’t changed for the past decades.
The girls are still as traditional as they used to be.
While the culture and value system in Thailand changed dramatically over the past five years with more and more girls confusing the hookup culture for an actual cultural movement, Cambodian women still believe that…
- Finding a good husband is the most important thing in life.
- Being a loyal wife is the only way to fulfillment.
- Taking care of your husband is the top priority.
That’s what these girls believe and that’s what makes them good wives.
2. Cambodian Mail Order Brides are Often Overlooked
How many Western men are looking for mail order brides in South East Asia?
You are not alone. The competition doesn’t sleep and with third-wave feminism on the rise, more and more Western men will jump on the international dating train.
But where are most men searching for foreign brides?
There are many Thai dating sites. There are even more Filipino dating sites. But there’s not one single Cambodian dating site, at least not one that’s worth mentioning.
The shocking truth is that most men overlook Khmer women.
Everyone is talking about Thailand and the Philippines but nobody’s talking about the millions of beautiful single women you can meet in Phnom Penh or Siem Reap.
What most men don’t know is that AsianDating has thousands of female members from Cambodia who desperately wait for a message from a guy like you.
3. You Don’t Need to Be a Millionaire to Get a Cambodian Bride
It’s not a secret that Cambodia is one of the poorest countries in South East Asia.
Some of the most beautiful women in Phnom Penh earn less a month than you earn in a day. That’s sad but that’s how it is.
What does that mean for you?
First of all, it means that you have to be careful that you don’t fall for a woman who only loves your wallet. Don’t spoil her. Pay for her coffee but don’t buy her a handbag just because she wants one. It’s your job to find out if she wants you as a husband or a sponsor.
But there’s also a positive side to it.
You don’t need to be rich to get a Cambodian bride.
Heck, you don’t even have to earn more than $1500 a month to give her a life that she could have never dreamed of.
4. Cambodian Brides Want a Man Who Treats Them Good
Even though I think that Buzzfeed is a retarded left-wing feminazi magazine, I see myself forced to link to one of their articles in which they claim that in Cambodia, it’s not really domestic violence until the women bleed.
You can’t believe how much I hate myself for mentioning this rag. But they are right. I talked to a Khmer woman about this issue and that’s how it is.
Domestic violence is a huge issue in this country.
Combine this with the fact that small Cambodian men drink as if they were African-American basketball players and you have the answer to the following question:
Why do Cambodian women want to marry Western men?
- Because they don’t beat them
- Because they don’t start to drink in the early morning
- Because they treat them good
All she wants is a man who loves her, takes care of her, and appreciates her
Is that really too much to ask for?
3 Things You Must Know About Cambodian Marriage
Marrying a Khmer woman is not the same as marrying a Western woman.
First of all, the Cambodian lady doesn’t get married because she wants to cut her hair, get fat, and kick you out of your house after the divorce. She does it because she dreams about finding a good husband since the day of her first period.
But even though your future wife is in it for the long run, there are certain things about getting married in the Wild West of South East Asia that you must know before you say “I do”.
1. Cambodian Marriage Scams are Real (But Easy to Detect)
Yes, they are real and they happen.
You wouldn’t be the first one who gets scammed out of a lot of money. But to be honest, you must be very naïve to fall for this trick.
I don’t want to downplay scams, but let’s have a look at the facts.
Unless you do one of the following things, you can’t get scammed:
- You send money to her without having met her in person.
- You believe her when she says that a prenup is against the Khmer culture.
- You give her money whenever she asks for it (that she sends to her family in Phnom Penh).
Don’t do anything stupid and you won’t get scammed. Period.
Think twice before you marry a girl who asks you for money. It’s better to contact another one who asks you about your future plans instead of your current bank account statement.
2. Cambodian American Weddings are Common
You are not the first Western man who dreams about marrying a Cambodian woman and you wouldn’t be the first one who marries one.
More than 275.000 Cambodians live in the USA.
Most of them are women and a significant number are women who came to the USA after they married their American husbands. Having a Cambodian American wedding is nothing new.
So please stop telling yourself that your desire to have a Cambodian bride is weird or uncommon. It’s not. The numbers speak for themselves.
3. The Cambodian Marriage Law is Not in Your Favor
The marriage law in Cambodia is different than in other countries. In fact, I’ve never seen anything like that before, but I can understand it somehow.
The country has enough problems with human trafficking and sex tourists. But it’s questionable if the new marriage requirements issued on by the Government of Cambodia on March 7 2011 are really that helpful.
I can only hope that you are younger than 50 and earn more than $2500 per month.
Because that’s your only chance to marry a beautiful young Khmer girl.
No, I’m not joking. I’m serious and it gets even more serious when you are 51 and you want to marry the woman of your dreams in Phnom Penh.
You can’t. The government doesn’t allow it.
But don’t worry. You can still marry her in the USA or any other country in the world. Just not in Cambodia.
Where to Meet Your Cambodian Bride
You can spend thousand bucks on a ticket to Phnom Penh and spend another $30 per night for a decent hotel room without cockroaches. You could then hit the streets of Phnom Penh and try to approach girls without getting hit by drunk scooter drivers.
If you are lucky, you’ll survive and find a girl who doesn’t work as a street hooker.
That’s the hard way to meet Cambodian brides. And to be honest, it’s also a very dumb and inefficient way. There’s an easier and more fun way to meet your future wife.
But there’s also a way that appears to be easy but that can lead to a lot of disappointment…
Why You Should Avoid Cambodian Marriage Agencies
I already mentioned my experience with Cambodian marriage agencies in my article about dating Khmer girls.
I don’t want to repeat myself. That’s why I want to make it quick:
Most Cambodian Marriage Agencies are Scams
No matter if they are operated by Western men or by Cambodian men (which is even worse), most of them employ bar girls and freelancers who are rewarded for squeezing money out of you.
Stay away from them and join the following international dating site.
Why You Can Chat With Thousands of Cambodian Women for Marriage on AsianDating
Well, because nobody is looking for them.
Remember how I told you that most men overlook Khmer women because they are too busy chatting with Thai girls and Filipinas?
It’s true. Believe it or not, you can find thousands of Cambodian brides on AsianDating. Send them a message and I promise you that most of them will reply.
They are lonely and yearning for the attention of men.
Heck this site has more than 2.5 million members. Don’t tell me that you can’t find at least 10 stunning Cambodian brides you would love to get to know.
How to Get Your Future Cambodian Wife to Say “I Do”
What’s the next logical step?
Well, you are here because you want a Cambodian bride. Now that you have chatted with dozens of cute Khmer girls online and met the one special girl who blew you away, it’s just a matter of time until you do what William already did…
There’s just one problem.
She has to say “yes” when you ask her the one question that will change your life forever (hopefully to the better).
She already wants you but does she also want to marry you?
I’m sure she wants it more than anything in the world, but only if you follow these three simple steps…
Tell Her That You are Interested in More than Sex
This is important.
In fact, this is the most important thing you can possibly do. And no matter how uncomfortable it makes you to mention the two words sex and tourist at one go…you need to do it. The word sex tourist is her biggest fear and nightmare.
There’s one thing you need to understand about this country.
Because of its poverty, Cambodia is a hotspot for human trafficking and the disgusting reality is that a lot of girls who work on the streets of Phnom Penh are underage.
The biggest fear of your future wife is that you support human trafficking and that you, god forbid, are one of these creeps who search for underage girls
(in case you are, leave this site right now!).
She has to know it.
Talk about it openly. Tell her that you are different. Let her know that she found a husband who is interested in more than sex with prostitutes.
Treat Her with the Respect that Your Wife Deserves
She doesn’t want to date the local men because she’s afraid to become a victim of domestic violence. She wants a man who treats her with respect and who can take care of her and maybe her children (in case you want one, two, or maybe three).
Be that man.
Treat your Cambodian bride with the respect she deserves. Take care of her. Give her the feeling that you appreciate her and your relationship.
As long as you follow this simple advice, she will be your loyal wife and your biggest supporter.
Study the Cambodian Wedding Traditions
There’s one more thing you can do to make sure that she wants to say “I do” more than she wants to live and breathe.
She’s been raised in a traditional country that values marriage and family more than drinking and hooking up. I know that your wedding day is a big day for you, but it’s ten times more important for her.
It’s the most important day in her life.
She dreams of this day since she was a little girl. Her parents had the same dream…and they still have it. I’m sorry to say this but a Catholic church and a white wedding dress is not part of this dream.
She dreams about a traditional Khmer wedding.
Just imagine how happy, proud and amazed your future wife would be, if you knew…
- That you can only marry in the months that have 30 days.
- That you should practice to hold a sword.
- That your future wife will wear brightly-colored silk costumes instead of a wedding dress.
Once you know everything about the Cambodian wedding traditions, you are more than ready to take the next step.
I’m sure she can’t wait to take it with you…
Summed Up Wisdom
If you dream about marrying a Cambodian bride, I have good news for you. Most Western men overlook these beautiful traditional women and focus on other countries. This is a big advantage for you, especially when you are smart enough to join AsianDating. These girls are waiting for a guy like you.
But why are you so desirable? Well, because you are everything that she wants but can’t get. You treat her with respect, you don’t abuse her, and you can take care of her. Just make sure that she wants to take care of you and not your wallet.
What if you have found the perfect Cambodian mail order bride? Then it’s time to let her know that you are not the type of guy she’s terrified of and that you will treat her good. Now you just have to allow her to experience the weeding she had dreams of since she was a child.