Do you know why women lose respect for men?
For a long time I didn’t know an answer to this question. About two years ago I already overcame my approach anxiety and I was able to talk to every girl, no matter how attractive she was. The only thing I couldn’t do was to get some fun at the end of a long date, or a relationship with a girl who wasn’t a complete psycho.
I was stuck. I was stuck at a stage that a lot of guys never get out.
I had the courage to approach women and I had some basic seduction skills that made me survive the first couple of minutes of an interaction. What I didn’t have was the mental strength, the ability and the necessary skills to motivate girls to drop their panties.
After I went on three dates with three incredibly hot girls in a row who all didn’t answer the phone when I called them the next day, I decided to sit down and to write down all the things that I did wrong. Once I realized that I did nearly everything wrong that I could possibly do wrong, I wanted to cry. When I looked at my list it was obvious that I basically forced women to lose respect for me.
What I want to do now is to prevent you from making the same stupid mistakes that I made. That’s why I decided to activate parts of my brain that haven’t been used in a while in order to write down all the reasons why women lose respect for men that I wrote down two years ago. I hope I remember all the details.
Oh, and of course I didn’t cry 😉
13 Reasons Why Women Lose Respect for Men
Let’s have a look at all the reasons why a girl you are dating could lose her respect for you. I think/hope that you are not making all the mistakes that I am sharing with you in the following lines. However, don’t despair if you behave 100% the way you shouldn’t behave.
No one is perfect and making certain mistakes is inevitable when you are embarking on your path. Just don’t make the same mistake twice.
Look at the following 13 tips and internalize them. Then you’ll become a man who is respected by women. Otherwise, your dating life will be pretty shitty, because women will eventually lose their respect for you.
1. You Don’t Make the First Move
Okay, I have to admit that making the first move was actually the only thing that I did right. Even if I fucked up everything else I had the balls to walk up to an attractive woman and to tell her that she looks amazing.
Making the first move is absolutely essential. If you can’t make the first move, you can’t expect her to see a real man when she looks at you. Sorry buddy, but the moment in which a hot girl approaches you and asks you if she can suck your dick only happens in porn movies, but not in real life.
What if you are paralyzed whenever you see a beautiful girl?
What if your approach anxiety is so bad that you can’t make the first move?
Then work on yourself and start to make small changes.
Ask women for the time and for directions until you can go one step further. Become more and more social and eventually you’ll be able to make the first move.
2. You Apologize for Wanting Sex
I get goosebumps when I think back to all the dates I had during which I became apologetic when she suddenly assumed that I am sexually interested in her. I was such a stupid idiot. Back then I was so freaking nice, that I really thought I would offend a woman for wanting sex.
Whenever a girl said to me that “you just want to have sex” or “why do you approach me?” I made some stupid excuses. If I would have said “not just sex, but sex is one of the things I want” and “because I am attracted to you”, I would have had sex with real women instead of countless romantic experiences with my right hand.
Let me tell you a secret: Women love sex and they want to get fucked by men who have what it takes.
One way to find out for a woman if you have what it takes is by testing whether or not you are comfortable with your sexual desires.
3. You Put Her on a Pedestal
One reason why women lose respect for men, that a lot of men tend to ignore, is because they put them on a pedestal. I know, Hollywood has taught you to do it, but what works in movies doesn’t necessarily work in real life.
Putting a woman on a pedestal is the most ridiculous thing you can possibly do. While you think that you are her knight in shining armor who will love her forever, she thinks that you are a needy creep who she clearly doesn’t want to spend the night with.
A respectful man puts only one person on a pedestal and this person is himself. Every woman understands that. I hope you understand it too.
4. You Act Like a Dancing Monkey
In case you would see me infield (maybe you will one day) you would never believe that I transform the numbers that I get into sex. But I do. The reason why you wouldn’t believe that is because you are brainwashed to believe that you have to act like a dancing monkey to get girls.
The most famous pick up videos on YouTube are the ones where guys spin the girls around, give them high fives and crack jokes every two seconds. I never do that.
Girls give them their numbers as a reward for the entertainment, but they only see those dancing monkeys as good friends.
The guys who get them naked are the ones who are calm and confident and who don’t have to act like a dancing monkey. Those are the guys that get the respect. Nobody wants to fuck with the clown.
5. You Are a Crappy Leader
Seduction is all about leading. From the minute you meet her it is your job to lead her through the seduction process. You take her number, you take her on a date and you take her clothes off. If she takes your number and she takes you on a date she won’t take her clothes off.
One major reason why women lose respect for men is crappy leadership. Being not able or not willing to lead is a sign of weakness and no woman wants to date a weak guy. I am not talking about physical weakness. I am talking about emotional weakness.
A woman wants to feel safe and secure with the guy she is dating. She wants to have the feeling that he is a guy who is able to lead her through life. Being together with a guy who she has to lead through life is a burden that no woman wants to deal with.
6. You Disrespect Her
As a Global Seducer you are supposed to love women and as a man who loves women you also don’t disrespect them. What if a girl deserves it to be treated with disrespect? Keep your dignity, walk away without violating your values and get a girl who deserves respect.
What if you disrespect a girl who deserves your respect? Then my friend, you have some serious issues that you should work on.
From my own experiences I know that the number one reason why men disrespect a woman is because they can’t get her.
I know how it feels when you see a woman going home with a bad boy after you have entertained her for two hours and bought her more drinks than a Russian woodcutter could possibly drink. I know that it sucks.
However, disrespecting her for the decision to go with the guy who didn’t behave needy and who didn’t try to buy her attention through drinks and free entertainment won’t solve your problem. What really solves your problem is to become a self-confident man who doesn’t pay her shit.
7. You Hide Your Intention
What is the reason why men go on dates with women? Unless you are deluded by some Hollywood romance bullshit the number one reason is sex. Women want sex, men want sex. Everything could be perfect.
The only problem is that you might be one of the guys who hide the fact that they want to have sex, even though the girl you are on a date with is already dripping on the floor. Why do you do that? She could think that you are a pervert, a player, a womanizer, etc…
The truth is that everything you try to hide from her would actually increase your chances to get.
Every girl who you are on a date with knows that you want to fuck her.
Do you know what’s even better?
Nearly every woman who decides to go on a date with wants to have sex with you. Don’t force her to lose her respect for you, just because you act like a castrated dog who just wants to get cuddled.
8. You Have No Vision
I know my vision in life. You can read about it here.
Do you have a vision?
Do you want to achieve a certain goal more than anything else?
Everybody has a vision and deep down everyone knows his vision:
The only problem is that it is buried under layers of social and educational conditioning. In case you have never thought about your vision and purpose in life, it can be meaningful to invest some time in finding it. It can be meaningful for your life in general and for your dating life. Women are drawn towards men who have a vision and who follow their path.
If you become a man with a vision, women will follow you to the end of the world.
What if you don’t want to have a vision and decide to live your life in a meaningless way by working in a job you hate, watching TV all day and waiting until you finally retire? In this case you don’t have to wonder when the girl of your dreams doesn’t regard you as the man of her dreams.
9. You Complain About Life
One reason why women lose respect for men that is closely related to the lack of vision, is when a man complains about his life all day long. I hope you remember that women want leaders and I hope you also understand that men who whine about every little aspect of their life are not considered perfect leaders.
It is hard for a woman to respect you when you are complaining all the time.
It shows that you are not willing to take responsibility for your life and to actually change something about your situation. Women want guys who take action and not guys who complain about why they can’t take action.
10. You Are Submissive in Your Social Circle
What if you only fake confidence while you are around her?
In case you are familiar with my writing you know that I am not a big fan of the fake it till you make it strategy and the girl you are dating won’t be either.
You can pretend to be the strongest and most confident guy in the world, but some day she will find out the truth.
Sooner or later you will be in a situation where she meets your friends, your colleagues or family members. What if you suddenly behave like a submissive dog once you are around those people? She will instantly know that everything you did before was just a game and she will feel betrayed. Not only her attraction, but also her respect for you will be gone.
Wouldn’t it be better to become a confident man who doesn’t have to fake anything?
It’s just a suggestion.
11. You Make Promises That You Can’t Keep
Promising a girl that you are going to call her the next day and waiting four days to call her is not cool. Promising her that you will love her forever and that you will never sleep with another woman again, right before you jump in bed with the next girl is also not cool.
Don’t make any promises that you can’t keep. If you don’t want a monogamous relationship you shouldn’t pretend that you want one. A woman will respect you ten times more when you tell her that you just want to have sex without any commitment, than when you claim the opposite, just to disappoint her afterwards.
As a Global Seducer you want to be the best memory she ever had.
Broken promises and one disappointment after another won’t lead to good memories. Authenticity and honesty will.
12. You Are Jealous
Another reason why women lose respect for men is jealous behavior. Just because your charm and your seduction skills made her fall for you, doesn’t mean that you can keep her forever. Of course you know that, otherwise you wouldn’t become jealous in the first place.
Jealousy has nothing to do with love. It is a sign of fear, insecurity and desperation.
Being jealous is anything but attractive and it is one of the fastest ways to get rid of every woman. Women want to be together with men who are confident enough to know that they won’t leave them, not with guys who fear that they’ll lose her to another man.
I never worry that my girlfriend leaves me. I know that she loves me and that she would be stupid if she would leave me, in the same way as I would be stupid if I would leave her. Sounds arrogant? Maybe, but she respects me.
13. You Judge Her for Being Sexual
We both know that you want to have sex with the girl you are on a date with. What a surprise. But what if she wants the same?
For whatever reason a lot of guys want to see the girl naked who they sit next to, but they don’t allow her to have the same desire. Judging a woman for being sexually is one of the major reasons why women lose respect for men.
I remember a conversation with a guy who said that he only sleeps with women who are not that easy. He judged every girl who wanted to have sex with him on the first date by calling her as a slut.
Have you ever heard the saying “I would never join a club that wants me as a member”?
That’s a stupid mindset.
A girl who sleeps with you on the first date is NOT a slut.
She has the courage to do something that goes against the rules of society and she does it because she is into you. That’s the biggest compliment you can get.
If you judge a girl for being sexual, even though you obviously want to fuck her, you are not only a hypocrite who misses out on a great experience, but also a guy who loses her respect within seconds. The only thing you should do if a woman wants to have sex with you is to have sex with her.
Summed Up Wisdom
Do you want to know why women lose respect for men? Women want confident men and if you don’t make the first move or apologize as soon as the conversation gets sexual, you don’t appear very confident. Putting her on a pedestal and acting like a dancing monkey are also not very effective tactics if you want to charm a woman.
Women instinctively respect men with leadership qualities. If you don’t have those qualities and if you then also hide your intentions, you shouldn’t wonder when she never texts back after the first date.
Stop complaining about your life and start to take action. Think about your vision and follow your own path. This will lead to more success with women than faking it in the hope that she won’t find out and making promises that you don’t want and can’t keep. Being jealous shows that you are an insecure wimp and judging a woman for her sexuality while you fantasize about banging her shows that you are a hypocrite. If you do those things you already know why women lose their respect for you.