I am convinced that you are going to hate me after you have read this article.
However, I am also sure that this article has the power to change the way you look at women, your relationships with women and your life.
The more I read on forums of popular self-improvement sites for men, the more frustrated I got.
I read about men who complain “why all those bitches fuck around and no woman is loyal”. I read about male virgins who think that they know everything about women and their “slutty behavior”. I read about guys who haven’t even kissed a girl, but who allegedly know that all women are sluts, whores and stupid bitches who should be thrown out as soon as you have fucked them once or twice.
The more I read this crap the more I feel that my vision of teaching men the honest, authentic and respectful art of seducing women is nearly impossible. It really makes me sick to my stomach to see how many guys hate women and label their sexuality as something evil that should be forbidden.
Welcome back to the 1950s!
I don’t know why I did so much research on this topic. It must have been my fascination to analyze the problems that men have nowadays, or maybe I just have a masochistic predisposition. Whatever it was, it led me to a video of this Men Going Their Own Way movement in which one guys explains in over an hour why all women are whores and why love is never the reason why a woman wants to be in a relationship.
Nope, I don’t insert this video here, because I don’t believe that you should traumatize your eyes with such a degenerate bullshit. It is bad enough that I lost about 236 brain cells while watching this guy holding his pathetic monologue.
It was distressing enough to look at all the comments of guys who agreed with what he said. No matter if you blame feminism, RooshV or the holy pope for this dilemma…we undoubtedly have a serious problem.
We are faced with the problem that more and more men quit on women and eventually on life, because they believe in a lie.
Before I want to reveal the lie that so many underfucked future suicide victims believe in, I want to ask you one simple question.
Do you believe that all women are whores?
If You Believe that All Women are Whores…
You are an idiot.
Hey, no big deal. Everybody is an idiot from time to time. I woke up this morning and decided that I put some onions in my omelet and now I am farting all day long. That was a stupid thing to do, but it is not comparable with the immense stupidity to believe that all women are whores.
Even though I have a degree in psychology I can’t read your mind. I don’t know if you are a guy who loves women or who hates women. I don’t know if you are a guy who believes that women are amazing human beings or if you believe that all women are stupid bitches who deserve to be treated like shit.
However, I know that something has provoked you to click on the headline of this article.
That’s why I simply assume that you are either a man who loves women, but who is very interested in learning about why some men don’t, or you are a man who hates women and thinks that all women are whores.
If you fall in the second category I am pretty sure that you recognize yourself in one of the following descriptions. Oh, and in case you get too angry at me for telling you what you have tried to suppress over the last few years, you can shoot me an email and call me a man-hating social justice warrior feminazi.
I am not here to schmooze you, but to wake you up and to improve your life. Sometimes a wakeup call starts with a kick in the balls.
You Never had any Success with Women
In case you really believe that all women are whores, you probably haven’t had a lot of experience with women. I know that it is a reckless thesis, but I am pretty sure that more than 50% of the guys who write “Yeah man! You are right! All women are stupid bitches!” under a MGTOW video are virgins.
They won’t admit it to their friends and sometimes they don’t even admit it to themselves, but that doesn’t make it less true. When someone in their social circle (if they have one) asks them why they never see them with women or if they are gay, they simply answer that they “don’t want to put up with that shit” and that they “go their own way”.
Other popular excuses that this type of guy loves to tell people are:
“I don’t need an annoying girlfriend.”
“I don’t want a woman in my life. I need my freedom.”
While they pretend to be strong and independent when they are around other people, they are insecure, frustrated and embittered when they are alone. It is comparable with ambitious career women who pretend to be tough and invulnerable in the office, who then cry at home because nobody is there to hug them and to ask them about their day.
In case you are older than 20, you think that all women are whores and you have never had sex with one of those whores who fuck with everyone (besides you), you need to change your beliefs…unless you want to stay a virgin forever.
You Have Given up on Women
The next category of guys who strongly believe that all women are whores are the ones who have already given up on women. Most of the time those are the notorious virgins who eventually reach an age at which they stop believing that they could ever lose their virginity without banging a crack whore for a couple of bucks.
This was me when I was 18.
In case you are a 30 year old virgin you will probably laugh at me when I say that I fell in this category when I was 18, but it is actually true. When I was 18 I made the conscious decision that I would stay a virgin for the rest of my life and that watching porn is far more rewarding than sweating like a pig whenever I look a woman into the eyes.
Thank god one woman took pity on me horizontally; otherwise I would have ended on YouTube talking about how mean and terrible women are.
If you are one of the guys who have already given up on women I want to tell you something. No, I want to scream something until you internalize it:
DON’T GIVE UP!
DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT GIVING UP!
GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION!
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life writing in forums about how frustrated you are and that the world is such an unfair place?
Think about what your grandfather who probably fought against my grandfather in World War II would say if he would know that his grandson is such a pussy.
Thousands of men who lived before you didn’t give up when they fought to survive. Thousands of men who lived before you didn’t give up when they were starving, broke and incarcerated. And you give up when all you have to do is to walk up to a woman and say “hi”.
Stop being so ridiculous!
You Always Attract the Wrong Girls
I just told you that one woman who took pity on me is the reason why I haven’t given up on women. Well, she is the same woman with whom I ended up in a four year relationship that had its ups and its downs.
What happens when you end up in a relationship that has only downs and no ups?
To say that it makes it easy to assume that all women are whores would be an understatement. In case you are naïve, inexperienced or stupid enough to end up in a relationship with a girl who treats you like a walking ATM, who makes fun of you in front of your friends and who uses you like her marionette, you inevitably start to hate women.
By dating such a woman you embark on a path that leads you directly towards a MGTOW video, because mastering your journey of life alone seems a lot better than wasting your life to someone who brings you down and makes you unhappy.
What you have to understand is that not all women are the same and that just because one girl drives you nuts, doesn’t mean that the next one you meet won’t make you the happiest man on earth.
You Have Been Hurt By a Woman
You were in love with her. Her name was Rose and she didn’t just smell like a fresh rose, she also looked innocent like a little angel. You did everything for her and when she told you that she loves you, you had tears in your eyes. You were so in love with her that you couldn’t possibly understand how anyone could ever call a woman a stupid whore.
Suddenly, everything changed.
One day you came home early and what you saw broke your heart in more pieces than there are stars in the universe. You saw your innocent little Rose getting fucked by another guy and as he ejaculated on her beautiful lips, your world broke apart.
I know that it hurt, I know that you promised yourself to never trust a female human being again and I know that this made you become the resentful and hateful man you are today. However, I also know that life goes on and that there are millions of other women who wouldn’t bang the pizza guy whenever you are at work.
You have been hurt and it definitely needs time get over such a shock, but there is also a time at which you have to make the decision to move on. Unfortunately, a lot of guys never make this decision.
Your Experiences are Not Your Only Enemy
You might have had no experiences at all with women, bad experiences or so many bad experiences that you promised yourself to never speak with one of those terrible creatures again. Whatever experiences you have had…they are not your only enemy.
In order to leave this whole “all women are whores!” bullshit behind you, you have to do more than coming to terms with your past. There are more traps and more obstacles on your way towards becoming a man who loves and respects women than you probably think.
One of those obstacles might be your best friend.
Your Social Circle
There is a popular saying that says that you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Even though this is definitely not true for everyone, it is true in some cases. Some of my friends are still male virgins and even though they are resistant enough to block every single one of my attempts to help them, I still love them. I accepted that I can’t help someone who doesn’t want help, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t have a great time with them, just because they have different priorities in life.
Nevertheless, I can’t deny that my social circle has changed over the last years and that I got rid of the toxic friends who dragged me down and got to know some new friends who bring a lot more to the table.
Why do I tell you this?
If you really think that all women are sluts and bitches, it is highly likely that at least one of your closest friends has the same opinion.
People in a social circle tend to influence each other, either consciously or unconsciously. No matter if you influenced your friend with this toxic belief or if your frustrated friend was the first one who discovered MGTOW on the internet, you probably goad each other.
I don’t say that you should tell your best friend to fuck off, just because he made a misogynistic joke after the second beer. All I ask you to do is to think about whether or not the people in your social circle are good for you and support you on your journey towards becoming a Global Seducer.
It might be better to spend time with Brad, who has an amazing girlfriend and who believes that women are beautiful and lovable, than with Steve, who is convinced that all women are worthless whores.
The Casting Couch
The porn industry is a multibillion dollar industry. The only thing that has more fans on the internet than porn movies is this Swedish guy on YouTube who plays video games all day long and has an insanely hot Italian girlfriend. Other than that I have no idea if there is anything more popular on the internet than dirty movies with a lot of naked girls and some steroid hunks with huge dicks.
One tiny percentage of this multibillion dollar industry, let’s say a couple of million dollars are spent on porn movies in which couples, teenagers, Milfs or your girlfriend are asked to bang some guy for money.
Even though I don’t watch porn anymore I just couldn’t escape from this guy who apparently bangs one girl after another by saying that he is a model agent and that he will help them to earn millions of dollars.
I have to admit that it makes me wonder how you can be so freaking retarded to believe that nobody will ever see this tape and I also can’t deny that I thought of doing the same to see if that really works…of course just for the purpose of a social experiment 😉
The problem with those delicious or not so delicious videos is that a lot of guys believe that just because ten girls who live on welfare and can’t even afford their rent suck a dick for a few hundred dollars, ALL girls would do that.
If we are really honest we would also fuck an average looking woman if she would offer us hundreds of dollars. We would probably even do it for free.
Does that make us whores?
Maybe, but that doesn’t change the fact that not all women would bang some shady guy on an even shadier couch, just because they hope to get a few bucks for the bang. Not all women are the same and even the girls who do stuff like that are more often than not just desperate souls who cry right after the camera shuts off.
These Hoes Ain’t Loyal
Don’t even get me started on all the Hollywood movies and TV shows who love to portrait the image of the insatiable whore who is usually impersonated by a blond girl with huge tits and a little birthmark above her lips.
When you look at it from a realistic point of view, most famous TV shows are basically nothing but softcore porn.
I am sure that 20% of the people who are fans of game of Thrones only watch it because of the boobs and the crazy witch lady.
Of course you start to believe that all women are stupid, manipulative and bitchy, when you watch TV all day long. Shut that damn thing off an open your eyes to a world in which not all intelligent women are ugly and not all beautiful women are dumb as bread.
Speaking of shutting that damn thing off…
When you struggle to believe me that women are actually not that terrible, you should stop listening to music that only portrays women as the whores that you believe they are. I know that these hoes ain’t loyal and I also know that she is a gold digger. Stop listening to bitches and bottles and start listening to keep ya head up.
The Result: Madonna–Whore Complex
What’s the result of all your experiences and all the conditioning that you have been exposed to?
The result is what the seduction community calls The Madonna–Whore Complex.
Men who have this complex have the irrational idea that some women are holy Madonna’s who would never cheat on their boyfriends and who even want to stay virgins until they get married. On the other hand there are the whores who cheat without blinking an eye. They sleep with everyone who has a dick and at least one ball.
Whenever a man who has this image of a woman sees a girl with a short skirt in a club he instantly assumes that she is a whore while he believes that the girl with the huge glasses who sits next to him at work is the personification of Mother Theresa.
The tricky thing is that The Madonna-Whore Complex is not even the worst form of suffering. Some men have such a negative attitude towards women that they suffer from The Whore-Whore Complex.
In this case you need to reprogram your mind with the steps that I am going to reveal in the next few paragraphs. Otherwise you’ll never be able to attract the women you truly want.
The Problem: Your Beliefs become Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
Now here is the thing. When you really believe that all women are money-hungry whores, you will only attract money-hungry whores. You might think that I am a complete weirdo whenever I talk about the law of attraction, but I have enough experience with women to know that this shit is true.
If you think that women are lovable and amazing human beings you send out the energy that allows you to attract lovable and amazing human beings. If you, however, think, feel and therefore manifest, that all women are bitches and sluts, you’ll attract the 1% of girls who would cheat even if they were married to Enrique Iglesias.
Your beliefs become a self-fulfilling prophecy and the more negative beliefs you put into your brain, the more negativity you manifest in your life. I experimented with this more than once. Whenever I approached women with the attitude that they are evil and want to reject me, my success rate was ten times lower than when I went out with the attitude that all women love to get approached.
The big problem is that the more negative beliefs you have towards women, the more negativity in form of emotionally disabled chicks you’ll attract.
Dating those girls then leads to toxic relationships, which leads to even more hateful beliefs about women.
This vicious cycle must be interrupted.
A Whore in Your Eyes is an Amazing Woman in Mine
This vicious cycle must not only be interrupted, it must be ended once and for all. I mean, you can stay the way you are, call me a weirdo for thinking that women are neither whores nor bitches and continue to live your life without lovable and amazing women. You can do that if you want.
However, you can also regard today as the determining day that will finally put an end to your dry spell.
In two years you can look back at the day where you read this one article that changed your perception of women and your dating life forever.
I see the same woman that you label as a whore or a slut in a completely different light. I see her as an amazing human being who is able to love, to receive love and to make some lucky bastard very happy. If you decide to rethink your beliefs and to work on yourself, you will be that lucky bastard…not only on Halloween:
The Solution: Rethink Your Beliefs about Women
If you have hated women all your life you won’t be able to love them once you have closed this article. As much as I would love to open your brain, take out all your negative beliefs about women and put in some awesomeness, I must be realistic.
I know that this change won’t happen overnight and that several steps are necessary to turn “all women are whores” into “
all most women are amazing”. However, I also know that this transition is possible and that it can go very fast when you do the right things.
Accept the Truth about the Madonna and the Whore
The first step you have to take is to accept the truth about the Madonna and the Whore. Accept that there is no such thing as a good girl who is supposed to be the complete opposite of the naughty slut who bangs everyone who doesn’t wear iron boxers.
The truth is that every woman has both sides inside of her.
The girl who walks around in a short skirt might be the best mother in the world and doesn’t even think about cheating on her husband with whom she is together for over ten years. Yet, she loves to have sex twice a day with the man she loves.
Does this make her a whore?
No, it only shows that she is a human being who has sexual needs. This is completely normal.
Yes, the innocent and cute girl who sits next to you at work also loves to have sex and she might even fantasize about sucking your dick or having a crazy threesome with you and the secretary of your boss.
Does this make her a whore?
No, it only shows that she is a human being who has sexual needs. This is also completely normal.
Not every woman is the same and not every woman has the same sexual needs and desires, but they all have them. The faithful wife who sleeps with the same man for over twenty years has the same value as the young girl who wants to experiment by sleeping with a different guy every week.
Heal Your Attitude towards Sexuality
How can you learn to accept the truth that those two women that I just described have the exact same value?
Heal your relationship to your own sexuality!
This will eventually allow you to accept, respect and value the female sexuality.
Rifle through your brain and find all the fucked up porn movies you watched, all the blog posts you read about how slutty women have become and all the anger that you felt when Susie Maier from your college class slept with your roommate and not with you.
Remember all the incidents that motivated you to believe that all women are sluts and ask yourself the following questions:
Can I assume that all women are sluts, just because one movie or one blog posts said so?
The only logical answer is NO!
Do I think that women are whores because they have sex or because they don’t have sex with me?
Be honest to yourself and you’ll know the answer.
The reason why most men judge women for being the sexual beings they are is because they can’t get laid. You wouldn’t judge a woman who sleeps with you, only the ones who sleep with the guy next to you.
That’s not only a very hypocritical and arrogant way of thinking; it also shows that you are insecure with your own sexuality. A man who is at peace with his own sexuality doesn’t see the need to label women who sleep with other guys as sluts. He respects their decision and is happy for the other guy.
Take Responsibility for Your Beliefs
Yes, you have watched movies, you have wasted countless hours watching porn and you also watched that goddamn YouTube video that I talked about at the beginning, even though I hope you didn’t.
But just because you filled your brain with doo-doo doesn’t mean that the doo-doo has to stay in there.
You are responsible for your beliefs, not the girls on the casting couch. It is your responsibility as a man to improve your relationships and your dating life. Nobody else will do it for you and the only way to attract amazing women is to truly believe that they are amazing.
Stop wasting your time with negative feelings towards women and start changing the way you see things. It is your choice if you want to see women as whores or as amazing human beings who have the potential to enrich your life.
It is your responsibility to look at a woman and to see all her positive features instead of looking at her with hate, even though you don’t know her yet. It is your responsibility to encounter women with an open heart, instead of judging them the moment they open their mouths.
As a man who wants to have an amazing dating life it is your responsibility to love, appreciate and respect women…and to read my goddamn book.
Summed Up Wisdom
If you really believe that all women are whores you either never had any success with women or you have given up on women. Maybe you have attracted the wrong girl and she ripped your heart into pieces. The influence that your social circle, the media and the porn industry had on you are also nothing to joke about.
You have been fed a lie and as a result you believe in The Madonna-Whore Complex, or you might even go one step further and believe that all women are whores. Unfortunately, this negative belief works like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
In order to see a woman through my eyes, you have to change your belief system. There is no way around accepting that The Madonna-Whore Complex is complete bollocks and to heal your attitude towards sexuality. After you have done that you can take responsibility for your beliefs and change them to the better.