I am convinced that you are going to hate me after you have read this article.
However, I am also sure that this article has the power to change the way you look at women, your relationships with women and your life.
The more I read on forums of popular self-improvement sites for men, the more frustrated I got.
I read about men who complain “why all those bitches fuck around and no woman is loyal”. I read about male virgins who think that they know everything about women and their “slutty behavior”. I read about guys who haven’t even kissed a girl, but who allegedly know that all women are sluts, whores and stupid bitches who should be thrown out as soon as you have fucked them once or twice.
The more I read this crap the more I feel that my vision of teaching men the honest, authentic and respectful art of seducing women is nearly impossible. It really makes me sick to my stomach to see how many guys hate women and label their sexuality as something evil that should be forbidden.
Welcome back to the 1950s!
She wear a bikini AND she looks sexy AND she spreads her legs…she must be a whore!
I don’t know why I did so much research on this topic. It must have been my fascination to analyze the problems that men have nowadays, or maybe I just have a masochistic predisposition. Whatever it was, it led me to a video of this Men Going Their Own Way movement in which one guys explains in over an hour why all women are whores and why love is never the reason why a woman wants to be in a relationship.
Nope, I don’t insert this video here, because I don’t believe that you should traumatize your eyes with such a degenerate bullshit. It is bad enough that I lost about 236 brain cells while watching this guy holding his pathetic monologue.
It was distressing enough to look at all the comments of guys who agreed with what he said. No matter if you blame feminism, RooshV or the holy pope for this dilemma…we undoubtedly have a serious problem.
We are faced with the problem that more and more men quit on women and eventually on life, because they believe in a lie.
Before I want to reveal the lie that so many underfucked future suicide victims believe in, I want to ask you one simple question.
Do you believe that all women are whores?
If You Believe that All Women are Whores…
You are an idiot.
Hey, no big deal. Everybody is an idiot from time to time. I woke up this morning and decided that I put some onions in my omelet and now I am farting all day long. That was a stupid thing to do, but it is not comparable with the immense stupidity to believe that all women are whores.
Even though I have a degree in psychology I can’t read your mind. I don’t know if you are a guy who loves women or who hates women. I don’t know if you are a guy who believes that women are amazing human beings or if you believe that all women are stupid bitches who deserve to be treated like shit.
However, I know that something has provoked you to click on the headline of this article.
That’s why I simply assume that you are either a man who loves women, but who is very interested in learning about why some men don’t, or you are a man who hates women and thinks that all women are whores.
If you fall in the second category I am pretty sure that you recognize yourself in one of the following descriptions. Oh, and in case you get too angry at me for telling you what you have tried to suppress over the last few years, you can shoot me an email and call me a man-hating social justice warrior feminazi.
I am not here to schmooze you, but to wake you up and to improve your life. Sometimes a wakeup call starts with a kick in the balls.
You Never had any Success with Women
In case you really believe that all women are whores, you probably haven’t had a lot of experience with women. I know that it is a reckless thesis, but I am pretty sure that more than 50% of the guys who write “Yeah man! You are right! All women are stupid bitches!” under a MGTOW video are virgins.
They won’t admit it to their friends and sometimes they don’t even admit it to themselves, but that doesn’t make it less true. When someone in their social circle (if they have one) asks them why they never see them with women or if they are gay, they simply answer that they “don’t want to put up with that shit” and that they “go their own way”.
Other popular excuses that this type of guy loves to tell people are:
“I don’t need an annoying girlfriend.”
“I don’t want a woman in my life. I need my freedom.”
While they pretend to be strong and independent when they are around other people, they are insecure, frustrated and embittered when they are alone. It is comparable with ambitious career women who pretend to be tough and invulnerable in the office, who then cry at home because nobody is there to hug them and to ask them about their day.
In case you are older than 20, you think that all women are whores and you have never had sex with one of those whores who fuck with everyone (besides you), you need to change your beliefs…unless you want to stay a virgin forever.
You Have Given up on Women
The next category of guys who strongly believe that all women are whores are the ones who have already given up on women. Most of the time those are the notorious virgins who eventually reach an age at which they stop believing that they could ever lose their virginity without banging a crack whore for a couple of bucks.
This was me when I was 18.
In case you are a 30 year old virgin you will probably laugh at me when I say that I fell in this category when I was 18, but it is actually true. When I was 18 I made the conscious decision that I would stay a virgin for the rest of my life and that watching porn is far more rewarding than sweating like a pig whenever I look a woman into the eyes.
Thank god one woman took pity on me horizontally; otherwise I would have ended on YouTube talking about how mean and terrible women are.
If you are one of the guys who have already given up on women I want to tell you something. No, I want to scream something until you internalize it:
DON’T GIVE UP!
DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT GIVING UP!
GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION!
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life writing in forums about how frustrated you are and that the world is such an unfair place?
Think about what your grandfather who probably fought against my grandfather in World War II would say if he would know that his grandson is such a pussy.
Thousands of men who lived before you didn’t give up when they fought to survive. Thousands of men who lived before you didn’t give up when they were starving, broke and incarcerated. And you give up when all you have to do is to walk up to a woman and say “hi”.
Stop being so ridiculous!
You Always Attract the Wrong Girls
I just told you that one woman who took pity on me is the reason why I haven’t given up on women. Well, she is the same woman with whom I ended up in a four year relationship that had its ups and its downs.
What happens when you end up in a relationship that has only downs and no ups?
To say that it makes it easy to assume that all women are whores would be an understatement. In case you are naïve, inexperienced or stupid enough to end up in a relationship with a girl who treats you like a walking ATM, who makes fun of you in front of your friends and who uses you like her marionette, you inevitably start to hate women.
If this is YOUR money and YOUR girlfriend you have a biiiiig problem (Here’s how to solve your problem)
By dating such a woman you embark on a path that leads you directly towards a MGTOW video, because mastering your journey of life alone seems a lot better than wasting your life to someone who brings you down and makes you unhappy.
What you have to understand is that not all women are the same and that just because one girl drives you nuts, doesn’t mean that the next one you meet won’t make you the happiest man on earth.
You Have Been Hurt By a Woman
You were in love with her. Her name was Rose and she didn’t just smell like a fresh rose, she also looked innocent like a little angel. You did everything for her and when she told you that she loves you, you had tears in your eyes. You were so in love with her that you couldn’t possibly understand how anyone could ever call a woman a stupid whore.
Suddenly, everything changed.
One day you came home early and what you saw broke your heart in more pieces than there are stars in the universe. You saw your innocent little Rose getting fucked by another guy and as he ejaculated on her beautiful lips, your world broke apart.
I know that it hurt, I know that you promised yourself to never trust a female human being again and I know that this made you become the resentful and hateful man you are today. However, I also know that life goes on and that there are millions of other women who wouldn’t bang the pizza guy whenever you are at work.
You have been hurt and it definitely needs time get over such a shock, but there is also a time at which you have to make the decision to move on. Unfortunately, a lot of guys never make this decision.
Your Experiences are Not Your Only Enemy
You might have had no experiences at all with women, bad experiences or so many bad experiences that you promised yourself to never speak with one of those terrible creatures again. Whatever experiences you have had…they are not your only enemy.
In order to leave this whole “all women are whores!” bullshit behind you, you have to do more than coming to terms with your past. There are more traps and more obstacles on your way towards becoming a man who loves and respects women than you probably think.
One of those obstacles might be your best friend.
Your Social Circle
There is a popular saying that says that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Even though this is definitely not true for everyone, it is true in some cases. Some of my friends are still male virgins and even though they are resistant enough to block every single one of my attempts to help them, I still love them. I accepted that I can’t help someone who doesn’t want help, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t have a great time with them, just because they have different priorities in life.
Nevertheless, I can’t deny that my social circle has changed over the last years and that I got rid of the toxic friends who dragged me down and got to know some new friends who bring a lot more to the table.
Why do I tell you this?
If you really think that all women are sluts and bitches, it is highly likely that at least one of your closest friends has the same opinion.
People in a social circle tend to influence each other, either consciously or unconsciously. No matter if you influenced your friend with this toxic belief or if your frustrated friend was the first one who discovered MGTOW on the internet, you probably goad each other.
I don’t say that you should tell your best friend to fuck off, just because he made a misogynistic joke after the second beer. All I ask you to do is to think about whether or not the people in your social circle are good for you and support you on your journey towards becoming a Global Seducer.
It might be better to spend time with Brad, who has an amazing girlfriend and who believes that women are beautiful and lovable, than with Steve, who is convinced that all women are worthless whores.
The Casting Couch
The porn industry is a multibillion dollar industry. The only thing that has more fans on the internet than porn movies is this Swedish guy on YouTube who plays video games all day long and has an insanely hot Italian girlfriend. Other than that I have no idea if there is anything more popular on the internet than dirty movies with a lot of naked girls and some steroid hunks with huge dicks.
One tiny percentage of this multibillion dollar industry, let’s say a couple of million dollars are spent on porn movies in which couples, teenagers, Milfs or your girlfriend are asked to bang some guy for money.
Even though I don’t watch porn anymore I just couldn’t escape from this guy who apparently bangs one girl after another by saying that he is a model agent and that he will help them to earn millions of dollars.
I have to admit that it makes me wonder how you can be so freaking retarded to believe that nobody will ever see this tape and I also can’t deny that I thought of doing the same to see if that really works…of course just for the purpose of a social experiment 😉
The problem with those delicious or not so delicious videos is that a lot of guys believe that just because ten girls who live on welfare and can’t even afford their rent suck a dick for a few hundred dollars, ALL girls would do that.
If we are really honest we would also fuck an average looking woman if she would offer us hundreds of dollars. We would probably even do it for free.
Does that make us whores?
Maybe, but that doesn’t change the fact that not all women would bang some shady guy on an even shadier couch, just because they hope to get a few bucks for the bang. Not all women are the same and even the girls who do stuff like that are more often than not just desperate souls who cry right after the camera shuts off.
These Hoes Ain’t Loyal
Don’t even get me started on all the Hollywood movies and TV shows who love to portrait the image of the insatiable whore who is usually impersonated by a blond girl with huge tits and a little birthmark above her lips.
When you look at it from a realistic point of view, most famous TV shows are basically nothing but softcore porn.
I am sure that 20% of the people who are fans of game of Thrones only watch it because of the boobs and the crazy witch lady.
Of course you start to believe that all women are stupid, manipulative and bitchy, when you watch TV all day long. Shut that damn thing off an open your eyes to a world in which not all intelligent women are ugly and not all beautiful women are dumb as bread.
Speaking of shutting that damn thing off…
When you struggle to believe me that women are actually not that terrible, you should stop listening to music that only portrays women as the whores that you believe they are. I know that these hoes ain’t loyal and I also know that she is a gold digger. Stop listening to bitches and bottles and start listening to keep ya head up.
The Result: Madonna–Whore Complex
What’s the result of all your experiences and all the conditioning that you have been exposed to?
The result is what the seduction community calls The Madonna–Whore Complex.
Is she an angel or the devil? Or just a normal girl who wants to have some fun?
Men who have this complex have the irrational idea that some women are holy Madonna’s who would never cheat on their boyfriends and who even want to stay virgins until they get married. On the other hand there are the whores who cheat without blinking an eye. They sleep with everyone who has a dick and at least one ball.
Whenever a man who has this image of a woman sees a girl with a short skirt in a club he instantly assumes that she is a whore while he believes that the girl with the huge glasses who sits next to him at work is the personification of Mother Theresa.
The tricky thing is that The Madonna-Whore Complex is not even the worst form of suffering. Some men have such a negative attitude towards women that they suffer from The Whore-Whore Complex.
In this case you need to reprogram your mind with the steps that I am going to reveal in the next few paragraphs. Otherwise you’ll never be able to attract the women you truly want.
The Problem: Your Beliefs become Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
Now here is the thing. When you really believe that all women are money-hungry whores, you will only attract money-hungry whores. You might think that I am a complete weirdo whenever I talk about the law of attraction, but I have enough experience with women to know that this shit is true.
If you think that women are lovable and amazing human beings you send out the energy that allows you to attract lovable and amazing human beings. If you, however, think, feel and therefore manifest, that all women are bitches and sluts, you’ll attract the 1% of girls who would cheat even if they were married to Enrique Iglesias.
Your beliefs become a self-fulfilling prophecy and the more negative beliefs you put into your brain, the more negativity you manifest in your life. I experimented with this more than once. Whenever I approached women with the attitude that they are evil and want to reject me, my success rate was ten times lower than when I went out with the attitude that all women love to get approached.
The big problem is that the more negative beliefs you have towards women, the more negativity in form of emotionally disabled chicks you’ll attract.
Dating those girls then leads to toxic relationships, which leads to even more hateful beliefs about women.
This vicious cycle must be interrupted.
A Whore in Your Eyes is an Amazing Woman in Mine
This vicious cycle must not only be interrupted, it must be ended once and for all. I mean, you can stay the way you are, call me a weirdo for thinking that women are neither whores nor bitches and continue to live your life without lovable and amazing women. You can do that if you want.
However, you can also regard today as the determining day that will finally put an end to your dry spell.
In two years you can look back at the day where you read this one article that changed your perception of women and your dating life forever.
I see the same woman that you label as a whore or a slut in a completely different light. I see her as an amazing human being who is able to love, to receive love and to make some lucky bastard very happy. If you decide to rethink your beliefs and to work on yourself, you will be that lucky bastard…not only on Halloween:
The Solution: Rethink Your Beliefs about Women
If you have hated women all your life you won’t be able to love them once you have closed this article. As much as I would love to open your brain, take out all your negative beliefs about women and put in some awesomeness, I must be realistic.
I know that this change won’t happen overnight and that several steps are necessary to turn “all women are whores” into “all most women are amazing”. However, I also know that this transition is possible and that it can go very fast when you do the right things.
Accept the Truth about the Madonna and the Whore
The first step you have to take is to accept the truth about the Madonna and the Whore. Accept that there is no such thing as a good girl who is supposed to be the complete opposite of the naughty slut who bangs everyone who doesn’t wear iron boxers.
The truth is that every woman has both sides inside of her.
The girl who walks around in a short skirt might be the best mother in the world and doesn’t even think about cheating on her husband with whom she is together for over ten years. Yet, she loves to have sex twice a day with the man she loves.
Does this make her a whore?
No, it only shows that she is a human being who has sexual needs. This is completely normal.
Yes, the innocent and cute girl who sits next to you at work also loves to have sex and she might even fantasize about sucking your dick or having a crazy threesome with you and the secretary of your boss.
Does this make her a whore?
No, it only shows that she is a human being who has sexual needs. This is also completely normal.
Not every woman is the same and not every woman has the same sexual needs and desires, but they all have them. The faithful wife who sleeps with the same man for over twenty years has the same value as the young girl who wants to experiment by sleeping with a different guy every week.
Heal Your Attitude towards Sexuality
How can you learn to accept the truth that those two women that I just described have the exact same value?
Heal your relationship to your own sexuality!
This will eventually allow you to accept, respect and value the female sexuality.
Are you confident with your own sexuality?
Rifle through your brain and find all the fucked up porn movies you watched, all the blog posts you read about how slutty women have become and all the anger that you felt when Susie Maier from your college class slept with your roommate and not with you.
Remember all the incidents that motivated you to believe that all women are sluts and ask yourself the following questions:
Can I assume that all women are sluts, just because one movie or one blog posts said so?
The only logical answer is NO!
Do I think that women are whores because they have sex or because they don’t have sex with me?
Be honest to yourself and you’ll know the answer.
The reason why most men judge women for being the sexual beings they are is because they can’t get laid. You wouldn’t judge a woman who sleeps with you, only the ones who sleep with the guy next to you.
That’s not only a very hypocritical and arrogant way of thinking; it also shows that you are insecure with your own sexuality. A man who is at peace with his own sexuality doesn’t see the need to label women who sleep with other guys as sluts. He respects their decision and is happy for the other guy.
Take Responsibility for Your Beliefs
Yes, you have watched movies, you have wasted countless hours watching porn and you also watched that goddamn YouTube video that I talked about at the beginning, even though I hope you didn’t.
But just because you filled your brain with doo-doo doesn’t mean that the doo-doo has to stay in there.
You are responsible for your beliefs, not the girls on the casting couch. It is your responsibility as a man to improve your relationships and your dating life. Nobody else will do it for you and the only way to attract amazing women is to truly believe that they are amazing.
Stop wasting your time with negative feelings towards women and start changing the way you see things. It is your choice if you want to see women as whores or as amazing human beings who have the potential to enrich your life.
It is your responsibility to look at a woman and to see all her positive features instead of looking at her with hate, even though you don’t know her yet. It is your responsibility to encounter women with an open heart, instead of judging them the moment they open their mouths.
As a man who wants to have an amazing dating life it is your responsibility to love, appreciate and respect women…and to read my goddamn book.
Summed Up Wisdom
If you really believe that all women are whores you either never had any success with women or you have given up on women. Maybe you have attracted the wrong girl and she ripped your heart into pieces. The influence that your social circle, the media and the porn industry had on you are also nothing to joke about.
You have been fed a lie and as a result you believe in The Madonna-Whore Complex, or you might even go one step further and believe that all women are whores. Unfortunately, this negative belief works like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
In order to see a woman through my eyes, you have to change your belief system. There is no way around accepting that The Madonna-Whore Complex is complete bollocks and to heal your attitude towards sexuality. After you have done that you can take responsibility for your beliefs and change them to the better.
@Realtor: What a fucking idiot! So are you saying that the desire for sex makes a woman a whore? That must be some of the stupidest shit I’ve ever heard. BTW, that makes your mom a whore, along with your grandmother and every foremother before her. Either that or your forefathers are all rapists… Does that make them whores, or is that word only reserved for the women?
Where did I say that?
Sad how right in your article you come out and say there are NO good girls who don’t want sex… thus making ALL GIRLS WHORES. Even sadder that it’s true.
They still are…just not in the West
Whatever happened to the good old days when most women were the very best of all?
The real problem here is that most women nowadays just Can’t keep their legs closed anymore.
Hey Tim,
not all girls have a lot of sexual partners, but the ones in the West usually have because their culture makes them believe that it’s a way of expressing their individuality.
Thank you. The porn blocking app is actually a good idea.
one of the sub-headings in this article is “you never had any success with women”
i fall under that sub-heading. i got my first car and drivers license at a much later age (25) than most people do, so i wasn’t able to socialize that much due to the fact that i live in an area where you HAVE to have a car to get around–there are no buses. this has contributed to my lack of success with women—because the more you put yourself out there and socialize–the better your chances are with girls.
i like your words about changing your negative beliefs/thoughts about women. i’m not proud to admit it, but i have had some negative thoughts and hatred towards women in my mind. but deep down, i don’t hate women at all. these bad thoughts would stem from the fact that i would sometimes work my courage up to ask a girl for her number and she would give me her REAL number……knowing full well she had no intention of ever responding to my texts/calls. so in other words, when i got a girls number, i would get so excited, only later to find out that she was just too nice to say “no”. and then this would crush me, and it would be a while before i would feel motivated to get up, get out, and try to ask another girl out.
even though i haven’t had much success with women, i haven’t given up on women. i DON’T fall under that sub-heading. i can’t give up on them because every time i see an attractive woman i’m just amazed at how beautiful they are. this is what motivates me to keep on striving to improve my skills with women.
i also recently purchased a porn-blocking app for my cell phone and i installed one of my computer as well. thanks for another great article, sebastian!
sebastian, am i naive to believe that most women don’t have lots of sexual partners? i’m far from an expert on women, but if there’s ONE thing i know about them, its that they want to feel safe. nowadays, you too often hear about sexual assault, so the idea that most (not all) girls sleep with lot of guys seem a tad bit hard to believe. they did a study at my school and they found that around 72% of the people attending the school had between 1-2 sexual partners or less. and it didn’t surprise me one bit—mainly because i can’t picture women feeling safe enough to hook up with lots of guys.
Women and men are fucking everybody these days and have since the beginning of time. I think more people are open about it now because it tends to be a time of mass immorality. I don’t think a man or a women wants to be with a partner that is unfaithful if that’s what they have mutually agreed upon. it can be a matter of life and death if someone steps out of the relationship. Being as women are the ones who will most likely be the receiver of the disease especially if she likes it in the ass and no condom is used which even if they are they break all the time!
Hey A,
that’s why I wrote it. I’m sure you have a lot to offer to women and I’m also sure that you’re an awesome guy if you work on yourself. I also suffered from social anxiety and I’m a natural introvert. I know exactly where you’re coming from because I have coached all kinds of guys with all kinds of different issues. If you want you can send me an email. Maybe I can help you more. Again, don’t give up!
Hey Sam,
I never said that a woman with self-control is bad 😉
This is BS man, oh all woman are great beautiful angels, even if they are fucking every man they see. I knew a girl who was slutting it around with every guy she could find and it lead to her fucking some absolute losers. Straight up beta males who tell lies to make themselves seem better than they are, and yet these lies are so obviously bullshit to anyone with a brain. she then fucked these total losers and afterwards tried to get it on with me. It didnt happen obviously, and woman should realise that if they are slumming it with losers then they will not get a chance with kings. Just because you say all woman are great beautiful amazing wonderful creatures even if she is slutting it up, doesnt mean its the truth. There is a good reason people slut shame and it is because high status men dont want sluts, so if a woman wants a high value man then she needs to have some self control. Otherwise she will end up with losers
That’s why I chose international dating…
Well unfortunately with all of these reality shows that they now have on TV as well as social media which most of the single women out there now are sleeping around with all kinds of different men all the time. Most of these women are just down right very horrible and a bunch of filthy low life Whores altogether now since they have destroyed many of us good innocent men already and will continue to do so as well. Just remember Whores will always be Whores since they will never have any shame at all.
Well these days unfortunately many women do like to sleep around with all different kinds of guys every single chance they get which makes them very pathetic losers as well.
What is there Not to believe.
I wonder.
Hello Steven,
thanks for your comment. Maybe I just met the wrong MGTOW men 😉
Interesting article, but there is one point I definitely have to take issue with. Sorry, but anyone who labels MGTOW’s as virgin men who can’t get laid because they who do not understand women, is a person who is severely misinformed regarding MGTOW! There are plenty of MGTOW men who do understand seduction, and have had plenty of sex and meaningful relationships with women. The fact of the matter is, women are emotional creatures, and regardless of how good a man is with women, sooner or later she is going to become comfortable and bored and become curious about other men. To be fair to women, men are also the same way, as it is human nature in general. Humans are not monogamous creatures by nature. That’s just the way it is. Cheating is something ALL humans do sooner or later, and are driven to do as it increases the chances of the several of our species. And, sure, I will grant you that there are definitely some MGTOW men who are horrible with women and do not understand them, there are plenty of us MGTOW men that do understand women! Anyways, thanks for your work. Have a great 2017.
Well unfortunately Most of them are nowadays since they like Sleeping Around all the time.
Shit, sorry!
They also do not understand self-control.
I promise, that’s the last one!
Oh yeah:
They also do not understand compromise.
It’s called “women’s lib”. You see, once women were given equal measures of control relative to men, they promptly shat all over the place. They are not capable of handling themselves in the same manner as men, for they are not typically taught the lessons that all boys learn growing up. They do not understand commitment or devotion. They do not understand honesty. They do not understand personal honor. They do not understand personal sacrifice. Most importantly, they do not understand loyalty. These are things that ALL MEN learn when they are little boys. Being a modern man, I spent most of my life absolutely believing in equality between the sexes. I desired an equal partner in all things. The sad fact is, unless you’re gonna go gay and have a male partner (jeez I am SO jealous of gay dudes for this reason), you’ll need to *lead* your partner because that is what she’s going to need if she’s going to maintain any sort of long-term relationship within acceptable limits. Unfortunately, accomplishing said “leading” is nearly impossible these days due to certain mostly erroneous concepts such as “male privilege” (haha! yeah right!). The system itself is engineered specifically to accommodate typical women’s whoring, monkey-swinging, relationship-destroying, carousel-riding, and children-scarring activities as well as to annihilate genuinely reciprocal peer-based interpersonal male/female relationships (and with it, the very concept of the “nuclear family”).
Everything you said is correct. I am right there with you buddy. I had the same thing happen with my woman of 16 years. As you said, all it takes is for you to trust them and give them a little slack on the leash. As soon as you do, just as you said, they will fuck anybody. It is because, sadly, women do not progress beyond childhood (mentally). They do not understand concepts such as loyalty, obligation, honesty, or integrity as men do. I don’t care who you are or who your woman is. If you put the women in a situation where she thinks she can get away with it, she will try it. Evidently it is this proclivity of women (towards whorishness and loseness) that caused men to seriously restrict their freedoms for all of mankind’s history up until the 20th century. Men in the last 100 years have made a serious error, and it will be the death of monogamy and/or human pair-bonding as we know it. Fact is, men are the loyal & monogamous ones. Women are the monkey-swinging whores. Also as you said, I too don’t want to think this or feel this way. But when you see it first-hand over and over and over, you literally have no choice but to understand & believe the truth. It’s like living your life under a fantasy and then all of the sudden you “see into the void” and you can’t ever unsee it. As a result (again, just like you) I harbor feelings of hatred & disgust towards all women.
Hey Ryan,
I’m glad to hear that. And yes, I never said that all women are angels. This is not true. But at the same time it’s not true that all women are bad. As soon as you change your attitude towards women, you will attract a different type of women. That’s the law of attraction.
I would like to say I really enjoyed your article. Really made me think about thing’s differently. That being said I’m in contact with all kinds of women daily and the thing’s I see and hear from them truly disgust me sometimes. I had my whole life turned upside down two years ago by my wife of 25 years. Never thought something like this would happen but it did and it has definitely left me scarred and full of hatred towards women. I just don’t believe women are truthful ever they are just pure evil. It sucks to feel this way I don’t want to but the thing’s I see with women who are in relationships as soon as the guy’s back is turned it starts. I wish someone could prove me wrong but most women are whores they crave male attention. They’re vain evil creatures. If they think that they won’t get caught they’ll fuck anybody. I’ve seen it I’ve done it. It’s awful I’ve lost all hope for women. It just makes me want to be alone. But your article gives me hope that not all women are that way. I’ve just failed to find one. So I’m gonna try to be more open and see what happens.
Hey Buddy,
it’s just an article against the “women are shit!” philosophy that’s spead all over the internet. Nothing more and nothing less.
Congratulations, the title of your article targets exactly the demographic you’re writing for. As a happy coincidence, individuals of said demographic are more likely to be swayed by your authoritative tone and fallacious arguments than (I hope) the general populace would be.
You generalize categories of personal experience and trivially dismiss the negative perceptions of women those experiences would likely promote in a man, and assert your preferred and heavily self-affirmed thought patterns as a more informed and useful heuristic.
I realize this is an opinion piece dressing up as a persuasive article, but I felt compelled to comment anyway. I don’t hold particularly strong views in regard to modern sexual behavioral norms, and am trying to educate myself on the topic. Your article was not helpful. There was literally nothing informative or convincing within it. If you’re going to appeal to authority by stating you have a psychology degree, at least make an attempt to substantiate your beliefs with some psychological theories. Unless this kind of writing is really the best way to influence people. In which case, fuck it, great job.
Hey Nick,
I am happy to hear that you belong to the group of women lovers 😉
This changed me for the better instantly after reading it.
Bad experiences from the past can be hard to get over, but it also makes a lot of sense as to why i got caught up in a bad thought process.
Most women are amazing and that makes me happy.
Thank you!
But it’s never too late to think about your mistakes 😉
Oh hell, even God makes mistakes too you know.
Hey Penny,
thanks for sharing your evolutionary insights. However, I made the experience that women want sex as much as man…and sometimes even more (which is totally fine). The difference is that there is much more risk involved for women (9 months pregancy, man runs away9 and that’s why they are very careful with whom they sleep. Of course cultural conditioning also plays a part.
Love your way of thinking!
Although some men may want to believe that women all desire sex as much and with as many partners as men do, it just doesn’t hold an ounce of truth. Read up on genetics and evolutionary mating strategies. This will lead you to see the differences in the sexes and why we behave the way we do. Even when women are ovulating we still don’t desire to be with hundreds of men. Half a tablespoon of sperm could impregnate the entire free world of women. Males can impregnate a woman every day multiple times a day from puberty until he’s senile. In women, only 1 solitary ripe egg is released and swept into one of your Fallopian tubes each month between puberty and 50 some years of age. That’s right, just one chance of passing on their genes per month compared to hundreds. And on top of that, women are only fertile with that one single solitary egg for a few days every month. That makes for some VERY different sexual desires. We are here to survive and pass on our genes. Mother Nature is very smart and we do not waste precious energy on sexuality when we can not procreate and so we simply have less sexual desire then men.
Women’s dating strategies are much more exclusive. Finding one man is a smart dating strategy (because that’s all she can get impregnated by in a given 9 months. A man with the most resources wins simply because she needs to protect her offspring. Looks are also important for passing on desirable genes but not nearly as important as it is for men. If that doesn’t fit with your view of the world (evolution), then just take a step back and ponder this…if women wanted sex as much as men, don’t you think people would just be screwing each other’s brains out all day long? Everyone suffers from self-deception. It can be a very healthy thing to believe what we want to in order to fit our pre-conceived notions of the world.
Hey Vet,
I am not a big fan of social justice warriors and the Western dating culture (as you can read on my vision page) and yes, there are some men and women who lie, cheat and do all kinds of other crap. These people exist. I am not blind, don’t worry. The purpose of this article is to show men that not ALL women are like that and that there are exceptions. Unfortunately, a lot of men tend to generalize as soon as they have a negative experience.
Great job white-knighting. Of course not all women are whores – but a big proportion are. And do you really believe women marry for “Love”. Wow, looks like someone’s swallowed the kool aid.
I don’t believe you should hate women, but you should know their natures. A lot of them truly are sluts. I know so many girls who’ve ridden the carousel but are now wives and SJW’s and in positions of respectability. None of the guys have a clue. Ignorance is truly bliss. Of course, if you hope well, there’s a chance you might be lucky. However, if you live in the west, unlike me, the odds are not in your favour. Happy gambling.
Hey Jasmine,
thanks a lot. I also hope that millions of men will read it 😉
As a woman, i just want to say I agree with every point you have made on this amazing website, and I sincerely hope millions of men read all this and get happier:))
not all women are like that. There is hope.
Whatever happened to the real Good old fashioned women that we once had? Quite a Change in the women of today Unfortunately compared to years ago.
Hey Ukeme,
I hope I can help you to overcome your hatred. But please write your next comment in small letters. That makes me dizzy 😛
HEY BRO. LOVE YA POST. I WNT DENY IT. I HATE WOMEN WHO DONT HAV SEX WITH ME BUT DO SO WITH MY BRO. NW U HV GIVEN ME A NEW DIRECTION. I’M DEFINITELY GOIN 2 DO WHT U’V SAID HERE. NICE.
AM STRTN AFRESH WITH A NEW PERSPECTIVE ABT WOMEN. THNKS.
Hey buddy,
I am happy that I could help you to break free from your complex!
man, this site is awesome. This particular post just hel
ped me break free of this m/w complex I’ve been battling with for years.
I’m sending you my love all the way from Nigeria. thanks a ton, bro
thanks man!
Way cool! Some extremely valid points! I appreciate you writing this
post plus the rest of the site is very good.
thanks Mark!
Sebastian , keep the good work you are doing, don’t get frustrated because of those idiots!
Their loss is our gain.
Cheers.