Do you like masculine women?
Maybe you do, maybe you don’t. No matter if you get an erection by thinking about a female wrestler or if you are into petite and feminine women who couldn’t even win against a housefly, this article is for you.
But I must be honest with you.
I absolutely love feminine women.
Long hair, a cute smile and a nurturing and compassionate nature are the characteristics that I am looking for in a woman.
It’s not that I have never dated a masculine woman, but I only did it when I was a teenager and when I had no other choice than dating women who could have crushed my bones with ease. Ever since I learned how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful feminine women, I can’t even imagine dating masculine girls.
Maybe you are different. You might be turned on by strong and independent career women. You might love to be together with a woman who has a deeper voice and shorter hair than you. Heck, you might even get turned on by watching Ronda Rousey breaking a guy’s rips.
Even though I won’t ever understand you (okay, Ronda Rousey is hot, but come on), I don’t judge you for your desires. Every man has a different taste and while I am convinced that the vast majority of men prefer feminine women, you might be an exception.
Then get yourself an MMA fighter. More power to you!
In the following lines you will learn exactly how to spot a masculine woman before you approach her, while you talk to her and while you are on a date with her. After you have read this article you will know exactly how to find the bulldozer of your dreams.
What if you are like me and you are into super feminine women?
Then the following lines will teach you how to find out if the woman you are talking to is a potential girlfriend or a reason to take your passport and to leave the country forever.
And what if you are a woman who is proud to be masculine?
Then this article from my colleague David Wygant might open your eyes (or inspire you to leave hate comment number 247).
What Is a Masculine Woman?
Before we can have a look at the signs that reveal whether or not she is a strong lumberjack or a caring nurse (I just love to play with stereotypes), we have to define what a masculine woman is.
In case you are into those kinds of girls, you probably fantasize about a woman who can carry you shoulder high while she looks you in the eyes like a hungry tiger. In case you are not into those kinds of girls, you probably think about a screaming hardcore feminist who loves to run around with scissors in the hope to find a poor man she can castrate.
Depending on how arousing or disgusting the idea of sleeping with a masculine woman is for you, your definition will vary.
That’s why I want to provide you with a simple definition that I came up with while I was taking a shit:
“A masculine woman is a woman with a strong masculine energy, who looks, behaves and speaks like a man” – Sebastian Harris, 31.01.2016
Just like the dark side was too strong in the young Anakin Skywalker, the masculine side was too strong in the young Ronda Rousey.
Thanks to the social and political conditioning in the Western hemisphere this dark side led to the first galactic empire in which thousands of women look like the Emperor from Star Wars.
Now let’s have a look at the signs that reveal if you are dealing with a woman from the dark side, which might be the good side for you.
P.S. Here’s what my beautiful, feminine and simply wonderful girlfriend has to say about one of the comments:
How to Spot Masculine Women During the Approach
The good news is that spotting masculine women is not that hard. In fact, you can find out if she is manlier than Chuck Norris before you even talk to her.
Yes, you can spot a masculine woman before she says “thank you for the compliment” with her Darth Vader voice. All you have to do is to look at her high heels, her mini skirt and her makeup.
1. Manly Dress Code and Manly Haircut
Please imagine the most masculine woman you can think of.
Do you see Jessica Alba?
Do you see Taylor Swift?
Do you see Candice Swanepoel?
I doubt it.
You probably don’t imagine a petite model with blonde hair and decent makeup. Be honest. You imagine a short-haired woman who dresses like a man and who can easily be mistaken for a lesbian.
And guess what? You are right.
I actually made the experiment and spent one day approaching feminine women with long hair and nice dresses and another day approaching masculine women with short hair and Wrangler jeans.
Of course I did this experiment in Germany and not in an Asian or an Eastern European country. Otherwise, it would have been pretty hard to find that many masculine women.
Nevertheless, the results were really interesting.
About 90% of all the short-haired women with manly clothes showed the subsequent behavior patterns. My experiment obviously proved that a manly dress code and a manly haircut are the foundation for manly behavior.
2. She Walks Like a Construction Worker
It shouldn’t come to a surprise that the average manly woman doesn’t walk like one of the Victoria’s Secret Angels. Heck, you can be happy if she walks in a way that doesn’t kill thousands of innocent earthworms that got lost on the street.
Most manly women have a very manly walk.
This is only logical. If she has never been in high heels you can’t expect her to walk in them like an ancient goddess. If she has never learned to walk like a woman, you can’t expect her to walk like one.
The most dominant sign of a feminine walk is when her hips move when she walks and when the gap between her legs is very small.
The most dominant sign of a manly walk is when her hips don’t move and when the gap between her legs is very big. Think manspreading.
3. Smiling and Giggling Is Not Appropriate
As you can probably already imagine, the majority of manly women work in jobs that used to be dominated by men. A couple of decades ago women dreamed of becoming kindergarten teachers. Today they dream of becoming successful manager.
Even though I don’t judge a woman for her desire to have a successful career, I can’t deny that this choice eventually leaves marks.
One of those marks is that they slowly but steadily turn into men.
Her genuine and beautiful smile turns into a serious facial expression that has the purpose to display power and determination in the shark tank that others call the office.
Her cute giggle turns into a cold and calculating laugh that she uses whenever she tries to network with a guy who might help her to reach the next step on the ladder of “success”.
A manly woman won’t smile at you when you approach her. She won’t giggle when you tell her that she is beautiful. She will look at you as if you were one of her coworkers who she has to convince that she can stand her ground.
4. The Strong Handshake
Shaking hands with a woman for the very first time can be a very sensual experience. You look deep into her eyes, you hold her hand for a second or two and you softly caress her hand in yours.
Yeah, shaking hands with a woman can indeed be a sensual experience, at least when you are holding the hands of a feminine woman. Even if you are into masculine girls I highly doubt that shaking hands with them is something you genuinely enjoy.
From my experiment I know that shaking hands with a masculine woman is the same as shaking hands with your middle-aged boss. The feeling and the sensuality is the same as when your boss shakes your hand right after he fired you because you masturbated on the desk of his secretary.
I guess it’s a wonderful feeling…for some people.
5. She Tries to Pick You Up
While I can’t really say that getting rejected by a masculine woman is completely different than getting rejected by a feminine woman (seriously, they can be very professional about this), things get weird when a man in a woman’s body is into you.
By approaching dozens of masculine women, especially the ones in suits, I came to the conclusion that those women pursue you more aggressively than the feminine members of the same species.
Again, this is completely logical and definitely a good sing if you are into those kinds of crowbars.
She’s used to going after what she wants.
She can be direct and straightforward when she wants to get that job and there is no reason why she can’t be direct and straightforward when she wants to get that guy. She is a leader, so she might just lead the seduction.
When she is really into you she might not show her interest with the grace of a feminine woman, but her signals will show you very frankly that you are a guy she wants to fuck.
How to Spot Masculine Women During the Date
Imagine you approached a woman with a beautiful feminine dress and long hair. She walked like an angel, but when you introduced yourself to her she squeezed your hand like a lemon right before it’s transformed into the supplement of a shot of tequila.
You are confused.
You are either into masculine women and you have no clue if you can be the prey of this strong and independent wolf, or you are not into masculine women and you want to know when and how fast you have to run.
Well, you have to find out if you are dealing with a cute cat or with a fierce tiger and the best way to do that is by meeting her in the wild.
Go on a date with her and you will find out if you are on a date with a woman who wants to take the dominant or the feminine role.
6. No Makeup For You
What’s the best moment of a date?
For you it might be the kiss, or the moment in which you can finally release the pressure:
For me it’s the moment when I see her walking towards me. This is the moment that usually makes me go “wow!” because I am smitten by her beauty.
There is really no better feeling than looking at a smiling and blushing woman who dressed up for you. Unfortunately, I never had this feeling when I accidently (or for research purposes) ended up on a date with a masculine woman.
Dressing up is not in her vocabulary.
Wearing makeup and clothes that accentuate her beautiful body (or her muscles of iron) is not on her to-do list.
One of the most obvious and in my opinion most painful signs that you are dating a masculine woman is when you wait for your date and wonder if she is behind that dude who is walking towards you with an excited smile.
7. Her Passion: Kicking Balls
My girlfriend has a passion for singing and composing. She enjoys being creative and to express her feelings through music. She is a very feminine woman.
I honestly never met a predominantly masculine woman who enjoyed composing love songs. I have, however, met quite a few masculine women who were into computer games, martial arts and fixing cars.
Okay, it’s not really hard to be better at fixing cars than me. I haven’t had a car in more than two years, but that doesn’t change anything about the fact that I prefer feminine women with feminine hobbies.
But who am I to judge?
Maybe you are happy to date a woman who can fix your Mustang, BMW or whatever the hell you are driving. Maybe you want a girl with whom you can kill people in Call of Duty.
If you dream about dating such a woman, you shouldn’t forget to ask her about her hobbies and her passion.
8. Career? Yes Family? No!
One very common commonality of masculine women is that they are not the biggest fans of the white picket fence and happy family dream that women used to pursue a couple of decades ago. You just have to mention the words “kids” and “housewife” on your first date and you will immediately find out if you are dealing with a feminine or a masculine woman.
I hate to say it a third time, but again, it’s only logical.
Her nurturing, supportive and compassionate qualities are what define a feminine woman with strong mother instincts. Even though I am indecisive if I ever want to have children, I feel strongly attracted to women who have this nurturing and compassionate side that good mothers have.
It is no secret that a woman who has locked her natural feminine instincts in a thick box in order to pursue a career as a professional fighter in the ring or in the executive board has lost touch with her natural instincts.
She has traded her biological purpose with her socially and politically indoctrinated purpose to work 60-80 hours a week and to end up as a lonely and embittered person with her three cats Jeremy, Jonathan and Jupiter.
9. You Find Yourself in a Business Meeting
I don’t say that dating masculine women is particularly boring, but whenever I went on a date with one I missed that certain indefinable something. I can’t really explain why, but someone I always had the feeling that I was meeting a buddy for a beer or that I was in a business meeting.
I am sure you are going to have the same experience and depending on your preferences you might find this idea extremely thrilling.
Maybe the idea of being in a business meeting with your powerful female boss turns you on and maybe you prefer naughty femdom business women videos over everything else. In this case you will enjoy dating masculine women.
To be honest, I hate it. I absolutely hate to be on a date that feels as if I am in a business meeting.
Maybe that’s because I hated those dull business meetings when I still had a job. The fake and exaggerated smiles, the pressure to prove that you are the shit and the focus on looking and behaving professional (whatever the hell that means) without ever allowing a natural human connection is simply not my world.
Believe me, you will talk a lot about materialistic goals, her terrible coworkers and she might even give you her business card while she says “it’s on me”, which can be even a good thing.
Whenever I am on a date with a masculine woman I hope that the date falls into the category beer with a buddy. She’ll land in the female friend zone anyway, but at least I enjoy having a beer with a buddy.
Who knows, maybe you are going to enjoy it too…
Summed Up Wisdom
No matter if you are into masculine women or if you have to puke by just thinking about dating one, I am going to reveal the signs that give you unambiguous “go for it!” or “run away from her!” signals.
It’s not that hard to find out if a woman feels at home in the building supplies store or in the cosmetic store. I did the test and came to the somehow logical conclusion that women who look manly, behave and speak manly.
Her walk is different, the way she laughs (or doesn’t) is different and the way she shakes your hand is different. The only good news is that masculine women who are very straightforward when it comes to a promotion can be very straightforward when it comes to their sexual desires.
On a date you might be shocked (or turned on) by the way she talks about her career and her nightmare to end up as a desperate housewife…thanks Hollywood. As a passionate mechanic she also doesn’t see the need to dress up or to be the cute and shy girl who tries to find out if you are her ideal partner.
But maybe that’s exactly what you want…