Charlie Sheen is HIV positive…
I was shocked when I read the news.
The indestructible Charlie Sheen, the man who drinks tiger blood for breakfast, has HIV. I couldn’t believe what I just read. The moment I read it I felt deeply sorry for a guy who I used to admire.
Why You Don’t Want to Be Charlie Sheen
I wouldn’t say that I am a crazy Charlie Sheen fan, but I honestly enjoyed watching him in Movies like Hot Shots, in shows like Two and a Half Men and I enjoyed the famous drug-fueled interview (in which he apparently was sober) that took the word “winning” to a whole new level.
When I was a teenager I envied him for the life he was living. Taking drugs until you pass out, ordering one high-class escort after another and having sex with more pornstars than Ron Jeremy seemed like the life of every man’s dream.
What my young, superficial and incredibly naive self didn’t know was that this kind of lifestyle is not as glamorous as it seems.
In my last article I already revealed why this fake and phony glamor world is not for me.
Everyone who has ever had a friend who nearly died of an overdose knows that taking drugs is nothing but a desperate attempt to feel something when you are totally empty inside. There is a reason why a lot of junkies use “it makes me feel alive” as the justification for their deadly habit.
Everyone who has ever had a deep connection with a woman that was based on attraction, affection and love, knows that sleeping with a prostitute or any other girl who jumps in bed with you for another reason than being with you, doesn’t lead to happiness and fulfillment. I am pretty sure that Charlie Sheen knows that his Goddesses were only together with the rich and successful actor and not with Charlie the human being.
When you have a look at Charlie’s life from the perspective of a celebrity magazine you see glamour, money, incredible parties, a lavish playboy lifestyle and more sex than you can wish for. When you look at his life from the perspective of a psychologist you see substance abuse, desperate cries for attention and reckless behavior that puts other people at risk.
Due to the fact that I want you to become a self-confident, emotionally strong and sexually fulfilled man and not a drug-addicted self-destructive psychopath, I decided to share a couple of things with you that you can learn from Charlie Sheen. Don’t make the same mistakes as he made. Stay healthy, happy and sane.
1. Don’t Trust Raw Dogging Advice
The original goal of the manosphere was to offer men a platform to share ideas, to give struggling men advice and to discuss important topics that the mainstream media refused to talk about. This was and still is a noble goal.
Unfortunately, this well-intentioned brotherhood gave soon rise to writers that began to spread misogynistic and incredibly dangerous advice all over the internet. One of the most dangerous pieces of advice that I have ever read was an article that showed the readers the best ways to convince a girl to have sex without a condom.
Congratulations to the dickhead who wrote this piece. You are responsible for ruining the lives of your readers.
I am definitely not an angel, but giving the advice to have unprotected sex with a girl who you don’t know anything about is more than just dangerous. As a blogger and writer you should have the goal to improve your reader’s life, not to end it.
But hey, when a blogger, or even worse, a public figure like Charlie Sheen has unprotected sex with prostitutes, strippers and pornstars it can’t be bad, right?
2. Always Carry a Condom with You
When I can believe the emails I get, one of the things you like the most about me is that I say what I want to say, no matter if it is politically incorrect or if it contradicts the opinion of mainstream dating advisors. Thank you for this feedback, I really appreciate it.
Now it’s again time for my politically incorrect but 100% honest opinion.
I think I mentioned it before, but now that it is official that even indestructible Hollywood stars run the risk of catching a deadly STD, it is time to talk about one truth that nearly no woman will ever admit.
It doesn’t matter how innocent, rational and reasonable a girl is, as soon as she reaches a certain level of horniness, her primal instincts take over. This is the moment when she wants to feel you inside of her, no matter if you wear a rubber or not.
I can’t even tell you how many times I had to wrap my precious penis right before some girl was about to insert it without a condom. Yes, this happens, no matter how many times you are told that it’s always the evil men who convince innocent girls to have unprotected sex. That’s not necessarily true.
The best thing you can do to enjoy those situations without worrying about leaving the bed with a zoo between your pubic hairs is to always carry a condom with you. As the Global Seducer you are, condoms should be holy for you.
3. No Test, No Unprotected Sex
Yes, it is okay to have unprotected sex with a girl and god knows how much better it feels without the rubber, but you should only do it under the following three conditions:
- You are the first man she ever sleeps with
- You are 100% sure that she never had sex without a condom before
- You know from the test results that you can enjoy unprotected sex with her without risking your life.
Maybe you think that I am weird, paranoid and that I exaggerate things when I say that you should demand a test from a girl before you sleep with her without protection. Maybe you think that I am not a real man when I don’t jump on the “raw dogging is so alpha” train.
Think what you want. All I know is that I don’t want to end up in a television show announcing that I am HIV positive, just like Charlie Sheen does it today. I just hope that you are smart enough to not have unprotected sex with a girl without knowing anything about her past and her health situation.
4. Drugs Can Will Mess Up Your Life
Another thing you can learn from Charlie Sheen and his path of continuous self-destruction is that money can actually hurt you, at least when you spend it on the wrong things.
What are the wrong things?
Well, drugs and emotionally unstable girls who encourage you to take them.
Even though my only experiences with drugs are documented in this article, I know exactly how tempting it can be to take the hard stuff.
I once attended a Meetup in Bangkok where I met a young internet entrepreneur. I was fascinated at how much money he made, but I was even more fascinated at how much money he invested in destroying himself.
He was actually the reason why I began to think about my own self-destructive patterns and decided to focus my energy on self-preservation.
The way he treated his body as a bin for all kinds of synthetic drugs was enough for me to decide to live my life without drugs. After four months of partying and swallowing everything his emotionally unstable bar girl girlfriend encouraged him to take, his parents paid for the flight back to the UK. I can only hope that they also paid for the rehab.
While sex can be fun, healthy and extremely fulfilling, I can’t say the same about drugs. They have the potential to fuck up your life big time. It might be speculation, but I am pretty sure that being on drugs motivated Charlie even more to go without a condom.
5. Your Lies Will Catch Up With You
There is a reason why I always preach that you should be honest to the women you are interacting and sleeping with. In fact, there are many reasons. You will feel better when you are honest, you won’t break her heart when you are honest and being honest is the basic requirement for a healthy relationship, no matter if it’s strictly sexual or if you want to put a ring on her finger.
Those are all good reasons to be honest, but there is one particular reason that outweighs all the ones that I just mentioned, at least when you think about the long-term consequences:
Your lies will catch up with you.
Lt’s be realistic. There is no man on this earth who has never lied. I have lied to a lot of women in the past, but I always got what I deserved. Either a girl threw something at me that had the potential to turn me into a eunuch, or I felt miserably after my lies were revealed. After quite a few of these experiences I decided to walk on the path of honesty.
Charlie Sheen should have taken the same path as soon as he found out that he is HIV positive. Eventually, his lies caught up with him. I don’t know if we can believe the mainstream media outlets, but according to their information he had unprotected sex with dozens of women after he got his diagnosis. If this is true he can prepare himself for a flood of lawsuits, tears from ex-lovers and maybe even time in jail.
6. Seducing is Less Risky than Paying
In my last article I showed you an unconventional way to grow, to learn and to improve your seduction skills. To be more precise, I gave you the advice to surround yourself with beautiful naked women who want to exchange sex for money. However, I didn’t give you the advice to sleep with them.
I revealed a couple of reasons why you shouldn’t sleep with hookers that are related to your emotional state, your personal development and to your motivation to pursue women. What I haven’t talked about is the fact that sleeping with prostitutes is a lot riskier than sleeping with girls who have less physically demanding jobs.
It is not only logical to assume that women who sleep with more than ten guys every day (and who get a tip for going raw) are more likely to catch an STD than girls who don’t bang several guys a day. The only girls who are even more likely to catch an STD than prostitutes are pornstars.
Mr. Sheen has a preference for prostitutes and for pornstars, which automatically put him at a higher risk of catching something that he doesn’t want to keep. Now he got it and he has to keep it, if he wants or not.
Oh Charlie, you had Denise Richards and you could have had hundreds of beautiful actresses and models who don’t work in the sex industry. Why did you have to ruin your life with pornstars and prostitutes?
7. The Love for Women Can Save Lives
Besides honesty and respect there is a third value that I place a lot of importance on.
Yes, I write about making girls horny, touching them and having amazing sex with them, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t understand a thing or two about love. In fact, if you are ready to see through the widespread lie that the urge to have sex and the desire for love are two separate things, you will understand that a successful seducer is a man who loves himself and women.
Is Charlie Sheen a man who loves himself and women?
Well, even though his self-destructive behavior could be seen as an obvious sign for a lack of self-esteem, I am pretty sure that it is related to his desperate situation.
Does he love women?
Until yesterday I thought that Charlie Sheen was a lover of women. I thought that he was a man with integrity who wanted to enjoy his life without putting anyone at risk.
Again, I don’t know if the mainstream media is lying, but if it is true that he had unprotected sex with dozens of girls after he was diagnosed with HIV (update: which he didn’t, if you can believe his interview) I am tempted to lose all my respect for this man (update: after I saw parts of his interview I repspect him for his bravery to speak about this personal matter. What’s your opinion: shall I cross out the following sentence?)
If Charlie Sheen would be a lover of women he wouldn’t have taken the deliberate risk to infect his sexual partners with a deadly virus. He would have done everything to save the lives of his lovers, not to put it at risk.
Summed Up Wisdom
What’s the moral of the story?
Don’t have unprotected sex with girls you don’t know anything about, even if some bloggers tell you that this is what real alpha men do.
Be prepared for the moment when the girl you are in bed with switches from logical thinking to reproduction mode.
Enjoy the pleasure of putting your dick in a woman without a condom when you are 100% sure that there is nothing you have to worry about.
Don’t do drugs. Period.
Be honest to your lovers and to the ones who have the potential to become your lovers.
Focus your energy on seducing women instead of wasting your money on paying for them.
Love yourself and love women. And read my freaking book.
Sebastian Harris says
Don’t be ashamed. Commit to improving yourself.
– i’ve never really had any interest in drugs, so that won’t be an issue for me.
– because i’m not sexually experienced, i wouldn’t even think about raw dogging. i don’t doubt your words when you say its totally OK to have unprotected sex with a girl, but i’m so paranoid about the risks, that i wouldn’t even try it until i become more experienced. and even then, i would be hesitant because of the two big risks–disease and becoming dad.
– you mentioned you can’t even count how many times you had to save your precious penis right before a girl was gonna insert it without a condom. i can’t wait until i reach the point where i can get a girl so turned on that she tries to do that with me. because of my poor seduction skills, i pretty much never reach that point.
– you mentioned focus your energy on seducing women instead of wasting your money on paying for them. i’ll admit that i have paid for women on many occasions. but i don’t mean intercourse. i’ve NEVER done that. but i have paid for a few blow-jobs and countless lap-dances. i sort of have a semi stripper addiction. but the only reason i’ve done these things is because girls turn me down so often. and the ones who don’t turn me down–usually lose interest in me after our first date—so i never end up getting anywhere with them. should i be ashamed of myself, Sebastian? 🙁
Sebastian Harris says
thanks a lot man. Loving women makes life so much better!
Great article, especially in contrast to a lot of borderline-woman-hating stuff posing as advice for men.
Keep it up! (Pun intended)